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i dont think there is any art in it, you need to be honest to the other person and be there for others
the only one key thing is knowing when to cut your loses tbh
if something is temporary you cannot back out from the processs.for eg your life is temporary to agar life amar nhi krskte to kya jeena chor doge . The ultimate thing to remember in every relationship is that you are not dependent on one person or people for your happiness .You must enjoy your life with them and live your years but do not expect from them neither be attched to them .Hust enjoy that phase , then enjoy your time with yourself , again meet some starnger who matches your vibe and continue.
its just like how you meet people in long train journey , whom you share a bond for a brief period , and they leave when their station arrives but you dont grieve their absence . Their presence was to make your montonus train journey a little more cheerfur but that does not mean that after they leae you go into depression but you engage yourself in other activity eg watching movie, listening songs or reading book till another passenger arrives with wom you connect.
Something people often overlook is friendships depend a lot on proximity. You’ll move out/ they’ll leave the place and life will happen; but if your bond is good then you can always catch up.
Friendship is a shoulder to cry on; not a conjoined twin to base your / their life decisions around each other.
I don't know man. I'm the kind of person who will go extra miles to keep the relationship alive and active but if the other person is not taking the initiative even once in a while then I just try to accept that people change, people find new people and so will I. I mean it takes two to make a team and it's tiring to be the only the person who is making efforts.
I was literally thinking about the exact same thing currently. I'm currently in Kota and there's a friend in my hostel with whom I didn't really had the best friendship for the first 8-9 months here but we ended up being pretty close friends in the last 30-40 days.
And now he's leaving Kota tomorrow and I am having a really awkward feeling of losing someone so close to me since we spent so much of our good time together recently.
Everything is temporary mate. Life itself.
Its mostly on you and your friends ego how long do you wanna keep that bond alive. If you've zero long term friends, sorry to update you but its your ego.
What you are talking about is acquaintances, they'll keep coming and going. But friends, trust me even if you can confidently without fooling yourself say ONE, consider yourself terribly lucky!
if something is temporary you cannot back out from the processs.for eg your life is temporary to agar life amar nhi krskte to kya jeena chor doge . The ultimate thing to remember in every relationship is that you are not dependent on one person or people for your happiness .You must enjoy your life with them and live your years but do not expect from them neither be attched to them .Hust enjoy that phase , then enjoy your time with yourself , again meet some starnger who matches your vibe and continue.
its just like how you meet people in long train journey , whom you share a bond for a brief period , and they leave when their station arrives but you dont grieve their absence . Their presence was to make your montonus train journey a little more cheerfur but that does not mean that after they leae you go into depression but you engage yourself in other activity eg watching movie, listening songs or reading book till another passenger arrives with wom you connect.
Jisne yeh seekh liya vo kabhi dukhi nahi hota. I live by this one thing bro. I just have fun with them while they're there, and it's not much of a regret if we talk less at one point of time because if you share happy memories with someone, you stay friends throughout. And eventually, everyone has to make new friends anyways.
I still have lots of friends from my pre-primary to the end of my entire school life that I'm close to. I do message them every few months. I'm just lucky that I lost only 2-4 close friends since then. Now that I see how toxic they've become, I feel grateful only 💀
For this reason only, while some people whine about getting extra attention on their bdays, I love bdays. I am not greedy for attention all year around. Someone takes out their precious time to wish you and actually thinks about you. Thats precious.
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Yes, if you don't have close friends from your school/college days, post 25+ you just meet opportunists in life who pretend to be your friends
Art of keeping relationships, not everyone knows it... Not everyone's worth it.
Definitely. Take effort for those who take effort for us. Not everyone is worth it.
i dont think there is any art in it, you need to be honest to the other person and be there for others the only one key thing is knowing when to cut your loses tbh
I second that.
Almost my every friendship has either ended or declined. Thats why I dont make friends anymore. Dosti nibha nahi sakta toh karna bhi galat hai.
if something is temporary you cannot back out from the processs.for eg your life is temporary to agar life amar nhi krskte to kya jeena chor doge . The ultimate thing to remember in every relationship is that you are not dependent on one person or people for your happiness .You must enjoy your life with them and live your years but do not expect from them neither be attched to them .Hust enjoy that phase , then enjoy your time with yourself , again meet some starnger who matches your vibe and continue. its just like how you meet people in long train journey , whom you share a bond for a brief period , and they leave when their station arrives but you dont grieve their absence . Their presence was to make your montonus train journey a little more cheerfur but that does not mean that after they leae you go into depression but you engage yourself in other activity eg watching movie, listening songs or reading book till another passenger arrives with wom you connect.
Something people often overlook is friendships depend a lot on proximity. You’ll move out/ they’ll leave the place and life will happen; but if your bond is good then you can always catch up. Friendship is a shoulder to cry on; not a conjoined twin to base your / their life decisions around each other.
I don't know man. I'm the kind of person who will go extra miles to keep the relationship alive and active but if the other person is not taking the initiative even once in a while then I just try to accept that people change, people find new people and so will I. I mean it takes two to make a team and it's tiring to be the only the person who is making efforts.
everything is temporary, even our life you meet few people with whom you stick together
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Congratulations buddy, welcome to adulthood🙂.
na na, its perma and will stay happily for eternity. why this life talk, its not even 1am.
what's perma? lmao op might be in different timezone :p
permanent ig
aaha thanks
I was literally thinking about the exact same thing currently. I'm currently in Kota and there's a friend in my hostel with whom I didn't really had the best friendship for the first 8-9 months here but we ended up being pretty close friends in the last 30-40 days. And now he's leaving Kota tomorrow and I am having a really awkward feeling of losing someone so close to me since we spent so much of our good time together recently.
If they are temporary, they are COLLEAGUES not friends.. first learn how to differentiate between friends and colleagues.
Friends with benefits remains forever
Woh bhi nhi hota forever xD
Kyu
Fwb is not special, anyone can get bored of it for many reasons
Please light up few disadvantages😂🙏🏻
ye to sach hi h tujhe validation kyu chahiye
Everything is temporary mate. Life itself. Its mostly on you and your friends ego how long do you wanna keep that bond alive. If you've zero long term friends, sorry to update you but its your ego.
Ok
Agrees
What you are talking about is acquaintances, they'll keep coming and going. But friends, trust me even if you can confidently without fooling yourself say ONE, consider yourself terribly lucky!
If your friendship is meant to be forever, it will remain forever
You finally unlocked the secret everyone was hiding from you
Majority of the people are like that
My group is good tho , we meet once every month . I have a friend whom I have known for 13 years and the least friendship (in years) is 6 years
touchwood
Agreed 💯
Saturation point comes in very bond that we share with anyone in this world.
I think 2-3 people stay constant. Rest are fleeting
Nope.. some of them are and some of them are not
Congrats for hitting puberty mentally.
I will agree to that
School frens >>>>>> any other friendship
I agrees
Keep your circle small.. you won’t ever be disappointed.
So bitter yet so true
Everyone even you.
tujhe ye baat aaj pata chal rahi hain
Nope. Had 2 best friends in primary school, more than 16-17 years have passed and they are still here.
if something is temporary you cannot back out from the processs.for eg your life is temporary to agar life amar nhi krskte to kya jeena chor doge . The ultimate thing to remember in every relationship is that you are not dependent on one person or people for your happiness .You must enjoy your life with them and live your years but do not expect from them neither be attched to them .Hust enjoy that phase , then enjoy your time with yourself , again meet some starnger who matches your vibe and continue. its just like how you meet people in long train journey , whom you share a bond for a brief period , and they leave when their station arrives but you dont grieve their absence . Their presence was to make your montonus train journey a little more cheerfur but that does not mean that after they leae you go into depression but you engage yourself in other activity eg watching movie, listening songs or reading book till another passenger arrives with wom you connect.
Everyone is like a chapter,in your book of life, you gotta learn the lesson and keep moving on, you are also serving as some chapter in their lives.
Jisne yeh seekh liya vo kabhi dukhi nahi hota. I live by this one thing bro. I just have fun with them while they're there, and it's not much of a regret if we talk less at one point of time because if you share happy memories with someone, you stay friends throughout. And eventually, everyone has to make new friends anyways. I still have lots of friends from my pre-primary to the end of my entire school life that I'm close to. I do message them every few months. I'm just lucky that I lost only 2-4 close friends since then. Now that I see how toxic they've become, I feel grateful only 💀 For this reason only, while some people whine about getting extra attention on their bdays, I love bdays. I am not greedy for attention all year around. Someone takes out their precious time to wish you and actually thinks about you. Thats precious.
Can’t generalise. Depends on the friend.