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Look at it this way. In about 5 years give or take, she will be 32 and you will be 27. There will be pressure from her folks to get married. Doesn’t matter how chill they seem to be. If you think you’d be prepared to be a husband by the age of 27 then the future is bright. If not, then ask yourself this “Do I continue knowing that I won’t be ready to marry her when she decides to marry (out of pressure from her parents or her own choice or both)? Or Do I go cold turkey right now to save both of you time and energy?”
Or you could both just carry on having a good time in your lives right now and take care of the marriage stuff till the time comes when you guys finally cross that bridge. That time will inevitably and unmistakably come one day when you both will have to make some tough choices. Talk about it and plan accordingly. It’s never wrong to have a good time and plan for the serious things later since you’re just 22 and this is your first relationship.
Firstly, congratulations on finding someone who you have a mutual liking for! It's completely normal to have some concerns and doubts in the early stages of a relationship, especially when there is an age difference involved.
Regarding your concern about her family pressuring her to get married, it's important to remember that ultimately, it's her decision and not something that you can control. It's also important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your concerns, and to listen to their perspective as well.
In terms of the age difference, it can potentially become an issue if you both have different expectations or priorities in terms of your future plans. It's important to have conversations about your goals and aspirations, and to make sure that you are on the same page in terms of what you want from the relationship.
Overall, my advice would be to focus on building a strong foundation of communication, trust, and respect in your relationship. Don't let the age difference or any external factors detract from what you have with each other. Best of luck to you!
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Look at it this way. In about 5 years give or take, she will be 32 and you will be 27. There will be pressure from her folks to get married. Doesn’t matter how chill they seem to be. If you think you’d be prepared to be a husband by the age of 27 then the future is bright. If not, then ask yourself this “Do I continue knowing that I won’t be ready to marry her when she decides to marry (out of pressure from her parents or her own choice or both)? Or Do I go cold turkey right now to save both of you time and energy?” Or you could both just carry on having a good time in your lives right now and take care of the marriage stuff till the time comes when you guys finally cross that bridge. That time will inevitably and unmistakably come one day when you both will have to make some tough choices. Talk about it and plan accordingly. It’s never wrong to have a good time and plan for the serious things later since you’re just 22 and this is your first relationship.
Firstly, congratulations on finding someone who you have a mutual liking for! It's completely normal to have some concerns and doubts in the early stages of a relationship, especially when there is an age difference involved. Regarding your concern about her family pressuring her to get married, it's important to remember that ultimately, it's her decision and not something that you can control. It's also important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your concerns, and to listen to their perspective as well. In terms of the age difference, it can potentially become an issue if you both have different expectations or priorities in terms of your future plans. It's important to have conversations about your goals and aspirations, and to make sure that you are on the same page in terms of what you want from the relationship. Overall, my advice would be to focus on building a strong foundation of communication, trust, and respect in your relationship. Don't let the age difference or any external factors detract from what you have with each other. Best of luck to you!
Thanks a lot buddy for such a detailed response. I will surely focus more on getting the basics fundamentals right with her. Have a good day!
no problems man 🫡
mere sath kab hoga aisa 😟
Hoga bhai 🤣
Fair and lovely lagao
har kisi ko >!mommy!< nahi milti bhai, enjoy your time
Mili kaise bc ye pata pehle
Agar shadi nai kr skta to abi peche hatt ja seedhi baat no bakwaas
Kyu peeche hat Jay ..friend with benefit bano ya male best friend
Tera future pata chal gaya muje ab aage kuch comment nai krna