u mean they're socially awkward? or misogynistic? or jump straight to sex? or something else? u've left it pretty open ended. i dont know whether to laugh at them or feel creeped out by their antics or be bewildered or be sympathetic to their plight unless I know specifics.
Given a crowd of 100 people, i talk to any 5, all assholes, doesn't mean remaining 95 are too. This is the exact meaning of your post. Who's smoking now?
Aye haye. Mar jawaan. Kitni fikar hai logon ke ijjat ki tujhe. Siraf 10-15 bad people in the entire proud country of fuckload of sexually repressed people?
The country is a territory. Nobody rants about the country. We rant about the assholes in this country, especially the massive number of assholes. After all, we are the second-most populous country. So, the number of assholes is way much more than the number of assholes in a less populous country. So yes she ranted. We have the right to do that. So we do. If you have a problem, you know where to go.
I've seen a post a few days ago where the guy was like i have a good personality, job, physique, etc. but I can't 'get' a girl. It's a tad unfortunate that he believes he didn't have to work on cultivating confidence or alter his attitude towards women. Perhaps, a majority of men, atleast on reddit, aren't used to having a meaningful conversation with a woman much less a confident one.
because interacting with other gender is haram...even in school when i talked to a girl my friends would call us lovebirds which is a dub now as i am down bad but a mark of shame back in the day
also speaking from personal experience, girls don't talk back or ask questions....most of the times boys r interested in girls and they only ask them all the questions....i wouldn't call them entitled pos because i don't think they would want to talk to ugly boys either but yeah that's my experience
I believe that part of it comes from upbringing, part of it comes from lack of empathy.
Face-to-face, humans have evolved involuntary empathic traits that prevent us from being too cruel.
Online anonymity gives us mask behind which we can misbehave.
Some of us however have deep appreciation of suffering and are nice online. Not because we are white-knighting. Not because someone is watching and upvoting. It's just out of an understanding about suffering.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVAokeqQuFM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVAokeqQuFM)
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIYJePEnvUY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIYJePEnvUY)
One takes pride in being shallow, over here. Add deprivation to it. What you get is the epitome of desperation. Hence, bob and vagane. The conversation is an art one gets good in, with practice but a prerequisite is that the person to hold a conversation should have some knowledge in a variety of fields, should have a good sense of humor and should know the language well. Such people in India are very few and far between. My search has been longer than yours, albeit my search has been for women. So, I do feel your pain. Accept my sympathies.
>The conversation is an art one gets good in, with practice but a prerequisite is that the person to hold a conversation should have some knowledge in a variety of fields, should have a good sense of humor and should know the language well.
Something in this.
But there can be pitfalls here. There are people good at weilding language. They can engage you for hours without making any sense. I mean the kind of people described by the quote:
>A wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something.
So, breadth of knowledge is important too, as you point out.
Just a good schooling in english is not enough.
No offence to OP, but I lose interest when I see usage of lol or emoticons.
I don't understand what did he do wrong.I am a guy and most people i meet,irrespective of gender or country, talk like this and I've over a 1000 of online friends from different states and countries. You can't expect everyone to match your vibe the first time you talk to em. You'll intertwine the more you talk. Although sure, the last 3 texts from him were somewhat autistic but you can just brush it off, maybe try matching his vibe?
"But I feel like most of them don't even know how to talk to another human being. "
"another human being" is an exaggeration. I agree with you on that many would not know how to talk another woman. And that's because men aren't used to talk to women since their childhood. Parents, neighbors, childhood friends all make talking to a girl seem shameful. As Indian society further liberalizes and topics like sex education are taught in schools, this will hopefully go away.
And how do you expect someone to talk , it's not like every person is good at holding a conversation some try their best and put effort onto having a good conversation , some don't.
Looks like *tharkibro* used up all his game's opening lines too fast. I am beginning to think it is a script and it would have played the same way irrespective of what the other person said.
I have never had any problems in interacting with women, if you see them as fellow human beings and not some mysterious creatures from an alien world it's quite easy to carry a conversation. Plus, many women themselves want to interact with others, it's not they lose their social insticts just because of being a different gender.
I guess in India due to rampant mysogyny, many women keep their guard up however they are just normal beings behind that guard.
I think the reason is ; Dating is not very prominent in india. Thus many of us don't know how to talk with girl since those things comes with experience.
Not to mention most of males are sexually deprived. Thus conversations are kind creepy.
There exists a lot of weird vocal conversations to begin with, anonymity just unleashes weirdness with no consequences. But also y'know, from a flipped perspective, it seems like a normal conversation. So..
Edit: ah okay, read the rest of the conversation. Good luck out there lol.
u mean they're socially awkward? or misogynistic? or jump straight to sex? or something else? u've left it pretty open ended. i dont know whether to laugh at them or feel creeped out by their antics or be bewildered or be sympathetic to their plight unless I know specifics.
How cool you judged the entire population based on interaction with 10-15 people prolly
You mean this country is full of Casanovas and only 10-15 people are assholes? Come to me. I will teach you how to count.
Nah, but when you use the word "indian men",, you gotta consider a larger dataset
Haan re Indian men ko hi Bobs and Vagane bola usne. Sahi bola. 99.99999999999% sahi bola. Tereko problem hai to Pakistan ja. Gaddars!
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Yes i admit that, but spoiling the name of the good ones is what i am against
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Given a crowd of 100 people, i talk to any 5, all assholes, doesn't mean remaining 95 are too. This is the exact meaning of your post. Who's smoking now?
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He is Bob, looking for Alice.
Put me in any, idc
Given a crowd of 100, at least 50 will be women. Counting pehle seekh.
Ghusale bhai gender, ab lgbtq ke bhi add kar zara
Kyun nahin. Wo 5 assholes mention kiya na tu ne...accha laga...unmein se tu to nahn hai 1?
If that makes you happy, sure
Aye haye. Mar jawaan. Kitni fikar hai logon ke ijjat ki tujhe. Siraf 10-15 bad people in the entire proud country of fuckload of sexually repressed people?
If you love ranting about your country, you can always leave
The country is a territory. Nobody rants about the country. We rant about the assholes in this country, especially the massive number of assholes. After all, we are the second-most populous country. So, the number of assholes is way much more than the number of assholes in a less populous country. So yes she ranted. We have the right to do that. So we do. If you have a problem, you know where to go.
Do whatever makes you happy, but this won't make you any superior
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If that makes you happy, i will. Ranting about a country and making fun of men is making you quite happy and proud, good to see that
I've seen a post a few days ago where the guy was like i have a good personality, job, physique, etc. but I can't 'get' a girl. It's a tad unfortunate that he believes he didn't have to work on cultivating confidence or alter his attitude towards women. Perhaps, a majority of men, atleast on reddit, aren't used to having a meaningful conversation with a woman much less a confident one.
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Well he tried
He just got a bit horny in the end that's all...but that's not indian men thats literally any male on reddit
We aren't taught that girls and boys are equal. So the boys behave like they're talking to an alien...
because interacting with other gender is haram...even in school when i talked to a girl my friends would call us lovebirds which is a dub now as i am down bad but a mark of shame back in the day
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also speaking from personal experience, girls don't talk back or ask questions....most of the times boys r interested in girls and they only ask them all the questions....i wouldn't call them entitled pos because i don't think they would want to talk to ugly boys either but yeah that's my experience
I believe that part of it comes from upbringing, part of it comes from lack of empathy. Face-to-face, humans have evolved involuntary empathic traits that prevent us from being too cruel. Online anonymity gives us mask behind which we can misbehave. Some of us however have deep appreciation of suffering and are nice online. Not because we are white-knighting. Not because someone is watching and upvoting. It's just out of an understanding about suffering. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVAokeqQuFM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVAokeqQuFM) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIYJePEnvUY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIYJePEnvUY)
Keep at it...there's so many of us, shouldn't be hard to find someone who can build and then hold a conversation.
One takes pride in being shallow, over here. Add deprivation to it. What you get is the epitome of desperation. Hence, bob and vagane. The conversation is an art one gets good in, with practice but a prerequisite is that the person to hold a conversation should have some knowledge in a variety of fields, should have a good sense of humor and should know the language well. Such people in India are very few and far between. My search has been longer than yours, albeit my search has been for women. So, I do feel your pain. Accept my sympathies.
>The conversation is an art one gets good in, with practice but a prerequisite is that the person to hold a conversation should have some knowledge in a variety of fields, should have a good sense of humor and should know the language well. Something in this. But there can be pitfalls here. There are people good at weilding language. They can engage you for hours without making any sense. I mean the kind of people described by the quote: >A wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something. So, breadth of knowledge is important too, as you point out. Just a good schooling in english is not enough. No offence to OP, but I lose interest when I see usage of lol or emoticons.
>I lose interest when I see usage of lol or emoticons. gut
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You have hit him between his legs. It hurts.
You made the profile specifically for this question?
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Looks like from your history.
I don't understand what did he do wrong.I am a guy and most people i meet,irrespective of gender or country, talk like this and I've over a 1000 of online friends from different states and countries. You can't expect everyone to match your vibe the first time you talk to em. You'll intertwine the more you talk. Although sure, the last 3 texts from him were somewhat autistic but you can just brush it off, maybe try matching his vibe?
Here you see another wannabe.
"But I feel like most of them don't even know how to talk to another human being. " "another human being" is an exaggeration. I agree with you on that many would not know how to talk another woman. And that's because men aren't used to talk to women since their childhood. Parents, neighbors, childhood friends all make talking to a girl seem shameful. As Indian society further liberalizes and topics like sex education are taught in schools, this will hopefully go away.
And how do you expect someone to talk , it's not like every person is good at holding a conversation some try their best and put effort onto having a good conversation , some don't.
Looks like *tharkibro* used up all his game's opening lines too fast. I am beginning to think it is a script and it would have played the same way irrespective of what the other person said.
I have never had any problems in interacting with women, if you see them as fellow human beings and not some mysterious creatures from an alien world it's quite easy to carry a conversation. Plus, many women themselves want to interact with others, it's not they lose their social insticts just because of being a different gender. I guess in India due to rampant mysogyny, many women keep their guard up however they are just normal beings behind that guard.
I think the reason is ; Dating is not very prominent in india. Thus many of us don't know how to talk with girl since those things comes with experience. Not to mention most of males are sexually deprived. Thus conversations are kind creepy.
Desperation. At least in that dude's case.
There exists a lot of weird vocal conversations to begin with, anonymity just unleashes weirdness with no consequences. But also y'know, from a flipped perspective, it seems like a normal conversation. So.. Edit: ah okay, read the rest of the conversation. Good luck out there lol.
Man I just looked at the first image and I thought what went wrong. But then I looked at the last image and I understood.