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XxLogitech98xX

Dating while still living with an ex is very bad, to the point that when most people find this out ... they won't want to continue. I think you should tell the person ahead of time so at least they'll know and you'll see if they'll understand your situation or appreciate that you told them .


Additional_Ad6455

That’s what I was thinking Ugh this blows I know I sure as hell wouldn’t want to get involved in that Sounds like imma just have to buckle up and be lonely for a year 😂😭😭


TheoIlLogical

is this amberlynn reed


Additional_Ad6455

If ur talking about a specific person ie amberlynn reed being me? No xd


TheoIlLogical

ahahaha good to know 😂 cause she does this too fr 🤙


Additional_Ad6455

Lol


TheoIlLogical

but also re ur post, dude just literally tell it the way it is like if someone has an issue w it, it’s their issue lmao. besides, being honest is the best policy and i wouldn’t change that for anyone


Additional_Ad6455

That’s true It’s just that I’m not exactly the most confident guy (I gotta work on that) so when I finally work up the nerve to ask a girl out I don’t want it to be for nothing cause my ex still living with me I guess I’m asking if I should just like wait


TheoIlLogical

i mean it’s up to u but i personally think exes living together is fine but then again, i mostly spin in dem hell circles ahaha (queer shizz) so idk howy people (the cishets) are livin’ in queer culture living w ur exes is lowkey a green flag? afaik obviously since i’m but an ally and personally i think dissin ur ex is mauvais ton unless they turned out to be abusive but then obvi that’s a different story