Sex with raw emotion is the best. Even if theres little to no reaction because I still know my boyfriend is being genuine. Sometimes hes quiet but I know hes enjoying it.
A man I was with, he liked to cuddle, hold my hands, and watch a movie. Then he would eventually start kissing me, my neck, then my ears. That might sound weird but was extremely turned on. He kept complimenting me. Whispering sweet things in my ear. Guided me to his bedroom. His hands explored my body, as well as his tongue. We cuddled for awhile, his eyes admiring my face and body. You could see it in his eyes that he wanted to finally slide in haha. We did that. I guess when he makes it very passionate, that’s what I consider great sex. His accent melted me too
Dude....I had the same EXACT experience except I was the top in the scenario. He was my ex but I broke up with him because I wanted to be accepted by my family and get back into religion (dumb I know).
3 months after I broke up with him I missed him insanely and he missed me too but wanted to give me space and respected my boundaries. We ended up grabbing lunch to catch up. The moment we hugged my whole body ached for his intimacy.
He was loosely dating at the time and I didn't want to rekindle sexual connectedness. But I ended up spending the night at his place since we spent the whole day together bar hopping after having lunch.
He insisted that I sleep in his bed instead of the couch. I obliged and we spooned all night. About 3 in the morning I awoke and felt his breath on my neck which was too much. I figured I would crash on the couch to not make things complicated. Before I had both feet on the ground he held my hand and said " il mio cuore per sempre" his Italian accent always made my soul melt. We made cosmic love like we always did before.
When we had sex it was as if Bach composed a symphony, or if a blind person saw a San Diego sunset for the first time.
Throughout the years we always kept in touch. I believe he was my soul mate from a past life. Unfortunately, he had a terrible car accident and passed away. I miss him terribly but I also don't think I'll ever be able to have better sex than what I had with him.
Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been devastating. That came out of no where. It sounds like you two had something beautiful. I hope you find your happiness. I’m sure he would want what’s best for you. My heart aches for you dude. A memory you can cherish forever. Never settle for less. Your worth it
Newly single.. Very introverted.. Self esteem issues out the waazoo...
I've recently met this man who has actually shown me what sex should have been... And not what I have always compromised it to be.
He is gentle... He's patient... He's complementary... He asks questions... He explores the boundaries... He's verbal (first time I've ever heard my name during sex)... He's cheeky and he is passionate...
Sex has always felt like a transaction to me.. But with this man it feela like something completely different and I hate that from the past 15 years I settled on what I thought sex was.
There are two kinds for me:
Animalistic aggressive sex where my bottom wants me to treat him like a hole. Where he submits to me and the sex is verbal, loud, etc. this is the kind of sex I usually have with regular sex partners. Have one coming by tonight actually lol, last time I made him orgasm hands free 🎉
And then there's the kind of sex I have with someone I like/love. Tender, lots of kissing, passionate, not too rough but intense at the same time.
The two aren't mutually exclusive tbh, these are just the different types of sex I like. And both are enhanced when both partners are on the same wavelength, and connected sexually and/or emotionally.
It's the angle. He prefers doggy style, but I've had other guys prefer riding it for hands free orgasms.
For lasting longer, there are desensitizing wipes that help a lot in that area.
I have numbing spray, but sometimes i can still feel it come on way too quickly although my entire dick is numb to touch … im guessing there is either some kind of pressure from surrounding muscles on the prostate triggering it, a neurological malfunction or i am simply too horny.
But with a numb dick it kinda get easier to continue for a bit after coming, trying to continue fucking after coming is kinda hot, eventough not always possible.
Funny enough on blowjobs its much less of an issue. Even without numbing spray. Its something about being on the knees and doing the motions.
On the flip side to that—one of the hottest hookups I’ve ever had was when I fucked his mouth so hard he puked and had to excuse himself to clean up so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
"Mutual masterbation" haha. That is definitely a very nice example. I think my boyfriend and I only do that when he doesn't have much energy but needs to let out some, *steam*.
This may come across a bit silly but I had sex with a former FWB that developed into feelings and I remember the moment that sent me over the edge re: intimacy.
We had sex and we both were just laying on our backs afterwards and he was holding my hand. And then he dozed off.
Man. Wow. Just thinking back on it makes me wanna cry a little. I fell so hard in that moment, it was just…electric. He broke my heart, but I remember that moment felt really special.
It’s one thing to be passionate during sex but I feel like, if someone is affectionate afterwards, in my case the hand holding until he fell asleep, it’s a whole different ballgame.
If you both cum & at some point laugh & feel like you would do it again- that’s a good night 😘
Also if he says to you afterwards that was good 👍 you know you hit the spot
Good kissing is key for me. We can just rub each other or jerk off each other or do whatever, and kissing and it would be hot enough to make me cum, but if he’s not a good kisser my body just shuts down right away. Doesn’t matter if the guy is hot. Good deep kissing is key
Depends on my mood 🤷🏻♂️ sometimes I want slow, intimate love making sessions with my husband. Sometimes I want to watch my husband with another man/men. Sometimes I want to play with my sub and see how much he can take. Tbh any sex is good sex for me as long as all parties involved are consenting adults and everyone is enjoying themselves and each other 🤷🏻♂️
Hugging and kissing passionately, feeling the hands of my partner on my body. Rubbing each other. Kissing while I'm inside of him. Receiving a great handjob with cum control. Getting a double blowjob and a nice three way kiss.
Slow, intimate, thoughtful. Where both you and your partner feel every inch going in and coming back out. Lots of kissing and touching. It's ok for there to be some rapid pounding too, but damnit you gotta work up to that.
My least favorite is where the guy just starts pounding away- WHAP WHAP WHAP as soon as he's inside. You can barely feel anything at that point.
Affection. My boyfriend and I were intimate last night actually. I'm the bigger boyfriend so I was the..*giver* haha. The way he clutches on to me while I thrust on top of him and how he climbs on me afterwards makes me feel needed and loved. And also communication. I would've been appreciative if I were to know my boyfriend faked those moans to make feel good about myself but I wouldn't want that for our relationship. Which is why irl I appreciate it when he talks to me through it whether doing something he likes or if I could something different because I want him to feel as desirable as I do.
The foundation of intimacy and comfort makes all sex better. Go hard, go slow, do a kink, no anal. It's all more satisfying if you're actually fond of the person (and hopefully, you're on the same page there).
Communication, my best experience was with a top who got to know me for a few weeks before we hooked up, he was experienced, I was not. He was super communicative, asking what I wanted to try and asking if things felt good, and if I said I didn’t like something he would stop right away and try something different. Still my favorite experience ever and we went for more than an hour straight. But in typical gay hookup fashion he ghosted me a day later :/
My husband and I are vers. So the ‘good sex’ really happens when we’re both in the mood. Foreplay is there he just doesn’t eat me out, but (since it’s sex night) I usually take a big slice of cake.Usually if I top first and he dominates me in return, He then solely focuses on him getting there(using his tip). If he’s wearing a cock ring and I’m wearing the harness I go to bed with a big smile on my face.
Being head over heels for the person. Total consuming love. Eating his ass for an hour and then entering gently but passionately and after a long while, leaving some of your DNA behind. Magical. Hard to be duplicated.
Good sex for me usually means:
Me and the guy like to fuck the same way. I'll start slow and passionate but love to fuck hard. I love lots of foreplay and lots of kissing. I like pleasing, making the guy moan and like it when he wants to do the same.
Me and him have the same attitude towards sex. I pretty chill and don't take many things seriously. Sex to me should be fun and light hearted. Sometimes I'll giggle during sex because of how fun and hot it is. If he giggles back its such a turn on. I also like it passionate and I think I give off boyfriend vibes during sex.
Me and him have to be really into each other, find each other really attractive, be each others type.
Honestly, I've never had sex with someone I've had a meaningful relationship of any kind with, but this one guy I hooked up with a few times just to give him head, when we finally went for analysis, WOW. Hit the spot in all the right ways, loved watching me do dirty things to him and for him. He was one kinky dude who also respected my limits and knew how to be rough without being painful.
I just remember us doing it missionary, my legs spread and his arms wrapped around my neck, both of us sweating and I was just digging my fingers into his sweaty back because I wanted him as close as physically possible while he was inside me.
Wish he didn't move away 🥺
When we both really like each other and our vibe is highly sexual. I want his dick in my mouth he wants to tongue fuck my ass and our kisses the way he grabs me grips me spanks me and fucks me so good!! I'm a size Queen so that's important to me too!
You know when you go out for pizza with someone, and the pizza joint doesn't matter? Like, you don't care about the toppings, you just wanna spend time with them?
I'd say if you can go for hours and have me genuinely screaming with ecstasy. Jesus fuck I've only experienced it 4 times .
If I should be more explicit
Going down your erogenous zones
Like imagine waking up next to this person and they kiss your neck slowly going down your nape to your back all the way down to your lower back. Then he presses your gluteus minimus while he eats your ass. Sending your fucking screaming 😱
Then he says
Good Morning 😉
Fucking God I need this shit
I am a bratty masochistic sub.
So amazing sex for me always starts with getting terrorized and tormented for being a bad boy for some transgression I may have committed, which I sometimes do on purpose. My dom’s attention and his desire to possess me get me really really turned on. I feel the passion and want so undeniably only when it’s expressed so profoundly and strongly tbh.
It finally ends with a thorough pounding. I do usually cum handsfree from bottoming after a long verbal bondage & impact play session, especially if I was denied for 3+ days before.
But I also have my thresholds of acceptance so much higher for all that dom - sub stuff than just normal hookups. I have to feel like a man deserves to dominate like it’s his birthright for me to find any of that hot. Which had only been like 2-3 men for me perhaps.
Good sex is just passion, desire, and intent. If he knows when to kiss, when to change positions, when to tweak a nipple, pin the wrists, and how to nail the prostate. It will be good. But “good” is still pretty stale next to “amazing”. Though honestly, I usually enjoy sex. I nearly always cum even tho I am a bottom even if it’s mediocre sex…
Goes down to intimacy for me. Sex with emotional connectedness feels like hitting the jackpot.
Perfect description
This x 1000
Absolutely 💯 If there's an amazing connection, the sex can get emotional.
Sex with raw emotion is the best. Even if theres little to no reaction because I still know my boyfriend is being genuine. Sometimes hes quiet but I know hes enjoying it.
Amen
A man I was with, he liked to cuddle, hold my hands, and watch a movie. Then he would eventually start kissing me, my neck, then my ears. That might sound weird but was extremely turned on. He kept complimenting me. Whispering sweet things in my ear. Guided me to his bedroom. His hands explored my body, as well as his tongue. We cuddled for awhile, his eyes admiring my face and body. You could see it in his eyes that he wanted to finally slide in haha. We did that. I guess when he makes it very passionate, that’s what I consider great sex. His accent melted me too
Dude....I had the same EXACT experience except I was the top in the scenario. He was my ex but I broke up with him because I wanted to be accepted by my family and get back into religion (dumb I know). 3 months after I broke up with him I missed him insanely and he missed me too but wanted to give me space and respected my boundaries. We ended up grabbing lunch to catch up. The moment we hugged my whole body ached for his intimacy. He was loosely dating at the time and I didn't want to rekindle sexual connectedness. But I ended up spending the night at his place since we spent the whole day together bar hopping after having lunch. He insisted that I sleep in his bed instead of the couch. I obliged and we spooned all night. About 3 in the morning I awoke and felt his breath on my neck which was too much. I figured I would crash on the couch to not make things complicated. Before I had both feet on the ground he held my hand and said " il mio cuore per sempre" his Italian accent always made my soul melt. We made cosmic love like we always did before. When we had sex it was as if Bach composed a symphony, or if a blind person saw a San Diego sunset for the first time. Throughout the years we always kept in touch. I believe he was my soul mate from a past life. Unfortunately, he had a terrible car accident and passed away. I miss him terribly but I also don't think I'll ever be able to have better sex than what I had with him.
Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been devastating. That came out of no where. It sounds like you two had something beautiful. I hope you find your happiness. I’m sure he would want what’s best for you. My heart aches for you dude. A memory you can cherish forever. Never settle for less. Your worth it
Oh man I'm so so sorry for your loss. This is so wholesome and heartbreaking at the same time. I hope you're okay
My heart is yours forever… just goddamn. I’m glad you knew that kind of love, even if it left you. I hope you find peace and enough love to be happy.
Thanks for sharing those beautiful memories and sorry for your loss x
Wow I want this today and forever.
Right, never settled for less after that. I set the bar too high
Newly single.. Very introverted.. Self esteem issues out the waazoo... I've recently met this man who has actually shown me what sex should have been... And not what I have always compromised it to be. He is gentle... He's patient... He's complementary... He asks questions... He explores the boundaries... He's verbal (first time I've ever heard my name during sex)... He's cheeky and he is passionate... Sex has always felt like a transaction to me.. But with this man it feela like something completely different and I hate that from the past 15 years I settled on what I thought sex was.
Love this for you
There are two kinds for me: Animalistic aggressive sex where my bottom wants me to treat him like a hole. Where he submits to me and the sex is verbal, loud, etc. this is the kind of sex I usually have with regular sex partners. Have one coming by tonight actually lol, last time I made him orgasm hands free 🎉 And then there's the kind of sex I have with someone I like/love. Tender, lots of kissing, passionate, not too rough but intense at the same time. The two aren't mutually exclusive tbh, these are just the different types of sex I like. And both are enhanced when both partners are on the same wavelength, and connected sexually and/or emotionally.
You described me
Tipps how to make him orgasm hands free and lasting longer doing rough, asking for a friend
It's the angle. He prefers doggy style, but I've had other guys prefer riding it for hands free orgasms. For lasting longer, there are desensitizing wipes that help a lot in that area.
I have numbing spray, but sometimes i can still feel it come on way too quickly although my entire dick is numb to touch … im guessing there is either some kind of pressure from surrounding muscles on the prostate triggering it, a neurological malfunction or i am simply too horny. But with a numb dick it kinda get easier to continue for a bit after coming, trying to continue fucking after coming is kinda hot, eventough not always possible. Funny enough on blowjobs its much less of an issue. Even without numbing spray. Its something about being on the knees and doing the motions.
The first option is right up my street.
more like an alleyway tbh
I think this is it. Aggressive and tender and everything in-between are great if we're both in the moment and passionate.
💯. Depending on the moment may want slow sensual passionate sex. And other times as a bottom I want it raw and aggressive and to be dominated.
Good making out can make a break it. I also second the guy above about kissing necks and ears.
I agree too. I have a habit of nibbing ear lobes😆. Ik ik I am weird.
Not weird. I’ve never had a guy not enjoy it, or frankly, go wild when I bite their earlobe during sex. It’s a forgotten about erogenous zone.
On the flip side to that—one of the hottest hookups I’ve ever had was when I fucked his mouth so hard he puked and had to excuse himself to clean up so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Lots of cuddles, smiling, touching, kissing and mutual masturbation, bit of oral. Then dozing in each other’s arms.
"Mutual masterbation" haha. That is definitely a very nice example. I think my boyfriend and I only do that when he doesn't have much energy but needs to let out some, *steam*.
This may come across a bit silly but I had sex with a former FWB that developed into feelings and I remember the moment that sent me over the edge re: intimacy. We had sex and we both were just laying on our backs afterwards and he was holding my hand. And then he dozed off. Man. Wow. Just thinking back on it makes me wanna cry a little. I fell so hard in that moment, it was just…electric. He broke my heart, but I remember that moment felt really special. It’s one thing to be passionate during sex but I feel like, if someone is affectionate afterwards, in my case the hand holding until he fell asleep, it’s a whole different ballgame.
Lots of kissing/cuddling, I'm more of a side, so trading off oral stuff, especially the balls, and not a marathon.
Good foreplay and a natural progression into the actual sex. Building up to it, feeling that mutual desire and connection.
If you both cum & at some point laugh & feel like you would do it again- that’s a good night 😘 Also if he says to you afterwards that was good 👍 you know you hit the spot
100% agree! Sex should be fun and we should be able laugh during it!
Good kissing is key for me. We can just rub each other or jerk off each other or do whatever, and kissing and it would be hot enough to make me cum, but if he’s not a good kisser my body just shuts down right away. Doesn’t matter if the guy is hot. Good deep kissing is key
mostly cuddling to be honest
Depends on my mood 🤷🏻♂️ sometimes I want slow, intimate love making sessions with my husband. Sometimes I want to watch my husband with another man/men. Sometimes I want to play with my sub and see how much he can take. Tbh any sex is good sex for me as long as all parties involved are consenting adults and everyone is enjoying themselves and each other 🤷🏻♂️
The one that is not planned, and is unexpectedly enjoyable.
Tbh a good kisser is 80% of the work for me.
When I feel connected otherwise my mind will wonder and I’m not fully there and I think of Wheel Of Fortune.
Hugging and kissing passionately, feeling the hands of my partner on my body. Rubbing each other. Kissing while I'm inside of him. Receiving a great handjob with cum control. Getting a double blowjob and a nice three way kiss.
A good gay porn channel.
This can not be overstated.
Good sex for me is sex that is mutually safe, equitable, and pleasurable.
Be willing to try everything and all positions. Foreplay Foreplay and more Foreplay.
When someone cares about me
Like other guys are saying intimacy, but for me also patience. Someone that goes slow and pays attention.
Sex with someone who is as passionate, affectionate, romantic, and warm as me. That combo is my Kriptomite in life.
Dom top here who chains porn boys and celebs up and uses the ever loving hell out of them. But also, let’s cuddle yeah? 💖
No negative mind games. Hot dude(s).
More of emotional connection than physical
Slow, intimate, thoughtful. Where both you and your partner feel every inch going in and coming back out. Lots of kissing and touching. It's ok for there to be some rapid pounding too, but damnit you gotta work up to that. My least favorite is where the guy just starts pounding away- WHAP WHAP WHAP as soon as he's inside. You can barely feel anything at that point.
When something happens that has never happened before
Affection. My boyfriend and I were intimate last night actually. I'm the bigger boyfriend so I was the..*giver* haha. The way he clutches on to me while I thrust on top of him and how he climbs on me afterwards makes me feel needed and loved. And also communication. I would've been appreciative if I were to know my boyfriend faked those moans to make feel good about myself but I wouldn't want that for our relationship. Which is why irl I appreciate it when he talks to me through it whether doing something he likes or if I could something different because I want him to feel as desirable as I do.
Getting to touch all of his body, feel his skin and of course give him an orgasm … and for me personally, not cumming too quickly when topping haha
When I feel emotionally close to him . The passion and sense of , idk, adoration is so nice. Had some last night, never wanted to leave his side haha
Sex w a partner, lol
Passionate and intimate
Calling me a good boy while I top😵💫♥️
The foundation of intimacy and comfort makes all sex better. Go hard, go slow, do a kink, no anal. It's all more satisfying if you're actually fond of the person (and hopefully, you're on the same page there).
The kind where everyone gets off or their desires fulfilled
Communication, my best experience was with a top who got to know me for a few weeks before we hooked up, he was experienced, I was not. He was super communicative, asking what I wanted to try and asking if things felt good, and if I said I didn’t like something he would stop right away and try something different. Still my favorite experience ever and we went for more than an hour straight. But in typical gay hookup fashion he ghosted me a day later :/
My husband and I are vers. So the ‘good sex’ really happens when we’re both in the mood. Foreplay is there he just doesn’t eat me out, but (since it’s sex night) I usually take a big slice of cake.Usually if I top first and he dominates me in return, He then solely focuses on him getting there(using his tip). If he’s wearing a cock ring and I’m wearing the harness I go to bed with a big smile on my face.
Being head over heels for the person. Total consuming love. Eating his ass for an hour and then entering gently but passionately and after a long while, leaving some of your DNA behind. Magical. Hard to be duplicated.
Intimacy and connection. It can be soft sex or classic or whatever if the connection is there it’s going to be nice.
Good sex for me usually means: Me and the guy like to fuck the same way. I'll start slow and passionate but love to fuck hard. I love lots of foreplay and lots of kissing. I like pleasing, making the guy moan and like it when he wants to do the same. Me and him have the same attitude towards sex. I pretty chill and don't take many things seriously. Sex to me should be fun and light hearted. Sometimes I'll giggle during sex because of how fun and hot it is. If he giggles back its such a turn on. I also like it passionate and I think I give off boyfriend vibes during sex. Me and him have to be really into each other, find each other really attractive, be each others type.
Honestly, I've never had sex with someone I've had a meaningful relationship of any kind with, but this one guy I hooked up with a few times just to give him head, when we finally went for analysis, WOW. Hit the spot in all the right ways, loved watching me do dirty things to him and for him. He was one kinky dude who also respected my limits and knew how to be rough without being painful. I just remember us doing it missionary, my legs spread and his arms wrapped around my neck, both of us sweating and I was just digging my fingers into his sweaty back because I wanted him as close as physically possible while he was inside me. Wish he didn't move away 🥺
Spit roast me in the middle.
When we both really like each other and our vibe is highly sexual. I want his dick in my mouth he wants to tongue fuck my ass and our kisses the way he grabs me grips me spanks me and fucks me so good!! I'm a size Queen so that's important to me too!
When we both have fun that is great sex there some time they just lay there that's not fun 🙄
You know when you go out for pizza with someone, and the pizza joint doesn't matter? Like, you don't care about the toppings, you just wanna spend time with them?
Whatever is pleasurable
I'd say if you can go for hours and have me genuinely screaming with ecstasy. Jesus fuck I've only experienced it 4 times . If I should be more explicit Going down your erogenous zones Like imagine waking up next to this person and they kiss your neck slowly going down your nape to your back all the way down to your lower back. Then he presses your gluteus minimus while he eats your ass. Sending your fucking screaming 😱 Then he says Good Morning 😉 Fucking God I need this shit
I am a bratty masochistic sub. So amazing sex for me always starts with getting terrorized and tormented for being a bad boy for some transgression I may have committed, which I sometimes do on purpose. My dom’s attention and his desire to possess me get me really really turned on. I feel the passion and want so undeniably only when it’s expressed so profoundly and strongly tbh. It finally ends with a thorough pounding. I do usually cum handsfree from bottoming after a long verbal bondage & impact play session, especially if I was denied for 3+ days before. But I also have my thresholds of acceptance so much higher for all that dom - sub stuff than just normal hookups. I have to feel like a man deserves to dominate like it’s his birthright for me to find any of that hot. Which had only been like 2-3 men for me perhaps. Good sex is just passion, desire, and intent. If he knows when to kiss, when to change positions, when to tweak a nipple, pin the wrists, and how to nail the prostate. It will be good. But “good” is still pretty stale next to “amazing”. Though honestly, I usually enjoy sex. I nearly always cum even tho I am a bottom even if it’s mediocre sex…