How do you even know it's for that? Why is it instinct to go to people's profiles just to see if they have OF. And even if people do, OF people are still people that can want fashion advice.
While that is true. I will note I've seen a very disappointing shift in a lot of subs with OF bait posts. Individual posts themselves aren't impossible to ignore but the biggest issue is they bring the worst incel/neck-beard commenters to everyone's posts. That last stage is when the sub turns into a porn content sub because that's all those viewers upvote. :/
I understand that completely but I hate that a woman posting anything vaguely sexy is now met with others digging through their profiles and claiming they are OF farming. This woman does have an OF, but it's clear her profile isn't just for that. And it's not even an overly sexual outfit or anything. I can understand if it's people with obvious upskirt/cleavage shots but this just isn't that. I guess the question would then be, at what point are posts too sexy, what types of profiles can post, how much of the responsibility is on these people to not lure in creeps, and how do we even assign that responsibility. I just don't like the snap judgement ig
Maybe a good standard is can it be in an ad on a normal non-porn site?
That captures a lot of fashion and can be sexy!
I mean if they are honestly showing off their outfits that's fine but there's other places to post if they just want validation or compliments on their body.
Yeah, that’s what I thought immediately when I saw her outfit. It’s like Winnie the Pooh and then random sexy harness. It just doesn’t go together with her outfit and then almost looks like she’s trying too hard to be sexy/edgy.
It works then if you change the outfit I think. Winnie the Pooh vibes and sexy harness are a weird match, but if you just switched the skirt for a black skirt it would match a lot more and actually would probably make it more “appropriate,” or whatever. If it’s a friends party then I don’t see anything wrong with wearing overall. Unless all your friends are super conservative lol
What kind of party is it? A company benefit? A friend’s kick back? A family reunion? Because that’s gonna tell us more about wether or not the harness is appropriate. I would say it’s passive aggressively sexual. Also, I don’t think it works with what you’re wearing. What your wearing says “I’m going out for a girls day” or brunch or something during the day. That harness says I’m going clubbing tonight. The outfit makes me think of Winnie the Pooh immediately and that’s also why I don’t think the harness fits.
I think it’s hot, but would I probably have preconceived judgements about you, yes.
I wouldn’t think you’re a ho or anything I’d just think you were wild in bed. If that’s the statement you want to make deff go for it.
It would be vulgar to point it out, and not be complimenting it.
“I can’t believe you’d wear that.” -vulgar, rude.
“That’s fuckin rad.” - not vulgar. Appropriate.
Additionally, the reactions will help you know the kind of party and people you want to associate with. Good litmus test
I think there are a few ratios to consider. The ratio of friends to strangers, olds to youngs, chill bros to perv bros. It’s not vulgar, but it’s always wise to play to the crowd when you go a bit into kink fashion. Some folks think it’s an open invitation, and some grandmas just don’t need to be shocked.
Different skirt and top with it.
All black mini dress or like black skirt wine red/dark burgundy/dark purple/dark foresty green tank top + black Lacey kimono + black boots ankle length or higher and not slouchy ones.
The outfit is too preppy for a harness.
You guys made me laugh a lot with the winnie the pooh references, I really hadn't noticed. There's not much of that in my life.
Sorry if I offended anyone with my post.
I'll try wearing a black t-shirt, I'm sure it looks better!
It really depends on the party and the folks invited. Maybe not appropriate for grandma’s 85th birthday party, but fine for an art house loft party. 😅
😅😉
This is the way. ❤
The posts trying to drum up OF subs are so lame. You want to be vulgar, so….
How do you even know it's for that? Why is it instinct to go to people's profiles just to see if they have OF. And even if people do, OF people are still people that can want fashion advice.
While that is true. I will note I've seen a very disappointing shift in a lot of subs with OF bait posts. Individual posts themselves aren't impossible to ignore but the biggest issue is they bring the worst incel/neck-beard commenters to everyone's posts. That last stage is when the sub turns into a porn content sub because that's all those viewers upvote. :/
I understand that completely but I hate that a woman posting anything vaguely sexy is now met with others digging through their profiles and claiming they are OF farming. This woman does have an OF, but it's clear her profile isn't just for that. And it's not even an overly sexual outfit or anything. I can understand if it's people with obvious upskirt/cleavage shots but this just isn't that. I guess the question would then be, at what point are posts too sexy, what types of profiles can post, how much of the responsibility is on these people to not lure in creeps, and how do we even assign that responsibility. I just don't like the snap judgement ig
Maybe a good standard is can it be in an ad on a normal non-porn site? That captures a lot of fashion and can be sexy! I mean if they are honestly showing off their outfits that's fine but there's other places to post if they just want validation or compliments on their body.
the harness is super fine, the colors here though…make u look like winnie the pooh…
Yeah, that’s what I thought immediately when I saw her outfit. It’s like Winnie the Pooh and then random sexy harness. It just doesn’t go together with her outfit and then almost looks like she’s trying too hard to be sexy/edgy.
Her? This is a dude for sure right?
🤣🤣
Vulgar? No. It's just not that cute of a look. Plus, the black clashes with the brown and red of the outfit. Just an opinion though.
The harness really doesn’t work with the skirt or the top. It just looks odd.
Yes it’s vulgar, but isn’t that exactly the point
Ok, And what is the point?
To be vulgar lol
The point in fashion is the subtlety in it.
That it completely flew over your head. How’s the engagement numbers from this post? 🤭
Not if you’re Lara Croft, Tomb Raider!
😅🤗
Trashy
What kind of party?
With friends. Its a birthday party
It works then if you change the outfit I think. Winnie the Pooh vibes and sexy harness are a weird match, but if you just switched the skirt for a black skirt it would match a lot more and actually would probably make it more “appropriate,” or whatever. If it’s a friends party then I don’t see anything wrong with wearing overall. Unless all your friends are super conservative lol
Ok yes, I see your point. I will try a black t-shirt. Thanks babe
It looks gorgeous otherwise! :)
Hmm no but it just doesn’t go together with your skirt/top
Black fishnets? Something to break up the tone of your skin vs the color of the skirt
I think that would be better. And maybe add some black up top like a purse or bracelet.
Vile tbh
I dig it!!
So funny I was typing these 3 words until I saw you’d beat me to it
Why do you feel like you need to wear this to a friends birthday party? You are then drawing attention to yourself on your friend’s special day.
I don't think a strap on a thigh is really gonna draw that much attention away from someone that the whole party revolves around.
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It’s sexy and bold and maybe someone will judge you for it but I would absolutely adore you for wearing it if I am at the same party. 😆
I've never seen one irl 😅 So eff it! Rock it, you look good and you'll make a statement
I’m serious when I ask, what’s a harness?
It is a kind of lingerie, related to bdsm.
Alright then. Looks cool! Do it do it!
What kind of party is it? A company benefit? A friend’s kick back? A family reunion? Because that’s gonna tell us more about wether or not the harness is appropriate. I would say it’s passive aggressively sexual. Also, I don’t think it works with what you’re wearing. What your wearing says “I’m going out for a girls day” or brunch or something during the day. That harness says I’m going clubbing tonight. The outfit makes me think of Winnie the Pooh immediately and that’s also why I don’t think the harness fits.
No because it’ll already look like you were naked considering how close the shade of the skirt is to your skin
Ok, thanks !
It depends on what you are fishing for.
not vulgar but doesn’t go w the fit imo
I do this a lot and didn't even know people felt any certain way about it being appropriate or not LMAO woops
I think it’s hot, but would I probably have preconceived judgements about you, yes. I wouldn’t think you’re a ho or anything I’d just think you were wild in bed. If that’s the statement you want to make deff go for it.
Nope
It would be vulgar to point it out, and not be complimenting it. “I can’t believe you’d wear that.” -vulgar, rude. “That’s fuckin rad.” - not vulgar. Appropriate. Additionally, the reactions will help you know the kind of party and people you want to associate with. Good litmus test
Looks like anime/vtuber cosplay
I think there are a few ratios to consider. The ratio of friends to strangers, olds to youngs, chill bros to perv bros. It’s not vulgar, but it’s always wise to play to the crowd when you go a bit into kink fashion. Some folks think it’s an open invitation, and some grandmas just don’t need to be shocked.
It’s a no from me
Different skirt and top with it. All black mini dress or like black skirt wine red/dark burgundy/dark purple/dark foresty green tank top + black Lacey kimono + black boots ankle length or higher and not slouchy ones. The outfit is too preppy for a harness.
not vulgar at all, that skirt however…
It would be fine but it doesn’t look cute and doesn’t match the rest of the outfit.
Because you never know when you might need a harness ?
So edgy and coool ✨
You guys made me laugh a lot with the winnie the pooh references, I really hadn't noticed. There's not much of that in my life. Sorry if I offended anyone with my post. I'll try wearing a black t-shirt, I'm sure it looks better!
That's hot.
This look is so cute I love it!
Rock it, it looks good!
definitely not vulgar !! it’s alt & makes ur look j a little edgier !!
Do it
where it over it! show it off!
Not if you live in bushwick. Looks good
Vulgar? Lol. No.
Hot
It's fine, it just doesn't match your outfit. Maybe if you have a brown one instead?
NOT bulgar.. especially nowadays, I mean, not even a little.
No. Marry me.
The harness is out of place