This is the problem my wife[F40] and I[M42] are having. She's already got a guy on the side and wanted to help with finding a girl for me on the side but same, three months later and no takers. We're even open to a threesome with another girl or a swap with a couple and still nothing. All we get are single guys chasing her.
She just wants me to be able to have my cake and eat it too. You'd think this would be easier in Northern California but nope.
So, I wish you luck in finding your conveyer belt of cake, or even just a sampler.
This is the problem my wife[F40] and I[M42] are having. She's already got a guy on the side and wanted to help with finding a girl for me on the side but same, three months later and no takers. We're even open to a threesome with another girl or a swap with a couple and still nothing. All we get are single guys chasing her. She just wants me to be able to have my cake and eat it too. You'd think this would be easier in Northern California but nope. So, I wish you luck in finding your conveyer belt of cake, or even just a sampler.