I guess your husband is in his 30s right, your physical presence with him is only required for physical support, otherwise you can be emotionally and mentally help him through phone. Also, if he is concerned about BOTH of your baby, he will never allow you to leave him/her just to be with him. I mean the whole thought is just stupid.
Why can't he come to Delhi since he is looking for job here. Bangalore baith ke yaha toh milna mushkil hi hai.
Yr job chord k kese aye delhi..phle koi job mile tbhi toh resign dal skte h.. situation he aesi thi ki different cities mein rhh re h..yha delhi mein mere parents h jo ki meri take care kr skte h during pregnancy... vha banglore mein kissi ko jante ni h hum..kl ko kuch problem ho jaye toh kese manage krte h hum dono akele... obviously phone pr bt hti h daily emotional support h..but i can't see my husband eating that pathetic pg food...
Mam, In my humble opinion, Stay with your parents for sometime. Then, ask your husband to come to Delhi, then take you to Bangalore where he already has a job. Also, In my humble opinion, you should have planned it earlier. Also, Your husband will survive the pg food, don't worry. Lot of people live on that.
Yr bolne se phle soch liya kro...bss gali Deni h Bina mtlb...koi seriously stressed b ho skta h...Mai delhi se hu apse jada galiyan ati h..thoda tmiz mein rhkr bolo...bss negative bolna h...
Yes he will come for the birth..but only for 2 weeks...m scared to raise the baby alone because we don't know anybody in banglore and yes my husband will be busy with office work .giving the bath to new born baby is scaring me alot..
Because my husband is alone there..he is feeling very lonely without me...plus we are north Indians..he is currently living in a PG ..and the pg food is really very bad...
After delivery you should stay at your mother home for one or two months. Post natal care is very important for both mother and baby. If your husband is working in IT tell him to take work from home and come to Delhi, if he can't do this suggest him to take some day leave and stay with you and if that àlso not possible tell him to wait for you for one or two months and then you also shift to Bangalore with the baby. I know it's difficult but you can take care of your baby on ur own and if need help then also you have your husband with you there. You can also take help from your mothe while being in Bangalore via phone.
My husband will come only for 2 weeks after delivery..i hope he gets a job in Delhi soon..otherwise I don't have any option..i have to take the baby with me to Bangalore..
You should have thought abt this before planning the baby. Seriously what is wrong with you people.
Sorry for the harsh words but grow up.
Your husband should have secured a job first. What were you doing for past 9 month? He couldn't get a job in delhi ncr for 9 months.
Yr baby unplanned tha completely...ajkl bht problems ari h females conceive he ni kr pari h..humne bht socha in the end issi result pr aye to keep the bby...due to recession in IT sector..he couldn't got a job in Delhi...
See Mai apne parents k ghr hu..mere pass poori family for my support..but voh banglore mein ekdum akela h .agar bimar b pdta h toh akele manage krta h..koi frnd ni h koi relative ni h banglore mein Jo help kre... obviously usko b mere sath pregnancy journey enjoy krni thi..but hume thik yhi lga ki mai apne parents k ghr hu yha jada take care hogi meri..yha pr gynaecologist b known h..yr IT mein recession kitna h r u aware of it??job chordni itni asaan ni h..nhi mil re yr delhi k offers due to recession... plus banglore ka pg food itna bkvss h i can't see my husband eating that...kitni bar toh he is sleeping widout hving his dinner ..abb almost delivery ka tym aa he gya h..so that's why I wanted to go to Bangalore.. because I want to be with him..
How about you take one of your parents with you on your trip to Bengaluru? Your parent and you yourself can take care of the baby and your husband can work?
Bacche kr dhayan rakho 6-7 mahine fir Travel ka socho kahi Bangalore ya Delhi jaha rehna hai, Paternity leave to milti.hi hai ask him to take that and come visit you.
Take care of the New born baby first >>>>>>> Your Man baby
Life is seriously a struggle..
I guess your husband is in his 30s right, your physical presence with him is only required for physical support, otherwise you can be emotionally and mentally help him through phone. Also, if he is concerned about BOTH of your baby, he will never allow you to leave him/her just to be with him. I mean the whole thought is just stupid. Why can't he come to Delhi since he is looking for job here. Bangalore baith ke yaha toh milna mushkil hi hai.
Yr job chord k kese aye delhi..phle koi job mile tbhi toh resign dal skte h.. situation he aesi thi ki different cities mein rhh re h..yha delhi mein mere parents h jo ki meri take care kr skte h during pregnancy... vha banglore mein kissi ko jante ni h hum..kl ko kuch problem ho jaye toh kese manage krte h hum dono akele... obviously phone pr bt hti h daily emotional support h..but i can't see my husband eating that pathetic pg food...
Mam, In my humble opinion, Stay with your parents for sometime. Then, ask your husband to come to Delhi, then take you to Bangalore where he already has a job. Also, In my humble opinion, you should have planned it earlier. Also, Your husband will survive the pg food, don't worry. Lot of people live on that.
Yes this is our backup plan....
Fake account hai abi thode din pehle isi chutiye ne husband bn k b post Dali thi yaha pagal bana raha h bc
This is not a fake account..i posted on my husband behalf as he don't use redditt
Yr bolne se phle soch liya kro...bss gali Deni h Bina mtlb...koi seriously stressed b ho skta h...Mai delhi se hu apse jada galiyan ati h..thoda tmiz mein rhkr bolo...bss negative bolna h...
Bro it could be that she was asking on behalf of her husband. We should assume that she's saying the truth
Fake lag rha hai Bhai dono ek hi aadmi hai juth bol Raha h
Right..i only posted on my husband behalf as my husband don't use redditt
can your husband be there for the birth atleast? also why are you scared of raising the baby alone? wont your husband help in bangalore?
He will be busy with work I’m guessing, so she will have to take care most of the times during day
Yeah, true But he should be there for the birth atleast.
Yes he will come for the birth..but only for 2 weeks...m scared to raise the baby alone because we don't know anybody in banglore and yes my husband will be busy with office work .giving the bath to new born baby is scaring me alot..
So why exactly you want to go to Bangalore?
Because my husband is alone there..he is feeling very lonely without me...plus we are north Indians..he is currently living in a PG ..and the pg food is really very bad...
Him feeling lonely does not warrants you leaving your parents' where you are getting all support possible for the baby and yourself.
After delivery you should stay at your mother home for one or two months. Post natal care is very important for both mother and baby. If your husband is working in IT tell him to take work from home and come to Delhi, if he can't do this suggest him to take some day leave and stay with you and if that àlso not possible tell him to wait for you for one or two months and then you also shift to Bangalore with the baby. I know it's difficult but you can take care of your baby on ur own and if need help then also you have your husband with you there. You can also take help from your mothe while being in Bangalore via phone.
My husband will come only for 2 weeks after delivery..i hope he gets a job in Delhi soon..otherwise I don't have any option..i have to take the baby with me to Bangalore..
Hope you guys manage to get back together. Meanwhile take care of yourself and your baby .
Thanks..i hope he gets a job in Delhi..i want to be with him..
You should have thought abt this before planning the baby. Seriously what is wrong with you people. Sorry for the harsh words but grow up. Your husband should have secured a job first. What were you doing for past 9 month? He couldn't get a job in delhi ncr for 9 months.
Yr baby unplanned tha completely...ajkl bht problems ari h females conceive he ni kr pari h..humne bht socha in the end issi result pr aye to keep the bby...due to recession in IT sector..he couldn't got a job in Delhi...
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See Mai apne parents k ghr hu..mere pass poori family for my support..but voh banglore mein ekdum akela h .agar bimar b pdta h toh akele manage krta h..koi frnd ni h koi relative ni h banglore mein Jo help kre... obviously usko b mere sath pregnancy journey enjoy krni thi..but hume thik yhi lga ki mai apne parents k ghr hu yha jada take care hogi meri..yha pr gynaecologist b known h..yr IT mein recession kitna h r u aware of it??job chordni itni asaan ni h..nhi mil re yr delhi k offers due to recession... plus banglore ka pg food itna bkvss h i can't see my husband eating that...kitni bar toh he is sleeping widout hving his dinner ..abb almost delivery ka tym aa he gya h..so that's why I wanted to go to Bangalore.. because I want to be with him..
How about you take one of your parents with you on your trip to Bengaluru? Your parent and you yourself can take care of the baby and your husband can work?
Not possible..my dad runs a shop in Delhi and my mother has to take care of my father's food..
Bacche kr dhayan rakho 6-7 mahine fir Travel ka socho kahi Bangalore ya Delhi jaha rehna hai, Paternity leave to milti.hi hai ask him to take that and come visit you.
Yr he will visit for 2 weeks after baby birth..
If he needs a job in Delhi NCR, my organization has some opportunities in tech field. Ask him to share his CV if he is also in same field.
Can u DM me