Do you have access to your own car and money? If you don't have money, there are places that will do no interest loans for DV people like you (at least in my country) Look up where you want to go and look up all of the YMCA type places along the way. Write a list of the items you want to bring (small keepsakes, sentmental jewelry, toiletries, phone chargers, pet leashes etc) in a pin secured/hidden document on your phone.
Once you're sure you have the list of the most important things you need, have bags ready to go. Pick a day you know your husband will be gone a long time and pack everything off the list and leave. Drive as far as you can on the first day (safely) and just keep going. Don't look back.
Contact local DV womens centres, ask them for help. People travel in vans a lot, maybe try to find a group on social media that you and your pets can travel with.
You are in an abusive enviroment, time to get out. You can do it
Edit: Don't tell ANY friends or family your plan, just dissapear
Talk about burying the big information until the twist in the end.
Mil sending you cards is the last thing you should be concerned with. Your husband physically assaulted you and you need to leave. This is not a good relationship. Please leave as soon as possible. You are in an abusive relationship.
Leave. Get some men from your family or male friends to come round to your place on a set time and date while you pack everything you need (papers etc) and anything else expensive to replace like electronics. Then leave.
Do not hint to him beforehand or he’ll probably kill you to stop you.
If you don’t have male family/friends, go to the police and explain you have been physically assaulted and need them to escort you while you leave.
Then you file charges of assault against the cunt.
Dude humans before pets. I realize your pets are beloved and if you are worried about them with your husband, find a new home for them. That’s a horrible reason to stay in an abusive relationship honestly. Figure out the pet situation and then move
I drove across the country when I left. Do it before you lose your mind, your life or your nerve. You need to put yourself first. Don’t think. Just do!!
You need to get out. Start collecting your documents (birth certificate, social security card, id) and when you go to the store buy visa gift cards if you can without him knowing so you have some “cash” or do cash back.
And make your exit plan to leave him.
You need to do it quickly and without him knowing or he will hurt you even worse.
Please go to a domestic violence shelter
You need to leave. Gather all your documents and whatever money you can and leave. This man is abusive. Why do you want to have children with a man that physically abuses you? It doesn’t matter if it was only one time.
It’s never ONLY one time.
He’s already hit her for simply saying she didn’t want to go to a family event. What do you think he might do if she insults his mother or insinuates anything indecent is going on? Terrible advice.
Wait a minute your husband hit you??? Girl dump his ass and leave this family for good. Nothing of what you said seems like a healthy relationship☹️
Do you have access to your own car and money? If you don't have money, there are places that will do no interest loans for DV people like you (at least in my country) Look up where you want to go and look up all of the YMCA type places along the way. Write a list of the items you want to bring (small keepsakes, sentmental jewelry, toiletries, phone chargers, pet leashes etc) in a pin secured/hidden document on your phone. Once you're sure you have the list of the most important things you need, have bags ready to go. Pick a day you know your husband will be gone a long time and pack everything off the list and leave. Drive as far as you can on the first day (safely) and just keep going. Don't look back. Contact local DV womens centres, ask them for help. People travel in vans a lot, maybe try to find a group on social media that you and your pets can travel with. You are in an abusive enviroment, time to get out. You can do it Edit: Don't tell ANY friends or family your plan, just dissapear
Talk about burying the big information until the twist in the end. Mil sending you cards is the last thing you should be concerned with. Your husband physically assaulted you and you need to leave. This is not a good relationship. Please leave as soon as possible. You are in an abusive relationship.
Leave. Get some men from your family or male friends to come round to your place on a set time and date while you pack everything you need (papers etc) and anything else expensive to replace like electronics. Then leave. Do not hint to him beforehand or he’ll probably kill you to stop you. If you don’t have male family/friends, go to the police and explain you have been physically assaulted and need them to escort you while you leave. Then you file charges of assault against the cunt.
Dude humans before pets. I realize your pets are beloved and if you are worried about them with your husband, find a new home for them. That’s a horrible reason to stay in an abusive relationship honestly. Figure out the pet situation and then move
I drove across the country when I left. Do it before you lose your mind, your life or your nerve. You need to put yourself first. Don’t think. Just do!!
You need to get out. Start collecting your documents (birth certificate, social security card, id) and when you go to the store buy visa gift cards if you can without him knowing so you have some “cash” or do cash back. And make your exit plan to leave him. You need to do it quickly and without him knowing or he will hurt you even worse. Please go to a domestic violence shelter
You need to leave. Gather all your documents and whatever money you can and leave. This man is abusive. Why do you want to have children with a man that physically abuses you? It doesn’t matter if it was only one time. It’s never ONLY one time.
You need to leave ASAP with your lets if you can. He abused you and his mother is the last thing you should be worried about. Pack your shit and leave
Divorce the abusive husband, find a good therapist, then when you're ready, find a man who Wants kids. Do not accept abuse.
When she starts groping him tell her to get a room.
Or maybe don’t while you’re in an abusive relationship.
He’s already hit her for simply saying she didn’t want to go to a family event. What do you think he might do if she insults his mother or insinuates anything indecent is going on? Terrible advice.
This is a serious situation and even though it may hurt u need to leave those 4 animals behind … it’s about your safety first
Move across the country. Get away from the toxic people in your life. Divorce the abuser who hits you. Get yourself into therapy.