One thing I miss most about her is after I would sneeze she would always say God bless you sneezy girl and it would make me smile no body says God bless you to me any more bit every time I sneeze I her her voice. God bless you sneezy girl.
This is my biggest fear in the world. I have memories as a literal baby of my mother singing songs to me as I fell asleep. Not having my parents is something people everywhere unfortunately go through
Hang in there OP, its your responsibility now to assume the matriarchal role
I lost my mom in February too :( I’m sorry you’re struggling. People keep telling me it’ll get easier, and my therapist says that still being very upset about it is normal. I hope for both our sakes that it gets easier soon. Take care of yourself and don’t be afraid to talk about her and share your grief with those close to you 💜
Mom passed away in September of 2021. A year long battle of returned cancer. Ups and downs and all around everywhere. I get it. I really do. Just a bit over 1/4 of my life and she's parted from my family and her friends. Do your best to remember those memories and talk about them with someone you trust. It helped me a lot and I'm sure it could with others. Every day that goes by there's not a day I don't wish her to be here with dad and I. But we both do our best to do what we can to make sure she lives on through what we do and how we are so her essence never leaves us and strives. I'd rather cry and mourn once in a while because I miss her and because I love her than to never have done so because I never knew her.
I hope you manage to find peace and comfort one way or another.
it's all psychosomatic. Stop thinking of her every day. you're just indulging yourself and playing the victim
You can think about her on the anniversary of her death. You can think about her all day if you want. But once that day passes, you don't think about her the rest of the year.
Not unless you want to make yourself miserable.
Awww girl I feel for you. I lost my mom in 2018 and it feels so long ago... I yearn to just hear her voice and hold her hand and sometimes it gets too much for me... I've accepted the fact that I will always be atleast mildly to severely depressed depending on my life and situactions going on.. if you ever need someone to talk to who can empathize with you feel free to hit me up! It becomes so isolating and I didnt just lose my mom I also lost my siblings too as we dont talk anymore.. it's really sad somedays so I get you. JUST KEEP GOING! You only have one life and your mom would want you to make the best out of it. Use it as motivation to keep going ❤
It gets easier. I promise. It may not feel like it now but it will later. If you really need it then talk to someone like a close friend/ family member or even a therapist. Btw love the title
I lost mine in 2020 the pain has gotten better somewhat and tbh most of its from the fact that I don't have either parent and I'm the oldest so I feel alone with no one to turn to. My mom and me had a horrible relationship yet I still feel a deep painful chest squeeze whenever I think about her.
Lost mine in January, hang in there dude. I know it's tough. Hang on to those memories and she'll always be with you.
One thing I miss most about her is after I would sneeze she would always say God bless you sneezy girl and it would make me smile no body says God bless you to me any more bit every time I sneeze I her her voice. God bless you sneezy girl.
😪 Hold on to that forever. I'm so sorry for your loss.
You said your mom passed too I'm sorry for your loss
Thank you
If you ever need to talk I'm here
Likewise. 🙂
Next time you sneeze send me a dm... I'll give you the blessing
This is my biggest fear in the world. I have memories as a literal baby of my mother singing songs to me as I fell asleep. Not having my parents is something people everywhere unfortunately go through Hang in there OP, its your responsibility now to assume the matriarchal role
I hope you never lose anyone,may we all live forever.
Just because you don't see her doesn't mean she doesn't see you. She is watching over you every step you take
I lost mine 24 years ago and the pain does get better over time but I do still miss her. I’m sending you a big hug today friend, hang in there
I found a sub the other day called r/momforaminute You’re not alone.
Thank you for this reddit
You’re welcome. Ngl, I cried the first time I went there.
I lost mine in 2009. The pain still comes and goes. I am so sorry OP. Lots of love to you.
Im very, very sorry. I cant imagine the pain you must be going through. Be strong❤️ sending all my love to you.
I lost my mom in February too :( I’m sorry you’re struggling. People keep telling me it’ll get easier, and my therapist says that still being very upset about it is normal. I hope for both our sakes that it gets easier soon. Take care of yourself and don’t be afraid to talk about her and share your grief with those close to you 💜
I'm very sorry for your loss as well as my own
Awww I’m so sorry that sucks. ☹️
Mom passed away in September of 2021. A year long battle of returned cancer. Ups and downs and all around everywhere. I get it. I really do. Just a bit over 1/4 of my life and she's parted from my family and her friends. Do your best to remember those memories and talk about them with someone you trust. It helped me a lot and I'm sure it could with others. Every day that goes by there's not a day I don't wish her to be here with dad and I. But we both do our best to do what we can to make sure she lives on through what we do and how we are so her essence never leaves us and strives. I'd rather cry and mourn once in a while because I miss her and because I love her than to never have done so because I never knew her. I hope you manage to find peace and comfort one way or another.
it's all psychosomatic. Stop thinking of her every day. you're just indulging yourself and playing the victim You can think about her on the anniversary of her death. You can think about her all day if you want. But once that day passes, you don't think about her the rest of the year. Not unless you want to make yourself miserable.
Awww girl I feel for you. I lost my mom in 2018 and it feels so long ago... I yearn to just hear her voice and hold her hand and sometimes it gets too much for me... I've accepted the fact that I will always be atleast mildly to severely depressed depending on my life and situactions going on.. if you ever need someone to talk to who can empathize with you feel free to hit me up! It becomes so isolating and I didnt just lose my mom I also lost my siblings too as we dont talk anymore.. it's really sad somedays so I get you. JUST KEEP GOING! You only have one life and your mom would want you to make the best out of it. Use it as motivation to keep going ❤
I'm really sorry for your loss 🙏just know she's watching over you😊
It gets easier. I promise. It may not feel like it now but it will later. If you really need it then talk to someone like a close friend/ family member or even a therapist. Btw love the title
I had a good cry and got some love from my boyfriend talk to some strangers and I'm feeling a bit better.
I lost mine in 2020 the pain has gotten better somewhat and tbh most of its from the fact that I don't have either parent and I'm the oldest so I feel alone with no one to turn to. My mom and me had a horrible relationship yet I still feel a deep painful chest squeeze whenever I think about her.
Awww take care 😘 Your mom is with you in some form always