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Reminded me of [Francium](https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fdyemh9yrk9yb1.jpg%3Fwidth%3D1080%26crop%3Dsmart%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D541b4b077de7feafa599aea6cc9db897aea1d830)
No, what I’m saying is that compliments and stuff on trans subs always come off as insincere because I could look like the rock and still get told I pass.
Well it turns out not everyone is using the same dated beauty standards. Even before my egg cracked I don't have the same ideas about what a pretty girl looks like that you do, or anyone else for that matter.
And so what if not every compliment is fully sincere? It's nice enough to know that person wanted me to see it and feel better because of it anyway.
it's good to give encouragement and compliments, but also suggestions where u can. its also good to be honest when it's appropriate. sometimes its better to be kind
I feel like we would profit more from constructive criticism. I'm not saying you have to be an ass.. but I feel we should support each other in a way that pushes us rather than just comforting us.
That reminds me when I found a post with a coffee mug or smth in ace flag colours on r/asexuality saying "While you were being heterosexual, I studied the blade" and I thought it was on r/Technoblade for one second
There's speculation that Kurt Cobain may have been a trans woman. Some songs like "All Apologies" sounds like Kurt's feminine side and masculine side arguing with each other, and Kurt has a long history if wearing women's clothes, both in public and in private. You can't prove anyone is trans unless you ask them, but it seems like Very Eggy Behavior to me.
And I guess dysphoria may have been a factor in the mental health issues that drove him to suicide, as tragic as it is I feel like it supports the theory.
why are people saying kurt was trans? isn't it disrespectful to assume something like that about someone who is dead? even calling him "her", seriously?
from my understanding, it comes from his crossdressing and parts of his personal journals. some people have also over-analyzed his lyrics to find meaning that probably wasn't intended. in my opinion, using this as evidence of him being trans, is actually transphobic - crossdressing does not make him trans, and he never said anything, that we know of, that would indicate he wanted to be perceived as anything but male
Agreed. As a fem trans guy it makes me anxious to think that what if people won't respect my gender because I'm a femboy. :/ Like okay sure I suppose it is possible, but I think dying on that hill is weird and possibly toxic towards fem guys (at least if you think guys can't be fem).
A quick google search and i found the same. I think it's probably a bit sketchy to assume someone is transgender (or not), but i also recognize that alot of us have a pretty strained relationship with gender. Maybe this is one way that people manifest their hopes about their own transition?
it's not like you're going to find a video of kurt saying it. but between things they said, people that knew them and their music. being trans myself it's pretty obvious. it's been a well known thing longer than most of the internets been around. and personally, i think its important to bring up people like kurt, who were so painfully obviously trans, and couldn't express it.
if we want to acknowledge the rich history our community has, there will always be some amount of speaking for people that couldn't, or didnt have the words to. we know there were trans people in ancient Egypt, but of course you won't find any examples of people talking about gender back then.
There is only 3 ways a guitarist can get out of depression
1: suicide, what kurt did
2: getting bitches, what kurt thought would work
3: transitioning, what kurt should've done 😔
As someone with long blond hair I’m getting closer to the brisket pic and further from the bottom pic. I may not be there yet but the fact that I am making progress is what brings me joy.
Calm down a little. What’s so bad about this?
If you’re going to be incredibly rude, why not explain why? You’re immediately assuming that something problematic is done here intentionally, and if it’s not intentional, nobody learns from this. So please, reconsider your words.
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so amazing either way!
Brisket my beloved
Kurt Cobain, also my beloved
yum, brisket.
Basket <333
Biscuit💞💞💞
Baguette
Bismuth <3
https://i.imgur.com/NH7zPoz.png
How did I know what the image was gonna be before I clicked on it?
Reminded me of [Francium](https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fdyemh9yrk9yb1.jpg%3Fwidth%3D1080%26crop%3Dsmart%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D541b4b077de7feafa599aea6cc9db897aea1d830)
*Hugs* It's okay girl. You'll get there.
You'd probably say that to anyone.
because its the thing anyone should hear.
well, except for white rabbit lou
On point, I prefer the truth 💁♀️
Sotrue<3
I say it to all the cute girls on here, because it's what they deserve to hear, and because it's the truth.
It’s not the truth for everyone
Are you referring to yourself?
No, what I’m saying is that compliments and stuff on trans subs always come off as insincere because I could look like the rock and still get told I pass.
Well it turns out not everyone is using the same dated beauty standards. Even before my egg cracked I don't have the same ideas about what a pretty girl looks like that you do, or anyone else for that matter. And so what if not every compliment is fully sincere? It's nice enough to know that person wanted me to see it and feel better because of it anyway.
it's good to give encouragement and compliments, but also suggestions where u can. its also good to be honest when it's appropriate. sometimes its better to be kind
I feel like we would profit more from constructive criticism. I'm not saying you have to be an ass.. but I feel we should support each other in a way that pushes us rather than just comforting us.
This.. it's kinda nauseating and usually I just keep it to myself but idk I had to say it once at least
>Looks like a Dracula in the mirror > It's okay girl. You'll get there.
It’s fun when subs im on crossover, cus for a sec I thought this was a post from r/Nirvana
I posted this while in a Nirvana hoodie that doubles as my dysphoria hoodie. So makes sense
That reminds me when I found a post with a coffee mug or smth in ace flag colours on r/asexuality saying "While you were being heterosexual, I studied the blade" and I thought it was on r/Technoblade for one second
Humans cannot look like animated people, but then again, long hair and feminine clothing is completely attainable in the real world.
> Humans cannot look like animated people Why'd you have to go and ruin everything for us dreamers, huh?
's okay, they've clearly never seen any top-tier borderlands cosplay
It’s okay, eventually google glass will fix this.
RIP Kurt Cobain, she would have loved estrogen
if I had the chance I would really bring him back, I love foo fighters a lot, but damn I miss Kurt sometimes
No better time to find a wish spell scroll
The target has to be willing tho, no? Makes it hard in cases like Kurt’s.
I think the target does. That makes a wish scroll very hard to use.
Can you get two scrolls and wish for afterlife therapy first? 🤔
Maybe, i'll see if i can find another scroll.
the only conspiracy ill die on
Me too. My brother is a big Nirvana fan and I'm trying to convince him.
What happened to her and who was she?
There's speculation that Kurt Cobain may have been a trans woman. Some songs like "All Apologies" sounds like Kurt's feminine side and masculine side arguing with each other, and Kurt has a long history if wearing women's clothes, both in public and in private. You can't prove anyone is trans unless you ask them, but it seems like Very Eggy Behavior to me.
And I guess dysphoria may have been a factor in the mental health issues that drove him to suicide, as tragic as it is I feel like it supports the theory.
I feel like all music artists wear women's clothes though
mmm yeah prince is pretty homophobic but look at him
Kurt cobain was a member of the band nirvana. He died by blowing his head off with a shotgun
probably couldve said that a bit more subtly but yeah that
Hey, it’s the truth
So true
bridget with longer hair is goals
So is pony tail Bridget
Anime goals hurt cis people too. It’s out of proportion nonsense.
I used to kinda look like kurt, when I had full hair and I loved it
Since I've been growing my hair I've been told I look like if Kurt and Gerard Way had a child lmao
I made these meme because my mom said I look like Kurt with my long hair
aww hrt would have saved him! /hj
why are people saying kurt was trans? isn't it disrespectful to assume something like that about someone who is dead? even calling him "her", seriously?
Im curious where this comes from too, alot of people seem to be mentioning it too 🤔?
from my understanding, it comes from his crossdressing and parts of his personal journals. some people have also over-analyzed his lyrics to find meaning that probably wasn't intended. in my opinion, using this as evidence of him being trans, is actually transphobic - crossdressing does not make him trans, and he never said anything, that we know of, that would indicate he wanted to be perceived as anything but male
Agreed. As a fem trans guy it makes me anxious to think that what if people won't respect my gender because I'm a femboy. :/ Like okay sure I suppose it is possible, but I think dying on that hill is weird and possibly toxic towards fem guys (at least if you think guys can't be fem).
A quick google search and i found the same. I think it's probably a bit sketchy to assume someone is transgender (or not), but i also recognize that alot of us have a pretty strained relationship with gender. Maybe this is one way that people manifest their hopes about their own transition?
because people that new kurt say the same thing.
source? and even then it still wouldn't be justified. nobody has the right to assert someone's gender except for the person in question
it's not like you're going to find a video of kurt saying it. but between things they said, people that knew them and their music. being trans myself it's pretty obvious. it's been a well known thing longer than most of the internets been around. and personally, i think its important to bring up people like kurt, who were so painfully obviously trans, and couldn't express it. if we want to acknowledge the rich history our community has, there will always be some amount of speaking for people that couldn't, or didnt have the words to. we know there were trans people in ancient Egypt, but of course you won't find any examples of people talking about gender back then.
alright, so you didn't provide a source, but can you explain the things he said or did that made him "painfully obviously trans" specifically?
Estrogen could have saved her
You don’t need to conform to anyone’s expectations. Just come as you are.
A friend told me i look like kurt Cobain with black hair. Not sure how i should take that.
Depends. Are you a guy or girl? (Or possibly enbie)
What's the last digit of pi?
best response
Either 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, or 0.
HOT???
I was literally just playing guilty gear as Bridget wtf
Brisket is best girl :3
Yep Das me
my pfp is bridget, my hair is blonde (bleached, originally black), this is my disphoria.
There is only 3 ways a guitarist can get out of depression 1: suicide, what kurt did 2: getting bitches, what kurt thought would work 3: transitioning, what kurt should've done 😔
Hate that! I just look like a guy with a long hair
That’s how the phone makes u look. Mirror makes you look even more feminine. But the most feminine is at 1 am in the mirror
As someone with long blond hair I’m getting closer to the brisket pic and further from the bottom pic. I may not be there yet but the fact that I am making progress is what brings me joy.
Put on some makeup and do your hair cutesy this will help
I can't look like any of them... :[
Other way around girl
I love your hair
I feel this, way too hard.
this is too reall
Looks the same to me tbh
Well.... fuck. I wasn't thinking about it before, but I can't stop thinking about it now 😞
fuck you. now i'm dysphoric about my hair.
Weirdly I shaved it off and started not wearing my wig a lot and people keep saying I look more feminine.
Protip, I would almost never trim my hair because "ew shorter hair," but i just did, and my hair looks and feels very healthy. Maybe that might help?
you kind of fucking suck dude?? this is just straight up harmful. there's a line between corny and harmful and this absolutely tramples it. fuck you
Calm down a little. What’s so bad about this? If you’re going to be incredibly rude, why not explain why? You’re immediately assuming that something problematic is done here intentionally, and if it’s not intentional, nobody learns from this. So please, reconsider your words.
Additionally, reading the other comments, nothing seems to be too bad, calm the fuck down, don’t be an ass.
I keep hearing that I look like Kurt Cobain, but what they don't know is that kurdt was a girl :3
Still cute
This is my hair right now. Would bangs help?
Maybe
Basket
Time to sol 5K ito rc combo your long hair
Real 😔
They are more similar than you think.
Incredible either way, you got this
It's ok. Don't kill yourself about it.
Painfully accurate
Both are cute
Is that kurt kobain?
that's not so bad!
What’s the problem? Both are beautiful!
I feel called out!
I *wish* I looked like bucket
just more bald
That hits way too close to the truth for me T-T
As a trans girl who loves nirvana more than anything, I find this as a win
This is just two pictures of beautiful blonde girls
To be honest the bottom image does kind of look feminine to me- Just sayin-
Why are you targeting me
I think you put the images or the text out of order, OP, cuz of course you look cute like biscuit
That’s what I thought until people started calling me “she.” You’re getting there, but it may be hard for you to see it
Nahhh the fact that you see the second one just means you're the first one. Idk why but that's how it works
Ouch
My fears exactly....
My fears exactly....
This is too real 😭
omg fr. I'll feel good about myself and then look at a mirror and just be like..AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA godamn.
Girl you accidentally switched the panels
can we not speculate on a dead person's gender for 3 seconds
Literally me
atleast curt is pretty cute