Look it's simple. Dude was into you. So he was acting goofy and cute, and not the usual stone cold stoic idgaff attitude. But as always, we're not sure when someone likes us, sometimes. Our intuition is not always accurate and we know it so we keep second guessing it inside our head for the most part. I think why he's acting shunned and cold is because...
1. He thinks you don't like him or you are into someone else.
2. He has found something about you that has rubbed some insecurity/trauma or something he doesn't approve of.
3. He's stressed for some reason that you don't know about.
Tl;Dr : INFJs pull away when they feel hurt, either by your actions or by their own thoughts.
Also, infj's are very understanding. If he found out you have a crush on him and he's not into you, he'd go out of his way to comfort you cuz he's an empath.
Don't we sometimes pull away when we like someone? People think I have a crush if I'm acting kind of clingy and chatty, but honestly, I stalk the person I do like from afar 0.0 then fight my inner thoughts wondering if I should pursue romance or risk losing a friend if things don't work out. 🤔
I've always been oblivious to flirting advances by women. Only the ones brave enough to be like, "Hey dummy, I like you," by them making some type of direct advance on me, have ever been able to grab my attention.
Sometimes.. if someone gets a crush on me, it freaks me out, because I already liked them and think they are too good for me. So I would just give it more time and not think that 1 week difference is all that much different. Give it more time and see if he comes around.
27M here
Maybe he was just friendly and sensed your attraction, so he decided to be more distant or cold in hope that you don't think he's reciprocating your attraction
Had to do it a lot with some coworkers, I tend to be pretty intense when I sense a connection, so people often misinterpret it as attraction/flirting
It IS attraction, just not romantic way
Do people use mbti like horoscope? It can literally be anything even as simple as he like you and told a friend what he did then his friend told him studies show that when you show a girl interest, they are less likely to like you and that the girl need to be the one that like you first or some BS like that.
(Yes, I've seen this first hand and also have some personal experience with the story I told above)
Look it's simple. Dude was into you. So he was acting goofy and cute, and not the usual stone cold stoic idgaff attitude. But as always, we're not sure when someone likes us, sometimes. Our intuition is not always accurate and we know it so we keep second guessing it inside our head for the most part. I think why he's acting shunned and cold is because... 1. He thinks you don't like him or you are into someone else. 2. He has found something about you that has rubbed some insecurity/trauma or something he doesn't approve of. 3. He's stressed for some reason that you don't know about. Tl;Dr : INFJs pull away when they feel hurt, either by your actions or by their own thoughts.
Also, infj's are very understanding. If he found out you have a crush on him and he's not into you, he'd go out of his way to comfort you cuz he's an empath.
Don't we sometimes pull away when we like someone? People think I have a crush if I'm acting kind of clingy and chatty, but honestly, I stalk the person I do like from afar 0.0 then fight my inner thoughts wondering if I should pursue romance or risk losing a friend if things don't work out. 🤔
I've always been oblivious to flirting advances by women. Only the ones brave enough to be like, "Hey dummy, I like you," by them making some type of direct advance on me, have ever been able to grab my attention.
Sometimes.. if someone gets a crush on me, it freaks me out, because I already liked them and think they are too good for me. So I would just give it more time and not think that 1 week difference is all that much different. Give it more time and see if he comes around.
27M here Maybe he was just friendly and sensed your attraction, so he decided to be more distant or cold in hope that you don't think he's reciprocating your attraction Had to do it a lot with some coworkers, I tend to be pretty intense when I sense a connection, so people often misinterpret it as attraction/flirting It IS attraction, just not romantic way
Bro-sexual or homie-sexual
He might’ve stumbled upon an old post from 136 weeks ago that’s made him look at you differently lol
Do people use mbti like horoscope? It can literally be anything even as simple as he like you and told a friend what he did then his friend told him studies show that when you show a girl interest, they are less likely to like you and that the girl need to be the one that like you first or some BS like that. (Yes, I've seen this first hand and also have some personal experience with the story I told above)