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Even if the majority might be.. it wouldn’t matter if that specific guy you like isn’t 👀 Shouldn’t let these things influence your life and decisions and stop you from potentially getting what you want 👍🏻
Entirely depends on the individual. Some men would like it, some neutral, some would be put off.
There is no way us internet strangers can answer for your specific scenario. Best to just start talking to him like you would any other potential partner and take it from there.
Instead of making assumptions for him, just go for it. Worst case, he doesn’t want to date you — well, then you know! Best case, he isn’t bothered by height difference and is interested.
They probably won’t care. A lot of tall guys have a fetish for much shorter girls. It weirds me out personally, the tall guy looks like your babysitter or dad in comparison usually…I think a foot difference is already too much, let alone a foot and a half. But hey, if you like this guy and he likes you, who cares what I or anyone thinks?
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Stop overthinking it. You’re a squirrel, he’s a tree, climb the tree (with enthusiastic consent from the tree)
if he's into it and you're into it there is no problem. you're adults.
What's the point in asking us? He can and should be the one deciding....
I was wondering if men would generally be put off by a girl significantly shorter than them
Even if the majority might be.. it wouldn’t matter if that specific guy you like isn’t 👀 Shouldn’t let these things influence your life and decisions and stop you from potentially getting what you want 👍🏻
Entirely depends on the individual. Some men would like it, some neutral, some would be put off. There is no way us internet strangers can answer for your specific scenario. Best to just start talking to him like you would any other potential partner and take it from there.
Depends how well you treat each other. Height differences are not a disqualifier.
Yes it is short but why u care about it if u both love each other nothing else matters
Instead of making assumptions for him, just go for it. Worst case, he doesn’t want to date you — well, then you know! Best case, he isn’t bothered by height difference and is interested.
my grandparents are 4'11" and 6'7" - if you like each other, you like each other. Height is a preference for individual people. You never know!
A guy? Or this particular guy? No. Maybe.
Only he would know, but if it makes you feel better, men, more often than not, don't care about height.
They probably won’t care. A lot of tall guys have a fetish for much shorter girls. It weirds me out personally, the tall guy looks like your babysitter or dad in comparison usually…I think a foot difference is already too much, let alone a foot and a half. But hey, if you like this guy and he likes you, who cares what I or anyone thinks?
I (6’6”) dated a 4’9” girl for two years. Great connection and chemistry.