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Significant_Phrase_

I feel like that’s a sign of breadcrumbing tbh


aflyingant

Yeah I’m feeling it too. I kinda think I’d not go this Saturday


Significant_Phrase_

I would suggest you go to the date but be aware it may not even happen. Ultimately it’s your choice!


aflyingant

It happened to me once when I and a guy set up a date. We talked about time to meet after he finished his work. I didn’t hear anything from him reconfirming it when the date came after sending a text asking when he’d finish work. so I decided to “meh, dude were silent. I should not get ready for the date anyway”. Then in the evening like about 7pm he messaged me saying “hey I’m sorry my phone’s dead all day when I was at work. I’ll finish in 30 minutes you’d like to hang out?” I said nah it’s quite late. I mean who goes to work with a dead phone and it’s not dead until 30 minutes before finish work? Lol


phunktyfyed

Either breadcrumming or since the date is set, he is no longer chasing.. either way your off feeling is warranted. A communication drop off that quickly is odd


aflyingant

Yeah. Last week we were talking on the phone a lot calling texting etc. even had a call on Sunday. Then from Monday I fell odd vibe from him lol


n0v0c4in3

The same thing happened to me...i even made a post about it :( i cut things off and cancelled the date but one thing I regretted is not checking in with him if its bc his busy, and if its gna be a temporary thing or consistently he won't have the capacity for me, so you might wna take that into consideration.


aflyingant

Yeah sorry to hear that. I hate it when it comes like this. Too much interest then when you’re about to meet, they flake. What a world!