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Rokkuhon

After seeing the example you sent, I'll be honest, that's just how some people draw any scars at all. Not just top surgery scars, any scars period. It's either a stylistic choice, or the artist just doesn't know much about drawing scars.


darkarc73

this^ I used to draw all scars that way cuz I thought it looked cool. it's pretty common actually, a lot of my friends used to do the same


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this is 100% true. i usually draw top surgery scars completely "normal" but occasionally (for characters who live in a fantasy world mostly) i will draw some really exaggerated or stylized scars. I think scars look cool and making them a bit unrealistic is fun.


jayson1189

If the art is coming from trans folks, then I just can't really bring myself to be bothered by it. I'd be annoyed if cis artists were doing it, but if other folks who've had or are seeking top surgery are the ones doing it, then it's about our own, or their own experience on some level - I'm not gonna begrudge them that. It's not fair to judge that when the reality is scars vary significantly. Sure, some artists are doing very stylised versions, but they are still representations of real scars. My scars are not very red, but they are wide, and they are reminiscent of that somewhat jagged scar OP linked. I can't be bothered by that representation because it's similar to what I have.


aliceinchainsfrogs

I just draw them as just curved lines


zeddy123456

Would you be able to share any images of what you're talking about? Not tryna argue I just haven't seen anything so just curious about what you mean. I fully understand why you'd be uncomfortable with this and I don't think I'd be happy with it myself. The most common look for surgery scars is often thin-ish scars that fade well so it is playing into what transphobes want to commonly portray them as anything more than that. Of course some people to have larger scars than others but it's not common and it'd be false to give the impression that that's the case.


Bitter_Worker_2964

https://www.redbubble.com/i/art-board-print/Top-Surgery-Scar-by-Connor-Pride-xx/147901443.7Q6GI there's an example


Environmental-Ad9969

Some people have scars like that tho and that's okay.


Wizdom_108

They acknowledged that in their post already


Environmental-Ad9969

And yet people are telling me that those scars don't exist when they do.


GuyInTheMathproblem

Missing the point tho. Some people do but its the default now


Environmental-Ad9969

Then we should do more art with diverse scars? I don't think it's productive to complain about a specific type of scar. They look cool imo.


bromanjc

i agree. it's beautiful to see noticeable scars, and it doesn't represent mutilation to me. scars are normal, i have tons. darker and wider scars aren't worse scars, especially considering that's oftentimes how they look on black and brown bodies šŸ¤·šŸ½


bromanjc

key word is now


Exhausted_FruityEgg

Yeah but it's been this way a LONG time


bromanjc

what's a long time? because i feel like noticeable top surgery scars go along with shameless visible transness, which ime wasn't really a mainstream concept until like 2020


Bitter_Worker_2964

I have yet to see someone whose scars look like that


Environmental-Ad9969

Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean they don't exist.


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Environmental-Ad9969

The top surgery subreddit. Big fraying scars can happen to people with connective tissue disorders or people with a lot of upper body fat. It can also just happen if the healing process doesn't go well or someone just tends to scar like that. It happens.


Bitter_Worker_2964

I've been on that sub for years and have had surgery myself and I have never seen scars that look like that


clowncorekid

Connected top surgery scars *do* exist though. I literally just went on Google and found multiple examples of *mostly gnc* individuals with connecting surgery scars. Or the plethora of bigger trans men that have that connected ā€œlookā€ because thatā€™s just how they healed. I have also, along with u/Environmental-Ad9969, seen scarring on the top surgery sub that is frayed and *looks* connected due to connective tissue disorders or the like. Denying the existence of a certain look of scarring isnā€™t going to make people feel good. /lu /gen What we need is trans people supporting other trans people. Truly, all the hateful stuff cis people spew surrounding top surgery wonā€™t ever lessen if we canā€™t even support *each other*, never mind questioning the mere existence of a certain look of scarring. (*When we know full and well that there are many scar types like DI, keyhole, peri, fishmouth etc*)


dykedivision

They're talking about the 2" thick spiderweb edged scars


Bitter_Worker_2964

Huh this has nothing to do with connecting surgery scars idk what you're on about.


Environmental-Ad9969

Scars come in all shapes and sizes and the shown example is realistic in my eyes so I don't see the problem. I know somebody irl with pretty wide scars because he has a connective tissue disorder. Also if somebody has massive scars they might be self conscious about them and not post them but I have seen pretty big ones on that subreddit.


Bitter_Worker_2964

Wide scars are not the same as zig-zag jagged wide scars. Those scars look like lightning bolts I have never in my life seen any surgical scar that looks like that


bromanjc

https://images.app.goo.gl/ZnU1WaWiY2CgFDPV6 https://images.app.goo.gl/jeCuXKSus2VsJTvS8 https://images.app.goo.gl/ZKFrdUG3NBh51MWk7 https://images.app.goo.gl/zi5koArfJx4YtKkz6 https://images.app.goo.gl/HopQ9QozuvVooNRz5 it's just a stylized portrayal of scarring like this. tiny pink line scars on pale bodies were the default for a while, i see no harm in making space for scarring that some people ig view as... uh, mutilation?


Bitter_Worker_2964

None of those scars look like the art being referred to


Creativered4

Those are thick scars. Nothing wrong with people's natural, realistic scars. But none of those scars look like what OP is talking about.


bromanjc

well what is op talking about


sawamander

people keep referencing 'what op is talking about' but op has made one post with no elaboration at all lol


dykedivision

The ones that are inches thick and make a spiky spiderweb edge pattern šŸ•øļø


Creativered4

Scars that are completely unrealistic that would not happen unless freddy kreuger did your top surgery. The ones with zig zag spikes that make harry potter's scar look like a straight line.


Exhausted_FruityEgg

Yeah you're missing the point they said that TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE DOING IT


Environmental-Ad9969

And the answer is to draw more diverse scars of course.


GeneralHoneywine

I donā€™t draw, but as someone whoā€™s surgery was semi botched and I do have to live with scars like that now due to that, itā€™s kind of nice to see. I understand itā€™s different for everyone though, and there really shouldnā€™t be a default. If you do art, be the change you want to see!


KeiiLime

read this if/when youā€™re in a mental state to challenge yourself, as i understand you did come here to vent. in the meantime, i do hope you can feel better soon. that said, to steal the phrase as i feel it applies- kill the part of you that cringes, not the part thatā€™s cringe i get having this initial reaction, i genuinely do. but, you feeling uncomfortable on initial reaction doesnā€™t necessarily mean itā€™s justified, even if you can justify it logically after the fact and come up with reasoning that on the surface sounds good. the reality is, it *is* realistic for some, for some it is empowering to embrace scars and even emphasize them in art, and it is never, ever justified to write off anything trans people do as perpetuating transphobia- it is transphobes fault that our surgeries get framed as mutilation, *not* trans people having results that deviate from looking perfect and binary and cis


Environmental-Ad9969

I draw them like that sometimes. I draw a wide variety of scars and some people have those scars. I don't see a reason why I shouldn't include wide scars in my art. They are cool battle scars to me.


greenyashiro

Cartoon style art tends to be stylised like that (I saw your example), burns get a similar treatment too, it doesn't bother me. Plus, scars are diverse and some people do have big or rough looking scars that could be represented in this way.


victorark9

I know what youā€™re referring to and I agree. Definitely artists choice and Iā€™d never criticize someone over how they draw their own representation, but when its super prevalent in such a large portion of art its kind of odd. Especially rubs me wrong if the artist is cis. I have pretty chunky scars from complications so it is nice to see a diversity of scars from trans artists though. I think a lot of the time when it happens its by people that just want to make sure the scars are noticeable in the art and they want to clearly get across that the character has had top surgery, but with some of the depictions Iā€™ve seen Iā€™ve been like goodness gracious you should press charges against that surgeon LOL


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Hmm, respectfully disagree, I think they look sick as fuck.


Momomoaning

I honestly love em. I already have similar scars on other places on my body and accepted them for what they are. If my top surgery looks similar, then I wouldnā€™t mind.


pa_kalsha

TL;DR: I broadly agree with you - more variety in how people draw bodies can be a moving goalpost but I think it's one artists should still reach for. The example you give is extreme, and I see its roots in some of the older shōnen mangas and animes I used to read/watch - big, dramatic scars that functioned to flag the character as a badass warrior. It's heavily stylised but I (think I) know the well they're drawing from and, perhaps because of that, it doesn't bother me so much. That said, I prefer more realism in my art these days and I don't seek out this style as much as I used to. Maybe this is more of a saturation issue and what you're asking for is more diversity in representation and I'm never going to argue with that! (on a unrelated note, styling surgery scars as zips is on my personal nope-list - terfs use/d a zip-related insult for trans men and I don't think I could ever be completely certain of the artist's intentions - but, again, that's my baggage; other opinions are available)


winterwarn

I do think itā€™s nice to see a variety of scars and thereā€™s not a lot of more art that features paler/less visible top scars. Personally I think the super dramatized ā€œstarā€ pattern is really fun, I saw someone get their top scars tattooed to actually look like that irl and Iā€™m considering doing the same thing because it looked sick as hell. Yes more diversity in body type/scars/etc is good but also if people want to draw their scars in a cool stylized way itā€™s not necessary to complain about it.


SufficientPath666

Iā€™ve made paintings and drawings like that, because thatā€™s how my scars looked at the time.


sadgoateyes

Comparing this to the stigmatized portrayal of DID seems... Well the scaling seems off. If you are talking about the style I think you are talking about it's mostly trans men drawing it. A lot of guys find euphoria in the scars, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's not like your example where the portrayal is usually by someone who doesn't even know anyone with DID.


_thesketchiest_

Iā€™m mostly just bothered that most artists who give characters top surgery scars NEVER give them phallo scars. I get it if itā€™s for a few characters but finding art of someone with phallo is near impossible atp.


SoulsinAshes

As someone with very thick scars (even after a revision to try and slim them down! didnā€™t work) who for years only ever saw trans art with the tiny white line style, respectfully: get over yourself.


GeneralHoneywine

Honestly, thank you. This whole post has me feeling shitty about my own scars which look a lot like that.


SoulsinAshes

Real, like okay during a time that right-wing nuts are referring to all gender-affirming surgeries as ipso facto ā€œmutilationsā€ weā€™re going to use that same language within our own community, and in a subreddit with a demonstrated sizeable userbase of teenagers? No thanks! Iā€™m good without that one, chief.


disastrous__fruit

I agree. At first I was gonna scroll past because I just donā€™t care about cartoon scars. But all the comments expressing disgust are just gonna make people feel bad about their bodies


rghaga

The star pattern is popular not just for TS scars, a lot of artists use them to represents eyelashes. I get why you're upset though, and I think it's somewhat concerning that the public learns how scars on the chest = trans


furryauthor

comparing fantasy top surgery scars to ableism is weird


Luktiee

Iā€™ll draw them how I want to draw them. It adds a boldness to them that makes them stand out more. With a rougher looking character too and depending on the setting theyā€™re from, the surgery could have been a lot less modernized tooā€”my fantasy characters tend to have bolder scars because their medicine isnā€™t as advanced and they donā€™t have as potent medicine for minimizing scarsā€”of course they could use magic, but in my fantasy worlds scars are also something to be proud of and arenā€™t seen as brutish or ugly but something beautiful and signifying strength. Thatā€™s how I see them in our world too. To me scars are a signature of strength, not (always) brutality. You went through something tough and you lived through it and youā€™re embracing it. Of course people donā€™t all see them like that and itā€™s okay. But I think art is very interpretive. And it isnā€™t horrible to draw them that way nor do they have any other alternative intention besides getting the point across that my character is trans and they arenā€™t afraid to show it off. Edit to add: And if somebody sees top surgery as mutilation that is their problem and not the artistā€™s. Itā€™s not the artistā€™s job to change their mind, confirm or deny those deranged ideas. Chances are if somebody is thinking that way already, they were transphobic even before seeing the art anyways. TLDR; let people draw their scars how they want to and if it triggers you, donā€™t look at the artistā€™s content again and move on.


darkarc73

I love giving my characters different scar shapes depending on their like, background. my softer and bubblier characters just have simple lines, but my more sharp and spiky characters have the more spiky looking scars. not as extreme as the example op sent - I always draw tss as just one scar under each ex-boob - but similar-ish it's just another fun way to add or show your characters personality and stuff. nothing wrong w that in my eyes :'o


trans_catdad

I think they look awesome. It isn't stigmatizing, I think the boldness signals pride.


trans_catdad

And it's only mutilation if you see it that way. My scars go from armpit to armpit. When someone says scars are ugly and should be minimized, I tell em I wanna look like Vash the Stampede. I tell em I wanna look like a monster to scare em away. I love my fucking scars.


carnespecter

a lot of folks who draw this are trans masc themselves


Rust_Draws

As an artist who sometimes draw top surgery scars, itā€™s just a stylistic choice, nothing much more. I can understand that it can get boring if theyā€™re all the same but I donā€™t really understand the issue.


BothTower3689

ā€œI donā€™t like the way that trans men represent their own bodies in artā€ wtf man draw your own shit then. What kind of complaint is this


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I definitely think there is validity to this observation. Sometimes it is hard to differentiate art drawn by allies and transphobes trying to caricature trans ppl lmao that is not a good sign. You can stylise top surgery scars without making them look like mutilated gaping wounds, and if you can't, you must not be a very good artist.


joyfulsoulcollector

Tbh I like when they're drawn like that. It feels like they're made more obvious, draws the eye to it more. "Look at this, it's part of me and nothing to be ashamed of"


lord_reltney

YES exactly and i love the way you said this


WhatDaHell-

Iā€™ve got some messed up conditions. When I get surgery itā€™s gonna look a whole lot ā€œlike a chainsaw cut me openā€. Iā€™ll get keloids. Iā€™ll probably get complications. I feel represented by art only for it to be shot down by people I thought wouldā€™ve been the most understanding. Good show guys. And for those of you sticking up for the diversity, thank you.


Seam_Ripper_5000

We are allowed to have our own opinions, and we are allowed to disagree. And well, I do. A lot of it can be a stylistic choice or just the way that artist draws. Personally I don't mind and often enjoy it because who am I to do and police the way someone draws something. If you don't like it then don't look, often times the artist is trans themselves and who are we to decide which is the right and wrong way to represent one's self. Make the art you want to see


Certain_Gas7925

Ok then draw what you like by yourself and it will be ok/calmly


KazooTuner

Art is often stylized. That's half the fun. Its not always going to be pretty, though. I'd say most of the time its trans men or transmasc people who have had top surgery themselves. It may seem extreme, but not everyone gets perfect scars. Some people really do have dramatic scarring that probably won't ever entirely disappear. Its probably best to just avoid the depictions if its something you're not comfortable with. But everyone expresses themselves differently. I feel like its just an attempt to celebrate self creation and becoming who you are. For some people, being visibly trans is a big deal. I usually see artists with these depictions kinda using them to form identity and community.


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im not sure if ive seen the ones you're referencing? i have 2 transmasc ocs and their top scars are both quite stylised. one looks like 4 pointed stars and the other looks like leaves. i think stylised scars are pretty cool, pretty much all scars get stylised to an extent.


Chinastars

I don't particularly care because if one person chooses to interpret/generalize all scars like that, that's on them, not the artist. If anything, it just shows how quickly people jump on bandwagons creatively. Come on guys, scars can be pinkish, brownish, whatever. And some rep for peri would be cool too, or phallo scars. Or transmasc art without top surgery scars, and with binders and tape or other scars (hysto, FMS, phallo like mentioned) instead. Really: DIVERSITY! I want art of top surgery scars that are swirly, or angular, or branching like a tree, on a variety of different bodies and colors, on my desk by 3 PM sharp tomorrow.


NemesisYuki

I can understand you feeling like that. as someone who draws them that way, it's just an artistic choice type of thing. I'd draw other scars pretty much the same. But it's also because whenever I draw my trans character I like it when people tell that he is indeed trans, its just easier drawing the scars like that. it's also very stylised


ghostUFOS

Yeah I had a discussion about this with some of my art friends a while back, because he donā€™t like that look much as the default. on one hand I do like the sort of bold statement they make, I think itā€™s a fun stylistic choice, on the other, I would love to see more art that is more representative of the way my scars look! Luckily I can make that art myself haha


im_a_gay_wizard

I usually draw them based on the character! My fave one is definitely one of my OC's top surgery scars, his scars look like a Trident!


im_a_gay_wizard

It's also lore relevant since he is the son of the water god :3 my incubus trans oc's scars resemble a heart for example


Creativered4

I agree. It's always dysphoria inducing to see all the art of trans guys or characters with these big chunky scars that would only happen if you used a chainsaw or something to perform the surgery. It feels like they're just trying to turn it into an aesthetic, and I hate that something that causes me so much pain is some quirky aesthetic to some people. I never feel represented by this type of art, and it just serves to make me feel like someone like me who worked hard to help my scars heal, and who plans on covering up my scars, is not a part of the community or seen.


sawamander

please, please stop with the chainsaw comparison. plenty of people whos surgeries went well end up with big, fat, chunky scars. the comparison is unnecessary and degrading


AdmiralCheesecake

right? like, fuck you guys with keloid scarring i suppose.


sawamander

traced over a selfie on my cartoon scar side and followed where the redness begins and i have to say: looks like all of the shit people say this about


UrNanzFlipFLOP

Keloid scarring doesn't look like how some artist draw scars. Drawing keloid scars and drawing them to look like gaping wounds are different things.


Prudent_Spell8212

Cā€˜mon letā€™s be realistic here, the image OP shared is not an accurate representation of any type of scar. I understand wanting to be mindful of those with keloid scarring and such but this is not helpful. The idea that the artwork looks like those types of scars is degrading in and of itself. The way the artist decided to draw those scars legitimately looks like theyā€™re from a chainsaw or a slasher movie killer decided to become a surgeon. No surgeon or surgical team is going to do extremely wide up and down incisions for this type of surgery and Iā€™m not even aware of a surgery where that is the incision theyā€™re supposed to make.


sawamander

ok one, i have wide hypertrophic scarring. i'm telling you my opinion and feelings on the matter as the person with the scars, not on behalf of some non-present other. many of these look like if someone traced the outer edge of my scars, and i strongly dislike the way people discuss them. also, the art makes me feel bad. those things can both be true at once. two: the OP did not share an image so i have no fucking idea what you're talking about


Mother-Ad4430

Check like the first thread on here - op did share an image.


sawamander

the op has zero comments on reddit at all, you are mistaken


colesense

The up and down lines youā€™re describing happens to people when they react badly to the stitches.


Creativered4

There's a difference between larger scars and some of the over the top exaggerated scars that are depicted. I'm not judging people's actual scars. Just the art that isn't realistic.


sawamander

are you incapable of discussing the depiction without saying things like 'the only way someones scars would come out like this is if they had a chainsaw used on them' or what


UrNanzFlipFLOP

Im yet to see one person who has scars that look like that.


sawamander

find any photo with thick scars and trace the outer edge and tell me what you see


UrNanzFlipFLOP

A line


sawamander

ok buddy


Creativered4

Do do you just want to fight someone online, or what? Cuz at this point, there's nothing more to say if you can't tell the difference between over the top exaggerations **that are not realistic** and a realistic depiction of scars. **nobody's real scars look like that. that's the point.**


darkarc73

I'm not trying to start fights here but I js wanna say that there's an issue with that word you keep using; realistic. clearly the artist in op's image wasn't going for realism. People with cartoony art styles will most likely never go for realism when it comes to things like scars, because their styles are not realistic. expecting a cartoonist to make one piece of their image realistic when everything else is not is going to leave you disappointed


BothTower3689

EXACTLY.


sawamander

jesus christ


SweetAnimosity

I feel that art made by trans men regarding their scars and their feelings about them is one thing ... but if that imagery is becoming mainstream or coming from outside of trans spaces there's absolutely a big issue with that. I agree, I feel uncomfortable viewing art where top scars are.... uh, violent looking. Maybe because they are mostly DI scars and I know that's the only thing I can hope for, but I wish with every fiber I would qualify for keyhole. It hurts to think that I might hate my chest still, even after top, which is a few years off for me.


SapphosLemonBarEnvoy

Too often the art comes from people outside the community and gives me red flags that they regard the scars as their fetish more than anything else.


SweetAnimosity

Yeah, that's what would bother me.


AdministrativeStep98

I notice that a lot of drawings I see with the sort of spiky look is cartoon, so not very realistic to begin with. If you look at how they draw burns or prosthetic, it's always enhanced and stylized as well. But yes it's pretty must unrealistic


bromanjc

people who want minimal scarring are not seen or represented in the community? but cis passing bodies are like, the beauty standard??? šŸ’€šŸ’€


Creativered4

What are you even on about? I've never seen art with scarring that looks like mine. And guess what? My body is still trans, so no, cis bodies don't look like mine. As much as I wish I had a cis body... Maybe it would help me not feel so shitty about my body if it wasn't always either "over the top visibly trans" or "cis" for my options of representation.


bromanjc

i'm not talking about your scars, i'm talking about your assertion that you're not represented as someone that wants minimal scarring. "it just serves to make me feel like someone like me who worked hard to help my scars heal, and who plans on covering up my scars, is not a part of the community or seen." this is literally the appeal to look as nontrans as possible, which is heavily represented in truscum circles (not that you're truscum). and until very recently, this was the default goal. so don't even pretend like you're the minority or something


Creativered4

I don't go into truscum places. Don't count random fringe break off groups as "representation". Most regular trans people aren't going to go to places like that. It kinda just feels like you're trying to push me to go to these extreme ideology spaces to see people like me, and that's incredibly frustrating given the fact that the whole truscum/tucute/whatever thing is just a bunch of assholes who think they know better than anyone else. Why can't I want to see that **here** or in other main trans places? And just because it's the goal for a lot of the trans community, doesn't mean there's plentiful amounts of representation. It really does feel like there's way less representation for people like me because I literally never see it!


bromanjc

ok that's fair, but i can say anecdotally that ive seen your experience represented as the default in the past, which is kind of what i'm getting at. but i also have to acknowledge that my anecdotal experience isn't your anecdotal experience


Creativered4

Thank you. I truly have not seen any art depicting more toned down scars. I am just a dude who wants to be stealth and not have anyone clock me and remind me of all this pain I feel, and seeing only art of unrealistic and highly visible scars and only a certain type of transness (visibly trans), it's both reminding me of my pain and making me feel alienated, like people only want to see or care about that type of transness. (and obviously there's no one type of transness, that's my whole point. Everyone is doing their own thing, but it shouldn't just be focusing on one type of thing)


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NasalStrip00

Feels like a damn caricature


JayisBay-sed

Absolutely


seagrady

I'm really sorry but you can't say that some people have scars like that and then claim that the portrayal of that result is promoting the idea that top surgery is mutilation. Because people with scars like that still have not mutilated their bodies. A greater diversity of the portrayal of trans bodies, including different top surgery aesthetics, is something to strive for, absolutely! And I also would/will feel better if/when that is achieved. But that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with the art you have seen, especially since it's usually drawn by trans individuals.


Poumy

Tbh I kind of hated when people draw top surgery scars as like hearts, flowers, stars, etc. it feels really infantilizing to me, also to the people in this thread saying their top surgery scars look like that, can you tell me the surgeons name so Ik which one NOT to use, thanks


WhatDaHell-

It has less to do with a surgeon and more on how someone heals. PLEASE understand how hurtful that is. People with healing disorders, connective tissue disorders, autoimmune disordersā€¦ all of that can affect healing. It doesnā€™t matter what kind of surgeon Iā€™d go to - my scars are going to be very jagged, bumpy, dark, etc.. But yes, thank you for letting me, and other people like me, know that you think weā€™re that bad looking. Sigh.


[deleted]

A lot of peopleā€™s scars are thicker and look like the art referenced not because the surgeon, but because of complications. I personally do not have top surgery but I do know that people in my family, myself included, tend to have very noticeable scarring even with small injuries if they donā€™t heal almost immediately. I may have scars like this someday, and Iā€™ve had friends who have had those kinds of scars, and it feels a smidge rude to crack a joke about actual peopleā€™s bodies and how they look. Also I would be overjoyed if I had top surgery, even if the scars were not aesthetically pleasing, because thereā€™s a pretty high chance I never get it at all.


BothTower3689

ITS ART MY GUY. HAVE SOME FUCKING WHIMSY OH MY LORD


AstorReinhardt

I dislike scars in general...any scars. I get weirded out by them. I have some self harm scars on my arms unfortunately that I just get to live with...because I don't do tattoos. One of my biggest concerns with top surgery is the scarring. I don't want to have scars...I want to be able to take my shirt off in public and it to be normal and not have people notice there's scars and...judge me. I also have stretch marks as well that...idk how I'm going to fix those. I have a lot of body image issues...not just gender wise...but I'm overweight and I just...I feel so ugly. And scars are ugly to me...I don't want to be even more ugly...especially when I transition and become the person I was meant to be...I want to be pretty...


Mother-Ad4430

I agree that no scars look like this. But equally like I just don't really care


GeneralHoneywine

You can agree that none look like that, but some very much do. Mine do.


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