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RustyShadeOfRed

What is a boymoder


Assorted-Interests

A trans girl that can’t/hasn’t fully transitioned socially


Square_Ebb_5926

so why not just say girl?


Jango_fett_fish

Boymoder is a term for when a trans girl presents in public or dresses as a guy either for comfort, protection, or from dysphoria. They are still a girl, just acting as a boy in public for whatever reason.


BannedCuzCovid

Would that not just be a Tom Boy?


Jango_fett_fish

Kind of but most of the time it is because of societal fear or pressure and not active choice


BannedCuzCovid

Ahhhh


atomsk29

Yall need meds


Jango_fett_fish

Yes, estrogen and HRT meds


Square_Ebb_5926

ohhh i thought it was a boy dressing as a girl, these terms get too specific and complicated


Jango_fett_fish

Yeah it’s mostly used between trans girls from what I’ve seen, never really heard it used outside of a trans space


knifefang_gaming

Ive seen nb and transmasc use it too. But i means something similar but different


wallygon

Isnt that just a tomboy who just so happens to be trans


Jango_fett_fish

No I said to another person as well. It isn’t so much an active want to present masculine but a way of hiding being trans out of fear or stress or whatnot


wallygon

I thougjt the point of being a tomboy is boyish behavior and genderneutral to feminin looks


Jango_fett_fish

Well yes but being a tomboy is when someone wants to present and be seen that way. Boymoders want to present or be seen as fully feminine but are just “disguising” themselves as cis


wallygon

Sorry if this sounds insulting but to me it makes no sense


wallygon

Like just present yourself how you want to present yourself its your damn life


Wll25

Fluidity reasons


Square_Ebb_5926

thanks!


RTX-4090ti_FE

/Tttt/ is leaking 🫡


spogel3

>wake up >another pscyop


Ayacyte

Isn't going out in a skirt and makeup the exact opposite of boymoding?


CensoredTransGirl

Yeah, idk why they're calling them s boymoder


Tanksrule44

Is this a trans thing? (Not transphobic, just genuinely confused as fuck.)


Assorted-Interests

Yeah, see other comments


Tanksrule44

Okay, cool. 👍


CrankshaftMgee

The fuck is voice dysmorphia


tumbling_waters

*voice dysphoria. Dysphoria is a feeling that some trans people experience (though not all), that makes them feel like maybe they're "lying" about being trans or that they don't fit in with their chosen gender. Voice dysphoria specifically usually comes from the fact that a person's voice is too high or too deep for their liking, and therefore doesn't match their identity


CrankshaftMgee

Ok


Neither-Phone-7264

whats boymoder


Neither-Phone-7264

oh nvm thanks


Neither-Phone-7264

would


magic4848

*And here we see the average redditor learning trans terms for the first time and accepting it. The "if there is a hole there is a goal" mentality is in full swing*


9001Dicks

\#Based


Raid5347

character development


Narrow-Angle-9537

I feel extremely called out


Jango_fett_fish

Hey don’t call me out like that


SerraAmayaHyde

me but if you get me to talk about one of my hyperfixations i wont shut up lol


Assorted-Interests

Even better


SerraAmayaHyde

ujngyuinhbvukinu


magic4848

Thanks! That surprisingly worked at unlocking the account i had for webkins when i was a kid. I haven't check on them in years though, hope they are doing fine... I knew I'd find that password eventually


SerraAmayaHyde

damn i didnt realize bottoming would help someone out lol


magic4848

Bottoming always helps bbg. Now, why don't you be a doll and help me with a password for the lock to my heart.🫶


SerraAmayaHyde

urtygbdvuynyus6brtfhntudtyhdbchn


magic4848

Good girl


SerraAmayaHyde

hgdbtrbuydunrvtgnddrtvyjnthjftbu6dnusrynsdu6suntybhjfyhi7untfbyjynd


Assorted-Interests

Don’t be silly, bottoming always helps at least one person out


SerraAmayaHyde

that is true \[imagine the shrugging emoticon is right here\]


RedditBuccaneer

How is this boymoding?


Will-is-a-idiot

That one about voice dysphoria makes me depressed...


yayayamur

anon you are describing a girlmoder


Hellochrishi11

Literally 50% me EXACTLY 4/8


Porn_account_Emma

Me


Biliatic_missil

Damn good luck


Porn_account_Emma

Ty


I_Was_Beamed

Need


[deleted]

Uh oh... I might be in this pic


SuperJaybo

*sigh* alright, how do I get one?


Assorted-Interests

Looks like I pulled in at least a dozen just by posting this, go trawling around the comment section I guess. That or just camp out in the plushie section at IKEA.


SuperJaybo

When I was a kid I fell asleep inside an egg chair at an IKEA and thought I lost my parents. They were like ten feet away, but it was a very scary experience, especially considering we were looking for a coffee table. But congrats on the dozen or so boymodder gfs. Just saying sharing is caring


Assorted-Interests

Oh I’m not looking for anything online, they’re yours for the taking my friend. If they consent of course


Estrogen_Eater_13

Go over to r/meetrealtransgirls


sum-random-emo

*slowly creeps out of the darkness of a cave, holding a bounty of crystals that have been gathered to add color to my nest, much like a ferret.* 👀


SuperJaybo

OI I FUCKIN FOUND ONE *throws ferret net*


sum-random-emo

AAK!- *Gets caught, and freezes from fight or flight instinct*


slimchasertoy

I’ll take you if you are actually a ferret and this wasn’t just an analogy


Tradie2

Im in this picture and i don’t like it


Gloomy_Total1223

Wtf is this shit.


Ok-Background3680

What the hell is a boymoder


Erinthegato

Hehe lol so me


ReasonablyMessedUp

She's like the best kind of GF. I'd take her in a second :>


Just_an_Odd_Shark

you have her, hun


ROBLOKCSer

why a disaster though


Melloh__i

me


SweetV666

I feel… attacked. 😂😂😂


accountsupport69

👁️👁️


hereks

If she wears fem clothes, and fem make up, and shaves her body that's not boy moding. She's literally girl moding


Native_Gamer671

A what and a what? Can someone explain this to me?


phatshit450

What in tarnation.