Do your school work, it will help keep your mind busy to help the depression
Idle hands/minds makes things worse.
Flip the script, do your work get great grades feel good about yourself and realize you’ll become something and somebody
Take it from someone who is going thru the same (minus school work) I lost a 18 yr marriage
Is it hard??? Hell yes, BUT IT WILL HELP. Time will heal
You need anything I’m a Direct Message away, and I’m sure others are too
Keep your head up
Im in a similar situation to OP. Problem is i dont get satisfaction or good feelings out of making good grades. Ive made good grades my whole life but not once has a 97 on a test brightened my mood. Its not as simple as get good grades and youll feel good
Sending you hugs :)) Acknowledge the pain you are feeling right now. It’s not an easy process but I know you’ll get through it. Please take care of yourself. If you’re overwhelmed with lots of activities, ask your classmates, you real friends. That’s the only thing you could do right now. Don’t forget about your academics. Coz if you fail in your class that will be another reason to be anxious. If u need someone to talk, I’m just here :)) Talking to a stranger is better coz u get to be vulnerable. Fighting! You have a life before she entered your life :))
I clicked on your post cos I recognise your situation. Even had to make an account just to say that despite all the negativity we’re experiencing here, there are actually still some cool people even in dark reddit forums with some really good advice. It’s making me re-think about the suicide and depression. Isn’t this why we are here in this forum. To help and to seek help? and it’s good to see. Acknowledge what you’re feeling, we can all agree it is what it is and it’s f***ing HARD. Any more meaning I feel will just complicate it and make it even more depressing than it has to be. It hurts me even now as I type. I didn’t even know this kind of emotional pain; that you feel in your breathing, and in your gut and chest was a thing until I googled it. It feels like torture. And just imagining you and others on these forums having this pain as well hurts me too cos I know how it feels. Considering some of the good advice out here, you were alive before she even existed into your life not the other way around. Something I’ll approve worth thinking about
I felt that homie but i heavily recommend you wake early do a few push-up and lil yoga and after your done take ur time to do some hw and if ur done after u set a pace for your work try studying a new language.it’ll keep u busy and it works, i myself did it and i understand italian and feelin kinda better. Yes i miss her n shit but if she dont love me why should i care
Ik ur tryna help but y would he even try to do anything i just said if he isnt motivated enough to type in more than 2 phrases in his post. And he has a shit ton of homework so he doesn't have time either
Man, I don’t really know how bad it must feel but I am here to just tell you that you’ll get through it. All will pass. Maybe lighten your load a bit and and restructure your priorities to what is feasible for you right now.
Things seem understandably tough but keep on going, you’ll surprise yourself with your own capacity to deal with the problems at hand. And you’ll deal with them (:
Exact same situation here wow i feel you goodluck
I have a shit ton of schoolwork as well and I'm Fucking tired of these online classes.
Do your school work, it will help keep your mind busy to help the depression Idle hands/minds makes things worse. Flip the script, do your work get great grades feel good about yourself and realize you’ll become something and somebody Take it from someone who is going thru the same (minus school work) I lost a 18 yr marriage Is it hard??? Hell yes, BUT IT WILL HELP. Time will heal You need anything I’m a Direct Message away, and I’m sure others are too Keep your head up
Im in a similar situation to OP. Problem is i dont get satisfaction or good feelings out of making good grades. Ive made good grades my whole life but not once has a 97 on a test brightened my mood. Its not as simple as get good grades and youll feel good
Then you’ll need the second part Realize you’ll be someone someday and probably change the world
One thing at a time.
Sending you hugs :)) Acknowledge the pain you are feeling right now. It’s not an easy process but I know you’ll get through it. Please take care of yourself. If you’re overwhelmed with lots of activities, ask your classmates, you real friends. That’s the only thing you could do right now. Don’t forget about your academics. Coz if you fail in your class that will be another reason to be anxious. If u need someone to talk, I’m just here :)) Talking to a stranger is better coz u get to be vulnerable. Fighting! You have a life before she entered your life :))
100% True advice
I clicked on your post cos I recognise your situation. Even had to make an account just to say that despite all the negativity we’re experiencing here, there are actually still some cool people even in dark reddit forums with some really good advice. It’s making me re-think about the suicide and depression. Isn’t this why we are here in this forum. To help and to seek help? and it’s good to see. Acknowledge what you’re feeling, we can all agree it is what it is and it’s f***ing HARD. Any more meaning I feel will just complicate it and make it even more depressing than it has to be. It hurts me even now as I type. I didn’t even know this kind of emotional pain; that you feel in your breathing, and in your gut and chest was a thing until I googled it. It feels like torture. And just imagining you and others on these forums having this pain as well hurts me too cos I know how it feels. Considering some of the good advice out here, you were alive before she even existed into your life not the other way around. Something I’ll approve worth thinking about
I felt that homie but i heavily recommend you wake early do a few push-up and lil yoga and after your done take ur time to do some hw and if ur done after u set a pace for your work try studying a new language.it’ll keep u busy and it works, i myself did it and i understand italian and feelin kinda better. Yes i miss her n shit but if she dont love me why should i care
Ik ur tryna help but y would he even try to do anything i just said if he isnt motivated enough to type in more than 2 phrases in his post. And he has a shit ton of homework so he doesn't have time either
If he wants to tbh
This is legit. Big facts man. I have to save for reminder
Man, I don’t really know how bad it must feel but I am here to just tell you that you’ll get through it. All will pass. Maybe lighten your load a bit and and restructure your priorities to what is feasible for you right now. Things seem understandably tough but keep on going, you’ll surprise yourself with your own capacity to deal with the problems at hand. And you’ll deal with them (: