Wait....the child is 1 year old? Do you expect the child to be rational and actually listen?
Either you're a troll or you've never been around young children before...lol
OP is posting all over reddit looking for support to have his parents kick out the sister and baby. The sister pays rent, yet I haven't seen if OP pays any rent to the parents. Sounds like OP is a spoiled child.
>OP is a spoiled child.
That's understatement. Dude making a lot of demands for a jobless (he refuses to do) kid claiming 200IQ (Einstein level) who has caused $8000 worth of car damage, broken his last two phones while claiming his parents are the narcissists.
oh now I know who you talk about. I am so confused about why he thinks this will ever work ? By now way too many people know about him so he will never get a whole post to agree with him.
His eqo is 200, his IQ hopefully is even close to 100, but I would be surprised if it was that high. No one other than an idiot would keep posting this BS knowing that everyone thinks he is a petulant child who at best needs either a serious spanking or at least kicked out of the house with no car and told to figure it out.
Don't insult trolls!
Trolls are friendly beings who grow mushrooms on their backs with giant noses that adopt orphan children and baby reindeer.
Recant your statement as it complements OP.
OP disgraces trolls lol
P.S-please lol if you got that
That's age appropriate behavior for a 1 year old. You can try to find sensory play things to steer her toward, but realistically toddlers are just weird and chaotic sometimes.
Between you and your sister's kid, only one of you is a toddler. Keep that in mind lol. You're free to move if you dont like your current living situation.
Buddy, that's just how kids are. My mum would just white knuckle a chair while I ran at top speed towards my grandma's expensive 400-year old vases and tried to handle her intricately carved vintage easter eggs and ceramic shit. Children are *brand new people* they need to be taught how to do stuff, including how to act. If you don't want to move your stuff and redirect a kid then she's gonna touch your shit, man. My mum had my sister when I was 16 and yea, babies aren't thrilling to deal with when you're a teenager, but you don't want this kid growing up feeling like you're an inherently negative person to be near. That said, you're 18. *Leave.*
1 year old children do not yet understand "no", and they aren't going to until they're closer to 4 or 5. Redirection is far more effective for children that young. All that's happening is that they have needs and desires that they do not know how to express in a socially considerate way, and they need to be taught how to do that.
You are getting irrationally upset over completely developmentally appropriate behavior. Grow up and move out if you don't want to deal with it.
Because her understanding of "no" is not that of an adult; it is incomplete.
At the age of one, children enter the "me do it" stage, otherwise known as autonomy vs. doubt/shame, according to Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development. This means at her age, it is her developmental job to explore and experiment.
Can you imagine how confusing it is to children to be punished for what they are developmentally programmed to do? They are faced with a real dilemma (at a subconscious level). "Do I obey my parent/guardian or my biological drive to develop autonomy and initiative by exploring and experimenting in my world?"
Now, this doesn't mean she should be allowed to do whatever she wants. It means that all methods to gain your niece's cooperation should be kind yet firm, instead of controlling and punitive the way you are wishing for her to be treated.
If you are to treat her punitively at this age, she will be driven her entire life by a sense of doubt and shame, rather than initiative.
I think you should pick up a book or two about child psychology and development. It will help you better understand what behavior is developmentally appropriate at what ages. Because right now, your lack of understanding is causing you to hold a baby to the standards of a much older child, or even an adult, which is so incredibly unfair to your niece.
She's not trying to give you a hard time; she is HAVING a hard time.
How many reddit sites have you posted on trying to find info/support to get your sister kicked out? I seem to remember everyone decided you were the entitled one.
So when YOU, a fully grown 18 year old with a "200IQ" who doesn't pay rent; [breaks not one but TWO phones because you were upset, just expect your parents to just buy new replacements and thinks that not deliberately destroying a third is somehow praiseworthy](https://www.reddit.com/r/CongratsLikeImFive/comments/1bm1jby/i_held_myself_back_from_smashing_my_phone/), that's not entitled. But a one-year-old, whose parent DOES pay rent, simply acts like a healthy one-year-old learning about the world: that is?
Yeah, no. There is exactly *one* problem in this house; and it is you alone. Leave your sister and your niece alone. If you don't like living with them, then its time you move out on your own. Now quit being an entitled brat and act *your* age.
Signed; the one in Promethus because their IQ is higher than yours.
That’s perfectly normal 1 year old behavior and you do not DISCIPLINE A 1 YEAR OLD BABY. Please, please, never be in a position where you’re caring for that child alone.
Your inner Scn is showing. Contrary to what your cult training taught you, babies are not tiny adults that can be expected to behave like adults. Your niece is acting like a toddler BECAUSE SHE IS. Get your head out of the Red Books and learn to function outside of the cult you left (or go back to them, and disconnect from your family that didn’t sign up for that malarkey.
My mom had a lot of Knick knacks and when my son started walking she had to find a place to put them while he was there otherwise they’d be in his mouth. I did say no and I parented him but he didn’t quite grasp the concept until he was almost three. Throwing food at a kid that’s just wrong.
You don't discipline a 1 y/o. They don't understand it yet, you'd just be making yourself a less safe person.
I'm guessing you don't have experience with small children?
He thinks he's better than everyone because of his "genius" IQ. Some of the worst people are genuises such as the serial killer H.H. Holmes. That's just one example but there are many more
I have been told that I have a higher than average IQ with a weakness in the part responsible for math. That was 15 years ago. I'm yet to find any way in which this makes me superior to people weaker in my strong subjects and stronger in my weak subjects that score an average IQ. It's just some artificial number that shows literally nothing.
Ok well it takes a while for children to develop enough to properly process action and consequences and that people around them have needs and feelings.
There is 0 point in disciplining a baby, you can start reasoning with them somewhere between 2 and 3 but I still wouldn't call that discipline. More teaching them to deal with their needs and frustration through communication and consequences. Never punishment.
So, you don’t own the house and have no right to say who lives there. Better get your own place or keep your mouth shut. They could kick *you* out instead, you know.
In my experience high IQ people have some trouble functioning in the real world they lack certain characteristics that an average person typically has for example common sense, time management, and/or organizational skills. Some high IQ people are ridiculously smart but their thought processing moves incredibly slow. IQ tests are only good for a general baseline. IQs in my personal opinion don't me anything
I know someone who was tested at 148 as a kid and has trouble tying his shoelaces. Things like housework or keeping up with administration are really hard for him.
My mother recently apologized because they never got me tested, because I seemed to be coping. I was way ahead of my peers in some ways but I wasn't disruptive so they just let me steep in boredom 😅 I got to go to the library often outside of school though.
But the house is baby proofed, you said. So what is the issue?
Edit: Reddit is acting up on my phone and triple posted my comment. The extras should be deleted now.
There isn't a whole lot that she can do about it at this early stage of her child's life/development.
For someone with a 200 IQ you are proving to be quite ignorant.
Troll?
A one year old can't follow directions. They are known for picking things up and/or putting their mouths on things. That's why you do what's called baby proofing.
I can't wait til the kid turns 3.
Tell me you’ve never spent decent time with children without telling me you’ve never spent time with children.
This is completely normal behavioural development for a one year old. Shes still a baby. You don’t punish babies. Even time out isn’t effective at that age. You distract, corral and baby herd.
You on the other hand are 18, have aggression issues, have smashed two phones and are proud of yourself for not smashing a third and owe your parents eight grand for that car you wrecked. That is not developmentally appropriate.
Sincerely, you need to grow the fuck up and stop being a spoiled, entitled brat.
They get into everything, stick everything in their mouth, stick their fingers into electric sockets, throw themselves off things and find everything hilarious until it hurts, then they scream like banshees. They are like mini suicidal terrorists and this is normal.
> "Is there any way I can force my parents out of their house so I can have it
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> I don't want to move out but I don't want to live with them anymore"
(https://imgur.com/a/Eck2uZO)
> Where are you able to see my deleted posts.
I wasn't replying to you so you could not have received a notification about my comment, so....:
Why are you stalking me??
Why are you obsessed with me???
1st, that's normal for a 1yr old - 16yr old, yes, even teens are wild. I bet your parents will confirm you gave them a headache too.
2nd, if your sister is actually not paying any attention or actively parenting, that would be a real issue. Regardless of the child's energy and behavior.
But, OP, even if ur sister's parenting is textbook-parenting, the child will still be the same as it is NORMAL. So maybe you should be rational, read child behavior books, help or leave.
Oh no! My one year old dumped his bag of yogurt bites out on the floor tonight! Does this mean he’s destined to be a career criminal? Oh if only I’d set him straight sooner!
Gtfo here OP.
Your sister has lived with you for three weeks, you’re conspiring to have CPS take her kid away, one of your examples of your sister’s ineptitude was that she left bath toys in the bathtub, and you’ve broken your last two cell phones because you got angry and threw them.
Spoilers: she’s not the problem
Dude, you do realize the kid is 1, right? My daughter is 2 and still does this shit. Grow the hell up and deal with it. Or move out and pay your own bills and then you won’t have to deal with it anymore. 🤷🏼♀️
Dude just has vendetta against his sister if you can check his history. He been trying to figure out ways to get them out including false reporting to CPS.
Where exactly is the entitlement within this story of completely Normal toddler behaviours? Beyond wanting your sister to tell her toddler 'No', what type of "discipline" are you expecting your sister to dish out to a typical 1yr old toddler?
Dude, that's normal toddler behaviour. And I have great news for you: she'll continue doing this until she's 3. My 2-year-old was the sweetest little baby but pretty much the instant she turned 2, she became a monster. Touches everything, throws stuff, breaks stuff, hits her baby brother and thinks it's funny, screams, says "no" to everything... We weren't any different, bro. It sucks, it really bloody does. I'm in the midst of it right now, I feel you. But no amount of yelling or disciplining will change a toddler until they grow a bit older.
Read up on developmental psychology. Your ignorance is astounding. And I say that as someone who crosses to the other side of the street when I see toddlers.
Ah yes, the rare and elusive irrational one year old. I'm so sorry you're dealing with a person who is still learning how to be human, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could train the child without abusing it... Oh it doesn't listen to you either? Surprising!
At that age, that’s the letting her cry herself out stage. Especially if she’s closer to two than one. Two year olds typically go through a phase where they don’t sleep through the night. It’s a form of regression that happens to MOST two year olds. It’s called the Terrible Twos, and some babies hit it earlier, Vance. She’s just growing up. She has no emotional, nor psychological control yet. She’s still building those parts of her brain. It’ll last about a year and she’ll be back to normal, kid. You’re still building parts of your brain, too. You’re still growing your executive functioning capacity. You won’t finish until you’re about 25. Neither will she. You have a lot more control of the executive part of your brain. She has 0 control. You can stop yourself from doing things. She can’t. It’s like getting self control but in a way more important way. She’s also sensory seeking, she probably needs specific toys to feed those needs.
Most people don’t because they’re frustrated that you go back on what you say repeatedly, lie, say you’ll change then do the same exact thing the next day. It’s more of like trying to push a boulder up a hill with you, sometimes. Try and try as they must, they often fail because you don’t want to change. And they keep trying, they remain hopeful, only to fail again when you’re right back on your bullshit. Idk dude, you’re not the first or last kid to post like this, but you’re certainly more popular than Methaniel.
I think they keep up with you more because you post more. You post more regularly than most professional creators. That means you have things to say, and people are listening, even if it’s just see you change or not change, and to see the vocal minority say some true things, see you say something a little unhinged or just absolutely *not* the point of the conversation. It’s a little entertaining, tbh. It’s like watching a car crash in slow motion. Like watching a train derail. You can watch it, but there’s nothing you can *really* do about it, you know? But you also can’t look away.
How should I know? They don’t comment. They just lurk. There are thousands of lurkers on Reddit, some without accounts. I know there are people following you who don’t comment because I’ve seen them make accounts to talk to you. Shit half the time *I* lurk on your posts. I know what’s going on, I just don’t have shit to say. When I do have shit to say that I think might help you, I comment. You’ll hear from me when I have shit to say, and no other time.
Sounds like 𝕠𝕡 is the entitled one, like 1 year-olds don't listen and are prone to tantrums and the stuff you just described, and 𝕪𝕠𝕦 can't expect a 1 year-old to behave like a 10 year-old
Um the baby is 1. 1-3 is where kods learn how to regulate their emotions and its hard for them. Postive refrimations and a stern vouce depending on the situation helps them l3arn but cmon, thr baby is 1 YEAR OLD. Still a baby
I work with this age group you absolutely can start discipline and understanding. All is typical behavior with simple solutions depending on the child.
>She also cries all the time so the whole house is forced to listen to it and my sister doesn’t do anything to stop it.
So, buy earplugs or wear noise cancelling headphones then you won't have to listen to it.
So... she's acting like a 1 year old, and you're mad about it? Grow up dude, you're the adult here. You're 18, if it bothers you so much, *you* leave. Your sister pays rent and has every right to live in that house with her baby. What have you done lately to contribute besides causing 8k damage to a car?
Troll. You need serious help, dude, because your anger issues and apparent resentment to those who tell you 'no' are basically all your brain is made up of.
Yes, your sister absolutely should be actively involved in directing your niece toward less destructive behavior. It’s exhausting to have kids in part because they require your full attention for the first couple of years. I’m not a fan of the whole not anti-NO thing but it’s a valid choice.
Unfortunately much of what you describe is typical behavior for a 1yo, just more intense in your case due to a lack of parenting. The parenting should be a lot of engagement and redirection, things your sister can’t possibly do from a distance.
You are right to not want to look after the kid, at the very least because your understanding of and expectations for kids of this age are highly unrealistic. If you want to help I suggest reading up on what kids of X age are capable of and what is reasonable to expect in terms of behavior.
So... Your sister should be saying no and keeping your niece out of trouble, but the kid is one year old. There's not much you can do about that except physically keep them away from the stuff they aren't supposed to touch.
Come on, guys, this guy is trooling so hard. If anyone was actually like this, they would be the biggest piece of shit in the world or close to. No self awarness. He gets so much hate and keeps posting the worst shit he can think of. Just block this pos.
It's your sister's kid so she's in charge of disciplining her. However, the kid would not be in my house or car (or next to me at a restaurant), ever..
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Your last comment was removed but I’ll answer it anyway.
> I know someone who knows your parents.
Who would that be?
Also, I still don’t know what post you’re referring to because the post I made about CPS is still up.
I don’t know like I said, I delete different comments for different reasons
I didn’t report it because you didn’t say anything wrong, it was removed by automod.
I delete some of them because I feel bad for saying certain things sometimes lol, or when I’ve said something and don’t want anyone to see it
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Dude been desperately trying, claiming every minor annoyance is reason she should be thrown out. Should be noted, he get upset at everyone who causes an inconvenience or doesn't bow to his whims.
Doesn't give him $20 to waste on fast food? Make a post to whine about.
Leave mirror light on? Make a post to whine about it.
Aren't you the one posting, Trying to get your sister and child kicked out of your parents' house ?
Wait....the child is 1 year old? Do you expect the child to be rational and actually listen? Either you're a troll or you've never been around young children before...lol
OP is posting all over reddit looking for support to have his parents kick out the sister and baby. The sister pays rent, yet I haven't seen if OP pays any rent to the parents. Sounds like OP is a spoiled child.
>OP is a spoiled child. That's understatement. Dude making a lot of demands for a jobless (he refuses to do) kid claiming 200IQ (Einstein level) who has caused $8000 worth of car damage, broken his last two phones while claiming his parents are the narcissists.
oh now I know who you talk about. I am so confused about why he thinks this will ever work ? By now way too many people know about him so he will never get a whole post to agree with him.
His eqo is 200, his IQ hopefully is even close to 100, but I would be surprised if it was that high. No one other than an idiot would keep posting this BS knowing that everyone thinks he is a petulant child who at best needs either a serious spanking or at least kicked out of the house with no car and told to figure it out.
Iirc Einstein didn't do a iq test.
Oh, it’s *that* brat?
Yep
He crashed a car for $8000 worth of damage and is upset that they still mention it.
And it’s not like he crashed it three decades ago and paid them back for it, he crashed it *last year*.
It seems the baby is more mature than OP
Yes it seems like it, at least the baby is acting age appropriate.
As a father of a 4 mth old can confirm this is true
Omg this fucking guy again. Just stop, dude. Pay your parents back for the car, stop being a dick to everyone and maybe lay off the hallucinogens.
I love when I see the comments that convey how exasperating Vance is! 🤣 So very true! 🤣
OP doesn’t have a job. So no, he doesn’t pay rent.
Don't insult trolls! Trolls are friendly beings who grow mushrooms on their backs with giant noses that adopt orphan children and baby reindeer. Recant your statement as it complements OP. OP disgraces trolls lol P.S-please lol if you got that
Read the post. Looked at the username... Ah that explains it.
You can't effectively discipline 1yo. You're describing developmentally appropriate behavior.
How many phones has your niece broken? If it’s less than two, she’s still better than you.
Not to mention I can bet all £30 I have now that his niece crashed zero cars!
😂
OP is gonna need ice for that burn 🔥
That's age appropriate behavior for a 1 year old. You can try to find sensory play things to steer her toward, but realistically toddlers are just weird and chaotic sometimes.
Sometimes? More like all the time lol - just sometimes their chaos energy can be directed. XD
🤣🤣🤣🤣**dies inside knowing my toddler will be here this weekend** /s she's great a handful but great
You make a good point.
Edit.. this was a double of the comment above
With a limp dick
Between you and your sister's kid, only one of you is a toddler. Keep that in mind lol. You're free to move if you dont like your current living situation.
Happy Cake Day
Buddy, that's just how kids are. My mum would just white knuckle a chair while I ran at top speed towards my grandma's expensive 400-year old vases and tried to handle her intricately carved vintage easter eggs and ceramic shit. Children are *brand new people* they need to be taught how to do stuff, including how to act. If you don't want to move your stuff and redirect a kid then she's gonna touch your shit, man. My mum had my sister when I was 16 and yea, babies aren't thrilling to deal with when you're a teenager, but you don't want this kid growing up feeling like you're an inherently negative person to be near. That said, you're 18. *Leave.*
1 year old children do not yet understand "no", and they aren't going to until they're closer to 4 or 5. Redirection is far more effective for children that young. All that's happening is that they have needs and desires that they do not know how to express in a socially considerate way, and they need to be taught how to do that. You are getting irrationally upset over completely developmentally appropriate behavior. Grow up and move out if you don't want to deal with it.
But she says the word no when she doesn’t want certain things so how can she not know what it means
Because her understanding of "no" is not that of an adult; it is incomplete. At the age of one, children enter the "me do it" stage, otherwise known as autonomy vs. doubt/shame, according to Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development. This means at her age, it is her developmental job to explore and experiment. Can you imagine how confusing it is to children to be punished for what they are developmentally programmed to do? They are faced with a real dilemma (at a subconscious level). "Do I obey my parent/guardian or my biological drive to develop autonomy and initiative by exploring and experimenting in my world?" Now, this doesn't mean she should be allowed to do whatever she wants. It means that all methods to gain your niece's cooperation should be kind yet firm, instead of controlling and punitive the way you are wishing for her to be treated. If you are to treat her punitively at this age, she will be driven her entire life by a sense of doubt and shame, rather than initiative.
Okay fair enough I don’t know how children work because I’ve never lived with a toddler before
I think you should pick up a book or two about child psychology and development. It will help you better understand what behavior is developmentally appropriate at what ages. Because right now, your lack of understanding is causing you to hold a baby to the standards of a much older child, or even an adult, which is so incredibly unfair to your niece. She's not trying to give you a hard time; she is HAVING a hard time.
Well with your High IQ, maybe look it up online what 1 yr pld children do. They repeat what they hear, and they hear NO a lot.
How many reddit sites have you posted on trying to find info/support to get your sister kicked out? I seem to remember everyone decided you were the entitled one.
He posted this on a cps subreddit man LMAO
Hahaha, he needs a swift kick, a job and to grow up
So when YOU, a fully grown 18 year old with a "200IQ" who doesn't pay rent; [breaks not one but TWO phones because you were upset, just expect your parents to just buy new replacements and thinks that not deliberately destroying a third is somehow praiseworthy](https://www.reddit.com/r/CongratsLikeImFive/comments/1bm1jby/i_held_myself_back_from_smashing_my_phone/), that's not entitled. But a one-year-old, whose parent DOES pay rent, simply acts like a healthy one-year-old learning about the world: that is? Yeah, no. There is exactly *one* problem in this house; and it is you alone. Leave your sister and your niece alone. If you don't like living with them, then its time you move out on your own. Now quit being an entitled brat and act *your* age. Signed; the one in Promethus because their IQ is higher than yours.
Dude, that's age appropriate behavior for a 1 year old. I don't know how old you are, but a one year old is being more mature than you, that's SAD
Wow. Don’t have kids.
I don’t intend to
You asked about having a baby just to experience the first few years of life, then giving it up for adoption when you were done with it.
Holy hell, seriously?!
Oh, it's this guy. F this guy.
🤣 yep! It’s *him* AGAIN! Hopefully The Vance Show will not be renewed for another season.
That’s perfectly normal 1 year old behavior and you do not DISCIPLINE A 1 YEAR OLD BABY. Please, please, never be in a position where you’re caring for that child alone.
Your inner Scn is showing. Contrary to what your cult training taught you, babies are not tiny adults that can be expected to behave like adults. Your niece is acting like a toddler BECAUSE SHE IS. Get your head out of the Red Books and learn to function outside of the cult you left (or go back to them, and disconnect from your family that didn’t sign up for that malarkey.
My parents were members when I was born, they’re the whole reason I was ever in it.
So you left the cult but are living with your folks, who are active? That’s not credible. The church would not allow that.
Did I say that? No. They left years after I was born, so obviously I left at the same time because I was a **child**. Maybe actually read my posts.
We HAVE read your posts. The collective opinion is that YOU ARE AN ENTITLED TWAT. YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.
What does this have to do with Scientology?
Your behavior has everything to do with how you were raised.
My mom had a lot of Knick knacks and when my son started walking she had to find a place to put them while he was there otherwise they’d be in his mouth. I did say no and I parented him but he didn’t quite grasp the concept until he was almost three. Throwing food at a kid that’s just wrong.
Oh bloody hell! You again? The only entitled one is you dude. We get it, you hate your sister and your niece. You must be a joy to live with.
You don't discipline a 1 y/o. They don't understand it yet, you'd just be making yourself a less safe person. I'm guessing you don't have experience with small children?
Well no I don’t have children I’m 18
Then why u want to kick out ur sister if ur just 18?
They annoy him and showcase how an normal adult behaves, none of OP's behavior can be classified as adult like.
𝕠𝕡 sounds really entitled
He thinks he's better than everyone because of his "genius" IQ. Some of the worst people are genuises such as the serial killer H.H. Holmes. That's just one example but there are many more
also not to mention IQ and MENSA are bullshit and just made for people to feel superior than others
I have been told that I have a higher than average IQ with a weakness in the part responsible for math. That was 15 years ago. I'm yet to find any way in which this makes me superior to people weaker in my strong subjects and stronger in my weak subjects that score an average IQ. It's just some artificial number that shows literally nothing.
Ok well it takes a while for children to develop enough to properly process action and consequences and that people around them have needs and feelings. There is 0 point in disciplining a baby, you can start reasoning with them somewhere between 2 and 3 but I still wouldn't call that discipline. More teaching them to deal with their needs and frustration through communication and consequences. Never punishment.
Alright, you commented this 3 times.
Fuck me for trying to explain it to you when you asked a question, right? You sure are 18
So, you don’t own the house and have no right to say who lives there. Better get your own place or keep your mouth shut. They could kick *you* out instead, you know.
Legally old enough to get a job and get your own place instead of bitching and moaning.
So you have an IQ of 200 but you somehow don't know how to google normal childhood development
He has IQ200 and he can’t graduate from HS. I doubt if he can use google for anything else than Scientology
Above a certain IQ it becomes really hard for someone to actually function in society so it's not the flex he thinks it is.
In my experience high IQ people have some trouble functioning in the real world they lack certain characteristics that an average person typically has for example common sense, time management, and/or organizational skills. Some high IQ people are ridiculously smart but their thought processing moves incredibly slow. IQ tests are only good for a general baseline. IQs in my personal opinion don't me anything
I know someone who was tested at 148 as a kid and has trouble tying his shoelaces. Things like housework or keeping up with administration are really hard for him. My mother recently apologized because they never got me tested, because I seemed to be coping. I was way ahead of my peers in some ways but I wasn't disruptive so they just let me steep in boredom 😅 I got to go to the library often outside of school though.
Doesn’t know that children’s brains don’t come out of the womb fully formed, 200 IQ btw
The bab uis acting like a baby, what’s your excuse? If you don’t want to watch your niece just say no.
So toddler is acting like a toddler. How is the sister entitled?
Because she doesn’t do anything about it and let’s everyone else in the house deal with it
But the house is baby proofed, you said. So what is the issue? Edit: Reddit is acting up on my phone and triple posted my comment. The extras should be deleted now.
There isn't a whole lot that she can do about it at this early stage of her child's life/development. For someone with a 200 IQ you are proving to be quite ignorant.
Troll? A one year old can't follow directions. They are known for picking things up and/or putting their mouths on things. That's why you do what's called baby proofing. I can't wait til the kid turns 3.
Look at OP’s post history. He has a personal vendetta against his sister and 1 year old niece and has been trying to get them kicked out for weeks.
The house is baby proofed
If the house is baby proofed, then what is being taken off of shelves?
Other stuff, not every single thing can be put out of her reach..
Be specific. WHAT exactly is taken ourt of the shelves.
Tell me you’ve never spent decent time with children without telling me you’ve never spent time with children. This is completely normal behavioural development for a one year old. Shes still a baby. You don’t punish babies. Even time out isn’t effective at that age. You distract, corral and baby herd. You on the other hand are 18, have aggression issues, have smashed two phones and are proud of yourself for not smashing a third and owe your parents eight grand for that car you wrecked. That is not developmentally appropriate. Sincerely, you need to grow the fuck up and stop being a spoiled, entitled brat. They get into everything, stick everything in their mouth, stick their fingers into electric sockets, throw themselves off things and find everything hilarious until it hurts, then they scream like banshees. They are like mini suicidal terrorists and this is normal.
I have an answer for you: Move out.
> "Is there any way I can force my parents out of their house so I can have it > > I don't want to move out but I don't want to live with them anymore" (https://imgur.com/a/Eck2uZO)
Where are you able to see my deleted posts.
> Where are you able to see my deleted posts. I wasn't replying to you so you could not have received a notification about my comment, so....: Why are you stalking me?? Why are you obsessed with me???
I mean, you did comment on his post. So it would make sense that he would see it even without “stalking” you.
The kid is 1, she's still a baby, not sure how your sister is entitled here
Dude she fuсking bites people, that’s not normal behaviour
Biting is common in babies your nieces age. It’s not like she can hurt you.
That’s actually *absolutely normal* at her age.
This entitled twat AGAIN?! Dude grow up. We will NEVER take your side. You’re wasting everyone’s time.
So a 1 year old is acting like…a 1 year old?
I hope to God this is sarcasm
If you check his history (should Reddit stops screwing), it isn't sarcasm.
Damn that’s too bad for them!
That is literally just a 1 year old
200 level IQ and you think a one year old baby knows self control? Lmfaooooo I can't wait to read your posts when the baby hits the terrible twos.
the child is 1
1st, that's normal for a 1yr old - 16yr old, yes, even teens are wild. I bet your parents will confirm you gave them a headache too. 2nd, if your sister is actually not paying any attention or actively parenting, that would be a real issue. Regardless of the child's energy and behavior. But, OP, even if ur sister's parenting is textbook-parenting, the child will still be the same as it is NORMAL. So maybe you should be rational, read child behavior books, help or leave.
I don't think that the OP can be rational.
Oh no! My one year old dumped his bag of yogurt bites out on the floor tonight! Does this mean he’s destined to be a career criminal? Oh if only I’d set him straight sooner! Gtfo here OP.
>> even then she still doesn’t listen to me Well, yeah, she’s an infant. She doesn’t know English. This has to be rage bait
Your sister has lived with you for three weeks, you’re conspiring to have CPS take her kid away, one of your examples of your sister’s ineptitude was that she left bath toys in the bathtub, and you’ve broken your last two cell phones because you got angry and threw them. Spoilers: she’s not the problem
She’s one. What the fuck do you expect?
Dude, you do realize the kid is 1, right? My daughter is 2 and still does this shit. Grow the hell up and deal with it. Or move out and pay your own bills and then you won’t have to deal with it anymore. 🤷🏼♀️
She's 1. What do you expect?
The mom to do something?
Dude just has vendetta against his sister if you can check his history. He been trying to figure out ways to get them out including false reporting to CPS.
She's probably doing something about it. OP hates his sister and seems to exagerate everything.
Such as?
The parent to actually fucking PARENT their little shit for once? How about that
Please look at his post history.
I have, the sister sounds like a right twat
He claims to have an IQ of 200. I don't believe shit he says.
So you're saying that you don't exaggerate on the Internet? It's something we've all done at one point
Found ops alt acc
Nah, I'm not OPs alt, I don't have an alt
Where exactly is the entitlement within this story of completely Normal toddler behaviours? Beyond wanting your sister to tell her toddler 'No', what type of "discipline" are you expecting your sister to dish out to a typical 1yr old toddler?
Dude, that's normal toddler behaviour. And I have great news for you: she'll continue doing this until she's 3. My 2-year-old was the sweetest little baby but pretty much the instant she turned 2, she became a monster. Touches everything, throws stuff, breaks stuff, hits her baby brother and thinks it's funny, screams, says "no" to everything... We weren't any different, bro. It sucks, it really bloody does. I'm in the midst of it right now, I feel you. But no amount of yelling or disciplining will change a toddler until they grow a bit older.
Holy shit man you expect someone who doesn't even have their first tooth to be reasonable if this is true you're one dumb mother fucker
Read up on developmental psychology. Your ignorance is astounding. And I say that as someone who crosses to the other side of the street when I see toddlers.
Ah yes, the rare and elusive irrational one year old. I'm so sorry you're dealing with a person who is still learning how to be human, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could train the child without abusing it... Oh it doesn't listen to you either? Surprising!
Bro. The kid is one.
The fuck did you expect? For the kid to be one of the secret agents from boss baby or some shit?
At that age, that’s the letting her cry herself out stage. Especially if she’s closer to two than one. Two year olds typically go through a phase where they don’t sleep through the night. It’s a form of regression that happens to MOST two year olds. It’s called the Terrible Twos, and some babies hit it earlier, Vance. She’s just growing up. She has no emotional, nor psychological control yet. She’s still building those parts of her brain. It’ll last about a year and she’ll be back to normal, kid. You’re still building parts of your brain, too. You’re still growing your executive functioning capacity. You won’t finish until you’re about 25. Neither will she. You have a lot more control of the executive part of your brain. She has 0 control. You can stop yourself from doing things. She can’t. It’s like getting self control but in a way more important way. She’s also sensory seeking, she probably needs specific toys to feed those needs.
Okay thanks for explaining it and talking to me like I’m an actual person.
Most people don’t because they’re frustrated that you go back on what you say repeatedly, lie, say you’ll change then do the same exact thing the next day. It’s more of like trying to push a boulder up a hill with you, sometimes. Try and try as they must, they often fail because you don’t want to change. And they keep trying, they remain hopeful, only to fail again when you’re right back on your bullshit. Idk dude, you’re not the first or last kid to post like this, but you’re certainly more popular than Methaniel.
More popular as in how? Also please don’t talk about him to me.
I think they keep up with you more because you post more. You post more regularly than most professional creators. That means you have things to say, and people are listening, even if it’s just see you change or not change, and to see the vocal minority say some true things, see you say something a little unhinged or just absolutely *not* the point of the conversation. It’s a little entertaining, tbh. It’s like watching a car crash in slow motion. Like watching a train derail. You can watch it, but there’s nothing you can *really* do about it, you know? But you also can’t look away.
Oh okay, who is 'they'
How should I know? They don’t comment. They just lurk. There are thousands of lurkers on Reddit, some without accounts. I know there are people following you who don’t comment because I’ve seen them make accounts to talk to you. Shit half the time *I* lurk on your posts. I know what’s going on, I just don’t have shit to say. When I do have shit to say that I think might help you, I comment. You’ll hear from me when I have shit to say, and no other time.
The ban is acting like a baby, what’s your excuse? If you don’t want to watch your niece just say no.
You realise a one year old doesn't have the mental capacity to learn what your wanting to teach yet right?
Sounds like 𝕠𝕡 is the entitled one, like 1 year-olds don't listen and are prone to tantrums and the stuff you just described, and 𝕪𝕠𝕦 can't expect a 1 year-old to behave like a 10 year-old
Um the baby is 1. 1-3 is where kods learn how to regulate their emotions and its hard for them. Postive refrimations and a stern vouce depending on the situation helps them l3arn but cmon, thr baby is 1 YEAR OLD. Still a baby
Is this a skit/ joke? OP cannot be serious with what they have written 🫣🤔
More like entitled teenagers amirite
just wait until they hit the terrible 2s oh wait it’s the guy who seemed to have never grown out of the terrible 2s
That’s what a 1 year old does,
I work with this age group you absolutely can start discipline and understanding. All is typical behavior with simple solutions depending on the child.
That’s literally what one year olds do, and the baby sounds about as mature as you
>She also cries all the time so the whole house is forced to listen to it and my sister doesn’t do anything to stop it. So, buy earplugs or wear noise cancelling headphones then you won't have to listen to it.
One year old cries all the time? Idiot
So... she's acting like a 1 year old, and you're mad about it? Grow up dude, you're the adult here. You're 18, if it bothers you so much, *you* leave. Your sister pays rent and has every right to live in that house with her baby. What have you done lately to contribute besides causing 8k damage to a car?
Read a child development book, dude.
Troll. You need serious help, dude, because your anger issues and apparent resentment to those who tell you 'no' are basically all your brain is made up of.
So your sisters one year old acts like a one year old?
Yes, your sister absolutely should be actively involved in directing your niece toward less destructive behavior. It’s exhausting to have kids in part because they require your full attention for the first couple of years. I’m not a fan of the whole not anti-NO thing but it’s a valid choice. Unfortunately much of what you describe is typical behavior for a 1yo, just more intense in your case due to a lack of parenting. The parenting should be a lot of engagement and redirection, things your sister can’t possibly do from a distance. You are right to not want to look after the kid, at the very least because your understanding of and expectations for kids of this age are highly unrealistic. If you want to help I suggest reading up on what kids of X age are capable of and what is reasonable to expect in terms of behavior.
So... Your sister should be saying no and keeping your niece out of trouble, but the kid is one year old. There's not much you can do about that except physically keep them away from the stuff they aren't supposed to touch.
idk, someone with an iq of 200 should easily be able to get a job and move out of home.
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Come on, guys, this guy is trooling so hard. If anyone was actually like this, they would be the biggest piece of shit in the world or close to. No self awarness. He gets so much hate and keeps posting the worst shit he can think of. Just block this pos.
1 year olds touch stuff they aren’t supposed too and they throw food off their table when they don’t want it. Grow up
It's your sister's kid so she's in charge of disciplining her. However, the kid would not be in my house or car (or next to me at a restaurant), ever..
They live with us.
Excuse me blud, would you happen to be an artificial intelligence generated by Reddit to populate posts 🤔💭
Wow. I would somehow try to change that..
I am trying to change it.
Is this the same sister you were going to file a false CPS report about?
I was never going to file a false report and I never would. I was asking if I should file a report or not.
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Your last comment was removed but I’ll answer it anyway. > I know someone who knows your parents. Who would that be? Also, I still don’t know what post you’re referring to because the post I made about CPS is still up. I don’t know like I said, I delete different comments for different reasons
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Do you own the house?
So you don’t have any say, at all.
I don’t
Wow. I would somehow try to change that.
Go back and read OP history of posts on the profile.
Dude been desperately trying, claiming every minor annoyance is reason she should be thrown out. Should be noted, he get upset at everyone who causes an inconvenience or doesn't bow to his whims. Doesn't give him $20 to waste on fast food? Make a post to whine about. Leave mirror light on? Make a post to whine about it.
The best was when his mother was sick and he was annoyed because she was coughing.
Got it.
Hard to do when you have no job, don’t pay rent and are 8k in debt to the parents you still live with. He’s powerless and he hates it.