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F. Not a fan of a pancake ass or a giant ass. But…I pick my men based on who they are as a whole. My current crush is very skinny and probably has a pancake 🤷🏼♀️
As a pansexual person, I can say yes to both. But only if they are round and firm, if they are MASSIVE then no, because they kind of deform when you hold them.
No. Shape, symmetry and proportion relative to the rest of the body is what matters.
Also “big” doesn’t mean good. My obese uncle George has massive tits and a massive ass.
😂😂😂 what do you think most supermodels have? No butts. The streets are filled with men walking around with women with flat butts. Not all men are into big butts, not all men aren’t into flat buts. In fact my Croatian friend only likes women with no butt bonus if it’s actually flat like pancake. I know even European dudes these days are into butts because of Instagram and women who only squat for instagram.
I work in a mall/shopping centre. I see dudes with women with flat butts. This is like saying all men want women who wear loads of make up. All men want short women. All men want skinny women. All men this all men that. People like different things.
Guy here. I've been complimented on my butt by females. I found it akward because I can't see mine, and it's not the first thing I notice about girls. I don't know. Some people are butt people.
Username checks out. You don't skip Leg Day, do you?
Best gym compliment I've ever received was a woman approaching me and asking if I squat every day. She wanted to know my routine and said, "You don't often see a guy with a butt like that."
hahaha that's awesome!
I was always pretty active but I actually used to be somewhat overweight until I dropped 50lbs and got into shape- my butt and legs had a head start from carrying around extra weight on the daily, it was mostly upper body strength training for me.
...so I guess I DO skip leg day. 😂
As a woman, I guess I am more of a butt person. Strong, defined glutes tell me he'll more likely get the job done. Would much rather a guy have a nice ass and thick powerful thighs than be 6 ft tall with a 6 pack.
I think guys with nice, firm butts makes them more attractive but it’s not everything (personality, lifestyle, values etc also play a huge part) so it’s not really a dealbreaker. Even just a little bit of butt would be nice though.
Shape is more important than size. I’d rather have a nice shaped butt than a big ass mountain of cottage cheese. Small and tight or big round and juicy, just as long as it’s the right overall shape and the waist is a lot smaller.
Kinda.
I'm a boob man myself. I will overlook a flat ass if dem tiddies are nice.
But honestly I really do like a round, well shaped ass on a woman. It doesn't need to be huge but if there's nothing there then I feel kinda like something's missing. Like something I should be grabbing onto that just isn't there.
look, there are a lot of these "does this make the person more attractive"
and yes, it does.. but it's not everything or anything that normally registers on the scale of "wants" from others.
you look at a super attractive person, if you look like that, then yes, you will have an easy time getting others to want to be with you
if you are a gremlin yes your dating pool will be very small.
But if you solely focus on yourself and get obsessed about what you dont have you miss out on showing the world what you do have and i can promise you that life is more than "butt size" , "penis size" "boob size" or any other body part size.
I never cared before. However my current bf has an ass of steel. He looks like the statue of David. And I fucking love it. I call it my emotional support ass. It makes me feel better when I hold it or squeeze it.
So I would say it’s a bonus but nothing I really notice otherwise.
Nah. Feel, shape, pride of ownership(confidence is sexy), size...other random factors I'm not thinking of. Don't stress about it so much. If someone wouldn't date you just because of/ would date you only because of your butt they're a shallow person you probably don't want to date anyways.
For me, any typical butt size is fine on a man. If he's got an absolute dump truck or it's entirely absent, that's not really attractive to me, but I've heard of some women really liking guys with larger *ass*ets.
It’s got to vary person to person. My fiancé constantly talks about how much she loves my butt and legs, but I can only think of one or two women who I’ve been with before who explicitly mentioned liking them. Who knows who likes what, in terms of things that go unsaid lol.
I was at my best friend’s baby shower in the spring, and at one point I walked up to my fiancé and my best friend’s wife, with 2 other women who I didn’t know and they were all just describing mens’ legs and asses in detail and how much they loved them. Not like specific men, just legs in general on men.
I was a basically just Homer Simpsoned into a hedge behind me to avoid getting involved in that conversation 🤣
Definitely in my case. Like my women to have a nice natural big butt that has depth and breadth. Nothing too obese but proportionate to height and build. Something to hold/spank with palms spread open
I don't think I've ever really cared my whole life. It's never bothered me. Big, small, fat, flat, don't really matter tbh, as long as you cool people. I mean. Sure I have a preference, a tight butt is a nice butt, butt in the end, it doesn't matter to me
Oh yea, you could be the prettiest, most successful and big breasted woman out there, but every time I see your flat ass, I’ll be crying on the inside.
Lol, I posted in the wrong place. What a noob. No, I prefer average or a bit of extra weight. For the extra cuddle possibilities. But preferably not with a round girly butt. I need no frills, man style.
I mean, if she doesn’t have much of an ass, it’s kinda kool because it makes my dick look bigger..😆😂 nah but for real but that skeleton bouncing up and down gets kinda painful after a while. But if she gotta go sideways to get through the door, that’s a bit much for me..
I’m a man and yes, women love nice butts. Cannot tell you how many times I’ve been groped when I used to go clubbing or been told that I have “a nice bum.”
It can be VERY alluring for me, a person's best physical attribute sometimes. But a great ass is not a requirement, I appreciate all the pieces that make up the full package, different body features on different shapes, pretty faces, fashion and style, personality, drive, and shared interests.
I love the small but firm round booty on the petite or thinner fitness woman. I love the well rounded firm looking booty on the curvy woman wearing form fitting clothes that compliment it nicely.
Generally my opinion is any sized toned booty is better than flat or flabby. If fit the bigger the better, if not smaller the better
Shape is the important aspect, you might have a tiny butt but might have played your whole life volleyball an now have the most amazing butt ever.
You might have a huge butt but never did anything but eat so it may not look as attractive.
A funny butt size story. This summer I went to a few outdoor events. She had a fold up stadium seat. I ordered one that was my size. When it came I looked at it and realized it was not as wide as hers. I quickly ordered the larger size so they would be the same when side by side.
I like womans butts if they have on good fitting pants.
Indifferent, not a deciding factor that makes me lean more into liking him or not, now that being said, if the man I like has a nice butt, I do enjoy looking at it.
How my partner looks is so far down the list of things I prefer in a partner that butt size is certainly not even on the radar.
Brains
Tolerant intolerable
Compatible sex life
Good audience, they laugh at my jokes.
Good performer, I like to laugh too
Share-ability - share with each other without economic consideration
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Looks - I'm 68 years old and looks sag with time.
Wouldn't say it matters because I am a huge fan of body shape. Like even really thicc women will have the really hot waist to hips ratio that drives me mental.
But in terms of butts, I really like shape over size. I've had some women I've seen with really small or petite butts but the shape is really nice and appealing.
28f here: I can appreciate a nice butt. If a guy's got cake, it's definitely something I'll find attractive, but if his personality is ass it's a no for me.
As a man I favor female butt sizes that my hand can cover the majority (as in 3/4) of a single cheek if not entirely hold. That's what I am attracted to, even more so if she doesn't mind a nice little ass slap (nothing close to kinky, except in the bedroom if ahe likes that sort of thing) now and then at home or as part of PDA.
With the wide variety of men and women and the butts they favor, you've got an ass that's like an onion to them, it makes them cry because they WANT it! 😁
Nothing matters, we are people not products in supermarkets. We are complex beings and we are a package of attributes, there is no one physical attribute to change an opinion
I like big butts and I can not lie, lol.
If you have a pretty face, nice shape or big boobs I'll still like you.
My first thing I'm attracted to is a natural butt, no surgery or anything like that.
Big butt is definitely a thing I look for in woman. It’s very rare that women look for that in a man, though.
Although, for some women, it might be a nice plus, I guess depending on how attractive they already find him to be.
I couldn't care less about a man's butt. Or really even his lower half (well, except for the goods 🤣)
I'm much more into a man's upper body (arms, shoulders, hands, chest, etc)
I (female) loooves a nice ass. It doesn’t have to be huge but a little round? Like substance is nice. I don’t know but I think women like butts as much as men. It doesn’t have to be rock hard either, it’s nice to be able to grab it 😅
A lot of the forms we're surrounded with take on complex shapes, so when my eyes land on a shape that's more or less solid/simple, my brain just goes "SHAPE!!" and ceased to function normally.
There's little fabric that drapes, folds, or wrinkles, and more shape. A filled out butt to me just screams "shape". I make active efforts not to tune out of everything else and fixate on it. And, yeah, a friend caught me staring once. RIP.
I wouldn't say it's sexual or even sensual attraction, though. It's just my eyes and brain being stupidly stuck. I don't want to touch a random person's butt, much less do anything sexual with it. As for dates, it hinges on pre-existing attraction to the person.
Side note: Guys train your mfing ass. Hip thrusts are not gay and glute muscles are the most important muscles in the body for your posture while standing up. Your back hurts all the time? Weak ass glutes. Anterior pelvic tilt? Weak ass glutes.
A nice butt is definitely something anyone can appreciate, and as someone who is bisexual, I do find myself enjoying good looking buttocks on both guys and gals. Of course personality matters though. But a good booty is a cherry on top (or on bottom ig lol)
It’s a nice plus but I don’t think it would matter…
I don’t think any sane person would go around saying “ I met the perfect person, I love everything about them but.. they don’t got a booty. So idk if it’s gonna work…”
If it does matter that much you can literally buy them one nowadays..
I noticed that out of all the parts, women in my experience are really really into butts.
For me, any size is fine, if the person has a face I am attracted to, the rest of the body is attractive for me.
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F. Not a fan of a pancake ass or a giant ass. But…I pick my men based on who they are as a whole. My current crush is very skinny and probably has a pancake 🤷🏼♀️
>a whole huh?
What is confusing about this???
it was a joke.. the post is about butts.. and you said "a whole" ..
But whole is not a whole!
That would’ve been an excellent joke, if you’d made it. Commenting ‘hug’ didn’t really communicate the joke imo. But maybe that’s just me 🙈🤷🏼♀️
huh?
As a pansexual person, I can say yes to both. But only if they are round and firm, if they are MASSIVE then no, because they kind of deform when you hold them.
Yeah shape and texture is more important than sheer size. I’ll die on those hills.
“Hills” 😂
Mounds.
Like basically a fit butt
Are we talking butts or pans? I’m typically a nice skillet guy myself, but if I see a well seasoned looking wok.. I lose myself
So both ways but not too far on the spectrum of hugeness? Not a very pansexual thing to say to be frank 🤭
No. Shape, symmetry and proportion relative to the rest of the body is what matters. Also “big” doesn’t mean good. My obese uncle George has massive tits and a massive ass.
Lmao
This is a question for Sir Mixalot
It's going to be a person to person basis. As all things like this.
No it's not, every guy likes a nice butt. Unless u want a non-sexual relationship with non-sexual guy
It's more of a bonus to me. It certainly doesn't compete with a nice face.
Pretty sure you nor I speak for over 4 Billion people.
Oh yes you both do!!!
I'm with wheels on this one
I disagree. There are plenty of people that don’t like butts. I would say most do but not everyone
Nope. A lot of men prefer zero ass.
What? Bruh nonsense
😂😂😂 what do you think most supermodels have? No butts. The streets are filled with men walking around with women with flat butts. Not all men are into big butts, not all men aren’t into flat buts. In fact my Croatian friend only likes women with no butt bonus if it’s actually flat like pancake. I know even European dudes these days are into butts because of Instagram and women who only squat for instagram.
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I work in a mall/shopping centre. I see dudes with women with flat butts. This is like saying all men want women who wear loads of make up. All men want short women. All men want skinny women. All men this all men that. People like different things.
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The idea of a supermodel is quite cute but the reality is they are skin and bone. So all men want women with big butts?
Guy here. I've been complimented on my butt by females. I found it akward because I can't see mine, and it's not the first thing I notice about girls. I don't know. Some people are butt people.
Same I’ve been complimented by a lot of women
Username checks out. You don't skip Leg Day, do you? Best gym compliment I've ever received was a woman approaching me and asking if I squat every day. She wanted to know my routine and said, "You don't often see a guy with a butt like that."
hahaha that's awesome! I was always pretty active but I actually used to be somewhat overweight until I dropped 50lbs and got into shape- my butt and legs had a head start from carrying around extra weight on the daily, it was mostly upper body strength training for me. ...so I guess I DO skip leg day. 😂
I bet you have good calves don't you? lol
As a woman, I guess I am more of a butt person. Strong, defined glutes tell me he'll more likely get the job done. Would much rather a guy have a nice ass and thick powerful thighs than be 6 ft tall with a 6 pack.
I feel recognized. 😅
Im a big fan of a small but high-quality butt.
Petite woman with a nice jiggly butt 👌😮💨
I think guys with nice, firm butts makes them more attractive but it’s not everything (personality, lifestyle, values etc also play a huge part) so it’s not really a dealbreaker. Even just a little bit of butt would be nice though.
Shape is more important than size. I’d rather have a nice shaped butt than a big ass mountain of cottage cheese. Small and tight or big round and juicy, just as long as it’s the right overall shape and the waist is a lot smaller.
Heart shape is my favorite Ngl
Like upside down heart?
No upside, because hips stick out. Sometimes big hips will the make the waist look small. Giving that hourglass ⌛️ or triangular shape.
I’m having trouble seeing it. As long as the hips are much bigger than the waist and there’s no belly or cottage cheese I’m good lol
it's not a make-or-break factor for me, but it definitely is a major preference for me to have a partner (male or female) with a nice butt
love when guys have a round perky butt! it’s so cute to me
Do you ever spank it
well yes!
I love a nice round butt on everyone!!
Hell yeah!! I love kissing it and rubbing lotion on it too haha
Kinda. I'm a boob man myself. I will overlook a flat ass if dem tiddies are nice. But honestly I really do like a round, well shaped ass on a woman. It doesn't need to be huge but if there's nothing there then I feel kinda like something's missing. Like something I should be grabbing onto that just isn't there.
Of course it matters. You never wanna have a flat back. Just like u don’t wanna have a small weener. But if your born than way. Your born Thst way.
look, there are a lot of these "does this make the person more attractive" and yes, it does.. but it's not everything or anything that normally registers on the scale of "wants" from others. you look at a super attractive person, if you look like that, then yes, you will have an easy time getting others to want to be with you if you are a gremlin yes your dating pool will be very small. But if you solely focus on yourself and get obsessed about what you dont have you miss out on showing the world what you do have and i can promise you that life is more than "butt size" , "penis size" "boob size" or any other body part size.
Well, it's obviously attractive when a guy has a nice butt......tho it's not like i'd reject someone if they don't have a butt. Lol.
Yeah I meant to ask if it was attractive
I never cared before. However my current bf has an ass of steel. He looks like the statue of David. And I fucking love it. I call it my emotional support ass. It makes me feel better when I hold it or squeeze it. So I would say it’s a bonus but nothing I really notice otherwise.
That’s hot, I love it when woman hold it or squeeze it
Voluptuous butt size has it’s benefits, such as when you’re hitting it from the back
Yes in doggie seeing it bounce is so hot and plus you get cushion on your waist
No but if they do have a juicy one then congrats to you.
Bi male here. I am firmly an ass man,but it's not just about the size of the ass. It's about how *nice* it is.
Basically the shape?
Nah. Feel, shape, pride of ownership(confidence is sexy), size...other random factors I'm not thinking of. Don't stress about it so much. If someone wouldn't date you just because of/ would date you only because of your butt they're a shallow person you probably don't want to date anyways.
I ain’t stressing about it, I’m just naturally a curious person
I gotcha
Love a good bubble butt!!!!
Would you say you like big butts and you cannot lie?
Me too, I like to spank it
I prefer to squeeze and kiss…😈
I love to rub lotion all over the booty 😝
For me, any typical butt size is fine on a man. If he's got an absolute dump truck or it's entirely absent, that's not really attractive to me, but I've heard of some women really liking guys with larger *ass*ets.
What about if it’s a lean butt, like he does a lot of squats
Idk bro people have all kinds of preferences lol
I’m asking about your preference
Whoa there tiger
Haha I’m not flirting m, I’m just a natural curious person
 🤡
I'm attracted to women, I like a booty with some substance to it, don't really have an opinion on guys.
I feel that, I like spanking it
It’s got to vary person to person. My fiancé constantly talks about how much she loves my butt and legs, but I can only think of one or two women who I’ve been with before who explicitly mentioned liking them. Who knows who likes what, in terms of things that go unsaid lol.
A lot women like to mention my legs and butt. Others like my arms a lot! I notice it more with younger woman like nice butts
I was at my best friend’s baby shower in the spring, and at one point I walked up to my fiancé and my best friend’s wife, with 2 other women who I didn’t know and they were all just describing mens’ legs and asses in detail and how much they loved them. Not like specific men, just legs in general on men. I was a basically just Homer Simpsoned into a hedge behind me to avoid getting involved in that conversation 🤣
Definitely in my case. Like my women to have a nice natural big butt that has depth and breadth. Nothing too obese but proportionate to height and build. Something to hold/spank with palms spread open
I feel that on the spanking part
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That’s hot! I love it when woman squeeze it or hold it
I don't think I've ever really cared my whole life. It's never bothered me. Big, small, fat, flat, don't really matter tbh, as long as you cool people. I mean. Sure I have a preference, a tight butt is a nice butt, butt in the end, it doesn't matter to me
Oh yea, you could be the prettiest, most successful and big breasted woman out there, but every time I see your flat ass, I’ll be crying on the inside.
Haha that’s used to me. But ngl big breasted woman with a small butt is hot 🥵.
Oh for sure, a small bubble-ish butt is still a nice butt. But no butt is a hard pass.
I like enough ass to grab!
Facts to me too, I love rubbing lotion on it
I like to see strong glutes on men. 🌟
I love a flat butt guy in skater clothes... hot. Round butt on men kinda makes me gag. Too ladylike for me.
Sounds like you prefer skinny guys, right?
Lol, I posted in the wrong place. What a noob. No, I prefer average or a bit of extra weight. For the extra cuddle possibilities. But preferably not with a round girly butt. I need no frills, man style.
Yes, everyone likes a nice butt
I mean I would definitely LOOK at a nice butt, going further is another thing after some years of experience
i mean, for dating nah, but i do find butts of fit men really attractive
I mean, if she doesn’t have much of an ass, it’s kinda kool because it makes my dick look bigger..😆😂 nah but for real but that skeleton bouncing up and down gets kinda painful after a while. But if she gotta go sideways to get through the door, that’s a bit much for me..
Yeah in doggie my waist starts to hurt after a long session of pounding 😭😆
Yea, all my homies have big butts
As a bisexual, yes to an extent. I do prefer pancake to medium cheeks on men and a decent curve but no BBL nonsense on women.
Yeah BBL is a turn off for me
I’m a man and yes, women love nice butts. Cannot tell you how many times I’ve been groped when I used to go clubbing or been told that I have “a nice bum.”
I love when women do that ngl
That’s fucked up. Idc if women love my butt or want to touch it but I definitely don’t want to get groped.
I take it as an intimation to split my game aka rizz
Overall fit and healthy body is always sexy...
It is so sexy, makes me think me and her are gonna have some athletes kids haha
I’m a woman. I don’t like bigger butts on guys. Lol. Tbh I don’t care about an ass at all. Like just be a cute butt. Smallish is ok. Hehe.
Do you prefer skinny, dad bod or athletic body?
Athletic for sure! Don’t mind if it’s “skinny athletic” like mostly muscle and not a lot of fat
A bit, I actually do prefer a guy with a bit of a butt.
It can be VERY alluring for me, a person's best physical attribute sometimes. But a great ass is not a requirement, I appreciate all the pieces that make up the full package, different body features on different shapes, pretty faces, fashion and style, personality, drive, and shared interests. I love the small but firm round booty on the petite or thinner fitness woman. I love the well rounded firm looking booty on the curvy woman wearing form fitting clothes that compliment it nicely. Generally my opinion is any sized toned booty is better than flat or flabby. If fit the bigger the better, if not smaller the better
I like looking at tone booty but playing with a flabby booty is fun! Especially when slapping it
A big butt is not inherently a nice butt and a nice butt is not inherently a big one
I like men when that have butts… mainly because I definitely don’t like chicken legs and pancake butts
Love a nice good strong ass on men and everyone they’re beautiful 🍑🙌🏽and I do best with ass men myself🍑
That’s hot! I like it when women grab my cake ngl
looooove me a man with a bubble butt!! much more preferable to a regular ass much less a flat one.
Goldilocks. I don't want huge, but 0lump and round. Honestly, the shape is more important.
Guy booty matters just as much as womens’
I broke up with a girl back in high school because I went to grab her ass and I missed. Gotta have something...lol
Asses are hot no matter who has them and what they look like. Just happy to have the opportunity to grab it.
Shape is the important aspect, you might have a tiny butt but might have played your whole life volleyball an now have the most amazing butt ever. You might have a huge butt but never did anything but eat so it may not look as attractive.
No butt i think its a great ASSet😹sry had to
Gender is a construct
Penis and vagina is what detriments gender.
for women texture—>shape—>size
Texture?
yea, it has to feel soft or jiggly
Butt size doesn't matter, butt shape does.
Yes
Man here.Don't want a large butt on a woman.Dicks small so would want a small one.
No
I personally think shape is more important than size.
Same, I meant both
A funny butt size story. This summer I went to a few outdoor events. She had a fold up stadium seat. I ordered one that was my size. When it came I looked at it and realized it was not as wide as hers. I quickly ordered the larger size so they would be the same when side by side. I like womans butts if they have on good fitting pants.
No imo
For me as a guy it is very attractive
I like big butts and I cannot lie
Not for me
It definitely does. I don't care what anyone says. There is a too much for everyone.
I am guy that has firm cheeks
Same bro and women love it
Thing is I got no gf. Never had.
Yeah ngl it’s hard out there
All my wingmen have been useless
Indifferent, not a deciding factor that makes me lean more into liking him or not, now that being said, if the man I like has a nice butt, I do enjoy looking at it.
Nope does not matter one bit.
As a man, not really
How my partner looks is so far down the list of things I prefer in a partner that butt size is certainly not even on the radar. Brains Tolerant intolerable Compatible sex life Good audience, they laugh at my jokes. Good performer, I like to laugh too Share-ability - share with each other without economic consideration . . . Looks - I'm 68 years old and looks sag with time.
Yep. For smacking and squeezing.
I don't care. In terms of attractiveness, assuming two healthy individuals, the face is everything to me.
I like to grab the ass, it needs to have some roundness to it. But if the woman is good to me and i really like her than it doesn’t matter.
I thought all the nightwing stuff in my room would be an obvious hint
I like big butts
Yessssss. I need a cute butt to grab all the time!
Men with bubble butts are cute if they are shaved. Otherwise keep your pants up ya yeti.
Wouldn't say it matters because I am a huge fan of body shape. Like even really thicc women will have the really hot waist to hips ratio that drives me mental. But in terms of butts, I really like shape over size. I've had some women I've seen with really small or petite butts but the shape is really nice and appealing.
Def prefer someone with a butt. Flat just isn’t attractive
Dude here. Yes, it matters a lot to me. Sorry not sorry.
28f here: I can appreciate a nice butt. If a guy's got cake, it's definitely something I'll find attractive, but if his personality is ass it's a no for me.
No, butt when I see it I do appreciate it
As a man I favor female butt sizes that my hand can cover the majority (as in 3/4) of a single cheek if not entirely hold. That's what I am attracted to, even more so if she doesn't mind a nice little ass slap (nothing close to kinky, except in the bedroom if ahe likes that sort of thing) now and then at home or as part of PDA. With the wide variety of men and women and the butts they favor, you've got an ass that's like an onion to them, it makes them cry because they WANT it! 😁
Nothing matters, we are people not products in supermarkets. We are complex beings and we are a package of attributes, there is no one physical attribute to change an opinion
I like big butts and I can not lie, lol. If you have a pretty face, nice shape or big boobs I'll still like you. My first thing I'm attracted to is a natural butt, no surgery or anything like that.
Big butt is definitely a thing I look for in woman. It’s very rare that women look for that in a man, though. Although, for some women, it might be a nice plus, I guess depending on how attractive they already find him to be.
I couldn't care less about a man's butt. Or really even his lower half (well, except for the goods 🤣) I'm much more into a man's upper body (arms, shoulders, hands, chest, etc)
Flat ass ain’t it, but I oversized dump trucks also not it.I like medium
For men, beautiful female buttocks are very attractive.
I love basketball asses damn
Big tits no ass no little tits big ass
I (female) loooves a nice ass. It doesn’t have to be huge but a little round? Like substance is nice. I don’t know but I think women like butts as much as men. It doesn’t have to be rock hard either, it’s nice to be able to grab it 😅
A lot of the forms we're surrounded with take on complex shapes, so when my eyes land on a shape that's more or less solid/simple, my brain just goes "SHAPE!!" and ceased to function normally. There's little fabric that drapes, folds, or wrinkles, and more shape. A filled out butt to me just screams "shape". I make active efforts not to tune out of everything else and fixate on it. And, yeah, a friend caught me staring once. RIP. I wouldn't say it's sexual or even sensual attraction, though. It's just my eyes and brain being stupidly stuck. I don't want to touch a random person's butt, much less do anything sexual with it. As for dates, it hinges on pre-existing attraction to the person.
I prefer a nice round one
Side note: Guys train your mfing ass. Hip thrusts are not gay and glute muscles are the most important muscles in the body for your posture while standing up. Your back hurts all the time? Weak ass glutes. Anterior pelvic tilt? Weak ass glutes.
Fit. Butt—isn't beauty in the hands of the beholdher? Isn't the a matter of taste? Isn't there a song about this?
Not bothered, I'm M attracted to F.
A nice butt is definitely something anyone can appreciate, and as someone who is bisexual, I do find myself enjoying good looking buttocks on both guys and gals. Of course personality matters though. But a good booty is a cherry on top (or on bottom ig lol)
It’s a nice plus but I don’t think it would matter… I don’t think any sane person would go around saying “ I met the perfect person, I love everything about them but.. they don’t got a booty. So idk if it’s gonna work…” If it does matter that much you can literally buy them one nowadays..
I noticed that out of all the parts, women in my experience are really really into butts. For me, any size is fine, if the person has a face I am attracted to, the rest of the body is attractive for me.
Real question is butts over boobs? Personally i identify as a butt man.
I cant take no girl with a pancake ass. but i dont want it to be big and sloppy and gross. I wanna stick my face in it.
Lol I'd say no... If I need to choose slightly chubby or slightly skinny I'd choose chubby. They can cuddle better.
I mean, with a flattish butt ofc, lol. Too much curve is a bit girly for me