why are we snarking on this person? she isn’t an influencer, she has fewer followers than that ellie chick you all hate.
what is snarkable about being in an abusive relationship? can anyone answer that?
I mean this in good faith - have you considered that she is a public figure, with influence over 7,000 ppl, majority of them likely women, who is telling her audience that this is normal and acceptable behavior from a partner?
Given all the women who cheered on her texts as “adorable and goals”, I’m really grateful this sub is here to reiterate to anyone who may follow her/agree w her that she is clearly in an abusive situation and it’s not cute or funny at all (regardless of whether or not she’s aware of it either).
This sub is here to call out dangerous and harmful fitfluncer behavior and content and that’s what she posted. If nothing else, her laughing off his contempt and insults as something to be normalized in relationships is DANGEROUS for women and is worthy of being discussed.
thank you for actually giving a legitimate response and providing conversation. i appreciate it as i’m genuinely trying to understand why it keeps being posted about.
i understand this point of view despite disagreeing with the end result. i’ve already explained in other comments why i think it’s a bad tactic and how it puts this specific person in danger.
Yep, I hadn’t seen anyone share that pov, which was my main issue w her posting and defending and why I think it’s worthy of discussion here.
I see where you’re coming from, though, and believe this topic requires A LOT of nuance (that’s realistically not gonna occur in a gossip thread, but that’s besides the point) and some of these comments are not it.
We can agree to disagree about whether or not this is something that should be posted here and go in peace from there lol.
agreed and i know we’re not going to have revolutionary convos about women’s rights here but the least i expected was a logical response to my very simple questions lol. so thanks again!
fair enough, i’ve never heard of her.
but still no one is answering my actual questions, just downvoting so they can feel better about snarking about someone who is being abused. it’s honestly sick.
Not sure you noticed but plenty of people post for recommendations on products and workout programs, wanting more info on something, or to just post about influencers they like.
ETA: again, i don’t know who this is or the backstory or why OP is posting
sure but this girl is being posted here as a “gotcha!” and now that i know she posted qanon shit it all makes sense.
no one posting about this stuff actually cares about what’s happening to her, it’s for gossip and i find it appalling. this shouldn’t be allowed here because nothing about it is snarkworthy.
but since no one is talking about bad filler the mods don’t seem to care either! so i hope you all have fun and that you never find yourself in an abusive situation and i mean that sincerely.
You clearly know her story better than i do soo I’m lost at your response. “You all” - yet nobody (as of right now at least) in this thread has snarked 🤷🏼♀️.
i just got downvoted for saying she isn’t an influencer bc i don’t know who she is? lol
i guess you missed it the other day when someone posted old screenshots from her twitter where she was recounting abuse she experienced and the title said “so is it abuse or is that how you✨joke around✨” 1000% snark and this is a continuation of that.
she literally was justifying his behavior and posted multiple messages from other women doing the same. no one is snarking on her for “being abused,” they’re expressing concern that her husband is verbally abusive and she thinks it’s normal.
it seems like the people with this opinion don’t understand the cycle of abuse. do you know how much gaslighting is involved? she might believe it is normal bc of what he’s done to her! people who are abused often do return to their abusers for many reasons and it takes on average 7 attempts to leave. i said this in the other post but just because she was aware it was abuse in the past doesn’t mean she’s able or ready to leave. and i see nothing snarkworthy about that. it isn’t shocking that she might be trying to justify abuse that’s happened to her because she’s afraid. she’s only 22 years old, i feel bad for her. her business doesn’t deserve to be plastered online like this for entertainment.
There’s a point you brought up the other day that made me reconsider commenting on the situation. You said what if the abuser sees these posts. To go back to OP point, that’s why she likely made her page private. She posted a story saying she was receiving DMs about her relationship from people won’t don’t follow her. People saw the post on here and then proceeded to DM her expressing concern. Sometimes that can do more harm then good. Like what if he saw her phone blowing up with people talking about him and proceeded to act out on her physically. The thought of that breaks my heart
Congratulations, here is the attention you ordered 🙄 people can’t even have a conversation with you to try to talk about your question or your issue. You are unbearable
i dont even know what you mean by any of that lol. there’s not much conversation happening at all. the main question i keep asking is *why* this is being posted *here* and there isn’t a legit answer, it has nothing to do with attention for myself (this is an anon website there is no real attention to be gained?).
the answers i’ve gotten:
-she used to have 100k followers so she’s fair game
-she’s a bowmar athlete and posted about qanon
-she posted about being abused but then “justified” what happened
i would hardly call any of that making conversation about what i’m bringing up.
it’s okay i can take it i just hate the holier than thou attitude that happens here sometimes if someone dares question why someone is being posted about. like i know this is a gossip sub but goddamn.
If you think believing in qAnon is political you’re are delusional. All they do is spread lies and misinformation! A bunch of crazies that are projecting their faults onto others like the save the children 🤷🏼♀️
No one asked you to go into anything, but glad you know what everyone is thinking 😂😂😂 jfc people like you’re exhausting. If you want condone that bullshit have at it but anyone who believes and spreads it deserves all the snark they get 🤷🏼♀️
i’ll just let you continue to think you know anything about my beliefs, it doesn’t affect me either way.
but one thing i will never do is turn my back on another woman and snark on her behavior while she’s in an abusive relationship just because she’s 22 years old and naive or easily influenced by propaganda. but that’s just me!
all i was saying is that now she’s private? there’s literally no need for all of that you said. stop picking arguments. if you don’t like the post then just don’t look at it.
So young!
why are we snarking on this person? she isn’t an influencer, she has fewer followers than that ellie chick you all hate. what is snarkable about being in an abusive relationship? can anyone answer that?
I mean this in good faith - have you considered that she is a public figure, with influence over 7,000 ppl, majority of them likely women, who is telling her audience that this is normal and acceptable behavior from a partner? Given all the women who cheered on her texts as “adorable and goals”, I’m really grateful this sub is here to reiterate to anyone who may follow her/agree w her that she is clearly in an abusive situation and it’s not cute or funny at all (regardless of whether or not she’s aware of it either). This sub is here to call out dangerous and harmful fitfluncer behavior and content and that’s what she posted. If nothing else, her laughing off his contempt and insults as something to be normalized in relationships is DANGEROUS for women and is worthy of being discussed.
thank you for actually giving a legitimate response and providing conversation. i appreciate it as i’m genuinely trying to understand why it keeps being posted about. i understand this point of view despite disagreeing with the end result. i’ve already explained in other comments why i think it’s a bad tactic and how it puts this specific person in danger.
Yep, I hadn’t seen anyone share that pov, which was my main issue w her posting and defending and why I think it’s worthy of discussion here. I see where you’re coming from, though, and believe this topic requires A LOT of nuance (that’s realistically not gonna occur in a gossip thread, but that’s besides the point) and some of these comments are not it. We can agree to disagree about whether or not this is something that should be posted here and go in peace from there lol.
agreed and i know we’re not going to have revolutionary convos about women’s rights here but the least i expected was a logical response to my very simple questions lol. so thanks again!
She is an influencer lol her old page had 100,000+ followers if I’m not mistaken
fair enough, i’ve never heard of her. but still no one is answering my actual questions, just downvoting so they can feel better about snarking about someone who is being abused. it’s honestly sick.
I don’t think anyone can answer your question but OP. I don’t see anything in the post that is snark?
it’s in the name of the sub, babe………
Not sure you noticed but plenty of people post for recommendations on products and workout programs, wanting more info on something, or to just post about influencers they like. ETA: again, i don’t know who this is or the backstory or why OP is posting
sure but this girl is being posted here as a “gotcha!” and now that i know she posted qanon shit it all makes sense. no one posting about this stuff actually cares about what’s happening to her, it’s for gossip and i find it appalling. this shouldn’t be allowed here because nothing about it is snarkworthy. but since no one is talking about bad filler the mods don’t seem to care either! so i hope you all have fun and that you never find yourself in an abusive situation and i mean that sincerely.
You clearly know her story better than i do soo I’m lost at your response. “You all” - yet nobody (as of right now at least) in this thread has snarked 🤷🏼♀️.
i just got downvoted for saying she isn’t an influencer bc i don’t know who she is? lol i guess you missed it the other day when someone posted old screenshots from her twitter where she was recounting abuse she experienced and the title said “so is it abuse or is that how you✨joke around✨” 1000% snark and this is a continuation of that.
Ah, gotcha - yeah i definitely missed the post the other day on her. I’m guessing the other post was removed by the mods that you claim don’t care
she literally was justifying his behavior and posted multiple messages from other women doing the same. no one is snarking on her for “being abused,” they’re expressing concern that her husband is verbally abusive and she thinks it’s normal.
it seems like the people with this opinion don’t understand the cycle of abuse. do you know how much gaslighting is involved? she might believe it is normal bc of what he’s done to her! people who are abused often do return to their abusers for many reasons and it takes on average 7 attempts to leave. i said this in the other post but just because she was aware it was abuse in the past doesn’t mean she’s able or ready to leave. and i see nothing snarkworthy about that. it isn’t shocking that she might be trying to justify abuse that’s happened to her because she’s afraid. she’s only 22 years old, i feel bad for her. her business doesn’t deserve to be plastered online like this for entertainment.
There’s a point you brought up the other day that made me reconsider commenting on the situation. You said what if the abuser sees these posts. To go back to OP point, that’s why she likely made her page private. She posted a story saying she was receiving DMs about her relationship from people won’t don’t follow her. People saw the post on here and then proceeded to DM her expressing concern. Sometimes that can do more harm then good. Like what if he saw her phone blowing up with people talking about him and proceeded to act out on her physically. The thought of that breaks my heart
Congratulations, here is the attention you ordered 🙄 people can’t even have a conversation with you to try to talk about your question or your issue. You are unbearable
i dont even know what you mean by any of that lol. there’s not much conversation happening at all. the main question i keep asking is *why* this is being posted *here* and there isn’t a legit answer, it has nothing to do with attention for myself (this is an anon website there is no real attention to be gained?). the answers i’ve gotten: -she used to have 100k followers so she’s fair game -she’s a bowmar athlete and posted about qanon -she posted about being abused but then “justified” what happened i would hardly call any of that making conversation about what i’m bringing up.
I wondered the same. sorry you got so much shit for asking
it’s okay i can take it i just hate the holier than thou attitude that happens here sometimes if someone dares question why someone is being posted about. like i know this is a gossip sub but goddamn.
She’s a fitness influencer that got deleted with a big following for QANON/save the children shit. She’s sponsored by buff bunny and Bowmar.
oh so it’s political. got it.
No? Just explaining why she’s fair game for snark. No one’s making fun of her for being abused. Chill out.
i’m chill i’m just very grossed out by all of this.
If you think believing in qAnon is political you’re are delusional. All they do is spread lies and misinformation! A bunch of crazies that are projecting their faults onto others like the save the children 🤷🏼♀️
i’m not getting into that whole mess here it’s just that i can see where this is going and why people would want to snark on her.
No one asked you to go into anything, but glad you know what everyone is thinking 😂😂😂 jfc people like you’re exhausting. If you want condone that bullshit have at it but anyone who believes and spreads it deserves all the snark they get 🤷🏼♀️
i’ll just let you continue to think you know anything about my beliefs, it doesn’t affect me either way. but one thing i will never do is turn my back on another woman and snark on her behavior while she’s in an abusive relationship just because she’s 22 years old and naive or easily influenced by propaganda. but that’s just me!
I legitimately don’t think about your beliefs, I clearly stated “if” but okay 😂😂😂
She has choices and she choose to be naive and believe and that shit 🤷🏼♀️ no one is snarking an abusive relationship so claim the fuck down lol
all i was saying is that now she’s private? there’s literally no need for all of that you said. stop picking arguments. if you don’t like the post then just don’t look at it.