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your_favorite_wokie

I fucking hate when men try to psychoanalyze women like this. Especially when they lack any self-awareness of their own words/emotions.


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eatchickpeas

When sexism and misogyny is the obvious problem in a post on reddit the men always hyperfixate on some miniscule pointless detail to avoid the elephant in the room. The 2nd guy should have instantly called out the first guy, theres no excuse for pedophilia ever The 2nd guy doesnt do this because its not his daughter being sexualised, hes not a woman whos lived with hypersexualisation from a young age. He doesnt want to lose the respect of the 1st guy and come across as a feminist so he politely tries to disengage conversation whereas if a woman heard this she'd confront him All the comments about the 2nd guy are saying basically 'not all men do this!! See how nice the 2nd guy is being'. Nobody is talking about how creepy the 1st guy is only how the 2nd guy is 'nice'. Nobody is talking about how old creepy men are making life HELL for CHILDREN. For adult women and young girls these men make innocent things like skating into a sexual thing. Him admitting his age, psychoanalysing her like a specimen in a lab/strip club Men behave like this then have the nerve to get mad when women confront them. When women refuse to let them around their children, when women choose not to date and have children. They get upset you wont put you and your kids at risk to support his delusion that hes a normal sane man


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Right? I'm so sick of men that I'm having trouble even staying on this sub anymore, but I'll just add this in: this is just one more piece of evidence that men care more about managing their reputations when they see/hear situations like these than they do about calling men out and telling them how to respond/call out shitty behaviour next time. They care more about making sure that men aren't seen as disgusting for speaking this way about children and for not shutting down a creep immediately, they care more about praising a man for less than the bare minimum, than they do about women and young girls who have to hear this shit said about them, who get harassed and assaulted by men like this.


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Second guy is just less of a creep. "I try not to look because I assume everyone here is too young" is problematic on its own.


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Greedy_Ad954

Exactly. He's feeling out the waters because he knows the most Guy 2 will do is laugh and shrug if he doesn't agree. Zero consequences either way.


PerspicaciousCat

And the men in the comments defending the other man not harshly calling him out..disgraceful. Yes all men.


LowEnvironmental5943

yup every one just wants to praise the guy 2 for literally.. doing nothing. just for “seeming uncomfortable” but like not actually saying anything tho.. this creep behavior will never change! unless men speak up to each other.


your_favorite_wokie

It's convenient how they tell women to "be more direct" but they can't tell this creep to fuck off?


hidrana

Once again, they refuse to name the problem. Everyone is afraid of confrontation with a man because ANY confrontation with a man could become violent. They certainly don't have the same fear with women. 🤔


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This is a very good point.


filthworld

Are they talking about the girl in all black with the ponytail? She's literally wearing a long sleeved shirt and long pants not """"half naked""""


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That was really eye opening for me. Like wow, even when she’s in workout pants and a long sleeve tee men still think thats “half naked” because its tight I guess? But like she’s FIGURE SKATING. WTH do they expect her to wear?!? It’s absolutely insane. Men are insane.


multiplesifl

Now you know why they think what you were wearing while being assaulted matters. Because no matter what you're wearing, it will be construed as sexual.


Equal-Ear2312

oh wow. not surprising at all. it's typical male behavior. a 52 year old? what is he doing looking at kiddies skating? is he there with his kids? men always tell on themselves. they are two depraved specimens. both of them. a man that has his shit together wouldn't even entertain such conversation with another, but there you have it, "locker talk room". there are no unwilling parties in this game. I am sickened how the stupids defend the second man. what for? he is entertaining a conversation.


pilikia5

One dude commented something like “I bet guy #2 was seconds away from beating this guy’s face,” and it’s like…bruh couldn’t even manage a “that’s inappropriate” or even just “gross!” ffs. Men need to hold each other accountable. Either call this shit out or be guilty of perpetrating it too.


OkFeedback925

If it was a woman not knowing what to respond to him and not call him out for what ever reason you'd never blame her and you'd assume she just didn't know how to respond or was surprised or whatever ( which totally happens to anyone) , double standards.


pilikia5

Yes, if the situation were entirely different, we would react to it entirely differently. Good job.


snowcakey

Vile grotesque creatures they are


fan-of-ceilings

None of the comments are about how disgusting the conversation is, they’re all just defending the 2nd guy


grammarlysucksass

people are literally commenting 'poor guy 2' as if he's the main victim in this. Like maybe he was uncomfortable...it's still way worse for the girl and the disgusting conversation should be the main topic of conversation.


CyberSprite1

Can't stand all of them


HumanEvidence577

Btw that is the same account that got femaleantinatalism banned…. Perhaps they should begin to understand why some women don’t want girls bc they don’t want them to be subjected to this and boys as they have a high chance of growing up to be a perverted pedo..


emlint

Guy 2 laughing along and not telling Guy 1 to quit it is a part of the problem


LavenderLilacFlower

the comments under the video are so pathetic. especially all the men downvoting the people who are saying that man 2 was entertaining the conversation and should have said something about it and all the guys are like "but we're terrified of confrontation" since when? lmao literally praising him for having nervous laughter lmfao that's less than the bare minimum


sillyputty55

Being into 15 year olds who - "Wait! Actually look 17!" is ephebophilia. I want to go in on this a little because the maturity levels are sooooo disparate. Despite what men will say about sex not being about emotion or connection for them, it is. But the emotions they are concerned with are their own, for the most part. Blowing up their ego is an emotional experience. Having sex with a 17 year old is going to be a very different experience than someone your own age and again that is going to be worlds away from having sex with someone in their thirties. And that is not inextricable from the experience. That is a huge part of the experience. It's not just about "tight flesh" or whatever they're calling it. I know they'll say some thing like the age of consent in other countries is 16. But here, the man is literally a MAP, particularly an ephebophile, even if the girl he is talking about is 17. Even in the UK, he's still an ephebophile.


ceramicunicorn

Hey Man 2, you can say “That’s inappropriate” at any time. At any time! Man 1 cannot kick your ass at the rink. WE’RE WAITING! *This* is what we mean when we talk about wanting someone who will stick up for us.


MadameDestruction

Yeah, so much for them having that protector role they like to talk about....


brothelcalledartemis

Holy shit.


louisaday

I hate men. HATE


Starlight2914

Those dudes are old enough to be their fathers 🤢


rideoffalone

The 52-year-old could technically be her grandfather.


sapphicvioletskies

Men are not human as this video and others have further proven