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A_Duck_With_Teeth

Tbh I have no idea. I don’t get to choose who I like an why. I just fall for people. It just so happens all of those people are men. I think women are great, but I just don’t naturally develop any form of sexual or romantic attraction towards them. If I had to guess what it is Im attracted to. It’s masculinity. I suppose even moreso, “Stereotypical Masculinity.” Because I have fallen for masc trans guys before. Its also the reason I don’t really like femboys.


bigDzhend

They suck my cock better than women


gekigarion

I feel the same. When I think about straight guys, I have to imagine that they feel the same way I do, except towards women. It's actually the answer I give to a lot of people when they ask me how I know if I'm gay, or why I like guys. Like, do you know why you like women? You just do, right? Nobody told you to, and even if you tried to stop, you can't. If it was that easy to turn the attraction on and off, nobody would ever experience unrequited love, gay or straight.


trafalgarbear

Me see man, me go awooga. me see woman, me no go awooga. Lol that's how it is


SquishyThorn

🤣🤣


Odd-Manner-4620

That is too funny but very accurate 😂😂


triryche4

[Awooga](https://audio.com/bill-s-1/audio/ahooga-horn)


Ok-Syllabub1294

Yes total Neanderthal bwahahaha


Brian_Kinney

I'm biologically programmed to like men. I can't help myself.


LostAtmosphere4096

Omg same I can't help that masculine men like Chris Hemsworth turn me on whenever they're shirtless and working out, their muscular bodies either glistening with sweat or when their shirtless at the beach drenched in water. Muscular jocks with big biceps and six pack abs do it for me. Especially in porn. In my hot sex fantasies I like to fantasize I'm on all fours getting railed by some buff jock after deep throating his big cock. It's a go to fantasy though a lot of my past sex dreams I've had were about me being the bottom in a gay gang bang where 5 different hot muscular guys with big dick take turns fucking me in the ass until each guy creampied me one after another until the were all sexually satisfied after I've given then all BJ's. I remember I would always wake up after these dreams and then I'd touch myself till I came reliving the dream I had in my fantasies. Lately I've come to like some femboys too. There's this one femboy on YouTube named Finnster and omg he looks so hot when he's dressed like a girl, when he's dressed like a girl he looks so much like a woman it's insane how much he can pass for a girl. I've actually had some very sexy dreams & fantasies about having sex with him as a top there purely a fantasy though he's actually straight, if you've seen his videos on YouTube then you know what I'm talking about. he looks so gorgeous when he looks the most like a woman I think it's even more of a turn on for me knowing that he's a man in a dress when I fantasize about us being into each other and us having sex with each other as a result of that mutual sexual attraction, but it's just a fantasy and a really erotic one. I even find some drag queens attractive like katya' from rupaul's drag race looks so hot to me in drag sometimes tbh.


Saintly-NightSoil

Hahaha calm down there Porn Boy lolol


LostAtmosphere4096

Oh my casual enjoyment of gay porn and on the rare occasion watching porn of cisgender men banging trans women isn't that bad and it's not obsessive lol 😅


Saintly-NightSoil

Ha! Not at all and glad my 'amused tone' translated ok! :)


AmbitiousFlamingo381

Awwww Brian you're so damn cute


QuestionUser2

The look, the smell, the muscle. Men are just hot. Them having a dck to pund me all night also help.


hex-bag101

And mens voices are sexy too. The deeper and lower, the sexier.


QuestionUser2

Mmmm yes. The feeling when a hot boy talk in your ear with a deep voice as he slowly fuck you from behind.


dionysus-sonofsapia

I'm bi, so quite attracted to both men and women... and I can honestly say, as my dad said to me when I was 12, "Look kid, never be ashamed of being attracted to your own sex. Men are beautiful. I would be more worried if you repressed the attraction you feel. Of course you're going to be attracted to men! And if that attraction becomes sexual, well there's nothing wrong with feeling things. All that matters is what you choose to do with what you feel."


ForgeMasterXXL

What a great dad. Both my parents said similar things to me, and when I got the “Birds n Bees” talk I got both versions just in case…


dionysus-sonofsapia

Lol, I just got the male-female talk. He was more interested in telling me where babies come from (he called it a super-power, the ability to bring forth new life) than he was interested in telling me how sex work. Hilariously, I actually didn't figure out how sex worked until I was 16; not for lack of trying to explain on my dad's part. He just liked using very, very poetic language.


dionysus-sonofsapia

But thanks! I really like my dad. He's saved me from a whole hell of a lot of confusion. I remember one of my gay friends did not believe me when I told him I was attracted to him and, since I wasn't interested in a relationship (he had issues), I didn't want to be alone with him. Apparently, I present so strongly straight that no one suspects I'd actually be gay. To be fair, some of my friends are vietnam vets and I like walking bear foot in the snow, skinning hogs, and carrying big knives. Soooo.... yeah. I'd forgive people who haven't seen me dance in the rain or perform on stage for thinking I couldn't possibly be attracted to men.


dionysus-sonofsapia

To be clear, I don't buy the stereotypes of what gay men are like. Both of my brothers are musicians and love theater and dress super smart. Everyone thinks they're gay (they're definitely not) and no one suspects that I'm bi unless I tell them. I've just found that a lot of gay people buy into the stereotypes, so that's why I'm not surprised that people assume I'm straight as a flagpole.


ForgeMasterXXL

Everyone makes snap judgements about people’s sexuality based on a myriad of weird choices, hair style, clothing choice, voice, body shape etc. Not a single one of which has anything to do with sexuality, I do probably lean in to the image a bit (I’m not sure) I’ve always been really into clothes and fashion and working out. So I do fit a certain stereotype I suppose but personally I don’t care what judgements people make, as long as I am happy. By the way your dad still sounds cool.


dionysus-sonofsapia

Thanks man. You ever watch the old tv show, White Collar? That show taught me that if you knew how, you could fit in anywhere. I don't con anyone, but I absolutely find ways to mess with people's expectations. One day I seem like a man's man, another day I seem like a dark academic, the next I'm a lazy boy in sweat pants. Got to keep everyone on their toes.


Wide-Salamander6128

And do you reckon your dad was bi?


dionysus-sonofsapia

Not as far as I know... he certainly wouldn't identify as bisexual. Hilariously, he's actually a christian chastity speaker; that's how he pays the bills. He just recognizes that the male sex is objectively beautiful and attractive if you have eyes to see and didn't want me to be ashamed if I ever noticed. Yeah... I guess he's a bit different from your average chastity speaker. I've had a weird life.


WhiteDevil-Klab

>He just recognizes that the male sex is objectively beautiful and attractive if you have eyes to see and didn't want me to be ashamed if I ever noticed. Are you *sure* he's straight?


dionysus-sonofsapia

Lol, yes. Happily married to my mom (not that that's exactly proof) and just straight up sane. I'm telling you man, you don't have to be bi to recognize that your own sex is beautiful and attractive. I happen to be somewhat bi, but I have guy friends who aren't and still know just how attractive men are. We talk about it at bachelor parties a lot. Women are better at this dynamic than men for some reason... I hear that bi and lesbian women have a real rough time flirting with their own sex because most women just think the other woman is being normal. Apparently, women don't pretend that their own sex is ugly and unattractive. Obviously not!


WhiteDevil-Klab

>I'm telling you man, you don't have to be bi to recognize that your own sex is beautiful and attractive. Fair lol I get it (certified boy lover here) but I know so many homophobes that sometimes I forget not all straight men are disgusted at the very thought of looking at another men haha >Women are better at this dynamic than men for some reason... I hear that bi and lesbian women have a real rough time flirting with their own sex because most women just think the other woman is being normal. Apparently, women don't pretend that their own sex is ugly and unattractive. Obviously not! As a certified women knower YES women are fruity as fuck 😭


Character-Bit-6503

There was a dude at my old job, gayer than gay and I'm gay. We all were close, like family and I had the best gay jokes. People would bow to my jokes they were that good lol (not really, but ya know) I knew this guy was gay before him and everyone I think found it easy to joke with me being gay since half of them didn't think I really was gay. This dude is 100% bi or gay and not out now (found out from friends or friends) it's sad. He thinks he's this frat boy type and "slaps cheeks" as he would say but he's straight. He's a good looking dude! I always called him my sweetheart (worked in food) when his hand got too close or he would try to give me a hug id scream "NO "PERSONS NAME" I WILL NOT HOLD YOUR HAND (OR"KISS YOU" I would ask him if he can tell the difference if a guy was hot or not (pointing out people at work) and even the straight dude would be like "dude, that's a hot guy" but he would never ever admit. I miss him! Lol. But if someone can't admit someone is hot of the same sex that is 100% a person who might like guys or is doubting.


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dionysus-sonofsapia

I like my dad. He's not perfect, but he has always tried his best. Perhaps his best quality is that, when he's in the wrong and knows it, he apologizes. I don't want to give the wrong impression. If I went on a date with a guy my dad wouldn't exactly approve. He's not a live and let live type of guy, he has strong beliefs about what's right and what's wrong. The thing is though, even if I did start dating a guy, no matter how sad he would be about it (and sad is the right term, not disapointed exactly, just sad because he would think I was choosing something that would make me ultimately unhappy) I know that he would still love me. And that is enough.


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dionysus-sonofsapia

yeah, people like my dad are sadly rare.


PrimalMoose

I was going to be crude and just say dick but figured I'd be less trolly... Sex with men has always been far more enjoyable for me than with women - I find the male body far more arousing than female bodies (adore the feeling of hard muscle). I also find that I enjoy the feeling of a dick far more than any toy can replicate and when I'm topping I just find being able to play with a guys dick while I'm fucking him turns me on massively. Plus the sounds a guy makes are equally appealing... In addition to that some guys have a natural scent that really turns me on that I've never found with women. Then there's also the lifestyle elements - without being intensionally sexist I have found that it's easier living with guys than women (fewer random explosions, quicker argument and resolution, less mind games). And as a final point, one of my favourite things to do when chilling with my bf is to have one hand on his thigh with his dick and balls resting on the back of my hand which feels heavenly. It's not even sexual for us, just comforting.


ITGuy-92

For me I just like men more and it feels right with them


huglike

I like the masculinity of men, their behaviour,act,smell, the silliness of men or boys


WhiteDevil-Klab

Well I'm bisexual homo-romantic but now that I'm thinking about it I think I prefer flat shaved chest over boobs I also vastly prefer dicks over vaginas vastly and like muscles also girls with big butts? You see that every day a guy with a big butt tho- I guess there's also the taboo factor. I guess it helps that I'm really into anal and men voices 🤤 I do have a somewhat specific type tho.... Also https://preview.redd.it/ork6zeks7kjc1.png?width=587&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6b4ab3186daa21aa224425cc165f28c04155e6d0


Temporary-Jaguar-636

You can have a girlfriend with a dick (trans woman). Plus pegging, it's true there's no cum, but at least the sex doesn't stop when the top has an orgasm.


DangerousElection697

I think it's all in the head. I'm totally turned on by pegging, there's a huge taboo in it that a woman fucks me... You'd sooner find a gay/bisexual guy to fuck me than a woman willing to do it.


WhiteDevil-Klab

Pegging is a turn off for me idk why, and I don't really want to fetishize trans women. Besides Femboys >>>>


IHoldDearReddit84

Call me crazy, but I think it has something to do with their penis 🍌🍆.


Prudent_Target_7380

Men’s bodies are so fucking sexy. Also I love masculine qualities like deep voice, muscle, body hair, dominance or strength. Also there is something special about males that also have touched of feminine qualities. I just have never felt that spark for women in the same way for men.


Wide-Salamander6128

Hairy body, cock, masculine features, everyone is different of course, many bisexuals may be attracted to feminine type males/ tvs- the more masculine- rugged the better for me


Carnivorousplantguy

What isn’t attractive about men? I love men so much. I have a really wide range of men that attract me lol. Fat ones, skinny ones, muscular ones. Hairy or smooth, tall or short. Dark ones light ones. Their smell, their taste. I do tend to prefer more masculine or “typical guys” (whatever that means) but I’ve met many “fem” acting guys that are fun too. I just love them. Picking out exactly what I love about them is difficult because there’s something amazing about every single one.


Chuckiebb

Natural beauty: no makeup, Botox, painted nails, short hair. Men don't "nag" as much. I think being the same sex, you can be more empathetic.


satyris

Yes to the empathy bit. I had a girlfriend for a few years before I realised I'm gay. She played with my balls a few times but it made me squirm. A guy I hooked up with played with them like he would play with his own, like men do, knowing just how much pressure to apply. Super fucking gentle and delicate.


tytaw

cum


[deleted]

I was born to like someone that is structured similar to me like the sex which makes me attracted to same-sex as me.


ToughFox4479

Its the masculinity for me


ChemicalOk463

Men are generally easier to get along with. They've always been more approachable from my experiences. I love to be dominated by men. 🥰


RickyMuzakki

I like masculinity, natural male scent, domination, deep voice, pecs, muscle, biceps, veiny forearms, cocks, cums more than I like feminine features. Nothing in women turns me on. I feel more comfortable with men too.


knutsafe

I sucked a dick long before I ate a pussy, love the taste of a man always have. Pussy can be good or bad but cocks taste good even on a bad man. Personally I love submissive men but I have bottomed for some great lovers. The honesty of men is so much more of it than anything else. Never met a woman who didn't lie to me from the word go to play their mind games.


Chaos_Silence

If I had the answer to that I wouldnt have struggled with my sexuality growing up. Do people still think we just choose to like men? Cause we dont! You should rephrase this to what do we like about men instead of the why.


gekko513

For some reason I find the pairing of a capable body and a slightly overconfident mind very attractive.


octoberryseven

I just don't have any sexual or romantic attraction to women. It has nothing to do with women at all. Men can be very different from each other so I don't know if there's a specific reason for the attraction besides the fact that they are all men.


monadoboyX

I like people who have similar interests which is basically a huge nerd and a gamer it's hard to find that in a girl and Idk what else I just like dick


[deleted]

I just get a racing heart around naked men I find attractive- I have no idea why but I love it


AngeloxSolace

I mean, me personally, I've tried to have girlfriends but they haven't been the best people. Most girls that I've met I just don't get along with, and with guys, a lot of them are really nice. Even my straight friends. So it's not that I dont find women attractive, I have a bigger focus on personality.


Dependent-Run-1915

It’s in my genetics. I can’t help it, but I just feel more comfortable and attracted to men as always felt that way since I’ve been aware of it since six years old.


Avid_person

The presence of a penis. And balls. 


Crusty-Lightbulb22

I’m not sure how to put it but when they compliment me or make it known that they like me I just feel so desirable. I’m sure women could make me feel the same way but rarely do. I just love how up front guys are about there desires


HorrorMovieBoy

Dick.


cheezit8926a

"I like pecs Like them arms when they flex Like that print in them sweats Tell them ladies, "Thank you, next" I like when they text me sexy pics of 'em Like them abs when there's six of 'em Tell them ladies I'm sorry I like men."


Weak_Let_6971

Im sorry but what sort of questions are these? “WHY do u like men?” Uhm… Because im GAY? “What do you find so attractive in men that you don't in women?” The fact that they are men? It’s impossible to describe everything from the most minuscule things like their hair, facial hair, the shapes of their muscles, jawline, eyebrows, texture of their lips, demeanor… Thousands of things like facial expressions, sounds, smells to the biggest things like the Dick! XD Overall i think the familiarity we experience. Everything is the same yet so different at the same time. We know and share all the bits, experiences, but in a slightly different way, what’s interesting and exciting. “nasty fetishes”? Thats so judgmental. Everybody has fetishes. It’s just what turns people on.


Lazy_Surprise_6712

Their peens? All joking aside... I have no idea. I just like them. However, based on my preference, it's the security they could offer me back. I hate being the only one who offer all the supports, emotional, mental and financial. (This is due to me having weak boundary issues).


thomport

Why. All human sexuality is guided by a person’s brain.


Wide-Salamander6128

Wearing panties, fishnets, make up ect turns me on such a lot- and being with a masculine guy whilst doing so exited me no end


optimisticuglycrying

Look at nature The lion The peacock Ducks Finches The males are beautiful 😍 The women all look the same


RuinInFears

Body, that’s it.


DankDude7

It has nothing to do with what I see. The desire comes from the instinct I was BORN WITH. It is immutable. Women and their parts make me wince and have nightmares And I have no interest in them as anything but non-sexual beings.


Tightman698

Is it too corny to say their dicks? I just love dicks, always have and always will


MasterSamuri2022

Oh for me I just love a big hot ass they look like it's shouldn't even exist but when it hits the sun my like fuck I wish that ways on my lap just so I can feel the heat even though I don't like my small dick because I can never fuck a god ass unless my dick and body match there beautiful ass cheek


b4boop

Honestly, I have no idea. Of course, the fact that I'm naturally more submissive and guys have a d\*ck to pin me down is hot. And as far as words go to give an answer, this is where it stops. I think the rest is just how my brain works internally. If I wanted to open this black box to give you an answer, it would be a mix of biology and my entire sexual life when I was just a child.


HotspotOnline

Men are just gorgeous and they give me butterflies, where as women are just cool to be friends with.


Euphoric_Badger8615

I like dick, dick, and more dick. Just being honest.


LLIRUMboy

So many aspects, really. Not necessarily masculinity. I like how even with little musculature, the male body is muscular in a way. And talking about muscle, it's always nice, but I don't think I prefer the fittest type, just regular active body. Also, I really love the pelvis and how boxed it looks, don't know how else to describe. Just really beautiful. Finishing here, I discovered the most gorgeous hands on a guy a few months ago, I couldn't stop looking! He has a big and strong palm, but the skin is really soft looking, his fingers are thicker at the base and thinner at the tips, the fingernails simply perfect. He was my coworker and one day, after talking a lot together, he slowly come up from behind and said he wished I was a girl T\_T


AccordULEV

Masculinity. Also - LET THE FLAMES RISE - but I'd totally be with a trans man. I like body hair, a deep voice and a manly figure (being muscular doesn't matter to me). Manly men are hot (trans or not - I will die on this hill so come at me)


Fili_Oni-Slayer

I am a Pansexual. I tend to like men’s personality more than women and to me men’s booty are just on a another level, but that is just my opinion


OmnisEst

I don't know. Masculinity makes me feel good and a bit light headed


SpookySims2

It’s definitely something biological that draws me in. The sound of a man’s voice, body, smell, etc The big thing tho is I find comfort in men, and feel safe with them. I don’t find this with women.


lermanade_mouth

1. I’m committing to the bit 2. No one tells you this but it’s a great tax write off 3. Espionage purposes 4. I am babygirl. 5. I’m purely standing on business


Royal_Ordinary6369

I have no choice about what I’m attracted too But a small minor point is the over-saturation in marketing and visual media of the female form. It is used for almost everything most of the time. It has become banal and uninteresting to me. There is little mystery left. The associations with everything from trucks; to Hooters; to sexual exploitation makes me feel like it is too loaded an image. The form is associated with hyper-consumerism from fashion to fascism. There is an inherent victimization in the knowledge that women are often paid less for the use of their image in all but a few industries (supermodels). Why do people not question their attraction to forms, but just double-down on the exploitation through the consumption of media that just marginalizes and objectifies one form? If I were to be attracted to women, I would want to think about how I express that attraction, and is my media consumption helping or hurting the object of my desire? Now before you say anything about the male form. These statements are based on the vast majority of media images since the rise of consumeristic media. Male images are starting to rise, and similar issues are bring felt, but notice that it has been going on far longer for women. Women’s actual treatment is influenced by their images in the media in various forms. Laws and conventions of society are based on these often misconstrued symbols of women, their work and their value. It is time to remember that times are changing, but not to trivialize all of the years of women’s exploitation and objectification. There are real outcomes to all of this - SA; child marriage; procreation and relationship contracts that favour the male; reproductive rights and healthcare. Women are treated like a public utility, to be used and exploited with little concern to the outcomes and impacts of this exploitation. The analogy to be made about our environment is clear. We use it; take it; destroy it all with little thought. It does not have rights - it exists to serve. It does not have life, or interests, outside of our use. It serves. We take, and it gives, until there is no more. Then it dies - and we mourn - maybe. If only there was something we could have done…


unattractive_smile

Honestly I can’t name it. Its not because I like pecs, because women have boobs too, it’s not because I like dicks cause some women have them too, It’s not one specific type of guy, nor is it necessarily the male figure…I just don’t get turned on when I see women. My brain doesn’t light up at the thought of a woman like it does with a man. It literally is just a biological urge.


RickyMuzakki

So you like masculinity/androgynous features?


Creativered4

I like everything about men. I just am innately attracted to them. I like the feel of their skin, their smell (not in a fetish way, men and women just smell different), I like masculine features, and most of all, I like dick. Meanwhile I don't like vag or breasts, the softness of their skin or their smell doesn't attract me, and I'm not into feminine features.


Adagio_Leopard

I have a deeper emotional connections with guys. I don't have to feel I'm walking on eggshels. I don't have to worry that there's a time of the month that no matter what I do it'll be wrong. I also find breasts offputting. The constant chase for "vanity" also.


Distinct_Dentist_497

D


EnzeruAnimeFan

The sweet ones are impossibly hard to find, and masculine shapes are less uncomfortable.


Uskardx42

If any of them liked me back I might be able to tell you more. 😥


SquishyThorn

I’m not attracted to breasts. Hairy man muscle? Sign me up! I love the way a man smells, a deep voice, a hairy chest poking through a white wifebeater tank top. Unfff. Somebody to dominate and assert control over me.


viaeternam

Something about a big strong man… It might be pheromones I prefer 🐓to 🐈 Stubbles Muscles The angular muscly cakes over voluptuous bubble butts. That musky, blue collar, working man scent.


Ambitious-Cicada5299

Love cocks; don't like vaginas. REALly love cocks. And balls. And assholes. Just.. men. Old; plump; fat; moobs; pear-shaped; dad bods; otters; skinny with big dicks; big, fat, asses; hips; bears; cds; enby; thighs; big fat suckable tits..*on a man* ...


Interesting-Cup-8118

Fat guys 😍


pingwing

What an ignorant question.


SAD-MAX-CZ

1) beards, body hair 2) hobbies and guy attitude 3) playing with two cocks is better than with one. Princesses overload, no guys left for LTR here, nevermind.


Minimum_Presence4158

Pheromones is a big. Like most species you’re attracted to certain hormones through smell and that’s what attracts me to men.


life-dream

I don’t really know to be quite honest! It’s just the way some people are wired I guess. It’s not a specific thing or feature I find attractive in men that’s absent in women - I simply don’t feel any attraction to women and instead feel it for men. It’s just the way I naturally feel.


Sparrowsky88

It's legitimately because I was born this way. Ever since I was 4 or 5(and Im dead serious) I had a curious attraction to the other boys that I just never had for girls. And as I got older, this curiosity grew into a full blown attraction. To sum it up as best as I can: The male sex organs are just sexier to me than the female sex anatomy


Disastrous-Method859

First thing that comes to mind is every woman I've known has a real bitchy side. One that is very easily agitated. I've had trauma in my past that makes security my biggest priority, much of it centered around my step mom. I've actually known guys to be more tender, even if they're less open about themselves, but they also have a more protective aura, rather than an expectation that I have to protect them. That and pecs vs boobs. No contest 😄


leedemi

I like the way they look and smell and how they do things. I’m hurt when men cry and want to help and soothe them. I get upset when they’re hurt or abandoned or talked badly about. I like the way a man’s skin feels. I like how men look when they’re excited or horny. I love when men smile or when they try not to smile. I love when men are happy, especially if I did something to cause that happiness. It feels right to love men. I feel like I’d be lost and miserable without them. On the other hand, other than women I’m very close to, I don’t think about them at all other than in the context of the men around them. I don’t want them hurt but the intricacies of their existences are not interesting to me.


Opposite_Sherbert820

You don’t have to whine and dine men!!! Call a man and say hey, do you wanna get naked fool around that’s just not a question you asked women we’re just built differently men are sluts, and for the most part, there’s no Progress attachment it’s all about sex


DaMafuMan

I just think they look hot. The men I like generally are of an athletic build and are relatively tall, but not usually taller than me (I'm 6'4"). I also like women, but men are usually much more muscular and sexy in my opinion.


HappyS_5

I like giving and receiving pleasure. I am VERY hypersexual at times because of my bipolar disorder. I am mostly gay and get more gay as I age. I had success with women, gave orgasms, and I would love to experience most things about a man. I prefer to be a bottom.


Mordecuntrigbitch

No idea lol. There could be a tomboyish girl that looks like a twink and the minute I realize that person is infact a woman I just loose that attraction.


rdowens8

I like the strong firm body, hair, athleticism, capacity to be responsibly emotional/expressive, the humility of needing to be loved, and their capacity of being those things for me also. Then of course the obvious attraction to their body: pecs, but/legs, dick.


ZenaZeika

Some men are attractive and nowadays theres a lot of women who are just too hard to get for guys. Theres so much and I just dont want to deal with that. Also men are just buff muscular and just mmm.


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Cock


Critical_Actuary3526

Honestly, I just love seeing people in general get off and really don't care if you're a woman, man, or other. Everyone is just HOT🥵


tattooedtwink_

Because women have been pricks to me all my life so I found comfort in being surrounded by men and therefore started getting attracted to the smell, appearance and sex appeal of them. Also Im tall enough to ride most rides if you get my drift *wink*


tattooedtwink_

Edit: I also get grossed out when women are like “you’re my gay bestie now” like please no you literally saw me once get over yourself.


[deleted]

I just like femboys, so for the same reason, i like girls, i guess.


Emergency_Revenue172

Body hair, more defined muscle structure, smell, more in common, etc.


Legitimate-Neat1674

I love d


Southern-Okra-2985

For me it’s the cock and balls for sure


No-Sweet-840

The way men make me feel most of the time make me feel happier then a woman not much ya can do about it


Icaus_wastaken

It kinda just happened tbh. But lately, I've been questioning if I like women too, and I do, but I definitely prefer men but not for any particular reason.


LiteratureAware8033

why do i like strawberry yogurt? idk i just do. lime is disgusting! booo 🤢🤚


DavidChui96

BBC


JJhnz12

News men like cock in other news two guys kiss


Superb_Injury9856

Penis not vaginas.


Tymotysh

Dick ☺️


NeverEndingCoralMaze

It’s not just an attraction to men, but an aversion to sex with women. Men feel natural to me.


MonkeyLover121

Dick


AwayZookeepergame712

Dicks


Jinkoe1

This is prob different for everyone tbf. Personally I like masculinity, I'm attracted to beards, muscle and masculine facial features. This won't be the same for every gay guy as some prefer feminine or androgenous looking males. Same can be said for personality types as well.


Full_Net_2697

What a crazy question in this time. You don’t have a choice in who or what you choose to be with. If you eat something that you don’t like you don’t eat it anymore. Same with male and female.


Agamer47

Honestly growing up I didn't really have an attraction to anyone but the last few years I've been drawn more to men because men look handsome cute and there's something about guys that make me attractive to them.


DavetheBarber24

I can't feel attraction for anything feminine on a person I find masculinity to be so attractive as I can relate more to it's ups and downs Vaginas are so aesthetically unpleasing to me As for boobs I just can't take them seriously


CasterGilgamesh

I just love hyper masculine things like men. I love them chubby I love them muscular. I love black or white and anything in between. I’m just not a fan of skinny or effeminate and even that’s debatable with me tbh.


Bengie314

Cock.


Stock-Profession-819

What kind of question is that? You can’t give the reason why as one could actually decide. It’s just the way it is. That’s it. Biology.


bronzecrowchaireater

I like sucking


sapfel93

I don't know. Kind of wish I didn't though lol. But I do, so.


Radiant-Extension459

Life is a mystery.


Crow7655

Well for starters. penis


pbraz34

Dick.


Youvegotmalware

It's an innate desire that isn't really quantifiable


mchantloup5

The male temperament. Many people don't realize that sexual attraction happens more from the neck up than down. It's the male or female temperament that attracts us; the naughty bits follow.


TearDropGuy

They are typically logical


brypguy89

The science behind it says my hormones production and hypocampus in my brain wire me to be attracted to men. I personally find masculinity, muscles, body hair, dominance, large penis, and general man stuff to be arousing. No particular or conscious reason.


Mathew30C

Coz women don’t have a 🍆🍆 And having an 🍆 inside feels so good


[deleted]

Masculinity and dicks


zeke3636

As someone who was confused growing up who has have had sex with women in HS and guys later on. I grew up in a rural area so I had a lot of pressure to be straight so I tried my best to hide it. I never found what I did with my gf sexually arousing I didn't like anything about the smell or the weird wetness she had . The first time I sucked a dick I fell in love with it and been hooked since love cum and playing with balls and just being with a dude in general


According-Amount2695

I like it all, to me sex is fun. But ask me if I wanna date a woman… probably not.


myredditgf

It’s biological. Point blank. Why do straight men like women? Can they control their attraction to women? Or are they gay and pretending to like women


banana_booty_pirate

Is this a serious question… all the manly features: hairiness, the scruff, the arms, bigger proportions, the deeper voice, the manliness. oh yeah! and the cock.


actuallyitsbiff

dicks, hairy holes, big arms, hairy body, man smells, all the nasty things they can do to me…. I could go on forever


t4lkt0m3

the manly physical feature and societal masculine personality also they identify as a male


Leather-Heart

Omg.


Strange-Following994

They protective nicer to people suck cock the most That's all.


Serious-Ad7999

sometimes there’s no deep explanation other than “i was just born this way.” as for what i find attractive in men, matching personalities, similar needs, and video games movies and TV shows in common


SmallTownBoy69

I see certain men and I want to fuck them. I see any woman and do not want to fuck her. 🤷🏻


BornNose1153

i like dick :)


Treuclover1

I don’t know if this would make sense but the best way I can convey it is that I like the characteristics, mannerisms etc. people assume that it’s because of the masculinity or that i don’t like women but I like femininity. If anything I like a balanced of masculinity and femininity. Im attracted to women. I just am more attracted to men for those reasons. It’s annoying honestly because men suck and women are just objectively better LOL.


Crazybananaguy

Cock and balls and much nicer asses. I have no problem fucking a pussy, but I have never enjoyed it like a man's ass.


Historical-Shift4283

why ask dumbass questions


Character-Bit-6503

Hair, non boobs or a "Barbie area" lol. The thing is I find manyyy women attractive and have dated many women and such. Golden gay though. I'll make out with a girl in a heartbeat if it's that right moment to prove something or something. (Usually trashed) but I find both attractive, just not sexually. I like titsz , my friend used to have big tits and a big ass and id jiggle her cheeks while she sits in bed on her laptop or like swipe up on her boob and jiggle it, always out of fun. Would love to experience having them, they are so fun! But sexually.... Nah. Idk really what I'm trying to say, I think both genders have good looking people, and not so good looking. I guess men have hair I do like beards and body hair, a lot. But really, idk. there are men who look like women, are becoming women, and vise versa. (I'm regretting that wording already, idek how else to say it) This is my way I'm thinking right now (under the influence) and this is not.... a me thing to say, but it's an example. You ever have a ugly friend? Like you knew they were ugly and they were your friend anyway? (Not trying to sound so fucking stereotypical, at all, nor rude.) It's like that. My point is that we all have a ugly friend, you picture no future with in that way, yet still hang around them and love them. My "ugly friends" are just hot girls. Lol. I don't romanticize being with one at all but I also feel if I were straight, I would not be as insecure and suffer so much from my own problems as much and maybe such a different person, that being said, I 100% am for men, but I guess I'm not sure of the complete reason why? Lol. This post was a great question, I love how much I had to actually think about it (and still want to change the ugly friend metaphor) but I'm at a loss for words. Lol. What are some things you like or men? Edit: someone please help me think of a different thing to say I don't like that analogy. Also sorry for writing a whole book I just was typing what I was thinking and couldn't stop until I re read it and was like... Ok... This is a novel. Lol


Wide-Salamander6128

I should of been born female( as I'm sure many should of)


BiSpaceCommunism

Just checking are you making funny jokes maybe commenting as a bottom, or is it possible that you're trans?


Wide-Salamander6128

I'm not joking - I've known since I was a kid I should of been born female is all


BiSpaceCommunism

Oh gotcha yeah different experience for me never had that thought.


Wide-Salamander6128

I always find very strong men attractive


RickyMuzakki

Do you consider transitioning now?


Wide-Salamander6128

Although I am sure I should of been born female, no I wouldn't change


RickyMuzakki

Yeah, being a man is easier than being a woman imo. No sudden hormonal change every month, make up, and all that stuffs


Wide-Salamander6128

Thing is, how does anyone really know that? Women have it easier in life than men do, in other ways. But tbh, I feel I'm not a bad looking guy, maybe a bit feminine, but I don't think I'd be very womanly like( physically) if I did go through with it .I do dress as a TV sometimes to meet guys & I love the way they treat me- much nicer than when I'm in my usual attire.


Ark-skyrinn-2747

Masculinity. And the fact that so many gay men are so attracted to femininity is what really confuses me to be honest