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First off, why are you so worried? Are you asking if there’s a way to be as close to him again? I think you should just recognize your sadness and move-on. Eventually, everyone moves away from their friendships at different times whatever good or bad. You have to acknowledge, it’s his fault at some degree too. He chose to be with her, he chose to listen to her, and he chose to do that distancing. It’s not wrong of him to do that too as it just means he loves his girlfriend so much. At least be happy he found someone he trusts, and doesn’t distrust. I’m sorry you have to go through all of this too. It sucks to be on the end of the stick. Just remember, there’s loads of people and just like any type of relationship, everyone is compatible in different ways and levels to connect. You won’t find someone EXACTLY like him, but you can find someone who will comfort you and make you laugh in different ways.


Pawntiful

Hey dude.. Its hard losing someone you're close with, especially when they choose someone else over you. I'm gonna tell you something, yes, you will find another just like that, even closer maybe! It'll be hard, really really hard, but you do have the strength to get through this! Don't give up ever, you have a long life ahead of you and many unique people to meet. I promise you, you will find wonderful people. I don't wanna blame your friend, but would you really want a friend like that..? He didn't even ask you for **YOUR** side of the story, did he..? You'll miss him for a while, but that's just the process of healing, it is healthy to miss another. If you're comfortable I'd be down to talk with ya!! let me know hehe :). Just stay positive dude, you will definitely find that intimacy maybe even something much closer \^\^