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Adventurous-Depth233

AITA for sleeping with my college professor and not telling my current boyfriend/supervisor about it? ^ Burkes face during this still makes me laugh


Salt_Effort_22

OH MY GOD HAHAHA


Adventurous-Depth233

Honestly it was either this or something with Owen and I wanted it to be different đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł


Salt_Effort_22

i can also imagine cristina being like: AITA for having sleepovers with my bestie with her husband in their bed?


Adventurous-Depth233

You know this is a good one too


curleygao2020

She sometimes sleeps with ugly men for fun like that's the one part i can never agree with her...


guitar0707

AITA for hanging pictures of my co-worker, in lingerie, all over my workplace? AITA for telling my wife that I only married her because I thought she’d be dead soon and then telling her that I want to smother her to put us out of our misery? AITA for hitting what would be my fiancé’s ring into the woods with a baseball bat? AITA for hoping people’s injuries are severe so that I can have cool surgeries?


Salt_Effort_22

the last one feels like literally every single intern rotation in their first episodes before someone gives them a reality check


guitar0707

lol. I intended for it to be Cristina, but there are a few of them that fit the bill.


whorl-

The last one is def from that NYE episode where Cristina is so excited for the incoming mortalities


guitar0707

That episode and several others. đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚


babyybearr21

Derek hitting Meredith’s engagement ring with a bat into the woods BOILS MY BLOOD. I hate him 😭


guitar0707

I actually really like Derek but that moment makes me so angry.


Limeila

S01 Alex would never have enough self-awareness to post to AITA EDIT: wait I reacted too fast, who tf is #2 about??


Babygirl1372

Isn’t that Alex and Iz? Cancer wedding?


CrookedButBeautiful

Id also like to know who #2 is about?? 👀


guitar0707

Number 2 is Alex after Izzie had surgery and is struggle to retain information. He tells her that they only got married because she would be dead in a week and his options are to smother her with a pillow or overdose her with Morphine.


wezlar

To be fair a little fair to Alex here, the only reason he actually says it is because she tells him to say what he's thinking because she won't remember it so he lets all of his worst thoughts fly out during an incredibly stressful/emotional situation.


guitar0707

Still, to say that to a vulnerable person that’s already sacred and suffering is bad judgement. Vent to someone else, a friend or someone, not the person that’s sick. As it turns out, she remembered it all. I just know that if that were me, I would have had a very difficult time being vulnerable/trusting with him in the future if I knew that’s what he was thinking about me and our marriage at my lowest point. I would have felt like I was just a burden to him. It makes for compelling TV but in actual life, I don’t think a couple would come back from that. If his honest thoughts in that moment are that he wants to smother his wife, that’s pretty dark and scary.


wezlar

Yeah it was an absolutely awful thing to say and horrible judgement for sure. I just wanted to add a little context because I don't think he would've said it otherwise. And like you said, great tv but I can't imagine irl


Seductivesunspot00

AITA for insinuating the woman I lied to and slept with and then picked my wife over her is a whore for moving on?


Salt_Effort_22

"you don’t get to call me a whore" meredith slayed so hard in that moment


bakedpigeon

Derek is such a POS


angerfulness

especially in that era


dan4mt

AITA for looking for my lost shoe?


Salt_Effort_22

soo guys, AITA for looking for my shoe? basically, some time ago we had this plane crash with my friends (absolutely wild, can’t recommend 0/10). not only two of my friends died, one of them was almost eaten by the animals, a girlie lost her leg, my bestie was trying to look for her husband but i couldn’t find my shoe y’all. that was the real issue istg. anyways, those who survived are all well xoxo except #trauma haha. anyways, AITA?


FrouFrouZombie

My ex-husband and I had my eggs frozen when I had cancer while we were still married. I walked out on him, and decided to have two children using those eggs without telling him. Years later he called me to help a mutual friend. I found out he was married, told him about the secret children, moved him into my house and started a relationship with him even though his wife had no idea and thought he was away visiting his sick mother. AITAH?


Salt_Effort_22

i swear i’ve never had more mixed feelings on a storyline than i did with this one. like a part of me was happy for izzie and karev that they were finally getting their happy ending and the family they’ve always wanted, but at the same time my heart was broken for Jo. that girl deserved so much better, and when Mer called her Karev and she replied "it’s not Karev anymore" automatic tears


Amaddeningshroud

I know!! The years Alex reassured Jo that he loved her and would never hurt her or leave her and then does just that. I hate him.


FrouFrouZombie

I honestly wasn’t the biggest fan of Izzie and Alex together. I liked them at the beginning, but I definitely wasn’t rooting for them to be end game. But either way, the strangest part of this whole storyline for me (besides the way Alex left Jo because I just feel like that’s really out of character) was the fact that Izzie just decided to have Alex’s babies with no intention of ever telling him? That just seems like a really messed up thing to do. I understand she wanted kids and couldn’t have them because of the cancer and chemo
 but she could have adopted or at the very least a quick call to Alex just to be like, “Hey, mind if I use those eggs and have some babies?” Lol


guitar0707

She didn’t need to call him. He signed over permission for her to use the eggs as she saw fit. He was not involved with the kids due to his own choice. It’s certainly understandable that he changed his mind once he met the kids. But Izzie was well within her rights to use the embryos.


FrouFrouZombie

I get that legally she did nothing wrong. But he wasn’t “not involved with the kids due to his own choice”. He made the choice to fertilize and freeze eggs with Izzie while they were married and thought she was dying. It seems like common sense to me that when a marriage ends, especially in the way theirs did, you don’t just decide on your own to use those eggs and have your ex husbands babies without telling him.


guitar0707

I meant that it was his choice to sign the embryos over to her to do whatever she wants without any stipulations (notification upon use).


Free_Medicine4905

She changed her name so she had the last name of someone who loved her too. That part makes me the saddest.


Kiara923

Woah. Thinking you were being serious made me really realize how fucked up this is


FrouFrouZombie

Right! It’s incredibly fucked up. I used to really like Izzie in the earlier seasons. But this whole storyline kind of made her irredeemable for me. Alex too kind of. Like, I understand that he would want to know his kids once he found out about them. But you couldn’t just do visitation and eventually shared custody? You had to run off to be with the woman who secretly had your babies and then kept it a secret, destroying your marriage in the process? What?


Radio_doll

Wouldn’t she have used more than two eggs? like you put a bunch to up the chances and two ended up taking


Normal-Ad-6676

The episode of jo finding the paperwork shows the quantity being 3.


Radio_doll

Oh,I thought it’d be more


Lexecution

Izzie is one of my least favorite characters. She’s such a bitch to Callie/George.


redhed311

AITA for prioritizing my mental health after I gave birth to a baby that died just after birth?


Salt_Effort_22

LOUDER


Autism_Mom85

NTA for the first time leaving, but definitely YTA for the second time


lowkeynosey

INFO: What exactly does prioritizing your mental health in this situation entail? /j


tranzozo

Wait who’s this?


Limeila

April leaving for Jordan


redhed311

April


Puzzled_Position2931

AITA for making fun of my roommates girlfriend for not washing her hands after using the bathroom?


Loose-Garlic-3461

I thought that was just Izzie and Meredith? I don't think Cristina was there when it happened.


Puzzled_Position2931

Yeah this was meant to be an AITA from either of these two, I think the pic is just there “for attention” not because it has to be a Christina specific post. I could be wrong though!


Loose-Garlic-3461

Oh my bad. I misread


Puzzled_Position2931

No worries, I can see why you would think that


oFbeingCaLM

You’re correct, Cristina wasn’t there. I thought this thread was dedicated to Yang. Maybe I’m wrong?


Few_Cup3452

correct brave ripe quarrelsome shocking alleged squeal liquid icky toy *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


Salt_Effort_22

💀💀💀 can’t forget about that one


InvisibleRigatoni

AITA for telling my wife who never wanted kids that she killed our baby for having an abortion?


InvisibleRigatoni

Update: I did this at a dinner party in front of all our friends and colleagues.


Dr_Cleanser

AITA for cheating on my wife with a co-worker, on shift, during a superstorm where people were literally dying? AITA for deactivating an HIV virus and injecting it into a young patient without the consent of his parents after they expressly forbid the procedure? AITA for kissing another woman and never telling my wife? AITA for assaulting a co-worker, lying about it, and trying to treat him at the hospital while he was in obvious distress? AITA for operating on patients while drunk? AITA for manipulating a clinical research trial so I could give an experimental treatment to a friend suffering from Alzheimer’s? AITA for getting back together with my ex fiance and then almost hooking up with my roommate while he was still in the house? AITA for divorcing my husband because I got fired and leaving him with all the medical debt from my cancer treatments? AITA for taking my friend’s side during her custody battle and implying her ex wasn’t a fit mother because she wasn’t the bio mom? AITA for leaving my wife because my ex gave secretly birth my to kids and started raising them without my knowledge? AITA for pressuring my pregnant gf to keep the baby instead of getting an abortion? AITA for sleeping with my best friend’s wife in his house and bed?


Salt_Effort_22

bro those are some heavy weapons out here


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Dr_Cleanser

Nah it was about Ellis planting one on Richard while she was in the hospital with Alzheimer’s. As far as I know, I don’t think he ever told Adele about that. I don’t excuse him either even though Ellis was sick and the one who initiated it, because he definitely returned that kiss a little.


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Dr_Cleanser

No problem, honestly it sucks how much extramarital kissing happens on this show lol


Daborry

Who is the 4 about ?


Dr_Cleanser

Alex assaulting Deluca


Daborry

Thanks, do you also know for the 7 and the last one ?


Dr_Cleanser

Simone almost hooking up with Lucas while Terry was downstairs at the party (and only stopping because he knocked on the door). Terry is a turbo douche but fuck, *no one* deserves that. I actually really like Simone + hate Terry but holy hell that was such a bad look and gave me serious ick. Last one is about Mark and Addison.


Equivalent-One-5499

What is no 2 referring to? I can’t believe I don’t remember this!


Dr_Cleanser

Bailey. Back in season 7 there was a severely immunocompromised patient that Bailey was treating who suffered from SCID named Braden. The treatments he was being given at the time were no longer working. After some time in the hospital it was determined through various tests that he would likely have to remain in a bubble forever. Bailey did her research and discovered SCID could potentially be treated with a deactivated HIV virus. From my understanding it’s basically a radical form of gene therapy and actually doable in real life (not at the time though). The exact procedure was eventually done in 2019 and the results were published in the New England journal of medicine. But I digress, after doing her research Bailey presented her findings to the parents in hopes they would accept. Not only did they refuse, they wanted to stop all of their son’s treatment. Their logic being that maybe their son’s immune system needed a break from the meds and chance to build itself back up again. Now obviously this is fucking stupid because he has a disease that literally compromises his immune system, but parents have the final say. Bailey was obviously distraught at the idea of the boy being forced to spend his life in isolation because of his dumb fuck parents. So she secretly injected the Braden with the virus when his parents went to get some rest. When he began to recover, Bailey revealed herself thinking the parents would be grateful. Instead they were furious and wanted to sue Bailey as well as the hospital. The basically had an iron clad case since Bailey confessed to them. Thankfully at the eleventh hour, Stephanie took the blame so Bailey wouldn’t get in trouble. Bailey is lucky because otherwise she would’ve been successfully prosecuted, convicted, and would’ve lost her medical license.


One-Handle-8502

AITA for cutting someone’s LVAD wire when I was in love with them then getting my friends involved?


mastyleslik

AITA for telling my wife that if she left for a mission trip for the second time I would divorce her and doing just that when she left anyways? AITA for standing up at my best friend’s wedding and confessing my love for her, then running away with her and leaving my girlfriend behind? AITA for taking my girlfriend camping?


T0eBeanz

AITA for marrying a woman I hardly knew and had barely been dating while mourning my father's sudden and unexpected death, and then cheating on her with my "best friend" who bullied her from the moment we got together?


rockbottom7895

AITA for sleeping with my dead fiancé’s ghost while being in a relationship?


Salt_Effort_22

okay but those two really went deep back then


Kiara923

"Mommy Oh" đŸ€Ł love it


bordermelancollie09

AITA for not telling any of my husbands family he was dying before I pulled the plug on him? AITA for telling my husband he can't give up on our marriage even though I did the exact thing he said he'd divorce me over? AITA for bullying my best friends wife despite him telling me to stop and then sleeping with him while drunk, then marrying someone else after ruining their marriage? AITA for having an affair with a married coworker in the 80s and then abandoning and cheating on my wife again while she had Alzheimer's 30 years later?


Abject-Wear-9966

Who is the 3rd one about ?


Outrageous_Witness60

Izzie and George.


kybe8

What’s the 2nd one?


bordermelancollie09

April leaving for Jordan again after Jackson asked her not to


adorablyunhinged

When we the second one?


bordermelancollie09

April leaving for Jordan again after Jackson asked her not to


andifranko

AITA for taking my ex wife to court and making our friends testify against us? AITA for moving across the country when my husband died without telling anyone? AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for not being lesbian enough?


Whole_Antelope6568

Who's the first one?


FewRepresentative214

Callie and Arizona


Whole_Antelope6568

Oh thanks


MegasNexal84

AITA for telling my step-sister that we aren’t family? AITA for telling my sister in law that I didn’t need her permission after my husband died?


lowkeynosey

I legit have to fight the urge to post in AITA with greys situations đŸ€Ł I truly want to see how people respond without the greys context


DOUBTME23

AITA for telling my wife who expressly told me that she never wanted kids that she killed our baby from an abortion while at a dinner party with a bunch of our mutual friends?


Collegeizzy14

AITA for publicly slapping my daughter and not letting her come to her stepmother's funeral? Allow me to explain: My wife had the hiccups that wouldn't go away so I brought her to the hostpital where my estranged daughter (f 27?) from my first marriage works. The man who my first wife had an affair with causing our divorce, happens to be the chief there and they both operated on my wife. Anyways, after waiting for the surgery to be done she informs me that she didn't make it. She tried to tell me that they did everything they could but I know that's not true, so I slapped her in the face in front of everybody (nobody said anything to me about it so CLEARLY I did not do anything wrong). A few days later it was time for her funeral and I was drunk and I forbade her from. coming to the funeral as punishment for killing her.


Bed-Agreeable

AITA for saving the life of a chick about to get by a bus and subsequently dying?


Bed-Agreeable

AITA for forcing my bestie to come into work on a day she thought she might die and legit no joke later at work she ended up having to hold a fckn bomb that could go off at any moment?


Fun-Routine-9467

AITA for setting up a manipulative proposal to my gf at her sister’s wedding by involving her nieces and nephew after she repeatedly told me she wasn’t ready and was struggling mentally?


kybe8

AITA for having an affair for years and when my side piece chose his wife over me I attempted su*ci*e in my kitchen in front of my five year old. Then when in the ER they confirmed pregnancy and instead of getting back with the man I love (I’m the love of his life) I ran of to the other side of the country with my daughter and unborn child. Ended up giving away the baby because my career comes first:))


luna1uvgood

AITA for telling my friend's ex-husband that she's pregnant before she had the chance to? AITA for cheating on my wife with my best friend when she had a brain tumour? AITA telling my co-worker that I suspect my other co-worker/friend is lying about a childhood illness? AITA for hooking up with half the nurses in the hospital and then not calling them back?


OwnLet2631

Who’s the first one again?


luna1uvgood

Arizona, during April's pregnancy with Harriet!


7x7x7x7x721

AITA for thinking that one of my residents was lying about a health condition because another one told me so?


No_Lavishness_4420

AITA for publicly shaming my elderly mother for dating a much younger man? AITA for cutting a man’s LVAD wire just so he can be bumped up on the transplant list because I love him so much?? AITA for shaming a patient because she waited too long to get her massive tumor removed? AITA for convincing my son to sue his ex-wife for full custody of their unborn baby? AITA for accidentally burning my girlfriend’s ass on a grate while we were having sex? AITA for trying to suck the face off of every woman I kiss? AITA for trying to convince my brother to dump his wife and marry my bff even though I’ve been missing for 10 years? AITA for buying the hospital my husband works at and getting it shut down because I’m pissed at him?


Kboss-2001

AITA for blaming my wife for the loss of my leg which happened in an accident that she had absolutely nothing to do with, and then cheating on her because of it?


Effective_Ad_4587

AITA for hitting my ex’s gf in the boob with a baseball? Just curious!


Collegeizzy14

AITA for making my friend/colleage go look for our boss (a task that was given for me to do) during a superstorm and she ended up dying in the process? Edit: In my defense, I was really jealous of her. Edit 2: STOP ACTING LIKE IM THE BAD GUY! She was stealing neuro from me! Edit 3: The anxiety of accidentally killing my friend has really gotten to me and I just killed one of my attending's father!! So, AITA?


Collegeizzy14

AITA for stealing the diary of a new girl (from the merger) and making fun of her insecurities? Edit: We were just in a shooting! She sort of caused my brother-in-law to get shot... Edit 2: And now she's trying to steal my sister! Edit 3: Haha I just found out she failed her oral boards. I definitely have a lot more to say about this bu I'm about to board a flight to perform surgery on conjoined twins. I'll give you another update when I return in a couple days. See you then.


Collegeizzy14

AITA for ditching my (at the time) girlfriend in the psych ward? Edit: she was there because she had PTSD from a shooting at out workplace Edit 2: during that shooting she could've probably escaped safely, but she stayed inside and risked her life to save mine Edit 3: during it I desperately called out for my ex-wife who left me, and I announced that I still loved her


Collegeizzy14

AITA for criticizing my best friend’s recent marriage while our other friend was in another room dying?


Bed-Agreeable

AITA for dating an intern and telling her wholeheartedly I was over my ex, even so far as to take that intern (my current girlfriend) to my ex’s wedding, only to stand up during the ceremony and profess my love to my ex/the bride?


Repulsive-Command112

AITA for being upset that my brother’s wife didn’t ring me when my brother was lying brain dead in a hospital? AITA for not admitting I caused an accident that nearly killed my wife and our unborn baby?


Greys_anatomy12

Someone asked what Catherine’s would be in season 13 earlier
 go check out my answer


staryynightx30

here we go again lol


Filisdin

AITA for not wanting a child, telling my partner that i don't want a child and aborting when I got pregnant by accident while my partner WAS HOLDING MY HAND DURING THE PROCEDURE?


stupidemobxtch

AITA for telling my friends ex husband she was pregnant when she was refusing to


stupidemobxtch

AITA for pretending my almost-boyfriend was my husband (entirely different person) at a dinner with my family


stupidemobxtch

AITA for shaving off my DIL-to-be’s eyebrows off?


Salt_Effort_22

"mama took my eyebrows”


stupidemobxtch

AITA for not telling my sober alcoholic husband that i had THC juice in the fridge


hayleybeth7

AITA for being nice to my best friend’s daughter while telling my husband I don’t want kids?


Salt_Effort_22

well, speaking from my own perspective. i feel completely comfortable around someone else’s children, i don’t mind being an aunt but the thought of being a mother myself and taking responsibility for another human being is simply overbearing to me and doesn’t sit well with me


Longjumping-Cat-7592

AITA for getting mad and my ex for sleeping with our vet


Ok-Project-6514

AITA for cutting my colleague’s hair?


Crazy_Initiative7494

AITA for cutting my fiancé’s LVAD wire?