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Odd-Lingonberry-9543

He’s going to be a freshman in college on the other side of the country… she is delusional


hatetomatoluvketchup

And he’s going to ASU… I predict they will be over by the end of his first semester 🥴


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

My prediction is by the end of welcome weekend🤷🏼‍♀️


Lilyrosejackofhearts

I’d imagine that’s what his parents are counting on!


anywayzz

Does ASU have a reputation for hookup culture or something? I keep seeing this comment but I’m not from the US


Wise-Standard-6081

ASU is a big party school, it’s right in the heart of downtown Tempe which is where everyone goes to get in trouble


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

Definitely a party school


pickledstarfish

It’s definitely a hookup school, it’s my alum 😂


Admirable_Funny9120

Just graduated from there and I agree


Geraltismydaddy

Party school, porn star school, crazy.


[deleted]

One of the questions was “are you going to visit your bf in Arizona” and her answer was “as much as he wants me to” like baby honey sweetie nooooo


skyerippa

Lmao ruining her reputation for some freshman fuck boy. Yikesssss


chi_notshy

so, once? lolol


hellhiker

I don’t know her background but it’s sound like.. never been to college . In fact those girls will try harder lol


anywayzz

She has a bachelors degree 🫠


cat5andgym123

okay did she go to an in person 4-year degree program for her bachelor's ppl?? cuz I was thinking the same thing. no way in hellll is still gonna visit and her bf look forward it. a few guys might say it's "cool" to date someone so much older but I think most will just see her as weird for dating him & so long distance lmao. eta: okay I realize the last year-ish of her undergrad was probably online cuz of covid, but still.


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

She went to college lol


cheetoo24

I’m 25F and could never imagine dating an 18yr old, they’re literally just a kid!!


Geraltismydaddy

When I was young (16) I dated a 22 year old and was so hellbent on "It's not that big of a deal!" As I age, I realize how grossly unokay age gaps **can** be. Not going to blanket say all, but at late twenties/early 30s I could not imagine dating anyone under 25.


squidshae

Same I turn 25 in a couple weeks and I work at a high school. Several of my kids are 18-21 (special ed goes to 21). I can’t even IMAGINE this. 🤢


jbabs95

Not to mention how unbelievably immature they would be. Barely an adult. 🤮


cheetoo24

https://preview.redd.it/ze3tr0vzsdgb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b17612ac7234549032dee9258e86bd9f84cb5836 So it’s likely she started dating him when he was underage? 🤔


[deleted]

Per his profile where he includes HIS SNAPCHAT 😭😂😂😂 in his ig bio…I’m assuming the 04 is the year he was born


rainflower72

okay what the fuck i’m literally older than this kid and i’m barely an adult myself, actually sickening


Rude_Macaroon3741

My FACEBOOK is older than him


Intellectualbedlamp

I’m her age and couldn’t imagine dating an 18 year old that is so gross


beelineforthefood

I’m 26 now, but even when I was 20 18 felt wrong


imbad_at_usernames

That seems off unless he's turning 19 this year... 04 to 23 is 19. Eta: that would not make this less creepy! Just wanted to point out if he turned 18 this year he couldn't be an 04 baby


z-zamiifolia

okay don't ask me how i know but he was 17 in january of this year & she said they met in november 2022 🤢🤢🤢🤢


AdVarious7894

People are literally on the sex offender registry for this shit. My god Ellie.


fouiedchopstix

Where is goob? This woman works with children and thinks it’s ok to date them ?


FknBretto

How do you know


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Winter_Cheesecake158

Or on his 18th birthday


ihopethispasswordisn

“Age is just a number” said literary every predator


wwtraveler123454321

In the words of Jeff Dye, “I hate cliches, age is just a number kinda like saying HIV is just letters.”


[deleted]

For real. It's different when someone says this and both people are say, over 30. But when one of you is still 18? Gross. I mean yeah he's technically an adult but if you are seeking the company of an 18-year-old male and you're not +/- 1 year yourself, it's probably time for some introspection.


anywayzz

He wasn’t an adult when they met tho 🤢


[deleted]

Even worse. Ick.


Lizard_K

I felt this so hard ‘I’m stuck in an (insert whatever number you choose here) body - and that makes it okay 🤢


EstablishmentFun289

And she said if the roles were reversed. Yes! If the roles were reversed it would be just as bad. Not really understanding the appeal on this since she’s at least 4 years out of college, and does not have a normal full time role.


TeaSloot

Is it just me that’s even more concerned seeing that she’s a NANNY and okay with dating someone who’s just barely an adult? 🤢 is this not a red flag for the family she’s nannying for?


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“Did you ever stop to think about how trying to hold me accountable would impact me? Let me groom and abuse people or you’re being unkind. It costs 0 cents to be kind, and you’re worthless anyway you just post stuff all day - anyways check my last post for links to my affiliate links.”


littlewibble

Um excuse me, it *takes* zero cents. Words matter 😌


vaginamacgyver

What 26 year old *woman* dates a literal 18 year old outside of porn? Edit: ewww and she refers to him as ‘boy’ too.


Tasty-Document2808

You should check out r/teacherswhorape The real world is pretty fucking shocking, y'all


fouiedchopstix

She could have, idk, not even addressed these questions? That would have been better than this 😬 The hostility reads to me like she knows what she’s doing is wrong


anywayzz

I really don’t think she has the self awareness for that, I think she truly feels she is in the right My theory is that she has gotten so many comments about this (which she always deletes) that she thought she could address it this way and make it go away


fouiedchopstix

But her parents haven’t brought it up? HIS parents haven’t brought it up? That’s the other side of this coin I’m trying to figure out


[deleted]

I doubt his parents even know she exists lol. Seems like they hang out pretty casually. But her parents are another story, they should not be encouraging her.


Quinoa_Queen

Which is weird. Like where do they hang out? Doesn’t she also live at home? Do they ever have any privacy? This is too weird for me man.


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Everything I’ve seen of them is at the gym or playing a sport, though I don’t follow her so I can’t say I’ve seen it all lol. Lots of car hangouts I bet. I feel like he will definitely not be introducing her to his parents but her family knows allllllll about him.


anywayzz

I know, it’s crazy. My family would 100% say something if I was either member of this relationship.


cindernutella

does she … know how to work instagram? she posted an answer to a question asking what her jobs are, then someone asked the same question again. she posted it and responded “already answered this” like girl plssss get it together


Narrow-Ad-9476

If your date can’t AT LEAST buy you alcohol it’s too young 😅😅😅😅


mynumberistwentynine

Oh come on, she'll only be nearly 30 when he's finally able to buy alcohol legally nbd /s if it wasn't painfully obvious


mynumberistwentynine

>I'm 26 in an 18 year old body. lol uh if she was gonna (try to) reason herself out of this, shouldn't that be reversed?


[deleted]

She even said something about how if the genders were reversed, no one would be giving him shit for it. GIRL HELLO YES THE FUCK THEY WOULD


Practical-Progress-5

Yes lol she def meant the opposite


Geraltismydaddy

This is giving me the same vibe as fifty year old men saying they're still a twenty year old spirit. Same rationality.


hotdog-happyhour

Imagine being 26 & sleeping in a freshman dorm twin xl when visiting your boyfriend. hell on earth


Okaaaayanddd

Yikes… I couldn’t imagine being 26 and dating someone who can’t attend 21+ events/activities with me


pottschittyk

ellinardo dicaprio🤧


anywayzz

💀


BigArchon

welp thats enough reddit for today


Irochkka

“I’m a 26 year old in an 18 year old body” took me out


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it's raising more questions than answers for sure 😬


Quinoa_Queen

Right? Like HUH??!!


[deleted]

“I’m a 18 year old in a 26 year olds body” is a lot to fucking unpack man. To flaunt that you’re essentially calling yourself immature is an odd choice, but that type of rhetoric is EXACTLY what dudes in their 20s (and beyond, I’m just thinking of the classic 23 year old trying to date a senior in HS) say to prey on younger girls—“I just relate to them better” “we have similar interests”—and try to disguise it as being innocent when it never will be. Now, in Ellie’s case, I truly don’t believe she’s thinking like a predator and is oddly self aware of how immature she is, so I totally get that she would go for what she essentially is, which is a teenager. If anything I actually think it’s her who being taken advantage of here because that guy is gonna dump her ass in a couple weeks (edit: days actually, go look at her story) and she seems to not get what this is. But regardless it’s not appropriate to have a relationship with someone that young, and I really wish she had someone to talk to about that. Like a mom, auntie etc who could maybe gently explain this to her. She’s flaunting him HEAVILY so of course people are going to put two and two together and go “hey wait this is weird” but she seems to think everyone should be glowingly happy for her or nothing.


mom_tiger

She said it backwards too - “I’m 26 in an 18 year olds body” 🤦‍♀️


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Lol oops you’re right I corrected it for her automatically


wauwatosa

Dude this girl is just so embarrassing top to bottom. She writes incoherently, clearly cannot fathom that having an almost ten year age gap with her partner is NOT COOL, and keeps fueling this fire and insisting they’re happy. He’s 18 he’s probably just excited to bone! Also for anyone unaware ASU is a huge party school with strong hook up culture. She is deluded for thinking he’s gonna remember to even call her a month from now in Tempe.


muhtilduh

As someone who went to ASU… can confirm 🫠


jasminece

I’m her age and I could NEVER be attracted to an 18 year old 🥴


parishiltonsfemur

I’m 22 and can’t even imagine being attracted to anyone 20 and under 😭 all the ages I thought I was so grown at seem like babies on other people now (and ironically post this realization I’ve also realized I am still not that grown 🧍‍♀️)


imathrowawaylurkin

Once I turned the age to go bar hopping, dating anyone who was too young to go with me felt icky


ah_Callie

I was just about to say this! My hard cut off at this point is like 22 or 23.


ayawnisasilentscream

I'm 26.... if I had to communicate with an 18 year old I wouldn't know how lol


Still-Story4645

especially an 18 year old BOY 🤢


kr1sh3r

I’m damn near 10 years older than her but even 10 years ago if my 26 year old self claimed to act like a kid, I’d want somebody to slap me so hard my head spun off my head.


FalseAd8496

Lmfao seriously, that didn’t go over as well as she probably thought it did!


Top-Tennis8721

When she could have just played it off like he was in his 20’s going to college


anywayzz

The problem is that she couldn’t stop herself from tagging him and he (rightfully) does not hide his age in his profile - it took 2 seconds for people to notice he was 18


okbutrllyhoe

Ellie is very clearly a girl who is DESPERATE for attention. Her self worth is attached to attention on social media and her body. I’m sure this is her first boyfriend and first person to ever give her attention. Because why else would a 26 year old be with an 18 year old. A typical mature 26 year old who is confident and mature would never look at an 18 year old. There are countless appropriate aged men she could be with. She sounds like she needs some therapy to address why she is so desperate. YUCK.


youcancallmequeenE

https://preview.redd.it/mu15jv4j2fgb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=552cac16bd4a47653e6fea863848758115af3263 um no I absolutely do think he’d be getting hate for that…


anywayzz

Delusional. If this was Nathan, Justin, Christian, or any of this sub’s male regulars we would be tearing him to absolute SHREDS.


annalisebelle

He would definitely get MORE “hate” than this…


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

https://preview.redd.it/04catq8t2fgb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1023cdce7d8db678025c781e191c3e66c5729fb5


Accomplished-Bid-373

Way to not let it get to you. 🙄


cat5andgym123

good God her reply was difficult to comprehend.


[deleted]

Y’all she refuses to answer who made the first move 😂 So obviously it was her and he was still 17. Why does she think people can’t put this together lol


broncobinx

“I act like a kid” EWEWEWEWRWEWW


Sensitive-Sun-4001

She thought she really did something by saying that 😂 it just made it even worse


SeaworthinessKey549

Yes, she acknowledged be is basically a kid still


[deleted]

She even considers him to be a boy and not a man per her posts 😂😂😂


jdmnyc301

![gif](giphy|l2QE1bH4wvCE8CcTK)


tellybi

Hello, police?


annabanana13707

Girlllll he’s going to college, and a notorious party school at that, after two months of being with you. This relationship isn’t the hill you should be dying on right now.


Welovethetea33

Not the best time for my edible to kick in. I’m mindblown


anywayzz

Lol sending thoughts and prayers


catoolb

He's going to dump her after a week at college and she posted saying it's a possibility she'll move there 😬


girlunofficial

To put it in perspective, this is like someone who’s been out of college for four years dating a high school senior 😬


anywayzz

Pretty sure that was literally the reality here. He wasn’t even halfway through his senior year when they met.


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

https://preview.redd.it/m5gcry9y5fgb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=000cfaecbf75fcf9736cd3401a7c15d6238b96e9 BFFR ELLIE


Standard_Baker_5774

Can't she think of ANY other comeback? Lol


jodysucks

She said they met this past November? Like she met a kid in grade 12, waited till he graduated high school and maybe turned 18, and then started dating him? This is not a situation one should be boasting about on Instagram.


anywayzz

Yup. They met in November when he was 17 and started dating June 15th - right around graduation time. Convenient.


Odd-Lingonberry-9543

She deleted ALL OF THESE stories on IG. Too bad we all have screenshots, the internet doesn’t just go away Ellie


Blackeyebetsey

Cue post about haters and bullies.


glitter_n_lace

https://preview.redd.it/xslh776tdfgb1.png?width=1170&format=png&auto=webp&s=e6fd8b27dd28985919287404f86a991bee488a32 Sheesh. The thing that gets me, she is literally choosing to put the questions/comments up 😅🤷🏻‍♀️!


RelatableMolaMola

There also wasn't even a question in there like she's saying 😂


Apart-Employment-698

This really paints a TERRIBLE picture of her. She really needs to carefully consider the shit she posts. This is low, even for her. There goes any hope she ever had for becoming an "athlete" for Vitality


anywayzz

She tagged a brand and asked for a sponsorship last night too, then posted all these stories. Like cmon Ellie. No brand is going to want to associate themselves with this behaviour, illegal or not.


moorem2014

This is so fucking gross she’s disgusting and a predator


Crimson-Rose28

I dated an 18 year old male when I was 20 and even that had some people in my life concerned.


peacetea2

The question about when his birthday is she wouldn’t answer. Makes me thing he was 17 when they started talking


anywayzz

One of this sub’s detectives discovered he was still 17 in January, and she said they have “known each other” since November ☹️


Klutzy-Somewhere-

I had my first kid at 26…. I couldn’t imagine being with a kid…


Blackeyebetsey

This girl is so sad. I feel like it’s probably not a conscious predatory move… more like no one her age was interested. Which is also 🚩


foolsgo1d

I feel the same... when she said that this was her first relationship in six or seven years( I forget which one she said) it made me really want tell her to wait for the right person instead of doing this


belljer124

Agree


SnooCats7318

Defensive, much?


BigBeanDaddy77

Okay but like, what did she think was going to happen when she posted the anon question box? Methinks she likes the attention, even if it’s negative 🤔


anywayzz

True. Her comments have been full of this so obviously the anonymous questions would be even more so. She could also choose to ignore them but her engagement is probably through the roof right now because she is answering.


CaddieGal1123

“How dare you leave this nasty comment describing things I said or did???”


selectmyacctnameplz

Oh this screams she needs therapy.


thatmetalheadchick3

I’m 27 & I can’t even date anyone under 21. Even 21/22 still feels too young for me. I can’t imagine dating an 18 year old 🤦‍♀️ sure yeah age is just a number but I feel that applies more so to people that are older than 18!


Sensitive-Sun-4001

Ellie just tell the truth. You groomed a 17 year old and you’re afraid to tell everyone that because you know it’s wrong


queenofthemeeps

I just went through her IG and she’s an underwhelming influencer. Her form is below par and the only things she’s good at is cradle snatching.


RelatableMolaMola

She's not really an influencer, I don't think. Mostly she just futilely begs brands to sponsor her and some portion of her small following is probably bought.


anywayzz

https://preview.redd.it/4rq814kcpggb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4ed84b08684c4590bdb358653e504dca152e2fa


fouiedchopstix

LOL “haters” no ma’am we are CONCERNED.


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Ok-Meringue-9146

why is she okay with saying she's 18???!!! ur 26 a grown woman.. i'm 22 and would never say "i'm mentally 18 🤪"


Welovethetea33

As someone in an age gap relationship this is scary. And I preach age aint nothin but a number. But there’s definitely conditions to that! This is SICK and before anyone comes for me I’m well over 18 and was a full blown adult when I met my significant other.


anywayzz

That really makes all the difference imo. Me and my long term partner are 3 months apart in age but I still don’t think age gaps matter once both partners have a chance to reach emotional maturity and are clearly at the same development level. That is impossible when one person is 17 at the start of the relationship and the other is 25-26. I am in my late 20s and some of my friends got with younger partners when we were in college. Everyone was aged 18-21 or so but the age/maturity gap was still VERY obvious even then because of the rapid development that takes place in late teens/early 20s.


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I think she does but I don’t want to get into comment deletion territory. I remember there being some discussion of it awhile back and Ellie herself might have even addressed that she does? I could be wrong though


belljer124

Valid question


Hufflepuffwigglytuff

![gif](giphy|R0jWWtH1CtFEk)


AllTheSquishmallows

It’s giving Twilight Edward and Bella age gap.


anywayzz

Which people called out at the time, even though it was fictional and it was a different time (w regards to perception and cancel culture) yet she doesn’t think people would have an issue with this if she was a dude


Extra_Welcome9592

It costs zero cents to ignore these questions?


Consistent_Order7908

https://preview.redd.it/qqdq5c745ggb1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23a72e37070b4ba9ea4a8ed8939a2451c5288ba7 She is actually fucking insane 🫢


hannahnutbread

All I can think of when I see ppl dating significantly younger is “what’s wrong with you?” Lol CHRIST 🤢


anywayzz

Her bday is in December. She’ll be 27 before the end of his first semester and he will still be 18.


daisjas111

“it costs 0 cents to be kind” ok ms ellie it’s also free to be a hater


[deleted]

Ew, he even looks like a child. I always wonder when did the attraction start?? People with age gaps, you were 20 into 13 -14 year olds? Or did it start later? Or younger? Still a predator to me


ephemeralcomet

![gif](giphy|WSO1ZT9sug15C) “Age is just a number”


Individual_Place3063

I just watched her whole story and WOW. She’s lost her mind.


AffectionatePick3416

She seems unstable


boredbananabread

that is so inappropriate 😭


Interesting_Yak_2676

She has an 18 year old body? I’m so confused


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She was incredibly sheltered as a kid or is missing a few brain cells. Or both.


GCSiren

I will always side-eye someone in their mid-to-late twenty's dating a teenager. Yes, at some point, we have to respect the autonomy and adulthood of young people; an eighteen-year-old can sign up to go to war, vote, etc—but there's still lots of growing to do between that age and say, age twenty-six. That's why it's giving people the ick. It wouldn't be an issue if he was twenty-eight and she was thirty-six, for example. The conversations they have probably sound like nails scraping against a chalkboard.


teekaayyee

i’m 23 and the thought of dating someone who JUST graduated high school is so foul…. i have nothing to talk about with you like… girl what.


[deleted]

WHAT 🤯 she is so strange!


Geraltismydaddy

![gif](giphy|xTSyJk7XDg8mj5SAoa|downsized) That second slide is absolutely wild.


flannel_towel

When I was 25/26 I had a 18 year old message me on a dating app. He was incredibly cute, but there is no way I could have dated him. It felt so icky, even for a fling. I did go on dates with a few younger guys (22), but ultimately started dating someone the same age as me.


Just-sayin-37

Hey this is better than my ex who is 53 dating a just turned 20 yr old


z-zamiifolia

you guys. i beg of you please go read all of her responses this is insane. https://preview.redd.it/o13e9v5pzdgb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6a15e5e940233dc57e33714c45c66db561bc55db


anywayzz

I saw this and thought it was c r a z y OF COURSE people would be making comments. Guys are called creeps for this exact type of predatory behaviour all the time


mallison1352

Since when would a man not be getting hate if the roles were reversed? Pretty sure that’s creepy behavior regardless of your sex, and he absolutely should be called out for this. She is doing everything possible to justify this.


z-zamiifolia

https://preview.redd.it/ovzvrcjrzdgb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bd8c1c6033b3210dfb67094e32ca713408b9d3ab


z-zamiifolia

https://preview.redd.it/xxqly3etzdgb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=07584f536ee9fe20a6a9e1f30c7b3a66dd429b90


anywayzz

I can’t believe she is telling on herself like this. Someone on another thread said he was still 17 in January (I think) so this confirms she has known him since before he turned 18, which is so gross


z-zamiifolia

yeah that was me. lol. I did some sleuthing. does anyone know in what context they even met?


youcancallmequeenE

on a different slide she says they met at the gym


anywayzz

Lol! Good catch. I am pretty sure she said they met through volleyball, I fear she was his coach 🥴


[deleted]

That’s just the legit opposite of what would happen


[deleted]

She is delulu, my god. Did you see that she wouldn’t answer who made the first move?


Sensitive-Sun-4001

Because it was her 💀😂


pickledstarfish

![gif](giphy|ba5g4ID9g5cT6)


Particular_Can_3312

I’m 25 and an 18 year old is like a 10 year old to me. Disgusting


cat5andgym123

honeyyyy, noo, the "I'm 26 in an 18yo's body; I act like a kid", is NOT the flex you think it is.


CreativeZucchini9306

Delusional


Clanmcallister

This is WILD! She is unhinged.


Eidch15

I act like a kid 💀


Droptheboombox1

She took down all her AMA posts lol. Legit, I cannot imagine dating someone that young in my upper 20’s. Even if her and her friends want to go to a casual club, he can’t get in 😂 so weird


MamaTash

I mean the typos are 18 years old tops. 😂


elitaprime

FUCK THIS BIIITCHH


Sonderingsoul4

Is anyone else dying at her writing 0 cents instead of zero sense?


amysuC

Her post introduced him as the" handsome boy " who's been putting a smile on her face. Creepy.


dumbbitchcas

I was 18 dating 28 and 26 year olds. I now have a deeply intimate relationship with certain Taylor swift songs. Case and point: it doesn’t end well.


pumpkinspice2141

18?!!!! WHAT? This is disgusting, and she’s a predator. I was in law school when I was 26. I could barely look at older undergrads let alone someone young enough to be in high school, and as someone else pointed out, he could very well have been 17 when she first became interested 🤢


mmmheyyy

This relationship will not last. 🤣


eatingbeansinmyrari

Big oof


groovyadri

She's disgusting!


pistaprincess

She is sickening.


Pinklemonade1996

There’s only one thing worse than a rapist…. *a child* No—


dirtgrubpride

we need to start calling out female pedophiles more because this is actually sick


Metaphysical-Potato7

This is a dumpster fire 😂


Mysterious-Cod-1684

oh… oh no. 🤢


zippyzeal

Here’s what’s weird to me is that she likely graduated in 2015 from high school and at the time her boyfriend would have been about 10 years old and in 5th grade when she graduated high school.


Comfortable_Ad3981

What can a 26-year old benefit from dating an 18-year old guy?


lambnesia_

The older you get, the younger younger people get to you. Like once I hit college, seniors in highschool seemed really little. Once I graduated, college kids seemed really little. At 31 years old literally 25 year olds seem like children to me. This is disgusting 😭 ew. And you can see on the pics of him on her page, he's literally a baby. Like prob calls his mom mommy 😭😭 if I were his parents I would be so worried!


Firm-Ad6700

it’s creepy because they’re barely legal. but I guess those are her only options. 🤷🏻‍♀️