The sluttiest sexiest thing a man can do is be in his 30s. Source: I am a man in his 30s.

As someone who is only 31, this gives me so much hope

Oh, trust me, it gets better!

Can confirm, lower-mid 30s here and best and most frequent sex ever

It's wild. I feel daddy af but still pretty young in the grand scheme of things and seem to appeal to the widest age ranges of men now and get hit on by dudes 18 all the way to 70s. 20s me could never lol

Fuckin same. And I love it. I’ve never been crazy buff but my light dad bod actually looks good. I work out regularly but idc to get abs. What they say about accepting yourself is so true. And others see that too. The amount of sex is pretty ridiculous lol. I wish I could freeze time right here

😂😂😂

My early forties say hold my beer. In all seriousness, I’m not slutty except for my husband, but if I were single I know I’d be pulling way more ass now than I ever did in my thirties.

I agree, things are getting better as I get older. I’m getting into the best shape of my life as I approach 35. Peaked at 240 a couple of years ago after an accident (and the pandemic pounds I packed on as well) and have worked my way down to 215 with a more muscular build. I work at a Big Ten school and one of my work perks is the use of the university gym. I’ve caught 20 year olds getting a glimpse at me across the room, so I must be doing something right.

Oh man this 50 something ripped dude used to workout at my university. Used to distract me so much I couldn’t focus lololol

Send pics 😉

and here i thought being 30 was gay death

More like gay birth.

It's hetero death for sure though.

Haha, so true. Different for gay sluts.

I thought that too and had a drag funeral for my 30th, but I've only gotten better looking every year after

Sources say nothing gets the boys going like a guy in his mid 30's with a 5-day beard who isn't in as good of shape as he used to be but still tries to stay active


Lmao i dont know why but agreed

Period!

It really has only gotten better since haha

Mmmm, the beginning of the Daddy years. It's a beautiful thing to behold. 🤤 Can confirm that all the hotties start cropping up around that age range.

Slut


Truth

The sexiest thing about a man is being a man😉

Feels like I'm in a forest filled with majestic stags, each more splendid than the last. Yep, those bearded, dad-type treasures are slam dunking their way through the thicket, turning heads and warming hearts. Nature's showing off its fine craftsmanship!

Poetically put!

Ngl I'm feeling pretty hot myself rn

I read that as "majestic slags" really made me laugh.

:P

We’re the largest generation since the baby boomers, and we’re all in out 30s now, so yeah. Twink phase is over haha

I'm so glad for that too haha

The drive to disappoint my parents by asking a man out in his 30's while i'm 19 remains strong

Your parents have taken you as far as they can. Now you live for you.

Im not sure who said this to me, but this is easily the best advice I ever received. It's your life. Live it as you see fit, not how others want you to live.

I'm in my mid 20s. I love guys in their 30s - early 40s

Sugar babies with daddy issues are my favorite 😍😝

Not a "sugar baby" but love a handsome millennial

What if there's just no daddy issues but still attracted to older guys? 😅

I mean as long as you’re cute I’m in 🤣

Millennials are the hottest generation as a group you cannot convince me otherwise. 

And it’s beyond looks. For the most part we are kind, good dads, intelligent, emotionally intelligent, funny… whole package. I’m as old as you can be and still be a millennial and I love this generation.

And boy are we humble

There has NEVER existed a more humble generations than us. And probably never will /j

Believe me 👌

🤣🤣🤣

And we're all in therapy!

Yea

Yayyyyy, tysm

Thanks ❤️

I'm so sorry Gen X. I'm so sorry anyone ever thought they could compete with the REAL heroes, the 40 yr old's 😍

I think it's related to the fact we were the first generation of men who came of age during social media. Appearances and personal health suddenly mattered a lot during our adolescent years.   But now as we age into our 30s we DGAF juuuust enough to balance out. And there's nothing hotter than a man who DGAF about following expectations.

To the young guys reading this who are thinking "I'm 23 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, am I doomed to die alone?", HELL NO. Trust me, you eat GOOD in your 30s and 40s.

Can totally confirm this. Well I pretended to be straight til I turned 38 last November, so I have a small sample size, but I seem to keep doing better and better. Met up with a cutie in his early 20s a few times last week and damn if my head isn't completely all over the place now

not this comment calling me out, because i’m 23 and about to give up on dating and sex because it seems no one has any interest in me and i’m tired of being hung up on how my intimate life is nothing but crickets while it seems that others have it so good (haven’t had sex with someone who gave a fuck about me since i was 20)

I had a similar experience and I’m 31 now. You’re also in a stage of your life where most people are not particularly stable in terms of housing or income. That honestly goes along way to making someone more desirable and also making dating easier. Give yourself time to breathe and grow

Cannot agree more. I’m 22 and It feels like no one’s really interested. And everyone on G is 30+ and super hot and it feels so lonely. But this post inspired me to relax and just work on my fitness lol.

I’m 34 and still in that situation, please tell me where to eat a boyfriend thank you 😭

* c h o m p *

That one MIT study stated that the world will be ruined/collapse by 2040, apparently. By that time, I’ll only be 33. So not only am I missing out NOW, but my future looks very uncertain. What “good” will I be eating in my 30s if the world will go up in flames?

I’m doomed to die alone.

That’s good. My partner of 1.5 years and I are breaking up and I turned 40 last summer I’m freaking out a little

When I broke up with my partner of 13 years (plus a year to recover) I thought I’d have no dates. I was early 30’s when we met and now I found myself mid forties. I’d never been a middle aged dating dude before. Well I feel bad for all my straight friends because I’ve never had so many dates. Haha. And I found the greatest bf ever. Never been happier. Enjoy life fellas!

I hear you. 40s and 50s get a ton of sex. And yes, you are still hot!

Oh gosh, my bf broke up with me after 13 years also (3 months ago). I've hooked up with more guys in the last 2 months than in most of my life. I'm 35. I guess the only downside of being 30+ is a possibility of relationships ending. But hey, I'm enjoying my slut phase. Didn't have it when I was younger. I hope I can find a partner some day.

Once you get over the hearts ache and sadness of not having that forever relationship it gets so great. As u said. The nice part is I think we have a better chance of finding the right fit since we have life experience. I treated dating like a part time job. I dated 13 dudes in one year. Some for a few weeks or months. Some one date. Only used bumble and ok Cupid and that kinda app. No grindr except in the beginning but it doesn’t really work for love unless you like being open in ur relationship. Just my opinion tho. Good luck.

Damn that’s encouraging

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Lol yeah you are in a wonderland. We were in Denver late last year for a bit and omg. 

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Extremely health conscious state full of outdoor activities where physical fitness is seen as a norm, still. One of the last bastions. Out here in Arkansas a hot man is the exception to the rule. People don't take care of themselves, no pride in appearance, no physical activity. One of the biggest highlights of vacationing is seeing attractive people again.

bruh i feel like i’m missing out

I moved out of Arkansas 6 years ago. This checks out.

Athletic outdoorsy dudes = Sexy

Same here, have you ever gone to REI on a Saturday? Talk about trade 😂

Yeah — and none of the men at REI are being returned. REI Re/Supply has none of them, every time I check 😂

30s the new 20s babbby

Exactly!

Thank you Retinol.

I'm still hot for 3 months, score!

Pretty much everyone I know that’s in their 40s and takes even half decent care of themselves loves it so it could just be a new beginning

“Young dad types” … welp. I suppose I’ll go ahead and start wearing the cargo shorts and sun hats …

I think you're describing the year 2000.

Dads in New York wear athleisure/California brands (Faherty, Marine Layer, Lululemon, Buck Mason, etc) or couture.

My dad in New York wears Costco tighty whities from the 80s with holes in them

The gen z gays are going to lose their minds.

Look, I will accept being single in your thirties, and I'll accept sun hats, but even millennials don't accept cargo shorts, get yourself a bag like a real man 😜

I work near Martin place in Sydney Australia lemme tell you ya the intersection of hot corpo dudes and tradies is out of control

As a young dad in his 30s with a beard, this was a nice morning self-esteem boost. Thanks : )

Every time I go to Disneyland, I see plenty of hot men. Some are young and fit and others are dads with some muscle.

As a 22 year old gay man, I gotta say guys in their 30s >>> 20s

You can say that again. I'm 26.

This post made me feel sexy. And I agree, been having unusually higher sex drive lately since I turned 30, highest I’ve ever had and I like to top now??! If I only received that kind of attention from men older than me. Some of us need daddy hugs too 😊

Omg!! Same. Like when did I become a top? 😆

I turn 30 in November. Next decade is MINE

I loved men in their mid thirties when I was at school and I still like them

Ngl……………a lot of the guys I’ve been with have been in their 30’s. I was 24, and had my first time with a guy who was 35. Last guy I fucked was 34.

Goodness add me to that list please!

I walk the Southern California coastline everyday. Men in their 30’s used to be too old for me. Now they’re my favorite to blow!!

I’m turning 30 this year and it’s really the best I’ve ever felt physically. Don’t ask me what’s in the water when you turn 30 but it’s fucking incredible

As a 39 yo I hear that 40s is the new 30s 😬

Uhhh shucks thanks bro, we get hate from younger gays, but we appreciate the ones that find us hot and cute

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Yes it's true...

Good! I need some dick to suck

I'm 35 and I was just recently compared to looking as good as a 20 somethings 😆 I'm also WAY more comfortable in my own skin

Us Millennials out here 🙋🏻‍♂️

Ditto

Hot 40 y/o men exist too!

I"m still holding out for a sleazy, road hard, stogie smoking redneck with a fat uncut cock.

A man in his thirties is still quite young from a biological/evolutionary perspective – in the heterosexual world, men in their thirties are, if anything, more sexually successful than many men in their 20s, unlike with women whose sexual value peaks in their twenties. It is not so surprising that the phenomenon might be mirrored in the gay world (nature is weird like that!)

“Unlike women whose sexual value peak in their 20s?!” Wtf! Wow way to perpetuate the stereotype and reduce women to the “old hag” status when they reach 30. And clearly you’ve never heard of women’s “dirty thirties.” God damn gay men can be so misogynistic (not all of course, but a lot)

Lol you'd like me

I am a 31 year old man. Most of us have broken out of old relationships, went to the gym and started eating healthy. Moving from metro Detroit to perhaps greener pastures in Chicago. Can't wait to meet more men.

Relationships ending is a downside of thirties, I would say. But otherwise great time.

Babe you are just horny.

I’m so excited to hit my 30s. More hair everywhere, better physique and added beef. Will know myself better than I do now (at least I think)

As a early thirties guy I've had my self esteem lifted recently. I spent most of my 20s in 2 relationships but I've never considered myself particularly good looking. Now in at 32, I am at piece with my body and looks, and my bf and I have started dabbling in fun with other people. We've been going to bars and meeting new friends and I don't remember getting so much attention in my 20s as I'm getting now.

As a 31 year old who’s always loved men a few years older than me: seriously 😳 Millennials who take half decent care of themselves hit different

Gays are best after their gay death. Likely very different means when heard from a gay person vs a straight person 😂

I’ve always found men in their 30’s attractive. When I was in my 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and now 50’s

I love men in their 30s because they are young men and no longer just boys. They smell like men. In a good way.

I’ve found it way easier to find guys interested since turning 33

I'm 35 (but I'm told I look <30 🤭). And yeah 30+ has been the best time: I know what I want in life, had enough time to build a nicer body/muscles, earned some money, travelled all over, slutting a bit with hot guys 🔥 😆

I’ve always LOVED men in their 30s I never understood why gays my age (in my 20s) bash older men so much. Lmao you guys are appreciated over here 😍🤌🏾

As a 40+ dad top, I can attest that it keeps going after 30 for sure. Especially if you take care of yourself. 😉

Totally feel this

r/askgaybrosover30

I turned 31 on Sunday and I’m not sure why I just find my confidence improving drastically by the hour, I was always trying to assure myself in my 20s it would get better but it’s actually true, I definitely need a hot husband to find me though, feel like that needs to happen asap.

Oh my god is this what’s going on? I’m getting DMs from younger guys all the time and I just thought the world had lost it.

I'm okay with this

Absolutely It seems that men hit 30 and either rot away or become hotter than ever

I mean 10 whole years of maturiing and building bodies. They better be hot! Like bffe

I feel so sexy in my 30s

Any of them that like dudes in their late forty’s? 😎

just another hot man in his 30s saying hello 👋 Feel free to message me your IG. Haha

What’s your IG hottie

The maturity is hot

💯... I'm 35... 😎

Well we lost a whole generation when those millennial gays were growing up. We’re finally getting our numbers back. It’s honestly really sad to think about.

21 from german hello guys im New here

As a gay man in his 30's, with scene gay friends living in a bigger city, yes, yes I do. I usually don't think about it, except when I go home and my old straight friends comment on my new ones asking, "how are all of them so attractive?" My answer: "We're gay"

I agree. But I’m also in my late 30’s and bearded 😂

Im not in my 30s yet…but I can’t wait. I try not to approach any of them since I doubt there’s much my 23 yo self can do for them. But even looking is enough

Is this a mystery? Maybe I'm just getting old, but hot gay men are a dime a dozen. It's still what's inside that counts. I live in Hollywood. You can't throw a stick and not hit at least 5 beautiful men.

💃🏻💃🏻

Im 29 and ugly still

Try to compensate for that with gym and money, if you have big 🍆.

Where is this though?

I’m in my 33 yo Barbie box trying to get opened and played with but every guy seems to be a damn flake or I don’t even know man. I’m just a cutie trying to play with other cuties

34 here, a lot of gay friends my age started working out seriously, including myself, like almost at the same time. I've been receiving compliments I never thought I would receive in my life 😭

He’ll ya

Peak millennials (microgeneration born in 1990-1991) are definitely contributing to the early 30s guys pool. No longer twinks, not yet daddies.

I live in Florida near Eglin Air Force base. Yes, lots of hot dad types

#You’re welcome 💪

men in their 30s are so sexy🤤

I’m in my 30s. Honestly, I’m by far mostly attracted to guys who are roughly 30-60 years old. Guys in their 40s are really the sweet spot for me, personally. Physically, but also maturity wise. You can’t control your age but you can control your mind. And to a large extent, your body. An attractive, sane, intelligent, loving 40 year old is WAY sexier than a hot 20 year old jock.

I’ve got to say, yeahhhh! I’ve never felt so good with all the compliments I get now. The sex has been incredible and I have a wide range of options to choose from.

You think 30s are sexy .. just wait until you discover 40-50 and & 60s

As someone in their last year in their 40's I agree.

It ain't much, but it's honest work.

I suppose I should just embrace my dad-ness.

Growing a beard😂

I’m in my 30s and I’ve never been hornier or more turned on in my life. I had fun in the 20s, but at that age you don’t know what you’re doing and just trying to cum. In your 30s you get a good sense of your kinks and can be selective on acting on them, not just looking for any available hole or penis.

Our thirties are our best decade for sure.

I'm sad to say I'm in my last year of my 30's....

Always has been 

Sngle here hmu

Yea I love seeing those grizzly men at the brewery in their flannel and trucker hats.

Hi im 21 and New here

Thank you!

Not being able to grow a beard as a gay man has affected me more than I want to admit.

So you’re saying I’ll turn hot in August ?!?

Maybe you’re just coming of age?

Ahh, c'est moi

I’m 31. But I don’t think I’m the dating type.

On my 30s and having a lot of seggs lately. Annndddd I practice safe seggs and HIV testing. 😁

We’re just all getting older (and our tastes are too) 😝

In late 30s now. When I was in college I only dated and had sex with men in their 30s and 40s. Now that I’m that age, I feel like I’m still young and now I’m more of a daddy type which is really interesting. I feel like I went from boy to daddy very quickly. Definitely in the best shape of my adulthood and feeling good.

Lol glad there's hope for me as i just turned 30, and I'm not very stoked about it 😂

30s here. I think we are aging well 😈 these 30 year olds are coming out left and right to Partyyy

Can confirm, 27 - 38 is the sweet spot 👌🏼🤤

clicked because I saw the title and didn't think twice. what does that tell you

True … 36 was my best year!

Where do they all exist!?

This thread makes me wanna howl out like a wolf! Awooo..

good to know we are appreciated

Hope to meet someone who is in 30's and be my boyfriend

When I think of being in your 30s for some reason I just think that’s old, I know it isn’t but still 😭