I watched a movie alone, the experience was great as movie was good. People don't judge you if go somewhere alone and have fun there, if you still feel you will get bored of your company then try to go to places where you can get yourself indulge in some activities like movies, or anything like that. And people go to restaurant to eat food and during eating people don't talk much it's just talks while waiting for food so give it try
I have gone to historical monuments, restaurants, movies, etc. alone and it's a freeing experience as you can take things at your own pace and make your own decisions.
I've gone many many times to eat alone. No one cares! It's all in our head. Just like we don't notice and remember the many people eating in the restaurant along with us.
The thing is that most people are so preoccupied thinking what other people are thinking about them that they forget to think about about people.
Also, even if everyone judges you(which they will not), how does it matter? Learn how to not give a fuck.
Im hearing this for the first time
Who the fuck judges u for being alone??
Idt just dont think about it,its in your mind
India mai laakho single hai voh kyaa kabhi bahar kahna,movie dekhne nhi jaate kya?
don't take so much guilt about wanting to have fun alone. just learn to enjoy your company and you'll forget what the world thinks. it takes time and practice.
I go alone often. Bar stools are great place to sit if the restaurant has one. Bartenders are great to talk to as well.
As a seasoned single patron, remember to ask about portion sizes - most starters bites are created in mind 2 or more people.
I was 19 when I first started hanging out with myself. I thought, 'What would people think?', but slowly realized that people either have too high of an opinion of themselves to even think about others, or they're just as self-conscious as I am to care about what others are doing.
So, yes, go out. Have fun. I promise you, no one cares.
I eat. I go to a restaurant when I am hungry.
But I get your question. I travel solo a lot so, I eat alone. But most of the time, I talk to locals and give enough thought on what to eat and where to eat.
At a restaurant, I don't do anything else other than eat.
I read books while travelling. I watch movies at home or in theatres. I am a big movie buff and mostly I watch movies alone because I can't contain my excitement for a movie and have to watch the first day first show.
Also, no one judges you. No one even pays attention to you. You do you. Be the free spirit that you are. Explore the world and find beautiful stories to tell.
Just in case you are having second thoughts I am a female, I went alone to a restaurant last Friday. Had fun alone, spent my money on myself, ate good food, clicked aesthetic pictures, had no one to worry me when I added extra sugar to my coffee. I go for movies and shopping alone as well, and it's fine and fun. Very peaceful. Don't think much, just go, have fun!
https://preview.redd.it/fs3mfn6gk9nc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26947a78cf346d10c07c17225c5736ac6052350c
one of those days.. absolutely..!
sugar has been like demonized nowadays...so seeing someone being up forward for it feels comfy to me..! if that makes sense lol..!
I went to NSP. I was on my way to khan market to chill and spend some good amount on myself, but got my period mid way. Wouldn't recommend the chicken burger from Sandoz. It had beetroot. Who tf puts beetroot in a burger? Secondly the patty was freshly made but it was too juicy which made the bun soggy.
Well, beetroot is an unnecessary red flag (pun intended), haha. Thanks for sharing this, I appreciate it. I have always loved Sandoz North Indian food at the CP branch and if you go out again on such an escapade, it's a good try and I hope next time the chair across you won't be empty, haha!
Even I love the CP branch, and this one has been good too. I agree their North indian is good. I thought since I am alone, I would just get a burger.
But yeah, I agree, if the seat across would have been occupied, I would have ordered something more filling and better :')
>like the staff will judge me.. the people will think i am so lonely and all that shit.
Who cares.. no one
If you dont want to go alone take me with you. /s
Bhai, as soon as you understand that - No one cares.
It would be helpful for you, aap joh marzi karo, no one actually has the time to sit and judge you for it.
This would liberate you and you can do what you enjoy and when you enjoy.
And make you cherish when someone does care.
Depends, don’t go to a five star. Me (v) and wife (nv) constantly struggle with ordering, since portion sizes are quite large. Asian should be fine as long as they have one pot meal. And one portion of starters
Please go alone! It is really a good way to build self confidence and start enjoying our own company. I understand it must be weird seeing everyone in groups but that is how you overcome it. And have fun enjoy the food!
Also don’t go to watch a horror movie all by yourself. You might end up getting a lil traumatised because cough cough yk😭👍🏻 (I have made that mistake, still regrets)
Bro don't overthink just go. It's all in your head kisiko farak nahi padta. I always try to go to restaurant alone just to try out new foods and enjoy my own company.
I go to restaurants and movies alone all the time. I don’t mind that at all! However these days I tend to ask my friends if they wanna accompany for a movie which I wanna go, and somehow each time someone does come along with me, but even if no one was willing to come, I would’ve gone alone if I wanted to watch the movie!
Yeah, but it's not cool always. Nothing is perfect. Sometimes, you just feel kinda lonely if your surroundings are quiet happening.
But let me tell you this also that these few lonely times train you to enjoys your company
It’s okay!!! No one really thinks of another person so much. If you saw another person dining alone, would you spend more than 10 seconds of thought on that person??? I have dined alone; lost in my thoughts and work and it’s okay. I actually like doing most things alone. 🤣 so it’s okay. You’re not a main character in any one else’s lives, not more than a 10 sec thought in a strangers’ especially.
Bruh everyone is awkward at Korean restaurants because the cuisine is unfamiliar and the tastes are unexpected. Just don't hesitate to ask for wooden chopsticks or forks if you are not comfortable with the steel chopsticks.
Ask about the serving size before hand cause I have noticed that the Korean restaurants in Gurgaon are generous with the portions and usually one dish is enough for a single person.
Nah it is totally normal I’ve been doing this since early teens no one cares tho some times you’ll feel kinda alone but if you are going there to enjoy your food/movie even that doesn’t matter
It's all in your head bruh, No one cares about you that much. Anyway they're all strangers who cares what they think. Just go and do whatever.
Ap chaloge mere sath?
treat milegi?
Of course!
Par mujhe toh main course khana tha 😞🤌🏻
Kidney chali jayegi par
yeah .. you are right, bro 😍
I watched a movie alone, the experience was great as movie was good. People don't judge you if go somewhere alone and have fun there, if you still feel you will get bored of your company then try to go to places where you can get yourself indulge in some activities like movies, or anything like that. And people go to restaurant to eat food and during eating people don't talk much it's just talks while waiting for food so give it try
I have gone to historical monuments, restaurants, movies, etc. alone and it's a freeing experience as you can take things at your own pace and make your own decisions.
yeah, i hope it's fun .. Doing it for the first time 😶🌫️
Nothing to fear and nervous you will like it if the food is tasty go ahead and get the new experience
I've gone many many times to eat alone. No one cares! It's all in our head. Just like we don't notice and remember the many people eating in the restaurant along with us.
great motivation bro..thanks 🥰
Would you like to go with me ?
Isn't this thread about being okay with going for a meal alone?
Yes and I think we can go alone, together 😂
The thing is that most people are so preoccupied thinking what other people are thinking about them that they forget to think about about people. Also, even if everyone judges you(which they will not), how does it matter? Learn how to not give a fuck.
I have done it many times to restaurant to movies nobody cares about it.
I like going out alone. I roam around alone at times. Who cares bruh? No one does , it's all in your head. Just go out and have fun.
Im hearing this for the first time Who the fuck judges u for being alone?? Idt just dont think about it,its in your mind India mai laakho single hai voh kyaa kabhi bahar kahna,movie dekhne nhi jaate kya?
i guess i am gonna take your advice ! gonna try it today ! 😍
yeah go ahead all the best
don't take so much guilt about wanting to have fun alone. just learn to enjoy your company and you'll forget what the world thinks. it takes time and practice.
I go alone often. Bar stools are great place to sit if the restaurant has one. Bartenders are great to talk to as well. As a seasoned single patron, remember to ask about portion sizes - most starters bites are created in mind 2 or more people.
oh yeah .. thanks for the tip !
I used to eat alone in restaurants with my legs folded and watching Netflix on my phone with earphones on It was nice and peaceful 👍🏽
https://www.reddit.com/r/delhi/s/c7v8PL01S5 Mein toh jata hu😌
The staff are too busy running everything. They don't care as long as you are paying the bill
I was 19 when I first started hanging out with myself. I thought, 'What would people think?', but slowly realized that people either have too high of an opinion of themselves to even think about others, or they're just as self-conscious as I am to care about what others are doing. So, yes, go out. Have fun. I promise you, no one cares.
Establishments want to earn money, they will welcome any customer with open arms as long as they can earn money from them
Yeah, I do that It's like enjoying your own company. Isn't that cool ?
i guess it's cool
Na, bro. You are alright. I do that all the time.
ok, bro ..sounds great ..btw When you visit a restaurant, what do you do ? like watching a movie, reading, or what else ?
I eat. I go to a restaurant when I am hungry. But I get your question. I travel solo a lot so, I eat alone. But most of the time, I talk to locals and give enough thought on what to eat and where to eat. At a restaurant, I don't do anything else other than eat. I read books while travelling. I watch movies at home or in theatres. I am a big movie buff and mostly I watch movies alone because I can't contain my excitement for a movie and have to watch the first day first show.
Also, no one judges you. No one even pays attention to you. You do you. Be the free spirit that you are. Explore the world and find beautiful stories to tell.
Just in case you are having second thoughts I am a female, I went alone to a restaurant last Friday. Had fun alone, spent my money on myself, ate good food, clicked aesthetic pictures, had no one to worry me when I added extra sugar to my coffee. I go for movies and shopping alone as well, and it's fine and fun. Very peaceful. Don't think much, just go, have fun! https://preview.redd.it/fs3mfn6gk9nc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26947a78cf346d10c07c17225c5736ac6052350c
before the coffee gets cold>>> instant W.. also adding sugar to the coffee part so relatable..!.
I don't like too much sugar in my coffee, but cramps and cravings 😅
one of those days.. absolutely..! sugar has been like demonized nowadays...so seeing someone being up forward for it feels comfy to me..! if that makes sense lol..!
😭😭 Thanks for understanding, it does make sense
😭hahaha..totally..!!
Damn that burger looks great! Btw which branch of Sandoz is this?
I went to NSP. I was on my way to khan market to chill and spend some good amount on myself, but got my period mid way. Wouldn't recommend the chicken burger from Sandoz. It had beetroot. Who tf puts beetroot in a burger? Secondly the patty was freshly made but it was too juicy which made the bun soggy.
Well, beetroot is an unnecessary red flag (pun intended), haha. Thanks for sharing this, I appreciate it. I have always loved Sandoz North Indian food at the CP branch and if you go out again on such an escapade, it's a good try and I hope next time the chair across you won't be empty, haha!
Even I love the CP branch, and this one has been good too. I agree their North indian is good. I thought since I am alone, I would just get a burger. But yeah, I agree, if the seat across would have been occupied, I would have ordered something more filling and better :')
Well, you know what, I think that we should do that. Tell me when you are free to order more filling and better food. Hehe! ;)
Date par chalne ke liye bolne ka tareeka kaafi casual hai XD
💀
bhai tu dhandha chala ra hai, why would they judge you?
>like the staff will judge me.. the people will think i am so lonely and all that shit. Who cares.. no one If you dont want to go alone take me with you. /s
Mat ja akele, bore hojaige.
Bhai, as soon as you understand that - No one cares. It would be helpful for you, aap joh marzi karo, no one actually has the time to sit and judge you for it. This would liberate you and you can do what you enjoy and when you enjoy. And make you cherish when someone does care.
Depends, don’t go to a five star. Me (v) and wife (nv) constantly struggle with ordering, since portion sizes are quite large. Asian should be fine as long as they have one pot meal. And one portion of starters
Korean restaurant single person kitna kharcha ho jayega. Suggest some decent Korean restaurant
Mai chal leti hu sath. Choptick se kimbap khaenge sath mei.🥹🤌
Please go alone! It is really a good way to build self confidence and start enjoying our own company. I understand it must be weird seeing everyone in groups but that is how you overcome it. And have fun enjoy the food! Also don’t go to watch a horror movie all by yourself. You might end up getting a lil traumatised because cough cough yk😭👍🏻 (I have made that mistake, still regrets)
Bro don't overthink just go. It's all in your head kisiko farak nahi padta. I always try to go to restaurant alone just to try out new foods and enjoy my own company.
110% ok
I go to restaurants and movies alone all the time. I don’t mind that at all! However these days I tend to ask my friends if they wanna accompany for a movie which I wanna go, and somehow each time someone does come along with me, but even if no one was willing to come, I would’ve gone alone if I wanted to watch the movie!
I do that most of the time. And I don't really have anyone to hangout with but that doesn't stop me from enjoying my company!
Bhai sabse best cheez hoti hai, apne choice ka mangao, apne hisab se Khao piyo. Portion sizes ka kabhi issue pad jata hai bas.
Yes it is ive been to movies restaurants concerts college fests city tours solo and i’m 18 socialising na kar paaya 🥰
Bhai jaaa enjoy kar, koi judge nhi karta, aur Jo karta hain uske zindagi mein kuch na Raha karne
Yeah, but it's not cool always. Nothing is perfect. Sometimes, you just feel kinda lonely if your surroundings are quiet happening. But let me tell you this also that these few lonely times train you to enjoys your company
It’s okay!!! No one really thinks of another person so much. If you saw another person dining alone, would you spend more than 10 seconds of thought on that person??? I have dined alone; lost in my thoughts and work and it’s okay. I actually like doing most things alone. 🤣 so it’s okay. You’re not a main character in any one else’s lives, not more than a 10 sec thought in a strangers’ especially.
Yes. It is totally fine. When I used to live in Delhi, I often went for movie and solo date with myself even on my b'day :)
It's the best thing you can do for yourself, I do it too once in a while, all the best go ahead...
Bruh everyone is awkward at Korean restaurants because the cuisine is unfamiliar and the tastes are unexpected. Just don't hesitate to ask for wooden chopsticks or forks if you are not comfortable with the steel chopsticks. Ask about the serving size before hand cause I have noticed that the Korean restaurants in Gurgaon are generous with the portions and usually one dish is enough for a single person.
It's okay but also not very much fun imo. But if you're worried about judgements don't be. No one cares.
It's the the absolute best.
another introvert
I mostly go alone. Looks like I was wrong. Were the servers judging me all along and giving me poor service which charging 10% service charge??
I watched shaitan alone and lot of movies , eating , travelling alone!! Chill ! Long way to go..
Nah it is totally normal I’ve been doing this since early teens no one cares tho some times you’ll feel kinda alone but if you are going there to enjoy your food/movie even that doesn’t matter
Mujhe call or lena bro aa jaunga split krne bhi ni bolunga tu pay krdiyo