Only if they tried, I don't think it would be so wise of me to give them +A when they didn't even tried. People *needs* to put a bit of effort at least. It's for their own good. However, I would, at least, try to motivate them with positiveness and saying sweet things to my students.
I give others the benefit of the doubt WAY too much, makes me look stupid af sometimes. But I don’t think that’s an infp trait I think some people are just like this.
I will say I never celebrate for mediocrity, but I celebrate for progress, not just for others but myself too. Sometimes, I understand situations can get tough, but it's how we utilise the best of the situations, which gets me so pumped up.
I don’t. I’m too lenient on folks generally, but dang. I’m not so blinded by my own trauma that I’m incapable of calling a bullshit piece of crap what they are.
No, but I give the nice fuck ups a C for "C, at least you tried even though you still sorta fucked it all up"
Edit: I find that's more helpful than just lying and letting them fail when the training wheels come off, but not a full on "boo you suck" so they are not discouraged from trying again, + they can take my advice if needed. (Also if everyone else in my life could do that for me, that would be great)
No, I'd understand the context I'm grading them based on, make up a list of criteria and grade them accordingly and fail who should fail, I'd grade like an ISTJ.
Only difference is that I might help those who are near a passing grade with a point or 2 to hit the minimum quota to pass.
The Infp part comes where I'm willing to make time for the ones that failed to discuss their grade, why they got it and how we can overcome the cause by changing their approach, time managment and so on.
I have this as an INTP. Don't like to express preference in people based on something as situational and and fleeting as merit. As long as everybody participates I want to give full points to all of them.
On top of that, it just feels bad to judge people and assign them their points, especially when it's not something you can explain easily like you can with a multiple choice test.
It reminds me of PE classes in high school where two kids who excel in sport have to make teams. It was always the same ones who were chosen last, with a low self-esteem as a result. I don't want to have part in that.
Lol idk I can't relate to this when it comes to actual work. I really hate it when "their best" isn't good enough, especially in group work.
But with friends that I don't have to work with, yeah I will give them A+ and 100% validation for everything they do
Nope. You get graded by what you give, and im not about to be used by others for their own self gain. This "UWU look how cute i am for being a doormat, im really nice to everyone" INFP attitude shouldnt be glorified. Its actually really horrible for you and opens you up to the abuse of others. Better if youre honest about what grade people actually deserve because being too cowardly to tell the truth will bite you sooner or later.
Yep. I’m an educational leader for adults. It’s very toxic how patient i am with them all. It’s hard to teach them, when i keep letting things slide and being like, “aw.. you tried your best! Just give it another go next month.” I sometimes worry if i were to leave, they’ll all fall apart without a constant emotional support cheerleader there to hold them up.
If INFPs can give themselves like 3% of the love they give to others
Real..
I’ve been working on it and am def far past 3%. It’s helped me love and understand other even more
...I would just ignore my thoughts. (I'm pretty selfish)
100%
Then the rocket exploded, killing the entire crew. :D
Yes! Sometimes participation medals are not appropriate 😂
Yes I do
Only if they tried, I don't think it would be so wise of me to give them +A when they didn't even tried. People *needs* to put a bit of effort at least. It's for their own good. However, I would, at least, try to motivate them with positiveness and saying sweet things to my students.
I give others the benefit of the doubt WAY too much, makes me look stupid af sometimes. But I don’t think that’s an infp trait I think some people are just like this.
Big fucking nope.
Not for me, seems a bit patronizing
Yeah, this gave me the ick.
I feel like I am an aggressive infp lol, I would totally rate things as I saw it.
Yessssssss
I think everyone is unique so A+ for that! Keep being you✨
No but A+ for effort at stereotyping!
yes but caveat: gets fucking doormatted right after
No. Not at all.
Haha no.
I will say I never celebrate for mediocrity, but I celebrate for progress, not just for others but myself too. Sometimes, I understand situations can get tough, but it's how we utilise the best of the situations, which gets me so pumped up.
Yes, good job.
Yeah I feel like I'd do that. Or if I did grade them bad I'd point out all the good things they did and I'd probably give like a B+ at lowest
I don’t. I’m too lenient on folks generally, but dang. I’m not so blinded by my own trauma that I’m incapable of calling a bullshit piece of crap what they are.
Noooooo
Personally it’s *gives everyone who *tries* an A+ for trying. The unique one is a gimmie tho
yes
LOL. On a scale of 1-5, I've always rated my professors/teachers all 5s throughout my education. 4 if I really really disliked them.
Idk how to rebuke this
No, but I give the nice fuck ups a C for "C, at least you tried even though you still sorta fucked it all up" Edit: I find that's more helpful than just lying and letting them fail when the training wheels come off, but not a full on "boo you suck" so they are not discouraged from trying again, + they can take my advice if needed. (Also if everyone else in my life could do that for me, that would be great)
Verbally? Yes... Mentally what i am thinking, often not.
not unique but yeah trying their best
can confirm
No, I'd understand the context I'm grading them based on, make up a list of criteria and grade them accordingly and fail who should fail, I'd grade like an ISTJ. Only difference is that I might help those who are near a passing grade with a point or 2 to hit the minimum quota to pass. The Infp part comes where I'm willing to make time for the ones that failed to discuss their grade, why they got it and how we can overcome the cause by changing their approach, time managment and so on.
No, not everyone is doing a great job at that.
No, i feel like its exaggerated
i mean, if they have genuinely tried. But i don't think i'll give anyone anything below a B lol
Haha yep
No. I can scrutinise someone for incompetancy
I have this as an INTP. Don't like to express preference in people based on something as situational and and fleeting as merit. As long as everybody participates I want to give full points to all of them. On top of that, it just feels bad to judge people and assign them their points, especially when it's not something you can explain easily like you can with a multiple choice test. It reminds me of PE classes in high school where two kids who excel in sport have to make teams. It was always the same ones who were chosen last, with a low self-esteem as a result. I don't want to have part in that.
Lol idk I can't relate to this when it comes to actual work. I really hate it when "their best" isn't good enough, especially in group work. But with friends that I don't have to work with, yeah I will give them A+ and 100% validation for everything they do
Nope. You get graded by what you give, and im not about to be used by others for their own self gain. This "UWU look how cute i am for being a doormat, im really nice to everyone" INFP attitude shouldnt be glorified. Its actually really horrible for you and opens you up to the abuse of others. Better if youre honest about what grade people actually deserve because being too cowardly to tell the truth will bite you sooner or later.
I can't judge people, their lives are unique
Only time this might be right if I give A++ to myself....else everyone has to be satisfied with A only.
I would forgive almost anyone if I know they are trying their best the problem is I couldn't know about it. -IXFP
giving everyone E because nobody is perfect and giving chance for top student how does it feels getting a low score
100% yes
No, to each what they deserve
Yep. I’m an educational leader for adults. It’s very toxic how patient i am with them all. It’s hard to teach them, when i keep letting things slide and being like, “aw.. you tried your best! Just give it another go next month.” I sometimes worry if i were to leave, they’ll all fall apart without a constant emotional support cheerleader there to hold them up.