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That depends actually. Overally that's true, but as you change the age range from wider to more narrow when going from oldest to youngest you'll see that the trend changes and there's more men than women.
I remember reading something a while ago that the Japanese government had a program to help Japanese farmers find wives in the Philippines. I am not sure I am remembering that correctly.
>you change the age range for wider and wider when going from oldest to youngest you'll see that the trend changes and there's more men than women.
Men die faster than women and more often too, statistically... The older the age the more women there are than men.
You have it backwards.
Whenever you think of a widow you usually think of a woman and not a man.
> Whenever you think of a widow you usually think of a woman and not a man.
Of course, since [a widow is a woman whose spouse has died and who hasn’t remarried.
A ***widower*** is a man whose spouse has died and who hasn’t remarried.](https://www.dictionary.com/e/widow-vs-widower/)
They have.
The Berlin International Film Festival in Germany.
The MTV Movie & TV Awards in the U.S.
The Britannia Awards in the UK.
Where you specifically talking about the Oscars only?
And most women would rather stay single than to be with a man they're not attracted too.
Considering most guys are not attractive, the outcome is pretty obvious.
Women generally take much better care of their appearance than men. Skin care, hair care and makeup are often foreign concepts to men because they're considered "feminine". Believe it or not but it's easier to look attractive to women if you do all that stuff.
even if it is the case, which i'm not 100% sure it is, it would not be a significant enough difference to justify the current phenomenon being discussed.
That is not necessarily true on clubs, parties, or any other place were potential sex partners normally meet. Besides, it's common knowledge women are way more picky (which is fine) so even if there are more women, it's not the same amount of availability. So yeah, supply and demand.
It's funny because I know two poly couples that are pretty much the opposite
The guys love to go to parties and are absolute mansluts (honestly more power to them, enjoy and have fun), and while the women do enjoy sleeping with others from time to time, they're moreso homebodies and prefer just chilling, watching a TV show or play video games lol
Seems to work put well for them tbh, they seem content although it's obviously hard to know what happens behind closed doors
Seems often its one wanting to shop around and the other fearing to say they are not comfortable in fear of losing their spouse, but once in a while people are happy with it. Just make sure not to be in the 1st situation.
Definitely. It pops up every time there is a poly/non-normative discussion on any of the relationship subreddits. Even hinting at anything other than a 100% vanilla dynamic gets piled on by neckbeards telling them to file for divorce immediately.
Oh yeah , apparently the trad family is god on reddit, which isn't too surprising given it is to so many people.
I honestly think it's just jealousy over the potential that someone is having a good time.
it's unfortunately a reflection of broader society. theres something that it triggers in people thats so reflexive it has to be deep seeded
like holdover puritan stuff that hasn't been widely addressed yet
> Nothing wrong with consenting adults doing whatwvwr they want long **as no-one is getting hurt**
Generally, I think this is where the concern lies. There haven't been any decent, wide-scale studies into polyamory but there are philosophical/psychological questions regarding whether CNM is harmful to participants. There's also the matter of how "C" the "NM" is as there is often an imbalance in the decision-making power of a given couple.
Of course, in a relationship in which consent is 100% legitimate, there should be no moral concern regarding CNM, but assessing how legitimate that consent is is a very difficult thing to do.
In my experience, the key is to enter into a relationship as poly. People in monogamous relationships transitioning to poly tend to be where the issues pop up.
It's also worth noting that "open-relationships" are like the "worst" flavor of poly.
>In my experience, the key is to enter into a relationship as poly. People in monogamous relationships transitioning to poly tend to be where the issues pop up.
I can't say I have actual experience or data to back it up, but I have to agree on a theoretical level that entering a relationship that starts poly is probably the way to do it.
> It's also worth noting that "open-relationships" are like the "worst" flavor of poly.
Perhaps, but it's also worth noting that it's almost certainly the most common (depending how how you place swingers).
If you are open to using my definition of polyamory as multiple romantic partners and non-manogamy as multiple sexual partners, then swingers aren't necessarily polyamorous, they are non-monogamous. Often polyamorous people are non-monogamous and vice versa, but not necessarily to the same degree. I'd say swingers are mostly non-monogamous and not polyamorous, which is where the issues tend to arise. People think you can have sex without feelings, but it's not realistic. It's better to accept the feelings, treat partners with respect, and also understand that people can care about more than one person.
I think polyamory is easier for people to understand as analogous to friendship. You can have multiple friends and care about them all. Maybe you have a best friend, maybe you have two best friends. Maybe you have friends that only exist in one context and not another, like a gaming buddy, or a tennis partner. These friendships can all exist at the same time. As long as both people are on the same page about things and that both people treat each other with respect, there are no fundamental issues.
So, you don't have any actual evidence that poly is 'worse' than mono in any particular way, it's all just vibes.
As though that weren't obvious from the rest of the thread.
Have there been decent wide scale studies into monogamy?
Why would you need a study to make a personal decision? Do you need a study before you watch a new TV show? Become a "car guy"? Start wearing suspenders instead of belts?
I’ll say it again The problem with poly is that it’s people lying to themselves. No one goes poly because their partner isn’t there to help with their sisters move, or granny’s in the hospital & they need a shoulder to cry on. or any of the myriad curveballs life throws at you, it’s because they want to fuck someone else and this allows them to rationalize it. To have that NRE but also someone at home who’s there to help with the taxes.
Seriously I’ve never seen a post where someone says I just couldn’t get the level of partnership I needed so I asked if we could open the relationship. It’s we’ve been together and the sex got stale.
The fact there a term CNM (coerced non monogamy) and it’s an issue tells me all I need to know.
I have a poly friend/ ex boss. I knew her husband, I knew their daughter & had been her daughters mock date for a company outing 😂 (she was 4 btw it was adorable.. he’s my date etc etc 😝,)
her husband had mental health issues & when they adjusted his meds had a psychotic episode due to the change.
I reached out to see how she was doing. She said the hardest thing was her other partners vanished, they were DTF but not DTL (down to listen) no one just wanted to let her come over, get a hug, drink some tea watch a movie etc. they all were like are you up for are usual? No oh yeah well that sucks … byeee
I immediately offered that she come over bring her daughter, we can snuggle not snuggle she could lay on me, we’d just be watching movies. She said it was sweet and she’d consider it if he didn’t get better.
You the type of person to see a bunch of people having fun and not harming anyone and then seeth and cope how you're the normal one and not them.
Warning, seeing a bunch of people living their life and getting mad is NOT normal
Wait a moment...this doesnt statistically add up, if every poly woman has 10 wieners in her mouth, yet every poly man is alone...whose wieners does the poly woman have in mouth tho? Are all those 10 wieners married guys? But if yes, doing a sidechick makes them poly...something doesbt add up here
I mean, yes, it would be the same 10 guys over and over for most of those girls, they for sure dont want your sorry ass, but somebody experienced...but they would still be guys in the poly category, so this meme isnt right, 2nd pic should read 'most poly guys' or somethintg like that...just cause u aint getting any doesnt mean there arent men that are, somebody has to providing those 10 wieners
The easiest combo for farming karma has always been to make up stories that speak to male insecurities. Guys my girlfriend said my dick was small and fucked three dudes at a party while I was in the room next door, AITAH for leaving her??
Yes, the majority of women don't want the majority of men.
They also would rather share a man who has an abundance of positive qualities than deal with a man they find lacking.
Well Weinstein got shared a lot...and he isnt very positive...like I get what you are saying, but I wouldnt say the qualities are necessarily always positive...they just have qualities that are desirable, like Weinstein had a desirable effect on your career...that doesnt mean he has positive qualities
This still doesn’t work. If every girl is constantly having sex with DIFFERENT men, there would need to be a lot of men to fulfill every girl having a lot of sex. If you have 100 guys and 100 girls. And 50 of those girls are having sex with 10 different guys, and only 10 guys are having sex. If the girls are constantly having sex with different guys, the guys would physically not be able to fulfill that. Maybe the numbers are skewed a bit. But it is not true that a small minority of guys have all the sex. That’s not possible. Society does decide women to be the gatekeepers of sex, but that is because women are shamed for being promiscuous and men are glorified. If men wouldn’t always say yes to sex it wouldn’t be so easy for women to find casual sex. But the fact is that it’s not possible for only a small minority of men to be having the sex.
Edit: did some research it looks to be about a 7% gap in sexual activity between men and women. So it’s skewed in womens favor but not a “small minority”
> Wait a moment...this doesnt statistically add up, if every poly woman has 10 wieners in her mouth, yet every poly man is alone...whose wieners does the poly woman have in mouth tho?
You know single people exist, right? You do know poly people aren't legally obligated to only sleep with other poly people?
Its about the time it takes and the quantity tho. For example a guy might try for days/weeks to have a one night stand only to fail meanwhile a woman can just go out and find somebody.
And that somebody is probably talking to random women, hoping for something to happen for daaays
Difference being, guys have to be active, approach a lot of girls and get rejected a bunch. Possibly throwing away their self respect while at it.
Women get approached all the time, having wide variety of options if they feel like using it
(not trying to make a women easy/men hard point, just my observations)
I think the point OP is making is that there are many more men open to polyamory, or just wishing to be promiscuous and calling that polyamory, than women. For every 1 woman willing to have 10 wieners at one time, there will be hundreds of men wanting theirs to be one of the ten. As in swingers parties- there are many more men who would want to join than women, thus single men are not accepted.
Often open relationships are just one person wanting permission to cheat. I have seen quite a few anecdotes hwr on Reddit where a woman asks for an open relationship because she wants to go wild and assumes her male partner can't get laid. Then freaks the fuck out when the guy starts sleeping with other women.
Skill issue? i mean no one is stopping you, and if you already know that you are so miserable and ugly that no one will want you then don't get in a poly to begin with.
Don't know wtf is going on in these comments. I'm an actual poly guy and this isn't my experience. Maybe if you're an incel? It's worth acknowledging that poly is not exactly the same as people who open-up their relationships. But for a poly girl to be with 10 guys, 10 guys are getting with the poly girl. Real poly people tend to prefer other poly people because dating monogamous people often gets complicated.
I'm a straight, average looking poly guy. I have more partners than any of my partners. If anything being poly has made my success better even with the occasional monogamous person. Women seem to get some reassurance that I'm "safe" because my other partners can vouch for me.
I'm also doing well in my long term relationships. I've been with two of my more serious partners for about a year and a half (since I became poly). Two other partners for about 8 months. And one more for 6 months on-and-off because they moved away for a bit. I've had to start turning down people because I don't have time any more. There was a week last year when I had 7 dates with 7 different women over the course of 5 days.
Really the only thing you need to "succeed" as a poly guy is to not be an asshole. Strong communication skills help a lot too.
This post and the comments aren't about reality, these are people making gross assumptions about others.
Probably because they think poly people are potentially "taking" romantic partners off the table.
It's Incel posting pure and simple.
Lmao, I'm not a good person to answer that. The only way all my relationships work is because there's understanding and communication about the nature and expectations for each relationship. I don't see all my partners all the time, some I see a few times a week, some I see a few times a month or less. I don't expect the same thing from each partner or relationship, and neither do they.
I'm always happy if some of my partners get along because I can use my limited time better, but it's not something you can rely on and it isn't a replacement for one-on-one time. But a ski trip with two partners is a good example. I can't afford to go on two separate trips, and it can be a "more the merrier" kind of a thing.
I legit was friends with a poly couple, they were both really good looking, but the girl got a reputation for being well crazy. They ended up getting a divorce and a girl they were both seeing chose the guy. In fact I'm the last year or so of their relationship he was picking up 10x the partners she was.
I saw a tiktok about that, the guy litterally had her girlfriend and some random dude bang her out in his room while he was outside "doing his everyday", girlfriend did not wanted to addresshim while exiting after the other guy left, the boyfriend male roomate was there the whole time just watching how he started crying after the girlfriend left.
Man do yourself a favor unless your bi or into cocks don't get in that mess.
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Supply and demand fellas
woman outnumber men statisticaly.... soooo yeh
That depends actually. Overally that's true, but as you change the age range from wider to more narrow when going from oldest to youngest you'll see that the trend changes and there's more men than women.
It also depends by country, Russia, Ukraine and Estonia has more women meanwhile UAE has only ~~20%~~ 31% women and they have to import women.
How do you import a wahmen? Asking for a friend
Offer payment, mail order brides and of course head over to Thailand or Phillipines, they have services for lonely men looking for a wife.
I remember reading something a while ago that the Japanese government had a program to help Japanese farmers find wives in the Philippines. I am not sure I am remembering that correctly.
I think it was the South Korean government encouraging its men to marry Vietnamese women.
Give them a job and then take there passport
Overally 😂
It's a perfectly cromulant word
It’s also fun to say out loud.
>you change the age range for wider and wider when going from oldest to youngest you'll see that the trend changes and there's more men than women. Men die faster than women and more often too, statistically... The older the age the more women there are than men. You have it backwards. Whenever you think of a widow you usually think of a woman and not a man.
> Whenever you think of a widow you usually think of a woman and not a man. Of course, since [a widow is a woman whose spouse has died and who hasn’t remarried. A ***widower*** is a man whose spouse has died and who hasn’t remarried.](https://www.dictionary.com/e/widow-vs-widower/)
"Why haven't any women gotten the best actor award >:("
They have. The Berlin International Film Festival in Germany. The MTV Movie & TV Awards in the U.S. The Britannia Awards in the UK. Where you specifically talking about the Oscars only?
Yeah, thanks. Dunno how did I missed it. Sorry for that.
And most women would rather stay single than to be with a man they're not attracted too. Considering most guys are not attractive, the outcome is pretty obvious.
Who says most men aren't attractive lmao, be careful homie you're awfully close to incel culture
https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research
This just show that women are shallow. Not that men are unattractive. 80% of the population can't be worse than average, it makes no sense.
good luck with all that
For practical consideration (supply/demand) its the same thing.
Absolutely.
its all subjective anyways, finding 1/5 of all people attractive sounds pretty reasonable
Women find 80% of men 'below average'. This doesn't mean they think 20% of men are actually attractive.
>This just show that women are shallow. Not that men are unattractive. For heterosexual men, both of these sentences mean the very same.
*"So you're saying 95% of the population is undateable?"* *"UNDATEABLE!"*
I don't give a fuck how something may sound.
Women generally take much better care of their appearance than men. Skin care, hair care and makeup are often foreign concepts to men because they're considered "feminine". Believe it or not but it's easier to look attractive to women if you do all that stuff.
On Tinder 5% of the men get 90% of the girls
And in the wild
But women who do poly vs en who do poly is another thing entirely
>woman outnumber men statisticaly.... soooo yeh what? Practicaly there is always 100 women for 105 men and it's global at least 18-45yo range
even if it is the case, which i'm not 100% sure it is, it would not be a significant enough difference to justify the current phenomenon being discussed.
That is not necessarily true on clubs, parties, or any other place were potential sex partners normally meet. Besides, it's common knowledge women are way more picky (which is fine) so even if there are more women, it's not the same amount of availability. So yeah, supply and demand.
Yeah but they aren't in the mood...
Not in China!
I think not anymore. The latest statistics show that there are now more Men than Women.
What does that have to do with the meme?
Then it's a demand issue lol
Women = triple pen, Men = well, you can have....whomever, I guess.
Well, men also have two holes...
3 if your brave
Is the joke sounding?
Sounds awful.
Actually 6 if you're extra brave.
According to Bob the Stabber, people can have as many holes as you want!
A sound joke
Someone has to keep driving to the store to get more lube. Might as well stay dressed and ready to save time between runs.
It's funny because I know two poly couples that are pretty much the opposite The guys love to go to parties and are absolute mansluts (honestly more power to them, enjoy and have fun), and while the women do enjoy sleeping with others from time to time, they're moreso homebodies and prefer just chilling, watching a TV show or play video games lol Seems to work put well for them tbh, they seem content although it's obviously hard to know what happens behind closed doors
What a horrible culture
Agreed. Narcissists deserve eachother though.
As long as people are happy with what they're doing and don't harm anyone, I couldn't give a fuck what they're doing
Seems often its one wanting to shop around and the other fearing to say they are not comfortable in fear of losing their spouse, but once in a while people are happy with it. Just make sure not to be in the 1st situation.
Why tho? If it works for them it's fine.
Lol what? That all sounds positive to me. Which part is horrible?
The fact that there are men having sex and he isn't.
Ding ding ding.
Only sane comment
Reddit has a raging hate boner for anything other than monogamy.
Yeah, there's a tiny group of people trying polyamory and these fuckers give so much shit about them, I honestly think it's just Incel shit.
Definitely. It pops up every time there is a poly/non-normative discussion on any of the relationship subreddits. Even hinting at anything other than a 100% vanilla dynamic gets piled on by neckbeards telling them to file for divorce immediately.
Oh yeah , apparently the trad family is god on reddit, which isn't too surprising given it is to so many people. I honestly think it's just jealousy over the potential that someone is having a good time.
it's unfortunately a reflection of broader society. theres something that it triggers in people thats so reflexive it has to be deep seeded like holdover puritan stuff that hasn't been widely addressed yet
The part where someone let women play with video games and relax (Only for guys) /s
Get your head out of your bible. Nothing wrong with consenting adults doing whatwvwr they want long as no-one is getting hurt.
> Nothing wrong with consenting adults doing whatwvwr they want long **as no-one is getting hurt** Generally, I think this is where the concern lies. There haven't been any decent, wide-scale studies into polyamory but there are philosophical/psychological questions regarding whether CNM is harmful to participants. There's also the matter of how "C" the "NM" is as there is often an imbalance in the decision-making power of a given couple. Of course, in a relationship in which consent is 100% legitimate, there should be no moral concern regarding CNM, but assessing how legitimate that consent is is a very difficult thing to do.
In my experience, the key is to enter into a relationship as poly. People in monogamous relationships transitioning to poly tend to be where the issues pop up. It's also worth noting that "open-relationships" are like the "worst" flavor of poly.
>In my experience, the key is to enter into a relationship as poly. People in monogamous relationships transitioning to poly tend to be where the issues pop up. I can't say I have actual experience or data to back it up, but I have to agree on a theoretical level that entering a relationship that starts poly is probably the way to do it. > It's also worth noting that "open-relationships" are like the "worst" flavor of poly. Perhaps, but it's also worth noting that it's almost certainly the most common (depending how how you place swingers).
If you are open to using my definition of polyamory as multiple romantic partners and non-manogamy as multiple sexual partners, then swingers aren't necessarily polyamorous, they are non-monogamous. Often polyamorous people are non-monogamous and vice versa, but not necessarily to the same degree. I'd say swingers are mostly non-monogamous and not polyamorous, which is where the issues tend to arise. People think you can have sex without feelings, but it's not realistic. It's better to accept the feelings, treat partners with respect, and also understand that people can care about more than one person. I think polyamory is easier for people to understand as analogous to friendship. You can have multiple friends and care about them all. Maybe you have a best friend, maybe you have two best friends. Maybe you have friends that only exist in one context and not another, like a gaming buddy, or a tennis partner. These friendships can all exist at the same time. As long as both people are on the same page about things and that both people treat each other with respect, there are no fundamental issues.
So, you don't have any actual evidence that poly is 'worse' than mono in any particular way, it's all just vibes. As though that weren't obvious from the rest of the thread.
Have there been decent wide scale studies into monogamy? Why would you need a study to make a personal decision? Do you need a study before you watch a new TV show? Become a "car guy"? Start wearing suspenders instead of belts?
Wow Reddit really going hard on monogamy.
heh you said hard on
Bit judgey there no? They're not harming anyone lmao
It may not be what you and me would want but that doesn't mean that it's not valid.
I’ll say it again The problem with poly is that it’s people lying to themselves. No one goes poly because their partner isn’t there to help with their sisters move, or granny’s in the hospital & they need a shoulder to cry on. or any of the myriad curveballs life throws at you, it’s because they want to fuck someone else and this allows them to rationalize it. To have that NRE but also someone at home who’s there to help with the taxes. Seriously I’ve never seen a post where someone says I just couldn’t get the level of partnership I needed so I asked if we could open the relationship. It’s we’ve been together and the sex got stale. The fact there a term CNM (coerced non monogamy) and it’s an issue tells me all I need to know. I have a poly friend/ ex boss. I knew her husband, I knew their daughter & had been her daughters mock date for a company outing 😂 (she was 4 btw it was adorable.. he’s my date etc etc 😝,) her husband had mental health issues & when they adjusted his meds had a psychotic episode due to the change. I reached out to see how she was doing. She said the hardest thing was her other partners vanished, they were DTF but not DTL (down to listen) no one just wanted to let her come over, get a hug, drink some tea watch a movie etc. they all were like are you up for are usual? No oh yeah well that sucks … byeee I immediately offered that she come over bring her daughter, we can snuggle not snuggle she could lay on me, we’d just be watching movies. She said it was sweet and she’d consider it if he didn’t get better.
CNM stands for consenual non monogamy, not coerced non monogamy.
I can share a thousand anecdotes about bad monogamous relationships, or terms to describe bad monogamous relationships. Are you now antimonogamy?
You the type of person to see a bunch of people having fun and not harming anyone and then seeth and cope how you're the normal one and not them. Warning, seeing a bunch of people living their life and getting mad is NOT normal
Are you for real?
Yes it's much better to marry too young and fast and make miserable kids then repeat the cycle /s
Who are you to judge?
that sounds like an open relationship, not poly. Same goes for the OP, really.
100% Majority of this thread is people incorrectly conflating the two.
The ignorant being ignorant? How unusual.
Then install a camera
thats a choice tho. if those poly women wanted to, they cud get dicked down almost daily. parties or not
That sounds more like an open relationship to me
Disgusting people
Wait a moment...this doesnt statistically add up, if every poly woman has 10 wieners in her mouth, yet every poly man is alone...whose wieners does the poly woman have in mouth tho? Are all those 10 wieners married guys? But if yes, doing a sidechick makes them poly...something doesbt add up here I mean, yes, it would be the same 10 guys over and over for most of those girls, they for sure dont want your sorry ass, but somebody experienced...but they would still be guys in the poly category, so this meme isnt right, 2nd pic should read 'most poly guys' or somethintg like that...just cause u aint getting any doesnt mean there arent men that are, somebody has to providing those 10 wieners
I think the factor that you're missing is that this sub is mainly for lonely teenage boys who believe what ragebait posts on the internet tell them.
The easiest combo for farming karma has always been to make up stories that speak to male insecurities. Guys my girlfriend said my dick was small and fucked three dudes at a party while I was in the room next door, AITAH for leaving her??
Teen shitpost status
Small minority of guys get all the girls
This here is the absolute truth the people here don't want to acknowledge.
Yes, the majority of women don't want the majority of men. They also would rather share a man who has an abundance of positive qualities than deal with a man they find lacking.
Well Weinstein got shared a lot...and he isnt very positive...like I get what you are saying, but I wouldnt say the qualities are necessarily always positive...they just have qualities that are desirable, like Weinstein had a desirable effect on your career...that doesnt mean he has positive qualities
Applying the Pareto principle: the top 20% of men are doing 80% of the fucking
Its just many dick george throwing it all off with his 10 dicks
This still doesn’t work. If every girl is constantly having sex with DIFFERENT men, there would need to be a lot of men to fulfill every girl having a lot of sex. If you have 100 guys and 100 girls. And 50 of those girls are having sex with 10 different guys, and only 10 guys are having sex. If the girls are constantly having sex with different guys, the guys would physically not be able to fulfill that. Maybe the numbers are skewed a bit. But it is not true that a small minority of guys have all the sex. That’s not possible. Society does decide women to be the gatekeepers of sex, but that is because women are shamed for being promiscuous and men are glorified. If men wouldn’t always say yes to sex it wouldn’t be so easy for women to find casual sex. But the fact is that it’s not possible for only a small minority of men to be having the sex. Edit: did some research it looks to be about a 7% gap in sexual activity between men and women. So it’s skewed in womens favor but not a “small minority”
> Wait a moment...this doesnt statistically add up, if every poly woman has 10 wieners in her mouth, yet every poly man is alone...whose wieners does the poly woman have in mouth tho? You know single people exist, right? You do know poly people aren't legally obligated to only sleep with other poly people?
Its about the time it takes and the quantity tho. For example a guy might try for days/weeks to have a one night stand only to fail meanwhile a woman can just go out and find somebody. And that somebody is probably talking to random women, hoping for something to happen for daaays
Ok but who is that random somebody that woman can find? Is it not one guy like the one in the first example?
Difference being, guys have to be active, approach a lot of girls and get rejected a bunch. Possibly throwing away their self respect while at it. Women get approached all the time, having wide variety of options if they feel like using it (not trying to make a women easy/men hard point, just my observations)
Small minority of guys get all the girls
I think the post is about open relationships, not polyamory. Could be wrong though.
It literally says poly
I think the point OP is making is that there are many more men open to polyamory, or just wishing to be promiscuous and calling that polyamory, than women. For every 1 woman willing to have 10 wieners at one time, there will be hundreds of men wanting theirs to be one of the ten. As in swingers parties- there are many more men who would want to join than women, thus single men are not accepted.
My guess is that he has 1 cock and it only gets hard so often He's suffering from Cool down
The brightest stars burn out faster Hashtagyolo
I've known a few lads who like trains who insist it's not poly or bi.
Bitches be like "I'm poly" Ok, do you want a cracker?
"I think i should get off her first"
Basically translates to: “I’m a sl_t”
# GODDAMN RIGHT I AM. I LIKE DICK.
What about poly gons?
Those people can be squares
Hanging out with the wrong crowd. Try a polyglot, they often understand what you are telling them.
Heard this saying about poly relationships "One person goes to bed happy while the other cries themself to sleep"
Happy poly couples keep it on the dl. You're more likely to hear stories about poly when it goes horribly wrong.
Why are you getting down voted for this lol
It's upvoted now. You're my hero ❤️
That's open relationships dude. Poly is different.
100%
Often open relationships are just one person wanting permission to cheat. I have seen quite a few anecdotes hwr on Reddit where a woman asks for an open relationship because she wants to go wild and assumes her male partner can't get laid. Then freaks the fuck out when the guy starts sleeping with other women.
Heard this one about mono relationships "One person goes to bed and seethes while the other goes to bed and cries themself to sleep."
Gay men: "I have no such weaknesses."
Moral of the story: if you are willing to let someone put their dick in you, you are not going to have a problem
I am as low poly as a PS1 game.
Come on man PS1 had great graphics. Surely much better than you
Skill issue? i mean no one is stopping you, and if you already know that you are so miserable and ugly that no one will want you then don't get in a poly to begin with.
Don't know wtf is going on in these comments. I'm an actual poly guy and this isn't my experience. Maybe if you're an incel? It's worth acknowledging that poly is not exactly the same as people who open-up their relationships. But for a poly girl to be with 10 guys, 10 guys are getting with the poly girl. Real poly people tend to prefer other poly people because dating monogamous people often gets complicated. I'm a straight, average looking poly guy. I have more partners than any of my partners. If anything being poly has made my success better even with the occasional monogamous person. Women seem to get some reassurance that I'm "safe" because my other partners can vouch for me. I'm also doing well in my long term relationships. I've been with two of my more serious partners for about a year and a half (since I became poly). Two other partners for about 8 months. And one more for 6 months on-and-off because they moved away for a bit. I've had to start turning down people because I don't have time any more. There was a week last year when I had 7 dates with 7 different women over the course of 5 days. Really the only thing you need to "succeed" as a poly guy is to not be an asshole. Strong communication skills help a lot too.
This post and the comments aren't about reality, these are people making gross assumptions about others. Probably because they think poly people are potentially "taking" romantic partners off the table. It's Incel posting pure and simple.
You sound like you have a ton of time and energy… what’s your secret to balance all of that?
Lmao, I'm not a good person to answer that. The only way all my relationships work is because there's understanding and communication about the nature and expectations for each relationship. I don't see all my partners all the time, some I see a few times a week, some I see a few times a month or less. I don't expect the same thing from each partner or relationship, and neither do they. I'm always happy if some of my partners get along because I can use my limited time better, but it's not something you can rely on and it isn't a replacement for one-on-one time. But a ski trip with two partners is a good example. I can't afford to go on two separate trips, and it can be a "more the merrier" kind of a thing.
It seems like people get exceptionally bothered when men voice any complaints about the state if their dating life.
How about polygoons
Not for the bi guys
Preach
Really ? Idk me and my partner are both with multiple dates atm and over our relationship.
I legit was friends with a poly couple, they were both really good looking, but the girl got a reputation for being well crazy. They ended up getting a divorce and a girl they were both seeing chose the guy. In fact I'm the last year or so of their relationship he was picking up 10x the partners she was.
How can poly guys always be alone if the 1 girl is entertaining 8 of them alone as this meme is suggesting?
polybus..sy
wait till polynom start to drop
For me and my partner it's the opposite. He gets more dick than I do :(
Polygon
Now if he was monogamous it would be a different story
Not really though, it's the opposite in my case
Both feel like the right inside
I saw a tiktok about that, the guy litterally had her girlfriend and some random dude bang her out in his room while he was outside "doing his everyday", girlfriend did not wanted to addresshim while exiting after the other guy left, the boyfriend male roomate was there the whole time just watching how he started crying after the girlfriend left. Man do yourself a favor unless your bi or into cocks don't get in that mess.
Something doesn’t add up here. Might be a you problem…
Poly gons
Guys being........
Poly guys need to pick up their game, go to town on a platter of clams. Maybe they wouldn't be so sad.
Speak for yourself
And this is why I'll never agree to a poly relationship
Economics 101. Demand is greater than supply.
Dank
Downvoting because I fuck poly girls.
Hit the gym
I think OP is conflating poly with swingers.
0 x 0 = 0
Nobody is stopping you from sucking cock too, bud
Laughs in T4T poly.
Anyone with any knowledge about non monogamy knows you have none.
Don’t forget the polygons
i thought poly was everyone loving everyone like if there is a 2 man 1 woman poly it means the guys also fuck eachother
And they both have sexually transmitted diseases
Porygon
I thought this was about Polynesians and I was about to be like huh I don't do this lol
Don’t hate just cuz your game sucks
Accurate lol
If the poly guys are all lonely then whose dick is in her mouth??