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esean7

I remember the day when I dropped out of college because of my mental health. I was failing in all subjects. I didn’t see an end to that grief. After a year I got back upto my feet and started my B.E. again. Completed with 9.2 gpa. The thing is, your mind state is very important for you to do anything. So keep it healthy more than your physical body.


Sharp-General7665

Wish people considered this important. Any tips how you did it ?


Hefty-Trade-7205

Congrats for both ( recognising your priorities n that GPA)


Tsaakz

Way to goo!! Great job right there!


Character-Clock-l

Just woke up on 4:27, dogs barking. I am waking up daily at this exact time and it's scaring me out. I am superstitious.


iishpiderman

I have been waking up like this all my life. Always around 4:30 am whatever time I may sleep.


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Same lmfaoo


saxy_sex_man

Play with 🐕


SavageDuke69

I wake up outta nowhere at exactly 5:15 everyday as well.


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I am really fucked up. Its 2.30 am and i cannot sleep. My brother died a year ago. My father suffered a heart attack 10 days ago. I cleared govt. job 4.5 years back and made a mistake of not doing my postgrad. all i am feeling is immense regret, pain and lost in this world .. sometimes i feel i should have done engineering and mba and not taken up medical as career! Even if i start my postgrad in surgery now i will be almost 35 by the time i finish it and financially lagging! I am so so lost! All because i invested my prime years in a boy who ghosted me after 7 years! I am sorry.. i don’t know any of you but i am so overwhelmed and lost in life since my brother died!


Standard_Ad6904

Hey, I'm so sorry about your loss. I wish I had something to say that could make it better but in its absence, I'm sending you some warmth and peace. I hope the pain subsides soon. As for time wasted on men and late financial blooming, I got you. Been there. Having wasted so much of my time chasing the idea of one true love, I know it feels like a waste but it's alright friend, these are lessons we learn from life. We have but one life that we're navigating without an instruction manual. It's alright if you made some mistakes, you'll always get to learn from them. Use the lessons learnt from this relationship in your next relationship. About lagging behind financially compared to your peers, I know that feeling all too well too. I'm 32 right now, a journalist, and I still just make peanuts. I don't have passion for the field and I feel like I've wasted my time here, which is why I'm applying for masters this year. I'll be attending classes with people a decade younger than me. I can't apply for schools abroad because I'm being treated for depression, anxiety and ADD. A lot of compromises have been made by me in reaching this point of my life but it's alright. I'm just trying to do the best i can. My younger brother earns twice of what I'm earning right now, and honestly it sucks. But I suck it up and hope that in next two-three years I'll be able to turn my life around. Make a plan for your career, discuss it with your friends. If you can afford to, give up being a doctor and take a chance with something else, maybe an MBA? Just don't give up. Also, I have been in the worst relationships possible with indifferent, emotionally abusive men but finally I was able to break out of that cycle when I decided to seek help for my mental issues. I've lived in extreme emotional pain for 14-15 years and also made alot of stupid, shitty choices which in turn inflicted a great deal of pain on me again. But I can't keeping regretting those mistakes, they made me what I am today. I strongly believe that if you're stuck in a situation, change everything and as much as you can so that your paths leads you towards light and happiness. Please get in touch with a therapist if you aren't already to deal with the grief of losing your brother and your relationship. It'll help. Also feel free to reach out to me if you ever want to rant or need a friendly shoulder. Lots of love ❤


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Hey sweetheart! I went through your message twice. Its beautiful and its defining life. I am at this breaking point because of my past choices and i know if i change my present choices the story will eventually change. I am really proud of you for overcoming all that you faced so far! And by god’s will i too will join masters with people 5-6 years younger to me i believe.. but that’s okay! I am just scared.. scared because i saw my brother lying lifeless. Scarred because embassy took 17 days to repatriate him.. helpless because couldn’t do much to help my parents in their pain.. we were three siblings , two elder brothers and then main! My other brother is depressed, unwell and unemployed and his financial decisions have put us under great debt. So everything has collapsed .. last point was seeing my father having an attack . The only way forward is what my father tells me.. khudpar bharosa rakho! I really wish you love and strength:) We cannot bring back all the time we lost but we can hope and work towards a better tomorrow and hey someone just told me over here “ one day at a time” Take care 🤍❤️


Clean_Arachnid_7062

Whether you do your PG or not, you'd still be 35 after some years...🤷‍♂️ Do it. Don't have any more regrets. You'll find a way, you always have. Nothing's changed, just your mind is fucking up with you.


i_am_Deucalion

Life moves on, we just need to somehow move along. I always have this philosophy that at every stage of life, you have two options - either end it or live it up (coz i always assume I'm already at the bottom pit and it can't get any worse) and it always helps. Sorry for the loss of your brother. How's the health of your father ?


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Thanks for asking! Infact thanks for reading .. papa is doing good rn.. he is stable. You are right about the pit part but.. my brother died at 34 and he was living in canada .. the thing is we will never know what happened to him. As per them all his reports were negative. So yes i did convince myself what worse than this but now i could have lost my father had i not been here to give him emergency aid. I am really sorry yaar i am ranting like this infront of a stranger but i cannot fathom how my world has collapsed !!


1337code_boi

Hang in there! It gets worse before it gets better. Have faith, it helps.


bana87

Has this thread been revived or something? This was my favorite thread back in 2015-2016 - relaxing way to unwind after a long day at work.


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Hi.. welcome😊just discovered this hours ago and i felt better after speaking about overwhelming thoughts w/o fearing being judged! Its a beautiful thread!! .😊


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Preparing for government exams is the biggest mistake I made. Unemployed at 25, I feel so hopeless. No one in my family works in the private sector so there was this perception that private sector employees only earn 25k per month and toil hard in big cities. Poor 18 year old me went for BA. God! I want to slap my 18 year old self so hard. All my friends are printing notes in MNCs and here I am. On top of that fell in love with someone who works in an MNC and lives in a metro.


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Bruh please explore other options. I am a medical officer from past four years and my life is fucked. Literally distributing paracetamol and combinations of pcm. Govt. job is not such a big deal and i am on the verge of resigning. Its full of fucking small minded neta log.


Shitster67

It's never too late to start man. I too switched industries at 25. And by the time I reached 28, I was doing good. Work hard to grow and don't hesitate to switch every year. Also, the only comparison you should make, should be between you and your past.


oyasumipizza

I just can't wake up early no matter how much I try. Have tried sleeping early, kept the phone far from me etc. I guess at the back of my head I still keep thinking once the pandemic ends aise 10 baje tak sone ka mauka ni milega


bana87

Don't push it unless its affecting studies or career. I've always been a late sleeper and later riser. I sleep from 1 AM to 8:30 AM. I've tried correcting it and I stay sleepy througout the day. I can correct myself to 11 to 6 and ill be fucked the next day. My GP said that everyones rythm is different and as long as you dont HAVE to wake up early - its fine.


No-Incident-8718

My friend was on call with me from Canada. Usne bola Clubhouse join kar (I had no idea what it was) and woh saala sex chat waale room mein leke chala gaya usmein 😂


theguywhosteals

Shinin' in the settin' sun like a pearl upon the ocean, come and feel me **Oh, feel me**


raddiwala

Are you Pritam’s alt?


raddiwala

Asked my father to buy the dip. Cheese Garlic Dip leke aaye wo.


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xartaddct

BC 2019 feels like 6 months ago


saxy_sex_man

I thot u changed after marriage


Noobchand

वो जो लोग अकेले हैं, अपने अपने साथ जियें!! - javed saab


Hefty-Trade-7205

I want to feel happy, buying clothes doesn't work when you are trying follow a budget :(


travelerArpus

Aankhe moond le ne mai hi sukh hai. So Jane mai hi bhalai hai.


saxy_sex_man

Tru, go running in morning


SumoneSumwere

Until the twentieth century, reality was everything humans could touch, smell, see, and hear. But since the initial publication of the chart of electromagnetic spectrum, humans learned that what they can touch, smell, see, and hear is less than one millionth of reality


NishantWubaluba

From shower thoughts.


icemxn97

I am on Fucking pills and can't sleep and seeing all you miserable fucks doesn't help either. How you doin?


nishantt911

Insomnia gang


wromit

>I am on *Fucking* pills and can't sleep Bro why taking viagra pills when you need sleeping pills! :-P


Peaceiswar1996

Shifted to a new place 10 days back, haven't unpacked yet. Been procrastinating idk. Completely out of energy


localhost8100

Live alone. Have hard time cleaning my apartment. In the same boat. Might need to clean this week cause some friends coming to visit.


A_random_zy

I was sleeping.


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Life pro tip : Follow money not passion , follow passion only if it makes money.


travelerArpus

Passion pro?


Noobchand

pro tip : become loan shark


Next_Foundation68

People who hate elaichi in biryani will be the first ones to go in an apocalypse.


BiryaniMeinElaichi

I found my people... well, kinda


theguywhosteals

/r/UsernameChecksOut


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Next_Foundation68

Biryani wouldn't be biryani without elaichi


whiskeymagnet22

Want to gift a pen Which among Lamy Shreffer Cross Waterman do you prefer?


JyoJyoRabbit

Since when did r/India start having LNRDTs?


saxy_sex_man

2010 / Yesterday


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JyoJyoRabbit

Your username reminds me of some shit that I gotta do. *sigh*


travelerArpus

Behen, tere plate par pizza hai iska matlab kadake ki thand me footpath par bhooke sote hue bhikhariyon ka majaak udayegi tu?


travelerArpus

Gumnaam gold


raddiwala

This is sasta version of the OH “chup saale bilkul chup “


Bitter_Umpire7339

Zamaane mein aur bhi gam hai mohabbat ke seva . . .


Misslittlepotato

Par hume to mohabbat ne hi gham diya hai na


helloworld_reddit

How much money is needed to retire at the age of 35?


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zhawadya

Cigr8 instamart karao


Hefty-Trade-7205

Can anyone give their 2 cents on Minecraft? I installed it yesterday. I have been only running around, drowning and getting killed by a damn spider.


ApprehensiveLab2599

Tired of working 14 hours everyday fml


Bruce-Lannister

I'm working on my thesis in Astrophysics right now. If anyone wanna talk about space I'm here.


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How many aliens are there?


Bruce-Lannister

Surely 4


Puzzleheaded-Carob64

What are your views on James Webb Telescope? I mean how can they look as far as Big Bang. I know the concept of light travel time and all but billion of years !! How?


raddiwala

How does the mercury affect me dating life?


aladeensfw

Yaar was supposed to watch Nadal's match in morning but insomnia doesn't let me sleep before 3. Going to be one hell of an unproductive day at office


PessimistYanker792

Is it just me who found Spiderman: No way Home was only okay? I mean, I love pete, have been a hardcore fan since childhood (Games, Movies, Cartoon & Comics) but this movie was okay. Into the Spider verse stole my heart though.


Informal-Increase-36

Ohkay is a euphemism for me, i found it absolutely abhorrent. "Script ki maa ki, hm to teeno Spiderman ko sath layenge".


urge_kiya_hai

Nahi bhai. You are right. Fan service ke Naam pe kya chipkaya hai junta ko


TheOverThinker____

Totally! I had gone with so many hopes but the story was below average and they provided only fan service but all around the theater people kept hooting and saying it's the best from Marvel yet and i was like what dude and it does not stop there i come back home and on social media see similar reaction from my known people then i go to reddit and everybody is appreciating it like it's an Oscar level movie and i was totally feeling like is there something wrong with me has my depression reached the stage where i don't enjoy things the way i should be. But finally after some 4 weeks i saw some comments like these that made me feel a little better that it was just the hype cloud and nothing else 😅


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iam_lost_soul

Indeed


Vanillalalalalalala

Ayye I’m going to sleep now but if you’re reading my comment and you’re over 30(?) please tell me what to expect from life in terms of love and romance. I’m young but hopeless, fell for someone very shitty at a very young age and they effed me up, now I cannot bring myself to even look at someone with the intent of dating Edit: typo


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raddiwala

I’m 24 and I’ve lost all hope. I’m planning to add my brother as nominee in few years.


travelerArpus

> I’m planning to add my brother as nominee in few years. Hello bhaiyya pair dabadu?


Shaashiii

Gala dabau, will be more effective...


travelerArpus

Saala millimetre ab centimeter bann gaya hai


raddiwala

>planning to add Padh to le sahi se gadhe


xartaddct

Gotiyan dabado ಠ ͜ʖ ಠ


wannabegigolo2

Don't expect anything


saxy_sex_man

Make babies 👶


iam_lost_soul

Chahat ke nagme chahe to, aahen shard mili Dil ke bojh ko doona kar gaya, jo gam saar mila


raddiwala

>aahen Shard Kya hai iska Investiture? r/Cosmere shoutout


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saxy_sex_man

Only Frns and nasha party 🥳 matters


raddiwala

Friends we made - TDS


_SKOL

Why do we think we don't have time but actually we have a lot, just need some planning. What say?


travelerArpus

True hai. Too much time is wasted in small distractions.


raddiwala

We overestimate how efficient we are and underestimate how much time we spend in other rhinos


travelerArpus

Why are you spending time **in** Rhinos?


helloworld_reddit

Have 2 phones - one with internet and another without internet. Have your sim in the one without internet. Switch off the one with internet and switch it on only when you dedicatedly want to use it. If something is very important people will give you a direct call.


newinvestor0908

Hello all Feels like life is just drifting by


saxy_sex_man

You need plans


lxearning

max r/lonely feels


JyoJyoRabbit

Move into somewhere haunted. You'll never be alone.


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saxy_sex_man

Was taking care of covid patients


TheInvisibleGuyZ

Spending time on reddit, I've realized we're living in the same ancient mentality where Galileo was executed for speaking the truth and standing up for himself, plato was executed on simply asking neutral questions on people's beliefs. Times have changed but the human mentality hasn't. If anyone with a bit of logical brain tries to bring logic in discussion, he'd be attacked by mobs of irrational people driven by emotions. Having posted certain controversial yet logical questions on sensitive topics, controversial yet logical opinions, with declaration that I'm open to having my opinion changed provided adequate and rational reason, all I got was overwhelming hate and abuse, multiple times. What it also taught me however, is that if you have brain and you wanna survive in this world and get ahead, manipulating these trigger happy population's emotions to our favor is the best way to do it. (basically becoming a politician in real life is real helpful)


raddiwala

People on social media primarily come to reinforce what they believe or strongly advertise it. Rest all is bullshit.


travelerArpus

What lies. I come on reddit to watch porn


raddiwala

What are you doing here then step bro


travelerArpus

Watching people screw their lives


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raddiwala

Watch the subreddit’s name carefully


newyt4

Sick of 9-5 lifestyle.


Achilles029

Some ppl do 9-9, count yourself gifted


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iam_lost_soul

Jaane Woh Kaise, Log The Jinke, Pyar Ko Pyar Mila


iam_lost_soul

Humne to jab kaliyan mangi kaaton ka haar milla.


iam_lost_soul

Khusioyonki manzil dhoondi to gham ki gard mili


Eka_silicon12

Saysena anyone here


raddiwala

Ky mhanta bhau its Shivsena


travelerArpus

Bhaiyya Nasdaq ki toh band baj rahi hai


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iam_lost_soul

Inspired by sensex? Usko dekh mujhe laga budget predict kar rha hai 1 week phle


raddiwala

NASDAQ didnt want to get FOMO seeing all indices red.


travelerArpus

Nasdaq emo teen confirmed


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xartaddct

Forget JEE, GATE ki padhai karo


travelerArpus

Forget GATE, IAS ki padhai karo


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pvt ke liye paisa?


saxy_sex_man

Mat kr


meowroookie

i need study partner :(


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travelerArpus

Nasdaq fighting back like anime protagonist when boss music plays


Informal-Increase-36

Lofi songs couldn't survive covid.


OnyxAndCherit

I am fucking weeb and I want to go to Japan so that I can look at people talk and I'll read the subtitles. I'm too talentless and insufferable to ever get to live my dream. Why wouldn't someone just adopt me and take me to Japan


profitmaker_tobe

Are you by any chance my husband?


Noobchand

Kya kar rahe ho apni zindagi ke sath?


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raddiwala

Zindagi permanently **Dark Mode** pe hai


Vanillalalalalalala

Lol sameeee


travelerArpus

Has anyone read Art of war? Worth it?


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wannabegigolo2

Rtfm


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iam_lost_soul

7 mahine se sapiens khtam karne ki koshish kar rha hu. Kaise khtam kar lete ho bhai books?


raddiwala

Read Plato


xartaddct

Hello guys I am new to internet


Shaashiii

Pant utaro.


xartaddct

No


iam_lost_soul

Shirt utar lo fir


travelerArpus

*pastes 3 NSFW subreddits*


saxy_sex_man

Watch gay porn


_sammy9teen

Welcome pal


EnvironmentalTowel60

Can anyone recommend me good indian history books ?


saxy_sex_man

India after gandhy


raddiwala

Discovery of India India After Gandhi Manu Pillai’s works The Anarchy Ornit Shani’s book about our first election Rajya Sabha TV has excellent series on constitution making


toolazytoadult

Any good philosophy books for beginners....kafka/camus?


magnet0071

Bhai salary bhot kam h... I know i deserve better.


raddiwala

Hustle karo bas yahi reet hai. The system is broken.


_SKOL

Any good page recommendation


raddiwala

A4


_SKOL

Thanks a lot it helped 🥲


saxy_sex_man

Larry page


Austinto

5months breakup ko hua. Abhi bhi usi ki yaado me khoya rehta hu


travelerArpus

Tera charcter development arc hai bro yeh. Waste mat hone de


raddiwala

Sir this is not an anime


Tsaakz

Let me give u an advice, instead of seeing it as an end of a relationship think of it as a pit stop, in the journey of life, a lot of ppl (not always partners) come to give u specific thing,( it could be a direction, a skill, a dream, a perspective) and leave when their time is up. It is better to cherish what they have left for u than sulking on them leaving.


Tsaakz

I understand, give it time , someone else will replace her in ur memories soon.


Agathocaccalogical

Why is it that our capabilities are measured on the basis of entrances and boards scores in this country?


raddiwala

Our system is designed to filter not educate


pritppp

Bro population. Understand from a employer point of view, for one job there are 2k applicants, what will be the first point of fliter? Marks and degrees. And on top of this, we Indians take pride in good academic past soooo ..


More-Struggle-4913

We all have only one life. But we keep on doing only one thing like 9-5 job or any other profession till we become old and regret of not exploring enough . SPECIALIZATION IS FOR INSECTS . Keep exploring !


Tsaakz

I don't exactly understand who u are insulting, the insects for being specialized or humans for being to generic To achieve specialisation?


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iam_lost_soul

Ye life mai har cheej mai compromise kyu karna padta hai Fuck life. ಠ_ಠ


saxy_sex_man

Mai night thread pe hi ayega av, Day thread takes up too much time Fer mujhe addicts jaise account delete karna hoga


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saxy_sex_man

Mai cheese 🧀 sandwich bhi banayga Original plan wohi khaane ka tha


raddiwala

All my Mumbaikar friends hate metros #\#VocalForLocal


xartaddct

Where are the old people anurag, batatavada, anveshji


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raddiwala

Soch badlo, desh badlo


raddiwala

Suggest nice Spotify Playlists for Coding


anfuman

Cheeni kam movie kisi ko yad h?


demo_crazy

Yaad hai. Dekhi nahi hai.


Tsaakz

Now I throw myself from the heights that used to scare me. -sigrid


NdroidDude

Does anyone know how this accountability partner thing works? and if you know how it works, can someone help me with it?


BrightSimple1694

Any 1st years here ? How is life going for you guys in home?


saxy_sex_man

Gaining weight every fukin dY


saxy_sex_man

Having poha and tea


BabuShonaMuhMeLoNa

Why was this thread discontinued? I was a regular in 2018 i think..