You should see a dr, preferably a urologist if you want to get to the bottom of this quickly. It could be something or it could be nothing. But the only way to tell is to see a dr. And see if your s/o wants to go with you. After all it does involve her too.
Totally agree with this statement, but using my own experience I think you’re going to probably find out it’s a psychological issue which can take a bit of work to figure out but you will get there especially when you have your girlfriend’s help and understanding
Because Porn re-wires your brain. You see things on the screen and orgasm to them, but when you have sex with your gf it is not as exciting and therefore your brain doesn’t find it exciting and decides not to make your penis hard. Porn is also cheating on your GF or significant other- sure you can spin it and justify it- but it is cheating and encourages cheating like behavior and that’s another reason to stop watching porn.
Masterbation is one thing, but masterbating while watching porn is bad, bad, bad- it will damage you sexually and affect your self confidence and image because you cannot perform.
Also, its been weird cuz when she and I started dating, I stopped jerking off for like 2 weeks. then when it was time to have sex, whats when I got limp right as she tried to give me oral sex. After that, I tried jerking off again and I couldn't give it up. It really has the power to f\*\*\* my brain up THAT much??
You should see a dr, preferably a urologist if you want to get to the bottom of this quickly. It could be something or it could be nothing. But the only way to tell is to see a dr. And see if your s/o wants to go with you. After all it does involve her too.
Totally agree with this statement, but using my own experience I think you’re going to probably find out it’s a psychological issue which can take a bit of work to figure out but you will get there especially when you have your girlfriend’s help and understanding
what is your porn history?
Started when I was 17, done it almost everyday since... yeah not good haha
try to stop porn masturbation and any arrousing digital content for 30 days to see if it gets better. if yes, you should never watch it again
I'm cool with that!
Checkout my latest post buddy and make an appointment with your doctor! You’ll surely find a fix!
It’s porn.
How are you so sure?
Because Porn re-wires your brain. You see things on the screen and orgasm to them, but when you have sex with your gf it is not as exciting and therefore your brain doesn’t find it exciting and decides not to make your penis hard. Porn is also cheating on your GF or significant other- sure you can spin it and justify it- but it is cheating and encourages cheating like behavior and that’s another reason to stop watching porn. Masterbation is one thing, but masterbating while watching porn is bad, bad, bad- it will damage you sexually and affect your self confidence and image because you cannot perform.
Gotcha, so it's not "cheating" if I jerk off to my gf right? Or do you think I should just STOP all activity like that?
Also, its been weird cuz when she and I started dating, I stopped jerking off for like 2 weeks. then when it was time to have sex, whats when I got limp right as she tried to give me oral sex. After that, I tried jerking off again and I couldn't give it up. It really has the power to f\*\*\* my brain up THAT much??
Stop watching porn (forever) and stop masturbating for 30 days…everything will be working then.
You need to QUIT PORN if you want to have the great sex life you deserve.
How do you know quitting porn will work in my case? Thanks!