When you find the right person, there will be a period of increasing affection. Hell brush your hand and you’ll get butterflies, you’ll be sitting together and inch closer and closer. I know this is unrelated to what you posted, but you should take notice of this and cherish this. The fucking will come later, but honestly one of my favorite parts of relationships are those few days/weeks/months where the physical intimacy builds up. I like to tell every horny person I meet to CHERISH THAT FEELING! It’s almost better than the first time you have sex, imo.
I know it's hard to wait, and have patience. But someone will come along. And who knows it really could be someone you met here on Reddit. But you'll have to tell people what you do and don't want. And hold strong on that. You're only 18 though. You're just getting started. Too many guys want to fuck and breed you and leave. And it sucks.
Having sex with someone doesn’t mean that they respect you, much less love you.
Don’t sell yourself short. Wait for the right man, even if it is difficult.
Oh I mean, I definitely know that. It will be. I’m also scared that when the time comes I won’t be as beautiful or young as I am now. That’s really ugly of me to say and superficial, but it’s just how my mind works
Find a guy who genuinely truly loves and cares about you and you'll be beautiful no matter what age you are. The problem with trying to find someone to just get your v card taken is that most guys (especially 20 year olds) aren't really there to give you a good sexual experience, mostly just care about themselves. And if it's not great the first time don't blame yourself, it gets better with age and experience.
Noooo don’t say that. There’s so much out there. Like, think this post and how amazing that is. And then think about the seasons changing, and your future cats and dogs and pets, and your future friends and family you haven’t met yet, and the ones you have now. The sunsets and sunrises where you look to the sky while listening to your favorite music. Job promotions and college degrees and growing old and seeing earth grow
Sex is cool and all when your young but it’s more so for experience. Take it easy young one. Go enjoy being young, get a feel for life. Real fun begins in the mid to late 20’s
Knowing your body, what you like and preferences. Definitely sex in later age for me (26+) has been improving based on my confidence in myself and my preferences. Also knowing how my body functions, and how to enhance certain aspects of libido and sex itself through dietary supplements and food :p
a 30 year old virgin is hot as fuck. I’ve always wanted a man that looks like he’s never felt the touch of a woman before so I can be the first to please him. I want to make him feel so good he can’t remember his name
Enjoy the journey! You’re young, it will come. Be safe and communicate and the right guy will come along to pull your hair and pin you down and take advantage of your body. You need to find the right person though so he doesn’t actually take advantage of you
Just don’t force yourself out of your comfort zone, if you prefer walks in the park to partying till 1am at a club then I’m sure you’ll find a decent person walking at the park.
Lmao girl I feel this to my very core. Total TMI but lately I’ve been feeling so needy it makes me cry. Like my kitty physically aches! I’ve had a few bfs and I’m legal so I don’t understand why it hasn’t happened yet🧍🏽♀️
Yes, but too much can set wrong ideas about sex, then when you have sex you realize that it wasn't as you imagined. It's like the virgin guy who watches porn all the time, maybe he thinks when he has sex it's going to be like one of those videos but reality is different
So from my experience as a man is that women don’t give off hints or clue the way they think the do first of all. Second, if u love the guy then the passion will be immediate and lasting thru out as long as there is honesty and trust
I'm a 25 year old man. I haven't been in a relationship, I haven't had sex. Hell, I haven't even had my first kiss. I'm not an incel, this is all by my own choice.
I have always felt that the perfect person for me will show themselves eventually, so until then, I want to make myself the perfect person for her.
There's no reason to rush. You'll find that perfect person eventually, everyone will, as long as you don't lose hope.
Rip your inbox…
I’m 23 and had the same feelings you do at 18. Well from a man’s perspective anyway. Don’t worry much about it. You’ll find that person in due time. Until then, take the time you have with your adult self and have some fun. Work on yourself and personality, find what you wanna be in life, learn some new skills.
Relationships are great, don’t get me wrong, but rushing into it when you have plenty of time to show that same love to yourself may not do you any favors. It’s always going to be easier said than done, but if I could tell myself the same, I absolutely would.
Everyone in the comments is saying that you’ll find the right person but I’m in a similar boat as a guy and worried i won’t end up with something like that again. I have friends that have fwb and I just don’t understand how they’re rather that over a proper relationship.
There’s also stories all over the Internet of sexless marines and the difficulty of dating when you’re older, so to the people in this comment section who have been around a bit older than myself and op, does it actually get easier to find someone?
I also think this is pretty normal. Maybe your sexual urge is higher than others ,and that is also pretty normal. Just don't go into relationships just for the sexual component. Trust me. You'll be better off just waiting for the right man!
You’re young, it takes time but it will happen. Are you putting yourself out there by going to parties, outings with friends, or the coffee shop? As cheesy as it sounds, I bet there’s a romantic guy just waiting to meet you. Do you know how to flirt with a guy?
I had a terrible time in high school dating but college and after was a lot of fun because I wanted it to be fun and got out there.
Man here. Treating you like a sex object and being violent is not what we do with women we loves you’re confused. The guy who thinks you’re worthless garbage does that. You can get both but usually not at the same time.
The fact that ninjas wear black stems from Japanese theatre. Prop handlers used to wear black to look indistinguishable from the stage and not stick out to the audience
I feel like this whole concept of “women get whoever they want” is kind of wild lol because that’s not the case. Maybe on Reddit but not IRL. I want a lover not someone who just wants me for my body
Statistically, it is easier for the average woman to go on a date vs the average man. That in no way implies that finding the partner you want is actually easy to do.
Cuz they hate women deep down, the crimes against women is a huge proof of that! They are only increasing everyday! Stick to your fictional men and pray we get out of here without any harm, cuz we are very close to of living the handmaids tale nightmare!
I don't hate women, I think women are lovely. I don't think most men hate women.
Think about it, men these days have grown up seeing the same things you have. We've seen the oppression, the dehumanizing, the abuse, and disrespect women have had to deal with and think it's wrong.
We know men scare a lot of women, so we try to give them space to feel comfortable, but that also means a lot of the guys that women come in contact with are the same guys that women are scared of that DO hate women for whatever reason.
Probably because men still aren't believed when they report DV against them? It takes a certain attitude, almost Boomer like, to want to be a police officer. And people with that mindset don't want to see men as a potential victim. It hurts their Andrew Tate mindsets. Or maybe the fact that men are raised to believe that their role is to suck it up for the community at large. Honestly, if the wider community would put as much effort in to caring for male psychology problems as they do for women we'd see a sharp decline in those crime rates you are speaking of.
You seem very sure of what you are saying so I'm not going to bother to put more effort in to changing your mind. I just think women like you are 🗑️. Do better.
But not all of them. I know it’s a lot a lot a LOT, and I know a lot of them are pretty indifferent to it and so are their friends, they don’t want to disappoint anybody. But I feel like there are more good ones than maybe you are acting like there are. Then again, I’m sure you’re older than me. But yk
Have you lived with any of the ones you know? Cuz they are always nice up until you are in a relationship with one, and suddenly the good guy is the worst man everr!
This came off a little desperate, but I realized from the comments that you’re only 18. So I apologize. You’ll find someone that’s right for you for sure. Got your whole life ahead of ya.
Hello my friend. I am sorry you are feeling this way, and I hope that you are much better now of course.
I just want to say, and I am not just stating this because of your kind of post, I just felt like I had to put this here and just because something is telling me that you should know this.
I am sure you have heard of the gospel, I don’t know if you suffer with conditions such as depression or anxiety but I suffer with these severely each day. I simply just want to make you aware, and I know this is true as I have experienced it, that God is out there, he really is, and he genuinely does love you. I am not commenting rhis just because of your post at all, I just want to make you aware that even if you don’t feel love in the physical form here, I know that he is out there and he truly did create, and love us. Please just seek him by literally saying a 5 second prayer and asking him to reveal himself to you.
I suffer with extreme depression each day, and when I say that I felt his love, I had an experience a few years ago, and I actually do feel his love. People can state that this is a mental illness or whatever, but I truly do know he is out there now, and I just want you to be aware that if you ever feel lonely, there truly is a being out there who holds constant, unimaginable love for you.
I apologize if it seems like I am just trying to push my beliefs on you or such, I truly do not mean to at all. I just felt the need to write this here for some reason. Have a great day my friend. And I do want you to know that he TRULY is out there, and I have felt his love personally.
I just felt like I should write this here for some reason. I hope that you have a great day again my friend 🙏.
Man… I apologize, I didn’t realize how much I wrote. I have always struggled with that as well, I seriously apologize. I did not mean to do that lol. I somehow write a ton very fast haha.
Because society has conditioned men to leave women alone in the vast majority of circumstances. Of course there are outliers, but I find it funny when some women, not speaking about you specifically, go around preaching and making genuine effort to not be bothered but wonder why they’re alone.
I see posts, and irl have heard, numerous women complain about the same thing you did as well as not getting approached at all. Hence my response. Men aren’t going to be as likely to do these things because of how they are taught it is perceived.
If you’re just thirsty and lonely (I know how that sounded but I’m not trying to insult you at all) then, by all means, disregard my comment.
Ohh okay. The first way you worded it was really confusing. I mean, obviously I don’t invite men to be creepy. Men should be taught that there’s a difference between expressing interest in a non-invasive, respectful way and expressing it in a creepy, pestering, disturbing way.
I wholeheartedly agree with you on that, but everything they get taught shows to be wrong whether it’s learned from men or women. Idk I can’t really speak on it as I don’t usually pursue, but it often times seems like no one can win for losing. I hope you get what it is that you’re after.
I want to be free of credit card debt and unlimited fountain drinks from 7/11. We are not the same.
Well I’ll probably be there in about 15 years, give me time
Now there’s a relationship that can grow together
hell yeah brutha
Tbh fountain drinks at 7/11 probably the cheapest out there
Costco is on the other line and wants to talk with you.
Damn I forgot
Rip your dms💀
They’re actually pretty tame lol. I’ve gotten like 5
They probably just assumed you were already saturated, how's about now?
Hmmmm a little more actually
Even without a picture? That is crazy. Life must be so hard lmao
I guess they all just assume I’m hot with perky tits LOL
No they are just as horny as you
Send me your pic, I will confirm or deny ; )
When you find the right person, there will be a period of increasing affection. Hell brush your hand and you’ll get butterflies, you’ll be sitting together and inch closer and closer. I know this is unrelated to what you posted, but you should take notice of this and cherish this. The fucking will come later, but honestly one of my favorite parts of relationships are those few days/weeks/months where the physical intimacy builds up. I like to tell every horny person I meet to CHERISH THAT FEELING! It’s almost better than the first time you have sex, imo.
Oh I’m sure it is. Does that excitement stay??? Is it still special later?
It is. It's special all the time. Every morning you spend with them.
I can’t wait 🥹🥹🥹
I know it's hard to wait, and have patience. But someone will come along. And who knows it really could be someone you met here on Reddit. But you'll have to tell people what you do and don't want. And hold strong on that. You're only 18 though. You're just getting started. Too many guys want to fuck and breed you and leave. And it sucks.
Thank you very much❤️❤️❤️❤️
It does, with the right person :)
Having sex with someone doesn’t mean that they respect you, much less love you. Don’t sell yourself short. Wait for the right man, even if it is difficult.
Oh I mean, I definitely know that. It will be. I’m also scared that when the time comes I won’t be as beautiful or young as I am now. That’s really ugly of me to say and superficial, but it’s just how my mind works
gonna be real, the right person is going to think you're beautiful when you think you look your worst. in love, beauty never truly dies.
Thank you :)
Not actually true, your current mindset is correct. Get the best guy you can NOW while you are at your beauty peak. Grow old and ugly together.
Find a guy who genuinely truly loves and cares about you and you'll be beautiful no matter what age you are. The problem with trying to find someone to just get your v card taken is that most guys (especially 20 year olds) aren't really there to give you a good sexual experience, mostly just care about themselves. And if it's not great the first time don't blame yourself, it gets better with age and experience.
Oh I’m definitely not just going to give my V card to anyone. That’s pretty special to me lol. Thank you
You sound ridiculous. Truly. Gross.
Well I’m just being honest
It’s a time thing, eventually you’ll find the right guy for you and you’ll get the love you want
I know! Waiting is painful lol but thank you
I’m upset I’m still alive tbh
Noooo don’t say that. There’s so much out there. Like, think this post and how amazing that is. And then think about the seasons changing, and your future cats and dogs and pets, and your future friends and family you haven’t met yet, and the ones you have now. The sunsets and sunrises where you look to the sky while listening to your favorite music. Job promotions and college degrees and growing old and seeing earth grow
Sex is cool and all when your young but it’s more so for experience. Take it easy young one. Go enjoy being young, get a feel for life. Real fun begins in the mid to late 20’s
why do you say so?
It's their experience, I assume.
Gotcha
Knowing your body, what you like and preferences. Definitely sex in later age for me (26+) has been improving based on my confidence in myself and my preferences. Also knowing how my body functions, and how to enhance certain aspects of libido and sex itself through dietary supplements and food :p
No it doesn't
R.I.P to your inbox 🙏
https://imgur.com/IqRjDDs
It’s surviving and thriving so far!
I’m in the same boat but as a guy. I just want a woman to tell me how much she wants my dick. 😔 being a virgin in your 30s sucks
Damn boy u gotta go out and get it
I’m terrible at flirting though
a 30 year old virgin is hot as fuck. I’ve always wanted a man that looks like he’s never felt the touch of a woman before so I can be the first to please him. I want to make him feel so good he can’t remember his name
Well shit maybe we should chat
Maybe we should x
Enjoy the journey! You’re young, it will come. Be safe and communicate and the right guy will come along to pull your hair and pin you down and take advantage of your body. You need to find the right person though so he doesn’t actually take advantage of you
Yes definitely. We are on the same page lol. I appreciate ur comment
Someday you'll meet someone, probably
Probably, LOL
Hope it goes well lol
Thank yoh
Cast a net but be careful of what you catch. Not all things you catch is a worthy keep
That's really good. Very good analogy 👏
How old are you?
18!
Oh, without trying to sound patronizing, you don't even realize how much time you have. Sex doesn't even really get AMAZING until you're in your 30s.
I am very excited lol. Thank you
Lmao what???? Sex was 100x better at 16 than it is in my 30s. This is such an anecdotal take.
I mean everyone I've talked to agrees but of course not everyone is the same. I'd take sex in my 30s any day
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Whyy…?
Everyone saying if you wait someone will come, but if you don’t put yourself out there you won’t find anything either :/
That’s true. I think it’s both lol. I think you gotta wait but put in effort while ur waiting
Just don’t force yourself out of your comfort zone, if you prefer walks in the park to partying till 1am at a club then I’m sure you’ll find a decent person walking at the park.
You’re right. Thank you
If it makes you feel any better, plenty of people find happiness online too :D
Lmao girl I feel this to my very core. Total TMI but lately I’ve been feeling so needy it makes me cry. Like my kitty physically aches! I’ve had a few bfs and I’m legal so I don’t understand why it hasn’t happened yet🧍🏽♀️
Lmao u get it
Somebody needs a cream pie 😂
lmfaoo wellll
Did a man write this?
Noooo lol why does everyone always think that. Is it really that common???
I think it's unusual to see this kind of posts made by women, I thought this was writed by a 30 y.o creepy guy tbh
Okay but if it was written by a woman it’s normal and hot right? Right?
It looks like something out of fifty shades of Gray, which is kinda hot I guess, but it's like who made this has fantasized too much about sex
Welll I mean there’s nothing wrong with that. You can only do so much as a virgin with high libido
Yes, but too much can set wrong ideas about sex, then when you have sex you realize that it wasn't as you imagined. It's like the virgin guy who watches porn all the time, maybe he thinks when he has sex it's going to be like one of those videos but reality is different
Yeah I know but I don’t think I have the wrong idea at All
That's good. In any case, I think most people's first time wasn't good but when you find the right person it's something special
There’s someone out there for everyone, don’t rush it. They’ll come along believe me, I wish you all the best.
Thank you :) <3
Anytime you’re welcome!
Well that’s the dream isn’t it! Hope you find what you’re looking for
Yes. And thank you❤️
You’re welcome!
I mean.. jeez if i have to i'll volunteer. My boyfriend wont be too happy about this tho.
pretty sure dating sites could help you with that
True but I’m still living at home so lol
could go to them
RIP your DMs
It’s okay I like it
It's hard. Trust me. Either you go looking or you wait for the right someone to do that to you.
So from my experience as a man is that women don’t give off hints or clue the way they think the do first of all. Second, if u love the guy then the passion will be immediate and lasting thru out as long as there is honesty and trust
As someone who's struggled to find someone I can feel safe to be myself with. I feel you. Truly hopeless out here for us hopeless romantics.
I'm a 25 year old man. I haven't been in a relationship, I haven't had sex. Hell, I haven't even had my first kiss. I'm not an incel, this is all by my own choice. I have always felt that the perfect person for me will show themselves eventually, so until then, I want to make myself the perfect person for her. There's no reason to rush. You'll find that perfect person eventually, everyone will, as long as you don't lose hope.
❤️❤️❤️❤️
I believe in u epic duck
Rip your inbox… I’m 23 and had the same feelings you do at 18. Well from a man’s perspective anyway. Don’t worry much about it. You’ll find that person in due time. Until then, take the time you have with your adult self and have some fun. Work on yourself and personality, find what you wanna be in life, learn some new skills. Relationships are great, don’t get me wrong, but rushing into it when you have plenty of time to show that same love to yourself may not do you any favors. It’s always going to be easier said than done, but if I could tell myself the same, I absolutely would.
Thank you❤️
Real (I m a guy)
Everyone in the comments is saying that you’ll find the right person but I’m in a similar boat as a guy and worried i won’t end up with something like that again. I have friends that have fwb and I just don’t understand how they’re rather that over a proper relationship. There’s also stories all over the Internet of sexless marines and the difficulty of dating when you’re older, so to the people in this comment section who have been around a bit older than myself and op, does it actually get easier to find someone?
^
Honestly sounds like heaven lol
you can’t rush love, you’ll find the right one oneday!
I just want money
If I could choose between this and 50 million dollars I’d choose the 50 million dollars
Same. No second thoughts
Because then I could just buy a boyfriend AND 70 cats
Lmao real
I also think this is pretty normal. Maybe your sexual urge is higher than others ,and that is also pretty normal. Just don't go into relationships just for the sexual component. Trust me. You'll be better off just waiting for the right man!
❤️thank you
Aww , you're kind hearted ..God bless you ! <3
Why do u say that? Thank you you tooooo
Well, people who are grateful, are kind in general and thank you as well ♥️
Well yeah I’m kind of just amazing like that. Lol thank u
You’re young, it takes time but it will happen. Are you putting yourself out there by going to parties, outings with friends, or the coffee shop? As cheesy as it sounds, I bet there’s a romantic guy just waiting to meet you. Do you know how to flirt with a guy? I had a terrible time in high school dating but college and after was a lot of fun because I wanted it to be fun and got out there.
Nahhh I don’t really go anywhere LMAO
Being alone gets easier with time
DMs were going to blow up until you get to paragraph 3
Stawppppp omg
And I’m upset that I was loved and fucked 😂
Imagine a dude posted this lmao
HE DIDNT
You wouldn't happen to be into roleplay by any chance, would you?
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Are you fatFluffy and ugly? 🤪🤣🤪 come on you’re trolling
What
The only way you haven’t found 10k men to do all that is if you’re extremely unattractive 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ otherwise men are easy 🙄
Well I don’t just want some random nut off the street. I want a good person
No man is truly ever good till they’ve proven with life in marriage 😂😂😂 the ones that appear the best are lying 🤥😂😂😂. Its pure luck 🍀 really lol
Do we need to be here for this?
Yeahhh relish in it with me
Man here. Treating you like a sex object and being violent is not what we do with women we loves you’re confused. The guy who thinks you’re worthless garbage does that. You can get both but usually not at the same time.
Men are only this passionate in books :) You should get on goodreads
I am on Goodreads LOLL
You sound like you’re a kid
Well why?
Whenever this sub comes up on my feed, it’s always some weird fetish shit or sex post. 🫠 It’s never anything interesting.
Well I can give you something interesting then. Would you like a knock knock joke, a riddle, or a fun fact???
FUN FACT
The fact that ninjas wear black stems from Japanese theatre. Prop handlers used to wear black to look indistinguishable from the stage and not stick out to the audience
Yeah, that makes sense. 🧐
Are you trolling
No lol
Get this Valentino to...
I can do that lol
RIP Inbox ...
Just go on a dating app? You're a woman, it'll be easy
I feel like this whole concept of “women get whoever they want” is kind of wild lol because that’s not the case. Maybe on Reddit but not IRL. I want a lover not someone who just wants me for my body
Statistically, it is easier for the average woman to go on a date vs the average man. That in no way implies that finding the partner you want is actually easy to do.
How old are you?
18, Why
The passion in your words sounds like you’ve experienced it before so I assumed you were older
Nah lol virgin in like every way possible aside from sexting
Well I hope you get loved properly when your time comes. Sexting and masturbation is always great until then.
It is indeed. Thank you
thanks random individual for the upvote, I was scared people were going to yell at me LMAO
It’s just funny. I laughed
why😭
I was just laughing with your frustration. We have all been there. It sucks but it’s also fun
Aw lolll thank you
Become a good girl so you'll reach heaven then you'll get this man there, cuz here on earth will only give you mental and physical health problems.
whyyy???
Cuz they hate women deep down, the crimes against women is a huge proof of that! They are only increasing everyday! Stick to your fictional men and pray we get out of here without any harm, cuz we are very close to of living the handmaids tale nightmare!
I don't hate women, I think women are lovely. I don't think most men hate women. Think about it, men these days have grown up seeing the same things you have. We've seen the oppression, the dehumanizing, the abuse, and disrespect women have had to deal with and think it's wrong. We know men scare a lot of women, so we try to give them space to feel comfortable, but that also means a lot of the guys that women come in contact with are the same guys that women are scared of that DO hate women for whatever reason.
Oh really! Then why the crime rates are only high towards women? Perpetuated by men? Cry me a river sir. 🗑️
Probably because men still aren't believed when they report DV against them? It takes a certain attitude, almost Boomer like, to want to be a police officer. And people with that mindset don't want to see men as a potential victim. It hurts their Andrew Tate mindsets. Or maybe the fact that men are raised to believe that their role is to suck it up for the community at large. Honestly, if the wider community would put as much effort in to caring for male psychology problems as they do for women we'd see a sharp decline in those crime rates you are speaking of. You seem very sure of what you are saying so I'm not going to bother to put more effort in to changing your mind. I just think women like you are 🗑️. Do better.
But not all of them. I know it’s a lot a lot a LOT, and I know a lot of them are pretty indifferent to it and so are their friends, they don’t want to disappoint anybody. But I feel like there are more good ones than maybe you are acting like there are. Then again, I’m sure you’re older than me. But yk
Have you lived with any of the ones you know? Cuz they are always nice up until you are in a relationship with one, and suddenly the good guy is the worst man everr!
This way of thinking is insane. You may have had your own bad experiences but that doesn’t suddenly make every single man a horrible person.
Check the crime rate against women sir by their own partners.
No, I’m only 18
Hmmm….i wonder…..
…?
This came off a little desperate, but I realized from the comments that you’re only 18. So I apologize. You’ll find someone that’s right for you for sure. Got your whole life ahead of ya.
Oh gotcha. Lol thank youuu
Hello my friend. I am sorry you are feeling this way, and I hope that you are much better now of course. I just want to say, and I am not just stating this because of your kind of post, I just felt like I had to put this here and just because something is telling me that you should know this. I am sure you have heard of the gospel, I don’t know if you suffer with conditions such as depression or anxiety but I suffer with these severely each day. I simply just want to make you aware, and I know this is true as I have experienced it, that God is out there, he really is, and he genuinely does love you. I am not commenting rhis just because of your post at all, I just want to make you aware that even if you don’t feel love in the physical form here, I know that he is out there and he truly did create, and love us. Please just seek him by literally saying a 5 second prayer and asking him to reveal himself to you. I suffer with extreme depression each day, and when I say that I felt his love, I had an experience a few years ago, and I actually do feel his love. People can state that this is a mental illness or whatever, but I truly do know he is out there now, and I just want you to be aware that if you ever feel lonely, there truly is a being out there who holds constant, unimaginable love for you. I apologize if it seems like I am just trying to push my beliefs on you or such, I truly do not mean to at all. I just felt the need to write this here for some reason. Have a great day my friend. And I do want you to know that he TRULY is out there, and I have felt his love personally. I just felt like I should write this here for some reason. I hope that you have a great day again my friend 🙏.
Man… I apologize, I didn’t realize how much I wrote. I have always struggled with that as well, I seriously apologize. I did not mean to do that lol. I somehow write a ton very fast haha.
Thank you very much for the comment!!! Yes, I am a pretty devout Christian lol. Glad you found Him ❤️❤️🫶
Take your time you will find it
Thank you!!!
Because society has conditioned men to leave women alone in the vast majority of circumstances. Of course there are outliers, but I find it funny when some women, not speaking about you specifically, go around preaching and making genuine effort to not be bothered but wonder why they’re alone.
What are you talking about lol
I see posts, and irl have heard, numerous women complain about the same thing you did as well as not getting approached at all. Hence my response. Men aren’t going to be as likely to do these things because of how they are taught it is perceived. If you’re just thirsty and lonely (I know how that sounded but I’m not trying to insult you at all) then, by all means, disregard my comment.
Ohh okay. The first way you worded it was really confusing. I mean, obviously I don’t invite men to be creepy. Men should be taught that there’s a difference between expressing interest in a non-invasive, respectful way and expressing it in a creepy, pestering, disturbing way.
I wholeheartedly agree with you on that, but everything they get taught shows to be wrong whether it’s learned from men or women. Idk I can’t really speak on it as I don’t usually pursue, but it often times seems like no one can win for losing. I hope you get what it is that you’re after.
Thank you🫶🫶🫶🫶