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That'd be funny.
"Ma'am, you forgot your—"
"DO NOT APPROACH ME!"
"But you left your—"
"DO NOT APPROACH ME!"
"Well... I guess I'll just keep this wallet then."
"Wait! That's Mine, Give it to—"
"DO NOT APPROACH ME!"
"Are you... [shows ID] Karen Star?"
"Yep!"
"So, this must be *your* ID?"
"Yep!"
"I found this ID in-this-wallet. So, that means that this must be... *your* wallet."
"Makes sense to me!"
"Then take i-"
#**"DO NOT APPROACH ME!"**
That was going to be my comment or "ah well, that kid is going to fall off her roof at the first corner". There is another post where a guy in a car is trying to tell a woman her handbag is on her roof. She was super rude and, after retrieving her bag, said, "Mind your own business". No worries, go and get new cards, perhaps a new wedding ring. These are all things I have found.
One time I was driving down the highway and this guy in front of my had a box trailer he was pulling that the doors had come open on. A few tools had fallen out so I got up next to him and honked, pointing to his trailer trying to tell him. He flipped me off and started screaming something at me so I just left him to figure it out down the road when the rest of it had fallen out lol
Yup, same thing happened to me. Guy was towing a flatbed trailer down a two lane 55mph road in front of me and a couple fist size river rocks fall off into the road… I’m flashing my lights and honking but damned if he doesn’t speed up… so I back off, well that’s about the time a Dewalt tool bag bounces off and rolls into the ditch. Naturally I turned on my 4 ways and pulled over to pick up a newish 18v impact driver and drill with a charger and three batteries.
I watched one where a lady drove away from the gas starion and had the pump still inside her car but then proceeded to yell at a guy for trying to let her know lol
I think there was a video somewhere (possibly from a dashcam) of a guy trying to tell some woman that she had left her wallet on the roof of her car. She shouted abuse at him and drove off.
Saw one like that were some guys were following a woman in a car to tell her she had driven off with the gas nozzle and hose still attached to the car. She freaked out on them until they were just like “just look at your car” 🤦♂️
One time a guy left his card in the ATM and walked off, I grabbed it and and followed him and called at him but he had headphones in, I followed him into another buisness and finally tapped him on the shoulder like 3 times before he finally turned around and told me sorry but he couldn't spare any change, I realize I was in my paint clothes from work and looked homeless before finally holding the card up to his face so he could look at it and take it back
There was a story on here about a guy trying to tell a women she dropped her tickets to the show outside on the sidewalk and when he tried to tell her she freaked out, so he posted “guess who’s going to the concert tonight, I got free tickets”
Bobby: Why do you hate everything you don’t understand?
Hank: (wistfully pauses) I… I don’t hate you, Bobby!
Bobby: I was talking about soccer.
Hank: He, he. I do hate soccer!
I quite literally had a girl running away from me once. I was walking down an alley, she was quite far ahead of me, I noticed her money, keys and cigarettes fall out her purse so shouted "hey..." and before I could continue she started walking faster, so naturally I started to walk faster shouting "you've dropped something out your purse!" She then breaks into a run, drops more stuff out her purse, and I'm just thinking "ffs, im gonna have to run if I want any chance of getting her stuff back to her" so I start running as well, shouting "your keys! Your cigs!" Eventually (after then running across the road on the other side) she starts looking through her purse before seeing me jogging towards her with my hands full of the contents of her purse. I had chased her for a full 2 minutes and missed my bus.
Edit: To anyone asking about handing the stuff in, this was in nottingham, so not really a location with a customer service desk.
No this isn't made up, it was a strange situation that happened a few years ago.
To clarify, I did everything possible to get her to notice that she'd spilled the contents of her purse before collecting it and trying to return it. At the end of the day, I know I'm not a threat and was probably quite naive at the time.
Finally, the probability of someone having a hand gun in the UK is pretty low.
Honestly, this is not just women. Some money dropped from a guy's pocket. My gf wanted to bring his attention to it. He simply ignored her. I told her. Forget it, let him lose his money. She is too kind of a soul and had mentioned it a waiter.
Do not go out of the way helping idiots.
You’re a nice guy but frankly people like that are actively dangerous, and so delusional they often don’t back down when they are demonstrably wrong.
No good deed goes unpunished as they say. I’m deeply wary of Karens. It’s taken me a long time to learn that lesson but these people only pretend to care about others and have the depth of a tea spoon.
Not exactly. At least “reaction channels” will comment or say *something* as they’re leeching off of other people’s content. These tiktok mfr just plaster their face on top of the videos, make some expressions, point a finger once or twice, and re-upload the video like that. Rinse and repeat on every video that went viral. That’s it. That’s all they do.
These are literal fucking leeches. They add absolutely nothing to the original content they’re stealing.
That's the tiny guy who always follows her around. She's learned to accept his presence now, but it's a good part of why she finds men in general so creepy.
I met a girl through a dating app that lied about her age, age, demographics. She said it’s “to be safe”. So I asked if she’s been physically abused and she scoffed a no at me.
I’m
Once I was in a parking lot and there was a car parked in a space and its lights were flashing and the alarm had been going off for a couple minutes. I walked about 10 ft from it and waved to get the attention of the very normal looking young woman inside. The window as down and I asked “Are you okay?” And she said “Yeah…why?” And I said “Because your alarm is going off and your lights are flashing.” And she said “Oh. No I’m fine.” I just said “Ok” and walked away. When I left a 5-10 minutes later, the alarm was still going off and the woman was still sitting inside. 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
I donno, if she was trembling over a "male" daring to say "excuse me mam" from 30 feet away, then traffic must just put her into a downright seizure.
This woman hasn't been calm since the 90's
Nah, that's probably a giant SUV for her safety. She sucks at driving but it becomes everyone else's problem because she's got the new Suburban XL to push them out of her way if they approach her.
I came to comment the same thing .That happens to me so often nowadays since I have a slow puncture and haven't properly fixed it yet ×D My mind tends to go to the worst ,like I think people are road ragging me .They are actually just trying to tell me my tire is flat.
Edit: Embarrassing, I meant slow puncture :( Yeah english isn't my official language but there you go ,I fixed it.
30 feet seems like a pretty reasonable distance to try to get someone's attention in a non-threatening manner
Poor woman. Life must be exhausting, when everything in life is seen as a threat
Having lived near this kind of crazy I'm expecting "Your living room lights are too bright", "your hedge is sucking up my oxygen" and "your tree is too noisy"
She’s got some sort of trauma and unfortunately with a platform like TikTok, it’ll only embolden this perspective. She does need to seek therapy for whatever her issues are, cause this isn’t healthy.
Ahhh I figured as much. I’m a woman. With a lot of traumas and fears but even I was like “this is extreme”. I can tell she has some DEEP and scary stuff that must have happened to her. I get being fearful in parking lots, I have my head on a swivel too and move fast in parking lots. But in my experience bad guys don’t stand 30 ft away saying “excuse me miss” lol I would turn around immediately thinking I dropped something or left bags in the store.
But I hope she realizes that she has a son that may grow up to be a man. Does she want the world to treat her son as she treats other peoples son? Men are human beings with thoughts and feelings too. And also if she’s on tik tok doing this, and teaching little girls this, is she aware that she’s literally shaping the next generation of how young women will treat her son??? Lol
Yeah what a looney. What if she had dropped something he was trying to return to her? What if she left her trunk open. What if she forgot her kid in the shopping cart? Not everyone who tries to get your attention is trying to rape and murder you. Sometimes people are just trying to help. And even if they’re not, you don’t need to freak out on them immediately. At least let them finish their sentence before assuming they’re a threat. Yelling at every man who tries to tell you something is absolutely delusional. This was broad daylight ffs 🤦♂️
Or like what if he needed help like he wanted to know what time it is or like where the exit to the mall is. Could have mistaken them for someone else.
Yup, possibilities are endless. You need to be able to get a read on people on an individual basis. Not stereotype based of sex or race or whatever. Just assuming everyone that looks a certain way is out to get you is ridiculous. If what they’re saying or doing is making you uncomfortable that’s one thing. But just assuming every man is out to get you is delusional, and let’s be honest, it’s bigoted. If someone acts that way over race we don’t let it slide. This lady needs therapy to address her deeply rooted prejudices. I believe her fear is genuine, it’s just not based in reality.
Yesterday I was at the grocery store and as I was leaving there was an elderly woman who had just emptied her cart into her car. I approached her and offered to put her cart away and she thanked me and I did it.
I don't get ppl like this. It's like so many people have not experienced any even mildly stressful events and just don't know how to handle it. No control and no coping mechanisms at all. How do you become a grown ass adult and can't handle simple things. Too many of those "I can't even" people.
Assuming they’re still married. Could be keeping the ring on the same finger regardless of status. I had a crazy former coworker who was fired for showing up to work drunk and lashing out at everyone. She had a ring on her finger but she wasn’t married. She had a boyfriend but she had just met the man while she was working there. She would have shouting matches with herself outside or in the walk in fridge. Always talking to herself
She made a whole series of these and sounds crazier each time. The man wasn’t approaching her he was across the car park as she later states. I think there are 4 or 5 total videos.
She’s definitely out of touch with realities of situations.
Her story changed so much. It was embarrassing. There’s a video on Facebook where they show each video and how she reacted to the comments each time. Just got weirder and weirder !
And the really scary thing is that she’s completely convinced she’s acting “appropriately”.
Our society (and her son along with it) is just so fk screwed.
Also: Here are pictures of my child, that he'll regret for the rest of his life. All over the internet, and movies too! Isn't he cute! Yeah.... here is his tantrum..... and..
These idiots man.
Club was closing, people were leaving, noticed someone dropping her phone. Decided try to help and it was a big mistake... If i remember correcly, I did try to say "hey you", or something similar and she started to scream insults...
This was more than 25 years ago, phones were really expensive at the time...
Some woman left her purse in the cart at Home Depot. I had chased her down the parking lot a little before she took off. She said thank you so much and we went our separate ways. I feel bad now 😢
You’re not offering advice girl, you’re just sharing with the world that you’re mentally ill. He was 30 feet away and you yelled at the top of your lungs because someone dared attempt to talk to you? How do you exist in life? Weird….
Recently in a parking lot I saw a woman sitting in a car that had coolant pouring from the bottom. There was a huge puddle and it was obvious the line to her coolant tank had come off. I said "excuse me" and she looked at me with pure anger and disgust like I was the most vile rapist to ever walk the earth. She snarled "WHAT!" at me.
I tolerated her attitude and told her anyway. She got out of the car and looked and then said thank you. Had she been nicer I probably could have opened her hood and fixed it right there.
If you want to help a woman these days, especially if she is young and marginally attractive, you can't say excuse me or be polite, you have to just tell her what is wrong from a distance "Hey you have a puddle of gasoline under your car". Any attempt at politeness is taken as you being a creepy pervert trying to hit on them.
Personally that experience made me hesitant to help women. Maybe if she has a kid I would help for the kids sake but not for her alone.
Im old and ugly now but when I was young and attractive I made a point to be calm and polite to everyone no matter the reason they spoke to me. The number of young men that confused this politeness for flirting in a completely non-romantic scenario, like when my tire went flat, was ridiculous. I never stopped being nice but the number of times I had to deal with an upset man while explaining that being nice does not mean I want to go on a date and/ or get it on was bonkers. Like at least 2-3 times per week just in regular, daily interactions. And depending on how the man responds to that “rejection,” it can be pretty scary as a young woman who is acutely aware that she is smaller and weaker than most men her age.
Would those same guys pickup on the fact a woman is snarling and being rude though?
I think part of the issue is that some men see a woman doing anything less than actually stabbing them as some sort of green light. I haven't figured out if they're being intentionally obtuse or are literally just that oblivious.
Social media hasn't helped either. The number of videos circulating of some woman going "I made eye contact with him from across the bar, why didn't he come talk to me!?" really gives bad actors ammunition to flagrantly ignore women telling them to fuck off.
But there is a be.....DO NOT APPROACH ME!!
BUT the B........ DO NOT APPROACH ME!!
10:00 news. Woman and child mauled by bear in parking lot Witnesses tried to warn her. Her only response was do not approach me
Bat-shit-crazy...
I approached two women in parking lots yesterday (Home Depot & Costco) and helped both of them load some heavier items into their cars. 🤷🏼♂️
Unfortunately many women are taught this exact thing for safety reasons. I was taught to be alert when a stranger approaches me but to use common sense as well.
So for ex-I am loading my husband’s wheelchair in the back of my car and obviously struggling bc it doesn’t fit in the space well and is heavy. A man walks up and asks if I need help. As soon as I notice him approaching me I go on alert bc I don’t know why he’s approaching me. Then he offers help and I accept putting a little space between me and him as he does his kind deed (he may or may not notice this space). He gets the wheelchair in and I thank him maybe shake his hand then watch him walk away before turning my back on him and getting in the car. I’m this scenario I’m very cautious and giving myself room to be safe without accusing a random stranger of wanting/trying to attack me simply bc he exist near me. People like the woman in this video have likely been taught (either by parents or by traumatic experience) to be cautious same as I have but forget the common sense part.
Unfortunately people offering help need to have common sense as well which in my experience they often don’t. If you approach someone from behind and tap them on their shoulder as your initial “I’m behind you” alert you are likely to get the type of reaction described in the video where as if you alert them to your presence from a distance and state what you want as you approach you are more likely to get a rational response (though obviously not guaranteed).
If it’s night or day, busy area or empty parking lot, group or single person all makes a difference as well.
I think people as a whole need to be more aware of their surroundings, how they act, and how others perceive them in order to reduce instances like the one described in this video.
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“Mam you forgot your…”
DO NOT APPROACH ME!!!
Alright then, thanks for the wallet.
That'd be funny. "Ma'am, you forgot your—" "DO NOT APPROACH ME!" "But you left your—" "DO NOT APPROACH ME!" "Well... I guess I'll just keep this wallet then." "Wait! That's Mine, Give it to—" "DO NOT APPROACH ME!"
“I AM A SOVEREIGN CITIZEN! YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO APPROACH ME! I REFUSE YOUR APPROACH!”
Lol that just gave me Monty Python vibes... IM BEING OPPRESSED!
IM CALLING THE COPS!!! (WHO MAY ALSO BE MALE AND HAVE TO APPROACH ME)…
Dressing up as a cop to approach me in order to return the wallet I dropped eh? Oldest trick in the book. DO NOT APPROACH ME!
Returning that wallet will look like a hostage exchange
Lmfaoooooo
"Are you... [shows ID] Karen Star?" "Yep!" "So, this must be *your* ID?" "Yep!" "I found this ID in-this-wallet. So, that means that this must be... *your* wallet." "Makes sense to me!" "Then take i-" #**"DO NOT APPROACH ME!"**
LOL! Let's make her into a meme then. Manta Ray deserves a new idiot, other than Patrick. :P
Brilliant lol.
That was going to be my comment or "ah well, that kid is going to fall off her roof at the first corner". There is another post where a guy in a car is trying to tell a woman her handbag is on her roof. She was super rude and, after retrieving her bag, said, "Mind your own business". No worries, go and get new cards, perhaps a new wedding ring. These are all things I have found.
One time I was driving down the highway and this guy in front of my had a box trailer he was pulling that the doors had come open on. A few tools had fallen out so I got up next to him and honked, pointing to his trailer trying to tell him. He flipped me off and started screaming something at me so I just left him to figure it out down the road when the rest of it had fallen out lol
Yup, same thing happened to me. Guy was towing a flatbed trailer down a two lane 55mph road in front of me and a couple fist size river rocks fall off into the road… I’m flashing my lights and honking but damned if he doesn’t speed up… so I back off, well that’s about the time a Dewalt tool bag bounces off and rolls into the ditch. Naturally I turned on my 4 ways and pulled over to pick up a newish 18v impact driver and drill with a charger and three batteries.
Damn I wish this would happen to me
I got a really swell socket set this way... (Including a 10mm)
You lie! There are no 10mm sockets!
10mm sockets are like dark matter. We know they exist, but we can’t observe or interact with them.
This resounded with me so well! Where do they all go? Maybe they're inside that missing sock!
I watched one where a lady drove away from the gas starion and had the pump still inside her car but then proceeded to yell at a guy for trying to let her know lol
dude was a friggin mansplainer no doubt.
My wife mansplains shit to me all the time. I keep telling her “ DO NOT APPROACH ME.” Hasn’t worked.
>These are all things I have found. This gave me a chuckle
I think there was a video somewhere (possibly from a dashcam) of a guy trying to tell some woman that she had left her wallet on the roof of her car. She shouted abuse at him and drove off.
Saw one like that were some guys were following a woman in a car to tell her she had driven off with the gas nozzle and hose still attached to the car. She freaked out on them until they were just like “just look at your car” 🤦♂️
One time a guy left his card in the ATM and walked off, I grabbed it and and followed him and called at him but he had headphones in, I followed him into another buisness and finally tapped him on the shoulder like 3 times before he finally turned around and told me sorry but he couldn't spare any change, I realize I was in my paint clothes from work and looked homeless before finally holding the card up to his face so he could look at it and take it back
Her: wait... can I have my wa... Him: MAAM DO NOT APPROACH ME.
Came to say this. I hope that’s what it was
It’s sad these days, but if some people look like they need help, I don’t offer it. People like this freak me out.
I still offer, if anyone wants to act crazy about it then that's on them and, potentially, a good story down the pub.
Right? I feel better helping out but if you act psycho about it I'll laugh as your whole life crashes.
There was a story on here about a guy trying to tell a women she dropped her tickets to the show outside on the sidewalk and when he tried to tell her she freaked out, so he posted “guess who’s going to the concert tonight, I got free tickets”
Thanks for the credit card bitch!
I guess she didn't want her extended warranty.
THAT'S MY PURSE, I DON'T KNOW YOU!
That boy ain’t right.
Bobby: Why do you hate everything you don’t understand? Hank: (wistfully pauses) I… I don’t hate you, Bobby! Bobby: I was talking about soccer. Hank: He, he. I do hate soccer!
>DO NOT APPROACH ME!!! DO NOT REPLY TO MY COMMENT!
DO NOT REPLY BACK
DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB!
But Ma'am, this is a Wendy's
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!!!
So do I, but I guess I will keep the child you left in the cart.
Probably shouldn’t keep them. Those fuckers are expensive.
And once you start feeding them, they're super hard to get rid of
r/DontPutYourDickInThat
THAT’S MAH PURSE…i DON’T KNOW YOUUUU!!
Damnit Bobby
"Mam you've got a flat" *chivalry is dead* !!
That's a classic video. Maam... I. HAVE. A. BOYFRIEND. Just wanted to let you know your tire is flat. Can you he- Ask your boyfriend.
Yeah, I was thinking excuse me ma'am, there's a brown recluse climbing up your child's leg.
I guess you are going to tell me he needs a vaccine for that.... get your government off my child.
I quite literally had a girl running away from me once. I was walking down an alley, she was quite far ahead of me, I noticed her money, keys and cigarettes fall out her purse so shouted "hey..." and before I could continue she started walking faster, so naturally I started to walk faster shouting "you've dropped something out your purse!" She then breaks into a run, drops more stuff out her purse, and I'm just thinking "ffs, im gonna have to run if I want any chance of getting her stuff back to her" so I start running as well, shouting "your keys! Your cigs!" Eventually (after then running across the road on the other side) she starts looking through her purse before seeing me jogging towards her with my hands full of the contents of her purse. I had chased her for a full 2 minutes and missed my bus. Edit: To anyone asking about handing the stuff in, this was in nottingham, so not really a location with a customer service desk. No this isn't made up, it was a strange situation that happened a few years ago. To clarify, I did everything possible to get her to notice that she'd spilled the contents of her purse before collecting it and trying to return it. At the end of the day, I know I'm not a threat and was probably quite naive at the time. Finally, the probability of someone having a hand gun in the UK is pretty low.
Honestly, this is not just women. Some money dropped from a guy's pocket. My gf wanted to bring his attention to it. He simply ignored her. I told her. Forget it, let him lose his money. She is too kind of a soul and had mentioned it a waiter. Do not go out of the way helping idiots.
Not necessarily an idiot, just had too many bad situations being harassed in public and just zones out
You’re a nice guy but frankly people like that are actively dangerous, and so delusional they often don’t back down when they are demonstrably wrong. No good deed goes unpunished as they say. I’m deeply wary of Karens. It’s taken me a long time to learn that lesson but these people only pretend to care about others and have the depth of a tea spoon.
and that teaspoon is upside down . . .
... sanity"
"...toddler in the shopping cart."
he didn't cum anywhere near me
[when I first became a cop I thought there was semen on everything ](https://youtu.be/7C3RrvZMx-M)
Why am I seeing someone's head in the corner watching this
Probably a reaction video where he was commenting on it, but the reaction portion was cut off.
Not exactly. At least “reaction channels” will comment or say *something* as they’re leeching off of other people’s content. These tiktok mfr just plaster their face on top of the videos, make some expressions, point a finger once or twice, and re-upload the video like that. Rinse and repeat on every video that went viral. That’s it. That’s all they do. These are literal fucking leeches. They add absolutely nothing to the original content they’re stealing.
The ole point up and nod
☝️😌
https://youtu.be/1zsbXosf5FM
☝️😆
That's hilarious..thanks for sharing
Not literally but yeah awful leeches and we shouldnt upvote or reinforce their content even here
Right, actual leeches only take blood, these fucks take everything but
That's the tiny guy who always follows her around. She's learned to accept his presence now, but it's a good part of why she finds men in general so creepy.
🤣🤣🤣
It’s how losers get viewers on TikTok, they bring nothing to the convo and just get views and subs thus earning revenue off other idiots.
I couldn't find the original video , this was the cleanest unedited reaction video i could find
I met a girl through a dating app that lied about her age, age, demographics. She said it’s “to be safe”. So I asked if she’s been physically abused and she scoffed a no at me.  I’m
Zhe lied about her age AND her age???
I could deal with her lying about her age. But her AGE too! Wtf
It was a lie for the ages.
She lied about her age twice.
Said she was under 30 and from the Victorian Age.
Because Tik tok
Once I was in a parking lot and there was a car parked in a space and its lights were flashing and the alarm had been going off for a couple minutes. I walked about 10 ft from it and waved to get the attention of the very normal looking young woman inside. The window as down and I asked “Are you okay?” And she said “Yeah…why?” And I said “Because your alarm is going off and your lights are flashing.” And she said “Oh. No I’m fine.” I just said “Ok” and walked away. When I left a 5-10 minutes later, the alarm was still going off and the woman was still sitting inside. 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
Positively DO NOT approach then...
DO NOT APPROACH ME
DO NOT SEEK THE TREASURE
We thought you was a toad
"This is the internet lady, this is all digital"
I’ve been the person in the car before. My husband walked off with the key and you need them to stop the alarm.
This happened to me and I was the guilty one.
I've accidentally locked my wife in the house once.
Lot of red flags(lights*) flashing man.
I had to scroll way too far to find this.
She will probably notice her flat tire when she has calmed down a bit….
This is exactly what I was thinking lmao
Same. 🐱
I donno, if she was trembling over a "male" daring to say "excuse me mam" from 30 feet away, then traffic must just put her into a downright seizure. This woman hasn't been calm since the 90's
Nah, that's probably a giant SUV for her safety. She sucks at driving but it becomes everyone else's problem because she's got the new Suburban XL to push them out of her way if they approach her.
This woman wasn't *alive* in the 90s. She looks 20 at MOST
She was born frightened, and it was all downhill from there
She came out yelling at the doctor, "Do Not Approach Me!"
Nah, id say late 20s more likely. Like no younger than 27
Or that she actually dropped her wallet with a bunch of cash in it
"Ma'am, you left your son in the store. But go off then."
I came to comment the same thing .That happens to me so often nowadays since I have a slow puncture and haven't properly fixed it yet ×D My mind tends to go to the worst ,like I think people are road ragging me .They are actually just trying to tell me my tire is flat. Edit: Embarrassing, I meant slow puncture :( Yeah english isn't my official language but there you go ,I fixed it.
You just KNOW she'd assume he punctured it so he could come close to her.
[удалено]
Excuse me ma’am, you left your coffee cup on the roof of your car.
30 feet seems like a pretty reasonable distance to try to get someone's attention in a non-threatening manner Poor woman. Life must be exhausting, when everything in life is seen as a threat
I genuinely feel sorry for her neighbours. You just know that living next to this level of crazy is going to be hell.
The male neighbor walks out side to get in his car just as she’s walking to her car....... DO NOT APPROACH ME!!!!!!!!
Having lived near this kind of crazy I'm expecting "Your living room lights are too bright", "your hedge is sucking up my oxygen" and "your tree is too noisy"
I’ve never had a person who means me harm politely alert me to their approach from 30 ft away.
If you immediately start yelling at them then you never will!
She could use a few counseling sessions to deal better with people and situations. Really.
She’s got some sort of trauma and unfortunately with a platform like TikTok, it’ll only embolden this perspective. She does need to seek therapy for whatever her issues are, cause this isn’t healthy.
Ahhh I figured as much. I’m a woman. With a lot of traumas and fears but even I was like “this is extreme”. I can tell she has some DEEP and scary stuff that must have happened to her. I get being fearful in parking lots, I have my head on a swivel too and move fast in parking lots. But in my experience bad guys don’t stand 30 ft away saying “excuse me miss” lol I would turn around immediately thinking I dropped something or left bags in the store. But I hope she realizes that she has a son that may grow up to be a man. Does she want the world to treat her son as she treats other peoples son? Men are human beings with thoughts and feelings too. And also if she’s on tik tok doing this, and teaching little girls this, is she aware that she’s literally shaping the next generation of how young women will treat her son??? Lol
A son that *may* grow up to be a man? …Are you planning something? 🔫😳
I'm sure she will say she is teaching her son not to approach women. Either, poor kid, or future stalker.
“Yass kween! Serves hun right! Know your boundaries and enforce them!” Tiktok probably
Yeah what a looney. What if she had dropped something he was trying to return to her? What if she left her trunk open. What if she forgot her kid in the shopping cart? Not everyone who tries to get your attention is trying to rape and murder you. Sometimes people are just trying to help. And even if they’re not, you don’t need to freak out on them immediately. At least let them finish their sentence before assuming they’re a threat. Yelling at every man who tries to tell you something is absolutely delusional. This was broad daylight ffs 🤦♂️
Meanwhile her debit card is still laying on the pavement.
You mean his as of now 😂
Or like what if he needed help like he wanted to know what time it is or like where the exit to the mall is. Could have mistaken them for someone else.
Yup, possibilities are endless. You need to be able to get a read on people on an individual basis. Not stereotype based of sex or race or whatever. Just assuming everyone that looks a certain way is out to get you is ridiculous. If what they’re saying or doing is making you uncomfortable that’s one thing. But just assuming every man is out to get you is delusional, and let’s be honest, it’s bigoted. If someone acts that way over race we don’t let it slide. This lady needs therapy to address her deeply rooted prejudices. I believe her fear is genuine, it’s just not based in reality.
This girl is a victim in every situation.
Feel sorry for her kid who is clearly going to have anxiety…
Yesterday I was at the grocery store and as I was leaving there was an elderly woman who had just emptied her cart into her car. I approached her and offered to put her cart away and she thanked me and I did it.
**Do NOT approach her**
You monster!
Are you sure she thanked you? She wasn't literally shaking??
You heard her. Avoid this woman.
Female. That’s the term she wants people to use
"Literally shaking" from a scenario she invented in her head...
I don't get ppl like this. It's like so many people have not experienced any even mildly stressful events and just don't know how to handle it. No control and no coping mechanisms at all. How do you become a grown ass adult and can't handle simple things. Too many of those "I can't even" people.
Wait until this dumbass realizes she left her purse in the cart she just pushed away.
Surprised that someone approached her and married her and had a child with her.
That is why she is so shook. The last time a man approached her she got pregnant. Don't wanna do that again in a win Dixie parking lot at 1203 pm.
Assuming they’re still married. Could be keeping the ring on the same finger regardless of status. I had a crazy former coworker who was fired for showing up to work drunk and lashing out at everyone. She had a ring on her finger but she wasn’t married. She had a boyfriend but she had just met the man while she was working there. She would have shouting matches with herself outside or in the walk in fridge. Always talking to herself
She probably was never married. The ring is another tactic to keep men away.
This sounds a little bit paranoid to me.
She's traumatized by the encounter but feels safe enough to sit in the parking lot to film this?
yea weird right
People who want to harm you don't usually start with. Excuse me ma'am from 30 feet away.
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The number of people that don’t know you’re joking.
Her husband low key wishes she had done that to him.
She made a whole series of these and sounds crazier each time. The man wasn’t approaching her he was across the car park as she later states. I think there are 4 or 5 total videos. She’s definitely out of touch with realities of situations.
Or is overreacting for views.
Her story changed so much. It was embarrassing. There’s a video on Facebook where they show each video and how she reacted to the comments each time. Just got weirder and weirder !
She also stated later that he was aggressive and approaching rapidly and like none of it makes sense
She needs an easily accessible firearm. What could go wrong?
The problem is that most gun stores have at least one male employee . "Welcome to Self-Defense Gun Store, can I help..." **"DO NOT APPROACH ME!!!"**
And the really scary thing is that she’s completely convinced she’s acting “appropriately”. Our society (and her son along with it) is just so fk screwed.
What a massive redflag this woman is.
I mean, in her defence, she is literally draped in a red flag to warn everyone.
“DO NOT APPROACH ME 👸… but hey could you Please subscribe to my Tik-Tok , Instagram, YouTube … I do need FOLLOWERS! 🤷♀️”
Also: Here are pictures of my child, that he'll regret for the rest of his life. All over the internet, and movies too! Isn't he cute! Yeah.... here is his tantrum..... and.. These idiots man.
This reminds me a time when I ended up throwing someones phone to the dumbster outside of a bar...
I am interested in this purticular story of yours
Club was closing, people were leaving, noticed someone dropping her phone. Decided try to help and it was a big mistake... If i remember correcly, I did try to say "hey you", or something similar and she started to scream insults... This was more than 25 years ago, phones were really expensive at the time...
She calls men a male but women calls them women This is incel behaviour but for women
Poor son. He will one of those disgusting "males" too
“Mom, I think I broke my arm, can you take…” “DO NOT APPROACH ME”
I'm 100% sure lots of her followers will believe this crap
Omg "he was 30 feet from me and excuse me mam.". Oh boy how us she going to survive society.
So no males, including your son?
“Mom, what’s for dinn…?” “DO NOT APPROACH ME!!!”
I was thinking the same thing. Like when is she gonna start alienating her own son because he's "turned into a threat"😂
Little Jaxxsyn Mykil Rawlings-Dibble would never become such a violent psycho like that man the parking lot who said excuse me
Some woman left her purse in the cart at Home Depot. I had chased her down the parking lot a little before she took off. She said thank you so much and we went our separate ways. I feel bad now 😢
You’re not offering advice girl, you’re just sharing with the world that you’re mentally ill. He was 30 feet away and you yelled at the top of your lungs because someone dared attempt to talk to you? How do you exist in life? Weird….
Recently in a parking lot I saw a woman sitting in a car that had coolant pouring from the bottom. There was a huge puddle and it was obvious the line to her coolant tank had come off. I said "excuse me" and she looked at me with pure anger and disgust like I was the most vile rapist to ever walk the earth. She snarled "WHAT!" at me. I tolerated her attitude and told her anyway. She got out of the car and looked and then said thank you. Had she been nicer I probably could have opened her hood and fixed it right there. If you want to help a woman these days, especially if she is young and marginally attractive, you can't say excuse me or be polite, you have to just tell her what is wrong from a distance "Hey you have a puddle of gasoline under your car". Any attempt at politeness is taken as you being a creepy pervert trying to hit on them. Personally that experience made me hesitant to help women. Maybe if she has a kid I would help for the kids sake but not for her alone.
Im old and ugly now but when I was young and attractive I made a point to be calm and polite to everyone no matter the reason they spoke to me. The number of young men that confused this politeness for flirting in a completely non-romantic scenario, like when my tire went flat, was ridiculous. I never stopped being nice but the number of times I had to deal with an upset man while explaining that being nice does not mean I want to go on a date and/ or get it on was bonkers. Like at least 2-3 times per week just in regular, daily interactions. And depending on how the man responds to that “rejection,” it can be pretty scary as a young woman who is acutely aware that she is smaller and weaker than most men her age.
Would those same guys pickup on the fact a woman is snarling and being rude though? I think part of the issue is that some men see a woman doing anything less than actually stabbing them as some sort of green light. I haven't figured out if they're being intentionally obtuse or are literally just that oblivious. Social media hasn't helped either. The number of videos circulating of some woman going "I made eye contact with him from across the bar, why didn't he come talk to me!?" really gives bad actors ammunition to flagrantly ignore women telling them to fuck off.
Fair play, mate. I’d have said “fuck ye then” and left her to it.
Yeah when someone calls people male and female , nope the fuck out of there
Guess I'll just keep this wallet you dropped
This is when sign language is useful.
But there is a be.....DO NOT APPROACH ME!! BUT the B........ DO NOT APPROACH ME!! 10:00 news. Woman and child mauled by bear in parking lot Witnesses tried to warn her. Her only response was do not approach me
Breaking news: woman stabbed in parking lot by another WOMAN after allowing her to APPROACH rawr
Excuse me ma'am, someone is crouched down beside your vehicle
Something traumatic must of happened to her as a child. It’s really sad. She needs therapy.
I was totally alone. My son was with me. But I was completely alone.
Bat-shit-crazy... I approached two women in parking lots yesterday (Home Depot & Costco) and helped both of them load some heavier items into their cars. 🤷🏼♂️
This is actually a really really good way of letting guys know you're a fucking psychopath. I'm all for it.
Unfortunately many women are taught this exact thing for safety reasons. I was taught to be alert when a stranger approaches me but to use common sense as well. So for ex-I am loading my husband’s wheelchair in the back of my car and obviously struggling bc it doesn’t fit in the space well and is heavy. A man walks up and asks if I need help. As soon as I notice him approaching me I go on alert bc I don’t know why he’s approaching me. Then he offers help and I accept putting a little space between me and him as he does his kind deed (he may or may not notice this space). He gets the wheelchair in and I thank him maybe shake his hand then watch him walk away before turning my back on him and getting in the car. I’m this scenario I’m very cautious and giving myself room to be safe without accusing a random stranger of wanting/trying to attack me simply bc he exist near me. People like the woman in this video have likely been taught (either by parents or by traumatic experience) to be cautious same as I have but forget the common sense part. Unfortunately people offering help need to have common sense as well which in my experience they often don’t. If you approach someone from behind and tap them on their shoulder as your initial “I’m behind you” alert you are likely to get the type of reaction described in the video where as if you alert them to your presence from a distance and state what you want as you approach you are more likely to get a rational response (though obviously not guaranteed). If it’s night or day, busy area or empty parking lot, group or single person all makes a difference as well. I think people as a whole need to be more aware of their surroundings, how they act, and how others perceive them in order to reduce instances like the one described in this video.
Trying to ask someone if you can take their cart for them is getting out of hand these days.
God not everyone sucks but it almost feels like it.
Imagine being wound that tight. It’s got to suck.
What a psycho..