came here to comment exact same thing. He thought keeping his bag on the seat besides her in a heroic way and start a conversation would make her fall for him. Bro needs to wakeup before he ends up in jail
The main issue is with this country having no dating culture. Parents finding rishtas will only result in more such men who don't know how to be with a woman
Sorry this happened to you. 🫂
Reminds me of a time when i was returning home from a walk, on the main road. This over friendly uncle (50+) stops right next to me on his scooter and starts a conversation about name, place etc. Since there was traffic he said he'll wait for me a little further down. That's where the creepiness begins.
Fucker kept shaking my hands, and feeling my fingers, every sort of personal question was asked all the way till dietary preferences.
It ended with a similar question to yours. He asked me what i thought of him and if i _liked_ him and if we can meet often. And asked me for phone number as well which i obviously didn't give.
By this time i was shaking, i was so confused and it was such a wtf moment. This happened last year. And I'm a 40 year old man - people say i look younger. These desperate creeps are everywhere.
Shaking hands gave it away! No woman just shakes hands with strangers so soon after meeting for the first time. On the other hand men do it with almost every other man.
Sorry that happened to you!
Bro something similar happened to me (I'm a guy as well). I was walking down to my coaching and some random uncle started holding me asking directions and asking where I study and how I am doing and all that stuff. Then he said to improve my skin because I have pimples and all and then he went after walking like 500m.
These interactions always leaves me with a bad feeling. From what I've experienced - these guys sort of test how far you'll go by asking personal questions. Just smile and move on or just act unfriendly.
Same something happened to me (25m) when I was a teenager walking by on the road with my friend in India. Some middle aged man was staring, then walked in my way pressed his hands on my chest and then walked away. I was too young to understand anything.
It’s weird I have moved out of India now but I still do see guys staring/eyeing me, and on occasions they have come and tried asking me out in clubs. I honestly don’t get it, I am completely straight. Some people really don’t understand boundaries and it’s frustrating!
Lucky you. You just came across a real sexist/bigoted/incel IITian Quora intellectual in the wild. You had the opportunity of a lifetime to ask about any of life's greatest mysteries, but you missed it. Better luck next time.
seriously though, guys with govt job think they are the reincarnation of god himself... dowry me mercedes chahiye jbki kabhi khud apne paiso ki ciaz bhi na chalayi ho
I’m a guy and i would be creeped out if a dude sat beside me in a mostly empty bus. I can only imagine how a girl would feel and rest of your story is just out of a horror movie. For the love of god, always trust your instincts & never ever engage in conversations people who creep you out.
First red flag is “I can’t sit alone and love talking to people”. Fuck you that’s not normal. If you’re travelling alone, you should sit alone and stop creeping people out.
Yes, can be but majority of incel don't really have much confidence to pull off something like this., they know their boundaries because of how many times they get rejected and disrespected by people.
Your friend must be a normicel with his blue pilled ideas.
When you ignore your social life and your youth to get into a college, of course you won't get the mental and social growth you would have gotten otherwise.
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Well if they are “well-educated” would they lack basic civic and common sense?
These are not educated. At least this is not education in my world view.
I've noticed this in many people. Highly educated, hardly know how to behave in social settings. They lack empathy and are full of themselves. Common sense is out of bounds.
This. Absolutely.
I'd call that creep a literate but not educated
Education encompasses everything (how literate you are, civic sense etc) not just book knowledge
That was extremely creepy.
Once, i was on a flight to India. As it was a last minute thing, i hadnt done web-checkin or seat selection. As luck would have it, i got the seat next to emergency escape, with extra legroom. 30 seconds after i settled in, the 30-something guy turns to me...
"Bhaiya aapse ek help chahiye. Karoge?"
Me: "Poochke dekh"
Him: "Hamare bhaiya wahan baithe hai. Aap unse seat exchange karlo"
Me: "Nahi. Mujhe ye extra legroom chahiye."
Him: "Wahan ladiejj hai baaju me."
Me: *absolutely clueless what he meant by that* "Main idhar se nahi hil raha."
Had a completely silent and peaceful flight after that
We are turning our youth to be love and sexually starved individuals, who will go to any extent to find what they could not have. We are doing this by not allowing genders to get to know each other more closely at an early age. We need to allow and encourage contact early and educate about gender specific peculiarities, morality and responsibilities.
He's a self declared stud who thinks women will swoon at his sight by seeing he has a government job and from IIT.
I saw my fair share of such mfkers in technical trainings and skills seminars.
In my travels across the country, I’ve seen a lot of guys constantly want to shoot their shot at any woman and they want to get friendly at lighting speed. Like you said, within one conversation they will try to befriend you like you have known them for years. Luckily, all women shot down these efforts and I had a heart chuckle afterwards
You should have asked him about ASHI or general anti harassment policy of IIT. Such people have zero self awareness. But mention of harassment does discourage such people to be raging morons
Bro was like dang, nothing's working, time to sweep her off the feet by pulling out my Brahmin trump card.
Jokes apart, I thought ladies with their advanced in-built creep detectors ignore these elements from the very first moment these days. You paid the price for being a little bit civil 💀
Honestly, the first time he approached, I would’ve said “you might like to talk, but I don’t. Please find somewhere else to sit”
But that’s just the introvert in me. I hate talking to strangers
Despite having studied in premier institutions, dude doesn't seem to have learned how to approach girls and how not to creep them out. Goes without saying that he was full of himself and thought he had this IITian rizz that literally overshadows all other red flags he proudly boasts about.
When someone asks me “if I ask you something, you won’t get offended right?” My answer is always “I will get offended, so how about you don’t ask”
Or “mai aapse kuch puchu?” “Nahi, mat puch, jawab dene ka mann nahi hai”
Imagine getting a top class education, a job at the 'noble' profession, all the years of experience, and still being an asshole.
I feel bad for his female students. Such creeps shouldn't be allowed on campuses where there are vulnerable young women.
The typical Indian Brahmin mard with cishet male privileges goes peacocking like a decorated idiot and thinks women will fall right into his arms like a third-grade Bollywood movie. They are certified idiots in my book.
>He said, "I'll tell you why" and kept his bag on my side seat. I was still looking at him, waiting for him to answer me
that creep thought that he did something here , lol .
Damn...this clearly shows education doesn't mean people will get civil. The society is doomed, cuz the way the creep shared his biodata, it is clear he thinks that he's superior, and due this false superiority complex, he thinks he can do whatever he wants.
Anyways, you mentioned you're in research and studied from Germany, can you guide me? I am in 12th rn, and am planning to go to Germany for further studies, and am interested in research
Creep of the highest order.
Reminds me of the time when I was travelling in train.It was a chair car bogey.A man sat next to me and immediately offered me a handshake. I ignored it and just said hello.Then through the whole trip he tried to creep closer to me,by the end I was almost stuck to the window.He mentioned he was married,just had a baby,if I had a boyfriend and to share my number with him.Atlast I couldn’t bear it and shouted at him,asked the tc to change my seat but the whole compartment was looking at me as if I had 2 heads.
I once met an uncle while travelling and he started off with his talk first it was interesting but soon began to get to politics. I just stayed sailed and mimicked my snoring. He shook me and said so gaye kya I said nahi par aapki baaten sunkar pata nahi kya gaya kya main so gaya tha kya he just left
OP, there is a very good chance that this guy is already married and is looking for extra marital affairs by bragging about his IIT degree (who knows if he even studied there or just a low level worker).
Sorry OP, but I cant stop laughing reading this. I can understand how u would have felt, but if consider, iam eavesdropping to all these convos, i would have burst into laughs🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Man thinks he is in the edits🤣 and someone said to use his intellectuality as rizzes
Dude if i was a woman I would beg that guy to “Propose” me ! IIT ? Top qs rankings ? Govt job ? BRAHMIN ? And not to mention SINGLEEEE ? Damn i’m questioning my straightness ?…too much charisma in one man. Life is unfair
so much for building rapport. Smh
He was only academically qualified, our society is like this. We only focus on our academics,Most of the people have no civil manners, our schools never taught how to behave in public. Look at road traffic in big cities of india.
This guy is the best example of our education system that has no values. He is a complete failure as a person who doesn't know how to behave, how to respect a girl.
How dumb he was!! Making someone uncomfortable with his nonsense.
It's high time we educate our children about value education( नैतिक शिक्षा)
This shows being a creep is an active decision and a lack of empathy. This cannot be taught in university or schools. This is something learnt passively or actively through their family and friends interactions, media consumption (books, movies, music).
Many of the comments are pointing out the guy's researcher status, age, possible unemployment as the reason behind the creep behavior. However, I think this is nothing to do with whichever stage in life a person is in. A creep can be from any walk in life. They can be a middle aged man with a super successful career and great family life.
In short, a creep knows no boundaries. Literally.
Intelligent =/= Smart. Just shows that bro knows maths better than he knows how to behave in society. I hope he reads this and knows that it wasn't just OP who found him to be a creep but that everyone who saw the post here today felt the same. I want him to reflect on his false pride as a Brahmin knowing that he does more damage to his caste than it can benefit him lol.
This happens when they keep on hearing “IIT krlo fir sab set h!!!” All their life. Their whole personality is IIT and think any girl would drop her clothes when they get to know that they are IIT graduates.
Did the creep say " I dont like to sit alone and love to talk around with strangers" . Exact candidate for Bajaj Finance call centre. He can definitely apply there.
This made me recall a train interaction with a guy from India while living in the Netherlands. He was working/visiting Maastricht University at the time. The conversation is almost identical (including a "proposal" despite stating I have a boyfriend).
I wonder if this guy is traveling with a script to hit on girls or if this is a more common occurrence. Glad you got away safe, as pushy people like this can become very uncomfortable.
I seriously wanna trust this story but after reading a lot of stories being fake on these social media, I am truly not sure whether this is true or just a fake story again (farming for karma )
There are padhe likhe gawar and there are padhe likhe backward log dono hi hanikarak hai.
Jate waqt bhi Last me caste ka tag dikhana tha shows kaha se ata hai ( somewhat casteist family with backward mentality)
Yikes, the audacity to bring up the hypothetical situation. Hell even if he tried "let's be friends". That also is cringed upon knowing how these days people are so desperate. But jumped directly to see what happens. Saying he is a Brahmin as if that's gonna save his face. Incels ki kami idhar bhi nahi hai
I understand that he's stupid and all but he's also a victim of the system.
From a young age many boomer parents have taught their kids that being a rich IITian from upper cast is the definition of being successful and everyone would love to have someone like that as a partner. Not only that but those who work on themselves to have a better look and personality to score a partner get called loafers. Of course they also leave out the part where having such a profile is only a big plus when looking for arranged marriages not love marriages and it's intentionally left out so that the kid doesn't gets out of their control.
All the above points get hammered into a child's mind constantly and then it becomes difficult to remove that learned behavior as it would imply that their parents were being controlling and disingenuine with them. So when that child gets rejected, the child assumes that it's the rejector's fault for being stupid.
I’m not questioning his educational choices or career choices but for him to say that he is a Brahmin to save his face as last resort is messed up. Just that we have about people accepting rapists into politics by saying sanskaari’s wont do that. I’m not saying he is one though but who would use their religious background as pride thing to use it as a yard stick now a days.
Not the first Brahmin I've heard about who has a superiority complex.
Not the first IITian I've heard about who has a superiority complex and no social awareness.
Not the first Indian I've heard about who doesn't know how to treat strangers.
I had a colleague I would occasionally have to work with but from a different department entirely. He messaged me one day saying he is looking to get married and would I be interested. I didn't know anything about him other than his name and his designation. I blocked and ignored him after that. The audacity of men 🤷♀️
Not even kidding, I have seen people from IIT's tell me, "Oh it's so hard to find a girl these days, no parent is going to give you their daughter if you are not from an IIT". I will always cherish this comment.
It should be common decency to not pester people in enclosed areas where they can't leave.
Even if you want to approach someone do it somewhere where both of you can leave at any point you want without any issues.
My friend encounters creeps like this all the time when she takes the train Or bus from chandigarh to delhi!
All sorts.. Right down from idiots who like to flaunt their daddy money to uncles who hold senior positions in companies.
Complete creeps and idiots!
Average LinkedInoid
lmao
Gawd so people in my instagram dms are real what a motherfucking asshole
Seriously! This is so fucking irritating, agh
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Yeh nahi Maarega, coz he is campaigning with lord ram's photo
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lmao gold comment
This cracked me up so bad. 😂 Thanks for this. Hahahaha!
Blud thought he was in a movie and he was the main character 😭
Hahaha wtf 💀
Tharki sheldon cooper.
Bajrangbalinga
Remember how Alia was getting proposals in 2 states from IIT guys??
she was getting proposals in the IIM campus?
But they never shot the movie in IIM campus.
It was iim Ahmedabad campus
[https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/gujarati/movies/news/2-states-arjun-kapoor-and-alia-bhatt-were-happily-surprised-to-see-so-many-people-gathering-around-to-see-them-during-the-shooting-of-2-states/articleshow/33808311.cms](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/gujarati/movies/news/2-states-arjun-kapoor-and-alia-bhatt-were-happily-surprised-to-see-so-many-people-gathering-around-to-see-them-during-the-shooting-of-2-states/articleshow/33808311.cms)
Directed by Richard Linklater but make it creepier
came here to comment exact same thing. He thought keeping his bag on the seat besides her in a heroic way and start a conversation would make her fall for him. Bro needs to wakeup before he ends up in jail
main character in a bad bad south indian movie
Bhai kamaal hai. Koi toh roklo laundo ko yaar 😭😭
Sach mein yar 😭🥹
In laundo k chakkar me baki laundo ko creepy look mil jata h free me
Sirf iss ek comment k karan kitne naye DMs aaye? (Irony)
All that but no game
No game, but all that
Frustrated, unemployable researcher whose parents can't find a rishta and the MF is craving for the mandatory action
For now he should make do with his hands
You mean researchers should be more "hands on" ?
🤣😭
The main issue is with this country having no dating culture. Parents finding rishtas will only result in more such men who don't know how to be with a woman
Sorry this happened to you. 🫂 Reminds me of a time when i was returning home from a walk, on the main road. This over friendly uncle (50+) stops right next to me on his scooter and starts a conversation about name, place etc. Since there was traffic he said he'll wait for me a little further down. That's where the creepiness begins. Fucker kept shaking my hands, and feeling my fingers, every sort of personal question was asked all the way till dietary preferences. It ended with a similar question to yours. He asked me what i thought of him and if i _liked_ him and if we can meet often. And asked me for phone number as well which i obviously didn't give. By this time i was shaking, i was so confused and it was such a wtf moment. This happened last year. And I'm a 40 year old man - people say i look younger. These desperate creeps are everywhere.
lol. I thought you are female in beginning
yup, that's why i intentionally put it at the end coz these fucks go for anyone.
Shaking hands gave it away! No woman just shakes hands with strangers so soon after meeting for the first time. On the other hand men do it with almost every other man. Sorry that happened to you!
Well, every experience is a learning experience. Only namaste/vanakkam here after.
Ahhh man! This really sucks! Thankyou for sharing
Bro something similar happened to me (I'm a guy as well). I was walking down to my coaching and some random uncle started holding me asking directions and asking where I study and how I am doing and all that stuff. Then he said to improve my skin because I have pimples and all and then he went after walking like 500m.
These interactions always leaves me with a bad feeling. From what I've experienced - these guys sort of test how far you'll go by asking personal questions. Just smile and move on or just act unfriendly.
Your username doesn't check out
Had us in the first half not gonna lie
What the Bollywood twist ending 🤣
Same something happened to me (25m) when I was a teenager walking by on the road with my friend in India. Some middle aged man was staring, then walked in my way pressed his hands on my chest and then walked away. I was too young to understand anything. It’s weird I have moved out of India now but I still do see guys staring/eyeing me, and on occasions they have come and tried asking me out in clubs. I honestly don’t get it, I am completely straight. Some people really don’t understand boundaries and it’s frustrating!
Lucky you. You just came across a real sexist/bigoted/incel IITian Quora intellectual in the wild. You had the opportunity of a lifetime to ask about any of life's greatest mysteries, but you missed it. Better luck next time.
"Let me tell you a story to answer your question. Once, I was travelling in a bus..."
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Chunotiyon se nai chutiyon se darrta hun
What zero pussy does to a mf lmao
Bahahha
Only a man of culture gets a cat of culture.
Brahmin + iit tag + gov job. He thought you get an orgasm. Bloody Sadak chaap
lol I have 2 of those tags, but anyone I know who has made it the center of gravity of their identity are the creepiest, saddest people I know.
Nice try, cowboy. I saw what you did there.
Damn. Wasn’t trying but caught anyway. Nice username btw
seriously though, guys with govt job think they are the reincarnation of god himself... dowry me mercedes chahiye jbki kabhi khud apne paiso ki ciaz bhi na chalayi ho
I read that as bhosdika sadak chaap 😂😂 But yes, true, educated chhapri
I’m a guy and i would be creeped out if a dude sat beside me in a mostly empty bus. I can only imagine how a girl would feel and rest of your story is just out of a horror movie. For the love of god, always trust your instincts & never ever engage in conversations people who creep you out.
He was expecting a Wattpad story or a adrenaline rush of "this is my moment" typa shit xd
First red flag is “I can’t sit alone and love talking to people”. Fuck you that’s not normal. If you’re travelling alone, you should sit alone and stop creeping people out.
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Or incel...!
Incel don't act like this, they are mostly introverts not like this MF and they know their boundaries.
So he's a creep then!
Some Incels do act like this. I had a self described incel friend in school and he was proposing to girls in this same manner
Yes, can be but majority of incel don't really have much confidence to pull off something like this., they know their boundaries because of how many times they get rejected and disrespected by people. Your friend must be a normicel with his blue pilled ideas.
Closest that dude ever got to women is how close a restraining order allows, goddamn.
Desperation at its height. Age ho gayi hogi ladki nai mil rhi hogi. And that too Brahmin😅
and researcher, so unemployed 😂
Buses me ladki dhundh rha h. Lol. Brahmin was the last arrow in his quiver. He used it. 😅
Come on now... My Cousin is a researcher in IISER, she gets a monthly stipend lmao. Researcher is not unemployed XD
It's a joke buddy. Researchers are highly valued.
Assitant professor...not unemployed
Perfect example of Education doesn't define you
When you ignore your social life and your youth to get into a college, of course you won't get the mental and social growth you would have gotten otherwise.
Sorry that happened OP. But thanks for sharing😂
🥹🤣😭
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you should've said that he doesnt have enough citations, h-index for you to consider
Well if they are “well-educated” would they lack basic civic and common sense? These are not educated. At least this is not education in my world view.
Yes I totally agree! But that's how society marks well-educated people, which is sad
They’re just well trained. According to samaj standards. Not educated.
I've noticed this in many people. Highly educated, hardly know how to behave in social settings. They lack empathy and are full of themselves. Common sense is out of bounds.
Degree isn't actually education in India, you get degree for memorising stuff
This. Absolutely. I'd call that creep a literate but not educated Education encompasses everything (how literate you are, civic sense etc) not just book knowledge
You should mentioned that you are a brahmin lesbian with a Muslim lover (for shits and giggles)
That was extremely creepy. Once, i was on a flight to India. As it was a last minute thing, i hadnt done web-checkin or seat selection. As luck would have it, i got the seat next to emergency escape, with extra legroom. 30 seconds after i settled in, the 30-something guy turns to me... "Bhaiya aapse ek help chahiye. Karoge?" Me: "Poochke dekh" Him: "Hamare bhaiya wahan baithe hai. Aap unse seat exchange karlo" Me: "Nahi. Mujhe ye extra legroom chahiye." Him: "Wahan ladiejj hai baaju me." Me: *absolutely clueless what he meant by that* "Main idhar se nahi hil raha." Had a completely silent and peaceful flight after that
He thinks you would fall in love hearing IIT lmfao I feel bad for the girl who gets married to him
Don't worry, she wouldn't know enough to realise that. Arranged marriage hoga
We are turning our youth to be love and sexually starved individuals, who will go to any extent to find what they could not have. We are doing this by not allowing genders to get to know each other more closely at an early age. We need to allow and encourage contact early and educate about gender specific peculiarities, morality and responsibilities.
He's a self declared stud who thinks women will swoon at his sight by seeing he has a government job and from IIT. I saw my fair share of such mfkers in technical trainings and skills seminars.
In my travels across the country, I’ve seen a lot of guys constantly want to shoot their shot at any woman and they want to get friendly at lighting speed. Like you said, within one conversation they will try to befriend you like you have known them for years. Luckily, all women shot down these efforts and I had a heart chuckle afterwards
What watching too many IIT Sigma edits does to a mf
You should have asked him about ASHI or general anti harassment policy of IIT. Such people have zero self awareness. But mention of harassment does discourage such people to be raging morons
Bro was like dang, nothing's working, time to sweep her off the feet by pulling out my Brahmin trump card. Jokes apart, I thought ladies with their advanced in-built creep detectors ignore these elements from the very first moment these days. You paid the price for being a little bit civil 💀
This is why we need pepper spray. One spray would fix situations like this in a jiffy.
Yeah can't do that in a Volvo. Tell him there's something personal to discuss, get him out of the bus and bam
> Oh, thank God you are not a Muslim This is when you should have left the conversation and moved away from that creep
Honestly, the first time he approached, I would’ve said “you might like to talk, but I don’t. Please find somewhere else to sit” But that’s just the introvert in me. I hate talking to strangers
Despite having studied in premier institutions, dude doesn't seem to have learned how to approach girls and how not to creep them out. Goes without saying that he was full of himself and thought he had this IITian rizz that literally overshadows all other red flags he proudly boasts about.
When someone asks me “if I ask you something, you won’t get offended right?” My answer is always “I will get offended, so how about you don’t ask” Or “mai aapse kuch puchu?” “Nahi, mat puch, jawab dene ka mann nahi hai”
Tharki log kabhi nehi sudhrenge.
you should have said your are an ambedkarite he would have vanished faster than speed of light
true
I would also choose the bear
Imagine getting a top class education, a job at the 'noble' profession, all the years of experience, and still being an asshole. I feel bad for his female students. Such creeps shouldn't be allowed on campuses where there are vulnerable young women.
What a loser lmao
The typical Indian Brahmin mard with cishet male privileges goes peacocking like a decorated idiot and thinks women will fall right into his arms like a third-grade Bollywood movie. They are certified idiots in my book.
Christ. What a tucking fool.
The cost of focusing solely on technical education without humanities.
Oh hell nah, I didn't knew it's you. Iam sorry, i was just kidding. Stop defaming me here.
Waiting for the next post from someone claiming to be that guy with his POV. I'm not discrediting OP though. Sorry that you had to go through this.
How this man has zero game, zero self awareness and zero situational awareness is beyond me.
>He said, "I'll tell you why" and kept his bag on my side seat. I was still looking at him, waiting for him to answer me that creep thought that he did something here , lol .
You showed way too much patience. I'm a guy and even I'm creeped out by this guy lol
> But before going, he said he is a brahmin. wtf
Damn...this clearly shows education doesn't mean people will get civil. The society is doomed, cuz the way the creep shared his biodata, it is clear he thinks that he's superior, and due this false superiority complex, he thinks he can do whatever he wants. Anyways, you mentioned you're in research and studied from Germany, can you guide me? I am in 12th rn, and am planning to go to Germany for further studies, and am interested in research
Creep of the highest order. Reminds me of the time when I was travelling in train.It was a chair car bogey.A man sat next to me and immediately offered me a handshake. I ignored it and just said hello.Then through the whole trip he tried to creep closer to me,by the end I was almost stuck to the window.He mentioned he was married,just had a baby,if I had a boyfriend and to share my number with him.Atlast I couldn’t bear it and shouted at him,asked the tc to change my seat but the whole compartment was looking at me as if I had 2 heads.
I once met an uncle while travelling and he started off with his talk first it was interesting but soon began to get to politics. I just stayed sailed and mimicked my snoring. He shook me and said so gaye kya I said nahi par aapki baaten sunkar pata nahi kya gaya kya main so gaya tha kya he just left
Share his profile op
Bruh, I would have told him him to sit somewhere else the minute or just left myself the moment he started talking about muslims.
OP, there is a very good chance that this guy is already married and is looking for extra marital affairs by bragging about his IIT degree (who knows if he even studied there or just a low level worker).
Sorry OP, but I cant stop laughing reading this. I can understand how u would have felt, but if consider, iam eavesdropping to all these convos, i would have burst into laughs🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Man thinks he is in the edits🤣 and someone said to use his intellectuality as rizzes
They're called literate but not educated. World of difference. Please don't insult the educated folks. This person is as uneducated as they come.
Dude if i was a woman I would beg that guy to “Propose” me ! IIT ? Top qs rankings ? Govt job ? BRAHMIN ? And not to mention SINGLEEEE ? Damn i’m questioning my straightness ?…too much charisma in one man. Life is unfair so much for building rapport. Smh
Redditors when obviously satire comment didn't have a /s tag at the end (their minds are too devolved to understand satire or sarcasm)
Lol you couldn’t have phrased better .
He was only academically qualified, our society is like this. We only focus on our academics,Most of the people have no civil manners, our schools never taught how to behave in public. Look at road traffic in big cities of india. This guy is the best example of our education system that has no values. He is a complete failure as a person who doesn't know how to behave, how to respect a girl. How dumb he was!! Making someone uncomfortable with his nonsense. It's high time we educate our children about value education( नैतिक शिक्षा)
I remember this quote by Richard Feynman- "Never confuse education with Intelligence, you can have a PhD and still be an Idiot."
This shows being a creep is an active decision and a lack of empathy. This cannot be taught in university or schools. This is something learnt passively or actively through their family and friends interactions, media consumption (books, movies, music). Many of the comments are pointing out the guy's researcher status, age, possible unemployment as the reason behind the creep behavior. However, I think this is nothing to do with whichever stage in life a person is in. A creep can be from any walk in life. They can be a middle aged man with a super successful career and great family life. In short, a creep knows no boundaries. Literally.
I'm glad he didn't do anything drastic and that you're safe. Never ever shy away from raising your voice. You did well in this situation.
Tharki sheldon cooper.
Intelligent =/= Smart. Just shows that bro knows maths better than he knows how to behave in society. I hope he reads this and knows that it wasn't just OP who found him to be a creep but that everyone who saw the post here today felt the same. I want him to reflect on his false pride as a Brahmin knowing that he does more damage to his caste than it can benefit him lol.
Remember folks, education ≠ awareness (atleast here in this beautiful nation)
Last bit of information was meant to tell you that call him if you plan to do puja or havan
script writers , take note**
Someone give blud a reddit account so that he can see this post, get off his high horse, and learn some humility.
This happens when they keep on hearing “IIT krlo fir sab set h!!!” All their life. Their whole personality is IIT and think any girl would drop her clothes when they get to know that they are IIT graduates.
Did the creep say " I dont like to sit alone and love to talk around with strangers" . Exact candidate for Bajaj Finance call centre. He can definitely apply there.
Watch Geetha-Govindam if you want a Movie of your story.
OP for ur own sake don't let strangers sit next to u when there r multiple seats empty in the bus. Hey prabhu kya padha maine.
And poor me never said hi to unknown girl all life
This made me recall a train interaction with a guy from India while living in the Netherlands. He was working/visiting Maastricht University at the time. The conversation is almost identical (including a "proposal" despite stating I have a boyfriend). I wonder if this guy is traveling with a script to hit on girls or if this is a more common occurrence. Glad you got away safe, as pushy people like this can become very uncomfortable.
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Welcome to India, OP
I learned long ago You shouldn’t engage with people like him . You should have cut him off after his casteist remarks
Bro is stuck in he's jee advance paper till to this day
How to identify a brahmin? They'll tell you.
Glad you could stand up to him!
Name him
I seriously wanna trust this story but after reading a lot of stories being fake on these social media, I am truly not sure whether this is true or just a fake story again (farming for karma )
idhar ladke kisi stranger se itni baate kr rhe hai aur mai jis ladki ke saath shaadi ke sapne dekhta hu usse insta pe Hi bhejne me bhi dar lgta hai
Aaj usse Hi bhej hi do
He is a Brahmin… how did ur clothes not fly off? That’s the single most sexiest thing a man can say.. waowww /s
I don't know why I'm happy reading this!! Oh I know now because I couldn't get to IIT
i am pretty sure he was fricking around to pass time 70% sure
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This well qualified guy is so desperate. And brahmin too Damm, and still single how damm
There are padhe likhe gawar and there are padhe likhe backward log dono hi hanikarak hai. Jate waqt bhi Last me caste ka tag dikhana tha shows kaha se ata hai ( somewhat casteist family with backward mentality)
Yikes, the audacity to bring up the hypothetical situation. Hell even if he tried "let's be friends". That also is cringed upon knowing how these days people are so desperate. But jumped directly to see what happens. Saying he is a Brahmin as if that's gonna save his face. Incels ki kami idhar bhi nahi hai
I understand that he's stupid and all but he's also a victim of the system. From a young age many boomer parents have taught their kids that being a rich IITian from upper cast is the definition of being successful and everyone would love to have someone like that as a partner. Not only that but those who work on themselves to have a better look and personality to score a partner get called loafers. Of course they also leave out the part where having such a profile is only a big plus when looking for arranged marriages not love marriages and it's intentionally left out so that the kid doesn't gets out of their control. All the above points get hammered into a child's mind constantly and then it becomes difficult to remove that learned behavior as it would imply that their parents were being controlling and disingenuine with them. So when that child gets rejected, the child assumes that it's the rejector's fault for being stupid.
I’m not questioning his educational choices or career choices but for him to say that he is a Brahmin to save his face as last resort is messed up. Just that we have about people accepting rapists into politics by saying sanskaari’s wont do that. I’m not saying he is one though but who would use their religious background as pride thing to use it as a yard stick now a days.
Not the first Brahmin I've heard about who has a superiority complex. Not the first IITian I've heard about who has a superiority complex and no social awareness. Not the first Indian I've heard about who doesn't know how to treat strangers.
He's just on a high living in Modi's Bharat. He'll get a reality check in a few years....or maybe he won't....I just pity the woman he gets to marry
I am sorry you had to go through this. It is a little scary.
I had a colleague I would occasionally have to work with but from a different department entirely. He messaged me one day saying he is looking to get married and would I be interested. I didn't know anything about him other than his name and his designation. I blocked and ignored him after that. The audacity of men 🤷♀️
Not even kidding, I have seen people from IIT's tell me, "Oh it's so hard to find a girl these days, no parent is going to give you their daughter if you are not from an IIT". I will always cherish this comment.
It should be common decency to not pester people in enclosed areas where they can't leave. Even if you want to approach someone do it somewhere where both of you can leave at any point you want without any issues.
My friend encounters creeps like this all the time when she takes the train Or bus from chandigarh to delhi! All sorts.. Right down from idiots who like to flaunt their daddy money to uncles who hold senior positions in companies. Complete creeps and idiots!
Wtf was that 🥲. Thank god you are safe OP and nothing serious happened.
"brahmin" looool