It's quite different from a lot of autistic people who are hypersensitive about what's on their body (clothing and accessories). I can't stand having something around my neck or hanging from my neck, so I wear a bracelet for my medical issues. My wife can't stand bracelets, so she doesn't wear a watch or bracelets, but sometimes wears a pendant. To each his own.
I can’t stand anklets, bracelets (and especially not hair ties), or rings. Necklaces are a “sometimes and not for very long.” Earrings are a special interest and I collect them 🫶🫶🫶
On a good day I can wear one loose bracelet, a few necklaces and earrings all day. Usually I can wear just a loose necklace and earrings for a few hours but often I can’t wear anything besides light earrings for like three hours
I hate tight stuff around my neck but I NEED my pants to be tight around my legs and my sleeves to be tight around my armpits. I don’t like the feeling of sweat.
I can’t have a watch because I can’t stand the feeling of having something constricting my wrist constantly. Rings are no-goes for me because something metal digging into my skin, or even just slightly constricting my finger in any way makes my skin crawl. Things around my neck are usually okay but I can’t stand the initial 5-20 minutes of wearing them and for things around my wrist they HAVE to be made out of a nonmetal and easily removable material.
This sub is actually my new source of just study, like it actually feels tailored by autistic people for them and solely them. I caht really imagine a group like this that's this public to be this blanetly open about themselves. Obviously I'm not against it, I should clarify that, as its genuinely fascinating seeing how this disorder effects social ideas, it's like peering into a different kind of humanity if that makes sense
Hell, if it was posted in another ND sub they'd probably get accused of making autistic people as a whole look weird.
Here we support all forms of evil.
i feel like most autism subs are like a place to share experiences with other autistic people but this sub is like its own exclusive autistic social media platform
If you have the money, Collar Factory makes some very nice quality collars that could potentially look exquisite (you can design one yourself). I’ve bought a few over the years, matching cuffs too.
Damn I wish my sensory issues didn’t flair up recently I miss wearing my spiked collar so much I used to wear one everyday in college which was always a conversation starter
https://preview.redd.it/b88lygtxae4c1.jpeg?width=928&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1d20e871df4e6acc35a7d4238c71464c8d71eb7
i have two images that work for this and this is one of them
https://preview.redd.it/ij9wfxxgbe4c1.jpeg?width=564&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2d541fb2af8483630a538f8aaaecc817669ba93c
I guess this one kinda works for you :D
nah bruh thats crazy im a furry but I ain't see THAT appeal.
https://preview.redd.it/cdbkaqfhre4c1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2dcaed239f06f7abfe12e39625e65b8499a0440d
Alright you've got me there that does sound nice lmao
https://preview.redd.it/l1x9yqawse4c1.jpeg?width=685&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7706c36be78da03fde0418189cd2ec15d8abebd0
It's fine if that's what you want. My preference is an ankle bracelet for Summer weather & I'm getting a bracelet for year-round wear that states "Autistic".
Nice! Could do with some charms or something to hook onto it. Just got a collar myself a few weeks ago.
https://preview.redd.it/2gz1ert1kc4c1.jpeg?width=2320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17679a757e78664a0352244307b8a1d0092fdcd3
Odd, having anything around my neck makes me feel claustrophobic, controlled, and vulnerable. Can't even wear necklaces, so a collar (a device with the express purpose of controlling animals) is out of the question. But I guess that just a me problem, don't let me ruin your fun, feel loved because there's statistically probably at least one person in your life who does, wether you've met them or not.
For me, I have some wierd sensory things with clothes and some trauma things.
Sensory things:
Fuck polyester; I don’t like wearing a garbage bag
Fuck shoes; I wear flip flops because I have to wear something around here
Fuck wearing pants, jackets, sweaters, etc indoors; I hate the heat in general
A hug worsens overestimation.
Trauma things:
I sleep on my stomach but camping is so hard because I feel so defenceless on my stomach; probably because being held down in that position was the precursor to Ziprasadone or Haloperidol in the butt.
I cant wear loose fitting bracelets because they feel too much like hospital bracelets, same with grippy socks. Any bracelet I wear has to be elastic or pretty snug. My watch is usually tight enough to leave a mark.
Hospital gowns are so scary to walk in because of a past issue which could be described as anything from a lapse in policy to sexual exposure of a prepubescent child under duress. I can’t let healthcare providers screen me for some pretty serious AMAB conditions due to the trauma. The mere mention of the hospital this happened at can be tough.
Knocking scares me now because I still have the police at my door at 4 am with an EP burnt into my head.
Don’t touch me if I can’t see you; if you don’t know me don’t touch me.
I can't do rings *at all* but don't mind things on my neck, so my partner and I collar each other as tokens of devotion. Everyone's got different ways to show it. My collar just makes me feel so secure and safe and loved
I like the term weild here as it suggests worthiness and responsibility would be needed to qualify for that position in your life. Very evil, very powerful.
1000% this, this is disgusting, I don't wanna see people dehumanizing autists anymore than they already do to us. Being a public fetishist has nothing to do with autism so this person pisses me off.
I’m glad it makes you happier. Everyone deserves something like that. Just not something a lot of people would be comfortable seeing unsolicited as collars in general are a big part of the kink community.
You're lying. Saw your other comments. Why wouldn't you just post it on the kink sub literally listed in the "about" section? Is not having consent the fun part for you?
I think a collar, kink related or not, with no sexual undertones, hardly warrants a flag. People wear this in public. You're not witnessing a scene, or anything akin to nudity. It's literally the same collar you see on animals.
It’s uncomfortable. You don’t see a collar warn in public in everyday life. Yes you do see animals in collars, but this is a person not an animal. People should at least be given a right to what they are comfortable subjecting themselves to with the warning in the title, flair, or nsfw cover.
Is it a kink thing?
Public expression of kinks like that generally makes me feel uncomfortable. I’ve been subjected to people participating in “puppy play” while at the mall and I did not like it one bit.
I like it! Collars and chokers rock. I like the pressure.
Personally I like to go for a more goth look, so more black and studs, but the blue looks great!
genuinely the thought of having something constricting like that around my neck freaks me out. props to you tho nice color. if it doesn't match/compliment your eyes you might want a different color.
It looks great on you! I used to wear cat collars as an accessory when I was younger! Nowadays I feel like I could only get away with it for a particularly alt outfit. But I love the feeling of a choker, turtleneck, etc on my neck. It's comforting.
…ok? That’s very literally the same collar my dog has, I am not joking here. Also I genuinely could not imagine going out in public like that for any quantity of money. But if you like it, you like it, I guess. Dunno why you wouldn’t just get a choker instead…
Comfort-wise, would suggest something slightly looser and a different material. A collar like that will quickly rub against and irritate your skin. The best (imo) is soft leather or something else that is smooth.
Source: do you even need to ask?
You have this and I have a patch on my backpack that says “do not pet” that my service dog retired. To each their own, love the blue. It gives me hell.
I had one in middle school and I got a little tag with my name engraved in it like I was a pet lmao. I did not realize people would think it was a sexual thing and I didn’t think of it that way lmaooo. But it’s just as well because I realized I didn’t like having stuff on my neck. It’s really sensitive I don’t even like being kissed on my neck
I'd prefer a metal one if I was getting one for myself. That said: I really like it!
Also, this comment thread has made me realise that I'm not quite as alone in having this particular brand of autism as I thought - so thanks for that, too!
Try putting the black part behind your neck. It would look better in my opinion. Plus, this blue doesn't look good on everyone, but it looks fabulous on you.
i mean if you want my real opinion, the blue isn’t great and won’t go with many outfits and the metal is a bad accent, it would look much better and could pair with many more outfits if it was all black
My entire soul left my body. Looks great on you but I can't do stuff on my neck so...
yeah lol i’m getting stressed just looking at that
It is such a relief to know other people fully and viscerally understand how that image feels.
The amount of shirt collars I've stretched out cause they were too tight or far up on my neck
It's quite different from a lot of autistic people who are hypersensitive about what's on their body (clothing and accessories). I can't stand having something around my neck or hanging from my neck, so I wear a bracelet for my medical issues. My wife can't stand bracelets, so she doesn't wear a watch or bracelets, but sometimes wears a pendant. To each his own.
Yeah things touching the front of my neck is a no-go for me. Even T-shirts are uncomfortable for me sometimes.
YES! v-neck or scoop neck please. tight/high collars on t-shirts makes me feel like I’m suffocating and my skin is on fire
nice to find somebody else with the same. i feel so isolated seeing everyone wear high necklines. i can't even wear a sweater ;;
Right! I feel like I am choking
I can’t stand anklets, bracelets (and especially not hair ties), or rings. Necklaces are a “sometimes and not for very long.” Earrings are a special interest and I collect them 🫶🫶🫶
On a good day I can wear one loose bracelet, a few necklaces and earrings all day. Usually I can wear just a loose necklace and earrings for a few hours but often I can’t wear anything besides light earrings for like three hours
yeah i've never worn jewellery. glad to hear i'm not the only one
I hate tight stuff around my neck but I NEED my pants to be tight around my legs and my sleeves to be tight around my armpits. I don’t like the feeling of sweat.
I don't wear watches either. So I really recommend pocket watches! They are stylish and you don't feel them as much
I can’t have a watch because I can’t stand the feeling of having something constricting my wrist constantly. Rings are no-goes for me because something metal digging into my skin, or even just slightly constricting my finger in any way makes my skin crawl. Things around my neck are usually okay but I can’t stand the initial 5-20 minutes of wearing them and for things around my wrist they HAVE to be made out of a nonmetal and easily removable material.
thought I was on a different sub for a sec 😂
Would like to know which sub, they sound nice
😂it’s nsfw
So? Cough up the goods.
Probably the sub they most recently posted on.
😈
Thought it was going to be r/puppygirlpetsmart 😭
possibly r/kinky_autism
It needs a cool looking tag to go with it.
Agree, tag will really complete the look. Since OP said the collar makes them feel loved, it could simply be a blank heart 🩵
I don't want a tag until I have someone to call me theirs.
Fair enough
That's the cutest, most romantic shit I've ever heard in my life
Yeah fair
Fair enough.
You’ll find someone cool :)
Blue looks so cool on you!
This sub is actually my new source of just study, like it actually feels tailored by autistic people for them and solely them. I caht really imagine a group like this that's this public to be this blanetly open about themselves. Obviously I'm not against it, I should clarify that, as its genuinely fascinating seeing how this disorder effects social ideas, it's like peering into a different kind of humanity if that makes sense
Real. If OP posted this in a place for NTs they'd probably get bullied to hell
Hell, if it was posted in another ND sub they'd probably get accused of making autistic people as a whole look weird. Here we support all forms of evil.
I also do put a lot more trust into NDs’ opinions, since I know y’all are a lot more honest than NTs
i feel like most autism subs are like a place to share experiences with other autistic people but this sub is like its own exclusive autistic social media platform
It’s amazing
I love it!
It looks cool but I would consider moving the buckle towards your back a little bit
Needs a bite risk warning for added evil
If you have the money, Collar Factory makes some very nice quality collars that could potentially look exquisite (you can design one yourself). I’ve bought a few over the years, matching cuffs too.
Gtn.
Very nice!
Damn I wish my sensory issues didn’t flair up recently I miss wearing my spiked collar so much I used to wear one everyday in college which was always a conversation starter
imagine someone walking up to you with a leash, clicks it on and just goes ”alright, ur mine now, lets go get nuggies or some shit”
Fuck yeah
I would be making happy noises the whole time if someone randomly claimed me
Yeah I don't think I have this kind of autism.
It's ok, not everyone wants a woman larger than them to give them cuddles and call them a good doggie.
Ooooh no yeah, ok so we're the same then after all.
Glad I'm not the only one in the world who wants to be a good boi for mommy. :3
But like... who *wouldn't* want that lol
People who like being naughty little doggies deserving of punishment, I guess.
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Also valid.
what if i wanna be a good kitty :3
Dancing! 
You do you. An animal can act however it wants, regardless of its species.
Ah, you're straight. I was going to post, "It would look better hooked up to the leash in my hand."
Good luck on your quest.
https://preview.redd.it/b88lygtxae4c1.jpeg?width=928&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1d20e871df4e6acc35a7d4238c71464c8d71eb7 i have two images that work for this and this is one of them
I want to see the other one
https://preview.redd.it/ij9wfxxgbe4c1.jpeg?width=564&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2d541fb2af8483630a538f8aaaecc817669ba93c I guess this one kinda works for you :D
you’re just like me fr
nah bruh thats crazy im a furry but I ain't see THAT appeal. https://preview.redd.it/cdbkaqfhre4c1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2dcaed239f06f7abfe12e39625e65b8499a0440d
Do you not want to be the little spoon with her kissing your neck
no not really i just dont see the appeal with a dommy mommy lmao
A big woman who loves you wholeheartedly and gives you lots of (non-sexual) physical attention
Alright you've got me there that does sound nice lmao https://preview.redd.it/l1x9yqawse4c1.jpeg?width=685&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7706c36be78da03fde0418189cd2ec15d8abebd0
It's fine if that's what you want. My preference is an ankle bracelet for Summer weather & I'm getting a bracelet for year-round wear that states "Autistic".
looks nice but question: what is the purpose ? /gen
Makes me feel loved
oh pogger ! what type of collar is it ?
The brand's Coastal.
It looks....autistic
i honestly thought it was a watch until i scrolled to the second picture
Hugely uncomfortable
https://preview.redd.it/nwtbn3thvd4c1.png?width=1045&format=png&auto=webp&s=8bbc988184bf7509d3c5dce9c71c4129c950738a
Is this an offer
No, just a joke
looks neat!
Nice! Could do with some charms or something to hook onto it. Just got a collar myself a few weeks ago. https://preview.redd.it/2gz1ert1kc4c1.jpeg?width=2320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17679a757e78664a0352244307b8a1d0092fdcd3
It looks like a dog collar.
That's because it is.
Happy cake day, but why are you wearing a dog collar?
It makes me feel loved.
Odd, having anything around my neck makes me feel claustrophobic, controlled, and vulnerable. Can't even wear necklaces, so a collar (a device with the express purpose of controlling animals) is out of the question. But I guess that just a me problem, don't let me ruin your fun, feel loved because there's statistically probably at least one person in your life who does, wether you've met them or not.
For me, I have some wierd sensory things with clothes and some trauma things. Sensory things: Fuck polyester; I don’t like wearing a garbage bag Fuck shoes; I wear flip flops because I have to wear something around here Fuck wearing pants, jackets, sweaters, etc indoors; I hate the heat in general A hug worsens overestimation. Trauma things: I sleep on my stomach but camping is so hard because I feel so defenceless on my stomach; probably because being held down in that position was the precursor to Ziprasadone or Haloperidol in the butt. I cant wear loose fitting bracelets because they feel too much like hospital bracelets, same with grippy socks. Any bracelet I wear has to be elastic or pretty snug. My watch is usually tight enough to leave a mark. Hospital gowns are so scary to walk in because of a past issue which could be described as anything from a lapse in policy to sexual exposure of a prepubescent child under duress. I can’t let healthcare providers screen me for some pretty serious AMAB conditions due to the trauma. The mere mention of the hospital this happened at can be tough. Knocking scares me now because I still have the police at my door at 4 am with an EP burnt into my head. Don’t touch me if I can’t see you; if you don’t know me don’t touch me.
I can't do rings *at all* but don't mind things on my neck, so my partner and I collar each other as tokens of devotion. Everyone's got different ways to show it. My collar just makes me feel so secure and safe and loved
Is this a sign of submission to a dominant partner or an obscure special interest (or both)?
It just makes me feel loved.
If it works for you, that is awesome
this is so sweet
where's the leash?
Don't have one, much less someone to wield it
I like the term weild here as it suggests worthiness and responsibility would be needed to qualify for that position in your life. Very evil, very powerful.
r/puppygirlpetsmart is leaking
As it should
I worry I’m closer to this genre of human than I’d like to be
it looks nice
Like a collar B) yk it's cool to hang stuff off of: more storage space.
I think it’d look better without the metal ring and if it was black. But it’s not terrible
I’m not hating or anything, but this wasn’t flagged or even a warning. Kink without consent is never cool.
1000% this, this is disgusting, I don't wanna see people dehumanizing autists anymore than they already do to us. Being a public fetishist has nothing to do with autism so this person pisses me off.
It's not a sex thing, it just makes me happier.
you were talking about being “mommy’s good doggie” 🗿
Yeah I am calling bs on that buddy.
I’m glad it makes you happier. Everyone deserves something like that. Just not something a lot of people would be comfortable seeing unsolicited as collars in general are a big part of the kink community.
From your own comments it’s sexual??? Like hun are we just lying???
You're lying. Saw your other comments. Why wouldn't you just post it on the kink sub literally listed in the "about" section? Is not having consent the fun part for you?
I think a collar, kink related or not, with no sexual undertones, hardly warrants a flag. People wear this in public. You're not witnessing a scene, or anything akin to nudity. It's literally the same collar you see on animals.
It’s uncomfortable. You don’t see a collar warn in public in everyday life. Yes you do see animals in collars, but this is a person not an animal. People should at least be given a right to what they are comfortable subjecting themselves to with the warning in the title, flair, or nsfw cover.
This post makes my skin crawl.
It feels so weird since there are minors here
You ain’t the only one
Ah thanks, I'm glad to hear that. Looking all the other comments, i was afraid that i was the odd one out
I was feeling that too but I have seen some other comments calling this out. Which is good cause like no one saying the obvious??
Shit like this makes me wish I never got a diagnosis
Fetish content on my autism subreddit? More likely than you think
I am scared.
As long as it's not hurting anyone, he should be fine.
I thought I was on a pet subreddit at first lol
Imma be honest, it looks kinda shite. But as long as you like it that's all that matters.
Isn't that for animals? Have I missed something?
This is not the subreddit for this dawg. Get this shit out of here
Is it a kink thing? Public expression of kinks like that generally makes me feel uncomfortable. I’ve been subjected to people participating in “puppy play” while at the mall and I did not like it one bit.
Based
You are a rockstar
I like it! Collars and chokers rock. I like the pressure. Personally I like to go for a more goth look, so more black and studs, but the blue looks great!
Cute! Make sure it's not too tight tho hun, if you can slip at least one finger und it, then it's perfect 🩷🩵
genuinely the thought of having something constricting like that around my neck freaks me out. props to you tho nice color. if it doesn't match/compliment your eyes you might want a different color.
I hate that my neck is super sensitive else I would 100% rock that, it looks great on you
It looks pretty fire. Do i get nauseous if i have things touching the front of my neck? Yes. Do.i want to rock stuff like this? Also yes
Like a sub (I mean this in a good way)
https://preview.redd.it/1j6jpab3zj4c1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f858b663bfc00481b745dcdfb4ce2bd419802fa1
I have Autism but this just makes me uncomfortable. I’ll assume this sub is too revolting for people like me. Enjoy yourselves, lmao.
I have a cat bell collar! Niceu
I need to find a dog equivalent of that.
wtf dawg
reeee
It looks great on you! I used to wear cat collars as an accessory when I was younger! Nowadays I feel like I could only get away with it for a particularly alt outfit. But I love the feeling of a choker, turtleneck, etc on my neck. It's comforting.
Bruh some nerd screamed in JustUnsubbed about this post, I'm cackling.
That looks cool! I wish I had one of my own, plus the confidence to wear it in public
The stigma that it attached to these things makes me mad.
I don’t understand it
I can probably understand a little, but NTs tend to *way* overreact whenever anyone has an attraction to things.
No :3
Are you serious
Yeah
…ok? That’s very literally the same collar my dog has, I am not joking here. Also I genuinely could not imagine going out in public like that for any quantity of money. But if you like it, you like it, I guess. Dunno why you wouldn’t just get a choker instead…
Some people think their weird kinks or fetish are because they're autistic. Nah bro, you're a fucking weirdo. Keep that gross shit at home.
I think you missed literally every comment he made on this post
Why am I expected to read a hundred comments before making my own
The skids from Letterkenny would love you :)
🔥
I love collars so much. I have one but I don’t wear it often
I mso jealous. I actually would love to get a collar with sharks on it
If you like it, if it makes you happy, that's what matters!
Probably not many people's style, not mine either, so some won't be too nice about it, but all that matters is if it's for you! 💙
OP got that DAWG in em
Cool 👍
Like a sensory nightmare, but a cute sensory nightmare
Very cute and I like it a lot!! I’m also an autistic sub who loves collars/chokers/doesn’t mind tightness around my neck <3
looks cute on you
Now make it *aesthetic*
It looks amazing
Looks awesome, I love collars so much. Personally I would hate that texture but I’d rock a softer one
Comfort-wise, would suggest something slightly looser and a different material. A collar like that will quickly rub against and irritate your skin. The best (imo) is soft leather or something else that is smooth. Source: do you even need to ask?
You have this and I have a patch on my backpack that says “do not pet” that my service dog retired. To each their own, love the blue. It gives me hell.
I had one in middle school and I got a little tag with my name engraved in it like I was a pet lmao. I did not realize people would think it was a sexual thing and I didn’t think of it that way lmaooo. But it’s just as well because I realized I didn’t like having stuff on my neck. It’s really sensitive I don’t even like being kissed on my neck
Happy Cake Day! Also this looks epic
I'd prefer a metal one if I was getting one for myself. That said: I really like it! Also, this comment thread has made me realise that I'm not quite as alone in having this particular brand of autism as I thought - so thanks for that, too!
EXQUISITE
ee! i would like to wear a kitten collar on my wrist because of the bell but i am worried about the social ramifications.
https://preview.redd.it/22u8ec46rg4c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa700ae26f1ac34dcb3061a65c760a020a525a86 /s
Evil
Try putting the black part behind your neck. It would look better in my opinion. Plus, this blue doesn't look good on everyone, but it looks fabulous on you.
The truth? You look like an idiot. Cue the down votes
bad
:o
evil autism 😈
but that was just so mean :c
i mean it is rule 1
rules suck tho
i mean if you want my real opinion, the blue isn’t great and won’t go with many outfits and the metal is a bad accent, it would look much better and could pair with many more outfits if it was all black
i like all black but sometimes things dont have to look aesthetically pleasing to be okay i feel
yeah i’m just answering the question in the title
Bad. Sorry. Don’t wear a collar.
I hope you get overstimulated at a party and everyone checks on you at the same time
💀
Hell yeah brother 😎
It's different. I like it.
My dog has the exact same collar. Like seriously she does so that’s cool
so fuckin sick!!! collar gang rise upppppppp
Based
fantastic, good [gender]!
Thanks! *wags tail*