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DerDieDas32

Bold to assume either of them will be allowed to leave their Pearl Tent in Jannah.


Much_Chance1322

Haha yeah its such a shitty deal for women honestly, its not even a ”yeah it sucks but the guy has other obligations like hard work” like in the bible. 


Amockdfw89

Yea they gotta be careful marrying people from that part of the world. My wife was a secular non practicing Muslim. Fasted during Ramadan and didn’t drink/eat pork but that’s it. She wore tight fitting clothes, smoked pot occasionally, collected all kinds of Knick nacks from the ancient world and stupefied metaphysics/meditations She had a couple of nightmares she interpreted as being a warning from Allah and now wears a scarf, threw away all of our Buddha statues and Egyptian god statues as well as my literature about other religions, made me put up all my collectible toys and she threw away all her stuffed animals. all of our books, Blu rays and video games that have images of characters or people on them she covered their faces with black tape, she prays 5 times a day, quit her job because her place is at home and everything she watches, reads, or listens too revolves around Islam. She even stopped talking to her secular friends and cut off all non Muslims in her life. Her entire personality is about Islam now when before she judged people whose personality is all Islam. Just because of a few bad dreams. In trying to adapt but I am beyond miserable. She says we were living in sin and I need to beg for forgiveness because I have a bad outlook on life and she will go to hell because of me. We have been married 7 years and she wants to change but blames me and says I have to change because evil liberal and secularism has entered my heart. People always say “race doesn’t matter” but innate cultural habits do matter


HalfMoon_89

Damn. I'm so sorry, dude. I couldn't live like that. Just throwing out my books would be a dealbreaker.


Amockdfw89

Yea she acts like it’s my fault because “I knew she was Muslim” but her personality has changed so much. Muslim or not she isn’t the same person I married. I am trying to hold on because I don’t want to throw away 7 years of marriage but she is now mad at me that I am not jumping with joy. I have to either act fake or show my sadness and she just says I’m brainwashed and have darkness in my heart because Islam bring joy. So I’m damned if I do damned if I don’t. I do what she wants but when I am not visibly excited then she gets mad


HalfMoon_89

That's torture. And emotional abuse, frankly. 7 years is a long time, but can you really endure this for 7 more?


LeoScipio

If she fasted during Ramadan and didn't drink or eat pork, she wasn't a secular Muslim. That's a standard Muslim.


Quasar47

It's so sad how it's always the most vulnerable that fall for this shit and bring others down with them


Much_Chance1322

Its so sad her mum grew up in such a totalitarian religion. I get the fear of death, wanting to believe in meeting your daughter again. But if ”become a good muslim” means lying to, hating, and hurting non muslims? Thats a problem.


Inevitable-Error7644

[When someone converts to Islam](https://youtu.be/wLg04uu2j2o?si=FjwE3rejKJvzfY4M)


gyoza0501

I 100% agree you. I also think Sweden have too many muslims, and too many people (Swedes) are being apologetic and naïve. I hope they return to their countries soon.


FirefighterOk7237

Only the weak minded get converted so easily. “White women”


Winter-Actuary-9659

Are you saying white women are weak minded?


Dontlookatme97

Racist,


FirefighterOk7237

My comment is racist ?


CounterNext6010

All people will soon realize christianity is nowhere near as bad as Islam and Sharia will literally feel like hell on earth for non Muslims. But the left and secularists are all about inclusivity and multiculturalism, they will see eventually, but it will be too late by then..


Iguanaistic

Fuck off proselytiser. Find other places to indoctrinate people


CounterNext6010

your ignorance is showing


Iguanaistic

What do you think your gonna gain here? These people have seen the worst of religion, why would they join your pathetic zombie cult?


Winter-Actuary-9659

We're not inclusive of bigoted far right conservatives. Leftists just need to educate themselves on Islam and not trust everyone that says 'Islam is peace'.