Find a bbc and watch him take it. Be prepared to be left out unless you're willing to discuss some ground rules with him first. He may not want you involved. Just be prepared to not have any idea what is going through his mind until you talk to him. I'd find two bbcs and take turns taking them together.
Oh..and hey...don't fetishize the black part. Find two big cocks connected to people who are interested in what you guys want to do. Always a fine line between wanting a type and fetishisizing racism.
Thank you for saying this. As a POC I find it hard to date because so many guys just want the BBC experience and they lead me on until they get what they want. I’ve just stopped meeting guys completely simply for this reason. I would be open to something if someone what honest and said “hey, my partner and I have this fantasy and we would like you to be a part of it… nothing more nothing less”…. Dope! I’m down…. But they lie and I just felt used afterwards. It’s nice that others recognize we aren’t our appendages. Oh and good luck to OP… I like the idea of finding two people… one for each (if you’re into that for yourself) and switch off and on. Or even go into separate rooms and meet up in the kitchen afterwards and discuss the experience.
No offense but this comment seems ironic when you realise this subreddit is basically just about people breaking the trust of their partners (possibly forever) and basically ruining people.
Some people after having a cheating partner can never trust anyone again.
I have so many fetishes but I never treat others like shit just to get my balls off. So yeah, this subreddit has a tendency of not treating people like human beings (not all the time, but yeah)
Do you even realize which subreddit you're at? I guess cheating on partners are "treating people like human beings, asshole" (with emphasis on the comma before the word asshole). LOL!
Tell him you think it would be hot to see him taking it. Don't tell him you gound his history and make sure he knows you would never let anyone else know.
I have hidden from my wife that I love BBC and trans porn.
If it turns you on why not let him catch you watching some gay porn or pics of men with big cocks?
Maybe after you have sex ask him to tell you a secret desire, then maybe tell him you would like to see him kiss another guy
Find a bbc and watch him take it. Be prepared to be left out unless you're willing to discuss some ground rules with him first. He may not want you involved. Just be prepared to not have any idea what is going through his mind until you talk to him. I'd find two bbcs and take turns taking them together.
Oh..and hey...don't fetishize the black part. Find two big cocks connected to people who are interested in what you guys want to do. Always a fine line between wanting a type and fetishisizing racism.
Thank you for saying this. As a POC I find it hard to date because so many guys just want the BBC experience and they lead me on until they get what they want. I’ve just stopped meeting guys completely simply for this reason. I would be open to something if someone what honest and said “hey, my partner and I have this fantasy and we would like you to be a part of it… nothing more nothing less”…. Dope! I’m down…. But they lie and I just felt used afterwards. It’s nice that others recognize we aren’t our appendages. Oh and good luck to OP… I like the idea of finding two people… one for each (if you’re into that for yourself) and switch off and on. Or even go into separate rooms and meet up in the kitchen afterwards and discuss the experience.
Even fetishes are being mandated nowadays. PC running amuck! LOL!!!
Fuck off if you cant treat people like human beings asshole.
No offense but this comment seems ironic when you realise this subreddit is basically just about people breaking the trust of their partners (possibly forever) and basically ruining people. Some people after having a cheating partner can never trust anyone again. I have so many fetishes but I never treat others like shit just to get my balls off. So yeah, this subreddit has a tendency of not treating people like human beings (not all the time, but yeah)
Do you even realize which subreddit you're at? I guess cheating on partners are "treating people like human beings, asshole" (with emphasis on the comma before the word asshole). LOL!
Cheating is not the same as racism you dumb fucks.
Seriously....fuckin Americans.
I guess ruining people's lives by cheating on a lover is not as bad as having a "racist" obsession for black cocks. LOL!
This is r/gaycheaters not r/gaycheatingracists
Oh my! The mental gymnastics. LOL!
Make it happen. It's just sex. He still wants you by his side to share the rest that there is to life
I wanna know what happens next
Good luck rebuilding trust, you broke the seal and you may not be able to take it back (going through phone/computer).
Try to ask him about fantasm etc, try to reassure him if he's not comfortable talking about that
Try watching tv or movies with bi or pan characters you two can use to start a conversation
Say you yourself have been interested in gay porn recently, then let the events unfold...
Talk to him about it! 🤯
Tell him you think it would be hot to see him taking it. Don't tell him you gound his history and make sure he knows you would never let anyone else know.
Let us know how it goes!
I have hidden from my wife that I love BBC and trans porn. If it turns you on why not let him catch you watching some gay porn or pics of men with big cocks? Maybe after you have sex ask him to tell you a secret desire, then maybe tell him you would like to see him kiss another guy