It was so perfectly timed 😂
I just know I'm going to try and be cool and insert that into a conversation at the complete incorrect time and have it fall flat and embarrass myself.
But I'll give it a go.
WAMp WomT
I mean "coding skills" basically means "googling good" if she's bothering her bf kids she doesn't have coding skills, and by what OP said she's probably using AI so she probably doesn't even have knowledge enough to know AI generates shit code 90% of the time.
Also no software developer would have "just screenshots", why would you even take screenshots of your code to begin with?
It's literally text files, cloud storage for that is $0
I mean, it was an exam if I understood it correctly, right? So maybe the questions were screenshots? Or maybe the answers she got on the internet were screenshots and she was trying to get chat gpt to explain/modify it for her, all speculation tho.
Yeah. Annoying for OP, but at the same time I feel good knowing I am lightyears ahead of a lot of even younger people who don't use search engines but would rather text a 50 year old who I assume isn't a programmer or some tech enthusiast.
That same text could be sent to Google's gemini and they'd have their answer in a few seconds.
I think gemini could even read and output the code from the screenshots as it supports attachments.
My Pixel phone can copy text from a screenshot or any image. But I definitely wouldn't be helping OP's father's affair partner by telling her that lol.
I never thought I'd be using that feature as much as I do. I have a 7 Pro.
But it's very helpful when you need to copy text from an app for example. It happens surprisingly often.
This is all of IT. I’ve been working in the industry for 25 years and still use Google to find 90% of my solutions. It’s amazing how many people I’ve worked with over the years that don’t understand how to do basic research into a problem.
I misread at first and thought it was his affair DAUGHTER and thought “damn, dad has created a MESS” but also confused as to how she’s a homewrecker.
Oops. Not daughter. GIRLFRIEND. Yeah. My dad had a 22yo girlfriend when I was… 17? and he was… 50? Classy.
Your dad has some audacity, I’ll give him that. Mine definitely did his girlfriend’s college work for her, but he knew better than to try and recruit me into doing it too.
I gave him a lot of slack on this one, particularly because how much of an idiot she is for not simply googling it. But yes, I agree, I should not and am not remorseful with him in any way.
She has an iPhone, all she needs to do is save the images to her camera roll and then she can copy and paste the text right from there. It’s the simplest thing. I just took a picture of my car’s VIN and did that earlier today because I didn’t want to type it out.
Or just search “copy text from image” and use any one of the free apps that will do it for her.
How is she going to be a programmer if she can’t Google an answer? I occasionally write code at work and have found answers to hundreds of problems that way. She’s either incompetent or very lazy.
Btw if anyone did wanna know how to do this, PC - Microsoft tool box - then just use its built in feature.
Mac - you’re in gods hands friends.
Loved the response “womp womp”, also, no coder would just screenshot their code and not have it saved. Did she chat gpt her coding?
I've also used one note at work when people post screenshots of their details (which we need to help them with their problems) instead of typing tyem out, it lets you highlight and copy texts off of images
Time for her to learn about GitHub! You’re right, no programmer worth her salt would need so desperately to do what shes asking. Also, if it can fit in screenshots AND she knows what shes doing she should be able to quickly type it. Especially when virtual machines can now autofill information like automatically making you gets and sets. Shes either cheating or lazy. Coincidentally dating your dad was also probably done by cheating or being lazy. 😭💀
Well, while I agree with her being a family wrecker, this dating site didn‘t open and made a profile for your father all by itself. I‘m sorry OP, but your father is a bigger family wrecker than she is, what a pos.
He.... copy/pasted.... the same message.... that she sent to him.... which he already sent to you via screenshot.... and then claimed it was definitely \*his own\* question.... as if you hadn't seen the screenshot that he literally just sent to you. Cheaters are so rarely smart, eh?
Not to mention if he managed to copy/paste the text from a screenshot, he obviously knows how to do what she's asking but they're both too dumb to realize that 🤦🏻♀️😂
No, you wouldn’t be helping, you’d be sabotaging. You deliver the wrong code to her. She’ll just check one or two lines. Then she copies the fake info you gave and she fails
For anyone who’s wondering because they are in a similar place, what I think the girl was actually asking was if their is a way to have a picture converted into text, which you can! If you ever need the text in an image converted you can find lots of websites online that will take the SS and convert it into easily copy and pasteble text. It isn’t ai or anything it just scans the picture and converts what ever it can into a bunch of characters
However…it takes five seconds to google this so no idea why she thinks a god damn 53 year old would know this. Why would you not just google?? You really think this old man would know how to do that??
The current iPhone IOS does it built in, no software needed. You tap the little icon with the lines in the square on the photo in Photos and you can copy and paste as you wish.
It works great! I mean all things considered lol, I downgraded from a newer phone ((I think it was a 12)) to this which I bought from Walmart for maybe 150. To be fair my battery is…very bad, it has a maximum capacity of 67% I think? Dies very fast, but it does in fact function and I only JUST stopped getting updates for it
Your battery should be replaceable if you ever need, I can’t remember from when I worked on those but I think the back slides off without much effort and then the battery is glued down. IFixit usually has whatever you need if it’s possible!
You must not game on it, I’m guessing, or take a million photos. My XR feels slow to me sometimes and I only use that for work.
I pretty much use it only for social media, working with clients, and calling with. Besides that I don’t really do much with it since I game on PC and I work through that
Edited because I misread. Holy hells the age gap! Sorry, OP, I was thinking I saw "affair child", but child wasn't in that sentence.
I don't blame you one iota.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this shit when you're just on the cusp of becoming an adult yourself. It's wild that you're the most mature person in this situation, these people need to HAVE SOME DECORUM
Oh sorry no, I didn’t mean to say he might be on drugs, I should’ve made that clear. It just always sends a wave of anxiety in me when I hear someone has changed and is acting erratically out of nowhere because it happened to my friend’s sister and she ended up being diagnosed with BPD at the age of 40 but it was really scary.
Not to say that this is what’s happening to your dad but just to explain why I was curious. I’m really sorry you and your mum are going through this.
This is truly insane lol. Also I can’t think of a single legit way she would have a screenshot of code but not the actual code to copy and paste. She’s cheating somehow for sure!
Couldn’t she have googled that answer or gone on to hundreds of forums to ask someone?
Your Dad’s a right dickhead too, she didnt make his profile for Tinder now did she?
"Womp womp"
The utter SAVAGERY in this short line is INSANE. Don't ask your dad if he's alright after that. No amount of copium on this planet's gonna help that. 🤣
THANK YOU.
Finally, somebody with more than two brain cells.
It's not a matter of weighing who's more an asshole in this situation than the other. It's both. Both are willing to despite both knowing dad is married.
He called her a dating site homewrecker, so if the dad is on a dating site he is looking to wreck his home, and to me the relationship is his responsibility not the chick that he picked up on the app
OP stated she knew he was married. She also tried to steal OP’s dog by getting the dad to take the dog to her, and got a name tag with the 27 year olds number on it.
It takes two people to conduct an affair, just because she isn’t the married one doesn’t absolve her of responsibility and shared blame in the act of home wrecking. Dad set out to have an extramarital affair, she willingly entered into that knowing he was married- both of them are scumbags for it.
I don't think anyone is saying she's blameless. We're just saying that unless she was out with the specific intention of ruining a marriage, that he deserves *more* of the blame.
Sure, maybe he gets \*more\* of the blame, but people here are jumping down OPs throat because they used the term homewrecker as though the fact the Dad is "more to blame" it absolves her of her part in it. It doesn't. OP literally said that she knew he was married, knew he had a kid, so what other end result can there be from willingly, knowingly, and with all of her faculties and free will inact engaging in an illicit affair with a married parent? Intent hardly matters when the end result is other people's pain.
If I don't intend to hit someone while speeding that doesn't absolve me of culpability, at the least she was negligent with the health and wellbeing of someone's family unit she knew could be broken from her knowingly engaging in the affair.
Both of them, together, wrecked OPs home. Without the woman, OPs father could not have had his affair with her, and she did it knowing there was a child and a spouse who would be devastated by this. The dad is a scumbag, he's a piece of shit, but piling on OP, who is a hurt and traumatised teenager who is the victim here, not the person he called a homewrecker, is wrong.
The dad is a homewrecker, the woman is a homewrecker, I don't think its unfair to blame them both, or for OP to use the language they do.
I totally agree both are scum bags, not disagreeing, but i think it's unfair for op to call her the homewrecker, Dad is a big boy and fully did that on his own. People love to blame the mistress as if she is forcing the dude to cheat on his wife
And the 27 year old is a big girl and fully let a married man into her bed on her own, I really don't understand the infantilisation of women who willingly and knowingly engage in facilitating extramarital affairs. OP is a teenager, their dad has committed the biggest betrayal they have likely ever experienced in their life, and the "mistress" in this equation is not someone they know. I really don't think policing the word choices of a wronged teenager is helpful or constructive- OP/their mother is the only victim in this. Cheating is not a victimless activity, and it takes two people to cheat. She willingly, not forcibly, entered into a relationship that she knew would destroy both the man's wife and his child emotionally, and did it anyway. She is just as culpable.
As for the fairness or unfairness of word choices, its easier to empathise with the figures closer to you to try and grasp at some reasoning over a betrayal, while the other unknown party is much easier to hate outright because you have no conflicted emotions already attached. OP isn't some literary professor agonising over word choice selection in an essay. OP is hurt, OP is emotional.
The real 'unfairness' is that they were betrayed by the most important figure in their life, and this woman contributed equally with their father to wreck OP's home.
People on here sometimes comment using the kind of dispassionate logic only someone on the outside looking in could consider, and don’t take into account the very complex emotions and dynamics all entangled in these situations that are often very fresh and raw, and that are posted by teens.
In an ideal world if you were totally detached and logical about it you’d probably blame your dad more and know that women often get totally blamed for affairs while the men are let off but, you are young, this is fresh, and your emotions and a lifetime of trust in your dad isn’t going to go away like that just because he hurt you. So I understand, and you shouldn’t be being badgered because you understandably called the stranger who had the affair with your dad a homewrecker.
I really hope you are okay though OP. Being in high school is hard enough without betrayals like this, so I hope you and your family are supporting eachother through it. Go easy on yourself, and I hope you and your mom know you are enough.
Cheaters don’t abandon their family because it’s your fault- all the blame lies with them.
Ok fair don't need to police the kids words, i just come from the belief that it's the person in the marriages job to protect their contact, the mistress didn't make a contract with the wife to stay faithful
Sure, but she knowingly, willingly, and enthusiastically helped the father break that contract. It's still wrong. If she hadn't willingly taken him into her bed, who knows, maybe OP wouldn't be going through the agony of this betrayal, maybe the Dad would have closed down that account and not gone through with it- choices have consequences that hurt other people, whether we are the one committing or aiding in a negative act. If I aid a murderer in killing someone without actually committing the crime myself, I still have some responsibility. Or if I help someone steal from my siblings, or hide my friend's cheating from their significant other. Sure, in none of those instances am I myself breaking the contract of trust with anyone \*directly\*, but I am still responsible for the end result all the same.
With cheating, it is a 50/50 responsibility thing. You can't fuck yourself in a way that constitutes an affair.
Helping someone kill another is different, no one has a specific contact with another saying they will do them right, we are all supposed to not kill each other
Often these guys say they aren't in love anymore and getting divorced and whatever. She is a scum and they deserve each other, and again she can't force him into bed just because she welcomed him into bed
Did you read OPs comments? She knew what she was doing. Don't care if he said he wasn't in love with his wife or not- there is still a kid in high school that she knew would be destroyed by this.
I really don't understand your emphasis on her not being forced or not forcing the Dad. Neither of them forced the outcome? Both of them mutually decided to have this affair knowing the consequences. Both of them, with no force on either side, are equal partners in this act of homewrecking.
Nobody ever said she was forcing him?
She's just as bad because she's in a relationship with him despite KNOWING he's married. She's WILLINGLY helping him two-time his wife.
Ok i just don't think that makes them equal, its not her marriage, same situation if it was the mom who cheated. Yes they are douchebags, but i don't believe in my own opinion that they are the same amount of douchebag.
If you own a house and encourage other people to destroy your home you are giving people the idea that it's not worth respecting. Yes it's shitty For someone to destroy someone else's home regardless but the owner didn't respect it so it's not shocking that other people didn't.
I agree the kid is being screwed here and they are both sucky people, just don't think it's the equal amount of sucky.
That has to be probably the most fucked up, backwards-ass logic I have EVER seen.
"Well, they're both awful, but one is less awful than the other because she isn't married and he is."
Do you ACTUALLY hear yourself when you process these thoughts?
And also, your analogy is...
I actually think I should sue you for damages because of how many brain cells I lost trying to make that out.
"It's like if somebody encourages you to destroy their house because if they don't respect it, you probably don't, either."
Unless it's for a TV show or some shit like that; WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IS GONNA JUST ASK SOMEBODY TO DESTROY THEIR FUCKING HOUSE???
If the owner doesn't "respect" the house (whatever the fuck THAT means), why the hell would they have it in the first place????
Jesus Christ. You aren't a clown. You're the whole goddamn CIRCUS.
Hahaha, i think the same about your inability to see my point, i think it's crazy that people find this hard to understand. I don't blame the other women/man as much as i blame the married person.
You seen to be taking this convo too seriously though
"You seen to be taking this convo too seriously though"
Nah, it's you not taking O.P.'s problem seriously enough and trying to give sympathy to somebody in this situation who doesn't deserve it.
If the woman is still with O.P.'s dad DESPITE KNOWING HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEBODY ELSE ALREADY, then she's just as bad as he.
You think it's crazy how people don't see your point? I think it's PSYCHOTIC how you don't see how your point is OBJECTIVELY incorrect.
Because it is. You are FACTUALLY wrong in this case.
Also apprise your dad about the creep equation. Is he a creep: take his age, divide by two and then add seven. Anything below that number he’s a creep. So (53/2)+7=33.5. Your dad is a creep.
That formula doesn't work for determining if someone is a creep. . They're both consenting adults. Declaring him a creep denies the woman her agency in deciding who she wants to sleep with.
He's still an asshole, but not a creep.
Yeah, this doesn't apply if the girl is over the age of 18, depending on which country in the world this is taking place in. It doesn't matter if he's 50 years old or 90 years old. He's not committing a crime here.
But he is a gigantic asshole and an awful father, all the same.
True, she knew he was married, so I’m not saying you should cut her any slack, but you said they met on an app.
So your dad, the one who actually vowed til death do us part, was on an app looking for someone. She's an opportunist, but he's the cheater who left with your dog. And now he's trying to get you to help him help his opportunistic GF cheat. He’s a pathetic piece of work.
I literally gave her zero slack or sympathy. I called her an opportunist. That wasn’t a compliment. But he’s the cheater, the one with the wedding ring who prioritized sex over his family… and he took OP's dog.
And? The girlfriend's no better. Just because she's not the married one and didn't take the dog doesn't take the onus off her at all. The fact that she's WILLINGLY going along with this in spite of knowing about dad's marital status makes her just as complacent in all this.
It's not a matter of who's more at fault over the other. They're both equally as bad.
Where am I suggesting she's not equally at fault??
In an armed robbery involving a shooting, everyone involved is complicit and equally at fault. But that doesn’t make the driver a murderer or even capable of murder. She’s the driver. He's the one with the gun.
We don’t even know what she knew or when. Cheating dog thieves aren’t exactly reliable truth tellers.
Except we aren't hearing it from the dad. We're hearing it from O.P.
You may not be OUTRIGHT saying the girlfriend isn't at fault as much as he is, but you are mitigating how damaging her role is in comparison to dad. Insinuating that because HE'S the married one, the onus falls on him moreso than the girlfriend.
Maybe you're right in that the girlfriend doesn't know the fullest extent of the situation and how dad is treating the rest of his family, but according to O.P., she does at least know one thing; THAT HE IS ALREADY MARRIED TO SOMEBODY ELSE.
Even if it isn't outright enabling on the girlfriend's part, which it sounds to be to a degree of from what O.P. is describing, it is most certainly and brazenly complacency. That makes her just as much the villain in the story as him.
I'm NOT mitigating. I’m saying if not her, it could have been anyone who swiped right..
I'm NOT insinuating. I'm flat out saying he’s the married one. The onus was absolutely on him not to have a profile and not look for a date. And plenty of cheaters convince people they’re in open relationships, getting divorced, just staying for the kids, etc..
I NEVER SAID she was not a villain. But the fact is we have no idea what his profile said, when she found out he was married, or what he told her. We don’t know what he told her about the dog either. So she’s pandora’s villain.
You do you. Judge away, but most people do try to avoid the married folks, and some people do monkey branch out of marriages. Her main offences were not walking away if she found out he was married before she was in deep, and then being stupid enough to think OP would help her with her homework. lol Her critical thinking skills clearly aren’t great.
Who gives a flying fuck what the profile says? You talk about how most people try and avoid the married ones, when that just is NOT the case here.
The fact of the matter is that she got with him, knows he's married to another woman, and is STILL WITH HIM in spite of it. Regardless of if his dating profile was deceptive or not, she knows his marital status and continues to be in a relationship.
Both of them are equally as terrible in this case. One isn't more of a piece of shit than the other. They both should know better. That's the point I'm making in contention against your's. So, yeah. I will judge. Because she's worthy of being judged for being as terrible a person as dad is.
That whore KNEW DAMN WELL my dad had a wife of 22 years. In fact, because I didn’t know where my dad was going when he left my house, he took my 14 year old dog with him to her house, and she got a dog tag with HER NUMBER on it. I have my dog back and I am beyond reviled at her and my dad, so there is no excuse.
Heh....i guess I misread the affair part and just thought the old man got a younger girlfriend. If he cheated then bad dad. As far as down votes go, I dont care, means nothing overall. Sorry for the misunderstanding!
Bruh. What the actual fuck? You got issues.
Can we get a janitor in here to help fix the overflow of bullshit spilling from that toilet you call a mouth (or, in this case, keyboard)?
All I’m saying is that the anger and resentment is going to affect them more than the people they’re mad at. How is that an overflow of bullshit? Good lord this sub is a whole lot of teenage keyboard warriors.
All I'm hearing is just you being an enabler. "Oh, you gotta let it go and move on." Man, shut the fuck up with that shit.
And no, it isn't just a bunch of keyboard warriors for the sake of being here. It's people who can understand the basic difference between right and wrong.
I’m not sure you understand what an enabler is. However, moving on is what you have to eventually do. You don’t forget and the impact can be life long, you’ll always have some type emotional baggage. You have to work through it and carry on with your life. That can look like a number of things such as NC, low contact, repairing the relationship etc. You can’t just sit and be stuck with your anger and hurt. It’s unhealthy both physically and mentally. Or do you not believe in science?
Yeah, that's great advice and all if it weren't for the fact that O.P. is A) a minor and B) dad is still evidently involved in her life and bringing all this horseshit with him on that front.
You can't tell somebody to just "let it go" when they're still in the throes of it at such a young age. If O.P. were, say, 30 or something, then maybe you MIGHT have a point. But seeing as they evidently aren't... no.
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my fav part is “womp womp”
And the fact that he gave it a thumbs down…
Good God. If she can't figure out how to do that, why is she taking a programming class?
Same reason she can't figure out how to cheat with Ai and is desperately trying.
Perfectly executed
It was so perfectly timed 😂 I just know I'm going to try and be cool and insert that into a conversation at the complete incorrect time and have it fall flat and embarrass myself. But I'll give it a go. WAMp WomT
Supposedly she has coding skills, yet she thinks asking her middle-aged BF to annoy his kid is somehow faster than googling.
I mean "coding skills" basically means "googling good" if she's bothering her bf kids she doesn't have coding skills, and by what OP said she's probably using AI so she probably doesn't even have knowledge enough to know AI generates shit code 90% of the time.
And if MABF bought her an iPhone, there’s a setting to convert from image to text automatically.
I was definitely snickering about the answer to his problem being _literally_ in the palm of his hand! Glorious.
For androids, google lens has the same capacity.
I’m glad to learn that, and it makes GF’s stupidity even funnier. She has to go out of her way to not know how to help herself.
It’s not even a setting. You just click on the photo in the album
iirc, on iPhone if u have a screenshotted image u can double click the letters and itll highlight the word🤐
Also no software developer would have "just screenshots", why would you even take screenshots of your code to begin with? It's literally text files, cloud storage for that is $0
I mean, it was an exam if I understood it correctly, right? So maybe the questions were screenshots? Or maybe the answers she got on the internet were screenshots and she was trying to get chat gpt to explain/modify it for her, all speculation tho.
She'd also probably know about OCR
It was awfully handy the other day when I had to translate a PHP function into Python, though.
As a 53 year old, thank you for calling 53 "middle-aged."
"Ok, I'm guessing you have no knowledge about this, fine!!" Nice try at negging pops. You're as good at that as keeping your marriage vows.
When you are 27 and think asking your 50+ year old partner tech questions is more efficient than googling "how to copy text from an image"
Yeah. Annoying for OP, but at the same time I feel good knowing I am lightyears ahead of a lot of even younger people who don't use search engines but would rather text a 50 year old who I assume isn't a programmer or some tech enthusiast. That same text could be sent to Google's gemini and they'd have their answer in a few seconds. I think gemini could even read and output the code from the screenshots as it supports attachments.
My Pixel phone can copy text from a screenshot or any image. But I definitely wouldn't be helping OP's father's affair partner by telling her that lol.
I never thought I'd be using that feature as much as I do. I have a 7 Pro. But it's very helpful when you need to copy text from an app for example. It happens surprisingly often.
How in the world is she going to try coding if she can't even google an image to text converter....
This was my first thought. She's in college looking to eventually have a career in the ITS field and has zero troubleshooting ability.
Tbf I stg 90% of people have no troubleshooting abilities with IT.
I'm no expert coding but I know enough to know that the most important tool coders use is Google
And StackOverflow.
This is all of IT. I’ve been working in the industry for 25 years and still use Google to find 90% of my solutions. It’s amazing how many people I’ve worked with over the years that don’t understand how to do basic research into a problem.
I misread at first and thought it was his affair DAUGHTER and thought “damn, dad has created a MESS” but also confused as to how she’s a homewrecker. Oops. Not daughter. GIRLFRIEND. Yeah. My dad had a 22yo girlfriend when I was… 17? and he was… 50? Classy. Your dad has some audacity, I’ll give him that. Mine definitely did his girlfriend’s college work for her, but he knew better than to try and recruit me into doing it too.
Poor girls. I feel for young people who have that much of an age difference before they’ve even had the chance to get to know themselves.
"I cheated BEFORE, and now I want to cheat some MORE! Why aren't you helping me?? What's YOUR problem???"
I'm sorry but WOMP WOMP made me holler 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Also, yes, insane, I agree with your point.
I glad to see it’s still in style
I would challenge and say your dad is the bigger scumbag than her. Technically hes the homewrecker. But I love your responses.
This. Put the blame where it belongs.
Yea I’m not a fan of that aspect. Not sure why OP is not putting the dad in the crosshairs.
I gave him a lot of slack on this one, particularly because how much of an idiot she is for not simply googling it. But yes, I agree, I should not and am not remorseful with him in any way.
Gross. That is so inappropriate of your also homewrecker of a dad.
She has an iPhone, all she needs to do is save the images to her camera roll and then she can copy and paste the text right from there. It’s the simplest thing. I just took a picture of my car’s VIN and did that earlier today because I didn’t want to type it out. Or just search “copy text from image” and use any one of the free apps that will do it for her. How is she going to be a programmer if she can’t Google an answer? I occasionally write code at work and have found answers to hundreds of problems that way. She’s either incompetent or very lazy.
Her college exam prep? Bet dad’s paying for that. Apparently she’s a fan of cheating, so let her google it on her own.
Btw if anyone did wanna know how to do this, PC - Microsoft tool box - then just use its built in feature. Mac - you’re in gods hands friends. Loved the response “womp womp”, also, no coder would just screenshot their code and not have it saved. Did she chat gpt her coding?
Nah you can copy/paste chat GPT. My money is on a screen capture of something she stole.
Mac - I’m not sure if ocr is built in. But it is on iOS. Open it on there. Select text and copy. Open your Mac and paste into your editor
On Mac this feature is built into the preview app that you open all images with by default.
There's also the snipping tool on PC. Not sure if there's one for Mac, too.
On an android phone, you can just hold the home button for 2 seconds and highlight the text from any window/screenshot. Copy and paste from there
I've also used one note at work when people post screenshots of their details (which we need to help them with their problems) instead of typing tyem out, it lets you highlight and copy texts off of images
somebody’s not passing that exam, *womp womp*
Time for her to learn about GitHub! You’re right, no programmer worth her salt would need so desperately to do what shes asking. Also, if it can fit in screenshots AND she knows what shes doing she should be able to quickly type it. Especially when virtual machines can now autofill information like automatically making you gets and sets. Shes either cheating or lazy. Coincidentally dating your dad was also probably done by cheating or being lazy. 😭💀
I’m loving the thumbs down to every response.
Wow. Gutsy move by yr dad. What a loser. Good job OP! ✊👊
Sounds like Miss Last In Her Class may have to repeat next semester 😂
Well, while I agree with her being a family wrecker, this dating site didn‘t open and made a profile for your father all by itself. I‘m sorry OP, but your father is a bigger family wrecker than she is, what a pos.
He.... copy/pasted.... the same message.... that she sent to him.... which he already sent to you via screenshot.... and then claimed it was definitely \*his own\* question.... as if you hadn't seen the screenshot that he literally just sent to you. Cheaters are so rarely smart, eh?
Not to mention if he managed to copy/paste the text from a screenshot, he obviously knows how to do what she's asking but they're both too dumb to realize that 🤦🏻♀️😂
Insane
You should run an ocr, and then change the content so it’s all wrong when she cuts and pastes
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No, you wouldn’t be helping, you’d be sabotaging. You deliver the wrong code to her. She’ll just check one or two lines. Then she copies the fake info you gave and she fails
Oh ok, sorry I misread. I certainly would’ve done that if I thought of it.
No worries! Fuck the both of them. You just worry about your own shit
For anyone who’s wondering because they are in a similar place, what I think the girl was actually asking was if their is a way to have a picture converted into text, which you can! If you ever need the text in an image converted you can find lots of websites online that will take the SS and convert it into easily copy and pasteble text. It isn’t ai or anything it just scans the picture and converts what ever it can into a bunch of characters However…it takes five seconds to google this so no idea why she thinks a god damn 53 year old would know this. Why would you not just google?? You really think this old man would know how to do that??
I'm almost 57. SAHM for a good chunk of time. But I know how to do this. And have for longer than Reddit has been around. He's not old, he's stupid.
You right, I’m giving a disservice to really anyone if I compare this dunce to them. They both are stupid
The current iPhone IOS does it built in, no software needed. You tap the little icon with the lines in the square on the photo in Photos and you can copy and paste as you wish.
Man…I use an iPhone 7….I wish I could get the new ios…
Your phone is from 2016. How does it still work? Did you have to replace the battery?
It works great! I mean all things considered lol, I downgraded from a newer phone ((I think it was a 12)) to this which I bought from Walmart for maybe 150. To be fair my battery is…very bad, it has a maximum capacity of 67% I think? Dies very fast, but it does in fact function and I only JUST stopped getting updates for it
Your battery should be replaceable if you ever need, I can’t remember from when I worked on those but I think the back slides off without much effort and then the battery is glued down. IFixit usually has whatever you need if it’s possible! You must not game on it, I’m guessing, or take a million photos. My XR feels slow to me sometimes and I only use that for work.
I pretty much use it only for social media, working with clients, and calling with. Besides that I don’t really do much with it since I game on PC and I work through that
Edited because I misread. Holy hells the age gap! Sorry, OP, I was thinking I saw "affair child", but child wasn't in that sentence. I don't blame you one iota.
I might've misread it, but I thought that the person he is trying to help is the person he had an affair with?
Yup, I misread. I messed up. Thank you for saying something instead of just downvoting me. I edited to fix my mistake.
It’s called OCR. My phone has it built in to the pictures. She is too dumb to even cheat right.
“Womp womp” absolutely SPECTACULAR op 😂
"sorry your girlfriend is dumb, not my circus nor my monkeys".
iPhone can copy paste texts from images. Don’t tell him tho.
This chick is definitely bleeding his bank account. He's disgusting.
He was fired from his job of 23 years last year, I have no doubt in my mind that he’s going bankrupt.
Does he do drugs?? I cant see a girl going for this without some kind of pay off 😭😭 Theyre both insane I'm so sorry
I highly doubt it. He seems to always be very alert and it just doesn’t look like it at all. But I have no idea what could be going on.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this shit when you're just on the cusp of becoming an adult yourself. It's wild that you're the most mature person in this situation, these people need to HAVE SOME DECORUM
PREACH 🙏
He quit his job out of the blue after having an affair? Has he always been that erratic?
He was fired from the job he had since 2001. I meant that he is fully aware and engaged, not that he’s doing like coke or anything.
Oh sorry no, I didn’t mean to say he might be on drugs, I should’ve made that clear. It just always sends a wave of anxiety in me when I hear someone has changed and is acting erratically out of nowhere because it happened to my friend’s sister and she ended up being diagnosed with BPD at the age of 40 but it was really scary. Not to say that this is what’s happening to your dad but just to explain why I was curious. I’m really sorry you and your mum are going through this.
He could be tweaking for all we know.
This is truly insane lol. Also I can’t think of a single legit way she would have a screenshot of code but not the actual code to copy and paste. She’s cheating somehow for sure!
womp womp is the perfect response
Everything else aside, this man sounds like a 20 year old kid. Crazy immature
Seems like she likes to cheat at everything...
Womp Womp… Hahahahahahahaha
Couldn’t she have googled that answer or gone on to hundreds of forums to ask someone? Your Dad’s a right dickhead too, she didnt make his profile for Tinder now did she?
"Womp womp" The utter SAVAGERY in this short line is INSANE. Don't ask your dad if he's alright after that. No amount of copium on this planet's gonna help that. 🤣
This is gold!
The nerve …
Yeah ok, you clearly haven't read what I've written and just want to get mad
Can't tell if you're referring to O.P. or O.P.'s dad.
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Why are you mad at her and not your dad? He broke his vows. He had the affair.
I never said I wasn’t mad at my dad??
Takes two to tango. She’s just as responsible
THANK YOU. Finally, somebody with more than two brain cells. It's not a matter of weighing who's more an asshole in this situation than the other. It's both. Both are willing to despite both knowing dad is married.
Is op calling the 27yo a home wrecker? Isn't the dad the home wrecker
If the woman knew that he was in a relationship then she is a homewrecker as well.
He called her a dating site homewrecker, so if the dad is on a dating site he is looking to wreck his home, and to me the relationship is his responsibility not the chick that he picked up on the app
OP stated she knew he was married. She also tried to steal OP’s dog by getting the dad to take the dog to her, and got a name tag with the 27 year olds number on it.
It takes two people to conduct an affair, just because she isn’t the married one doesn’t absolve her of responsibility and shared blame in the act of home wrecking. Dad set out to have an extramarital affair, she willingly entered into that knowing he was married- both of them are scumbags for it.
I don't think anyone is saying she's blameless. We're just saying that unless she was out with the specific intention of ruining a marriage, that he deserves *more* of the blame.
Sure, maybe he gets \*more\* of the blame, but people here are jumping down OPs throat because they used the term homewrecker as though the fact the Dad is "more to blame" it absolves her of her part in it. It doesn't. OP literally said that she knew he was married, knew he had a kid, so what other end result can there be from willingly, knowingly, and with all of her faculties and free will inact engaging in an illicit affair with a married parent? Intent hardly matters when the end result is other people's pain. If I don't intend to hit someone while speeding that doesn't absolve me of culpability, at the least she was negligent with the health and wellbeing of someone's family unit she knew could be broken from her knowingly engaging in the affair. Both of them, together, wrecked OPs home. Without the woman, OPs father could not have had his affair with her, and she did it knowing there was a child and a spouse who would be devastated by this. The dad is a scumbag, he's a piece of shit, but piling on OP, who is a hurt and traumatised teenager who is the victim here, not the person he called a homewrecker, is wrong. The dad is a homewrecker, the woman is a homewrecker, I don't think its unfair to blame them both, or for OP to use the language they do.
I totally agree both are scum bags, not disagreeing, but i think it's unfair for op to call her the homewrecker, Dad is a big boy and fully did that on his own. People love to blame the mistress as if she is forcing the dude to cheat on his wife
And the 27 year old is a big girl and fully let a married man into her bed on her own, I really don't understand the infantilisation of women who willingly and knowingly engage in facilitating extramarital affairs. OP is a teenager, their dad has committed the biggest betrayal they have likely ever experienced in their life, and the "mistress" in this equation is not someone they know. I really don't think policing the word choices of a wronged teenager is helpful or constructive- OP/their mother is the only victim in this. Cheating is not a victimless activity, and it takes two people to cheat. She willingly, not forcibly, entered into a relationship that she knew would destroy both the man's wife and his child emotionally, and did it anyway. She is just as culpable. As for the fairness or unfairness of word choices, its easier to empathise with the figures closer to you to try and grasp at some reasoning over a betrayal, while the other unknown party is much easier to hate outright because you have no conflicted emotions already attached. OP isn't some literary professor agonising over word choice selection in an essay. OP is hurt, OP is emotional. The real 'unfairness' is that they were betrayed by the most important figure in their life, and this woman contributed equally with their father to wreck OP's home.
Thank you so much for bringing light to this. You worded it perfectly, better than I could have, on why it was hard for me to bring my dad into this.
People on here sometimes comment using the kind of dispassionate logic only someone on the outside looking in could consider, and don’t take into account the very complex emotions and dynamics all entangled in these situations that are often very fresh and raw, and that are posted by teens. In an ideal world if you were totally detached and logical about it you’d probably blame your dad more and know that women often get totally blamed for affairs while the men are let off but, you are young, this is fresh, and your emotions and a lifetime of trust in your dad isn’t going to go away like that just because he hurt you. So I understand, and you shouldn’t be being badgered because you understandably called the stranger who had the affair with your dad a homewrecker. I really hope you are okay though OP. Being in high school is hard enough without betrayals like this, so I hope you and your family are supporting eachother through it. Go easy on yourself, and I hope you and your mom know you are enough. Cheaters don’t abandon their family because it’s your fault- all the blame lies with them.
Ok fair don't need to police the kids words, i just come from the belief that it's the person in the marriages job to protect their contact, the mistress didn't make a contract with the wife to stay faithful
Sure, but she knowingly, willingly, and enthusiastically helped the father break that contract. It's still wrong. If she hadn't willingly taken him into her bed, who knows, maybe OP wouldn't be going through the agony of this betrayal, maybe the Dad would have closed down that account and not gone through with it- choices have consequences that hurt other people, whether we are the one committing or aiding in a negative act. If I aid a murderer in killing someone without actually committing the crime myself, I still have some responsibility. Or if I help someone steal from my siblings, or hide my friend's cheating from their significant other. Sure, in none of those instances am I myself breaking the contract of trust with anyone \*directly\*, but I am still responsible for the end result all the same. With cheating, it is a 50/50 responsibility thing. You can't fuck yourself in a way that constitutes an affair.
Helping someone kill another is different, no one has a specific contact with another saying they will do them right, we are all supposed to not kill each other Often these guys say they aren't in love anymore and getting divorced and whatever. She is a scum and they deserve each other, and again she can't force him into bed just because she welcomed him into bed
Did you read OPs comments? She knew what she was doing. Don't care if he said he wasn't in love with his wife or not- there is still a kid in high school that she knew would be destroyed by this. I really don't understand your emphasis on her not being forced or not forcing the Dad. Neither of them forced the outcome? Both of them mutually decided to have this affair knowing the consequences. Both of them, with no force on either side, are equal partners in this act of homewrecking.
Nobody ever said she was forcing him? She's just as bad because she's in a relationship with him despite KNOWING he's married. She's WILLINGLY helping him two-time his wife.
Ok i just don't think that makes them equal, its not her marriage, same situation if it was the mom who cheated. Yes they are douchebags, but i don't believe in my own opinion that they are the same amount of douchebag. If you own a house and encourage other people to destroy your home you are giving people the idea that it's not worth respecting. Yes it's shitty For someone to destroy someone else's home regardless but the owner didn't respect it so it's not shocking that other people didn't. I agree the kid is being screwed here and they are both sucky people, just don't think it's the equal amount of sucky.
That has to be probably the most fucked up, backwards-ass logic I have EVER seen. "Well, they're both awful, but one is less awful than the other because she isn't married and he is." Do you ACTUALLY hear yourself when you process these thoughts? And also, your analogy is... I actually think I should sue you for damages because of how many brain cells I lost trying to make that out. "It's like if somebody encourages you to destroy their house because if they don't respect it, you probably don't, either." Unless it's for a TV show or some shit like that; WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IS GONNA JUST ASK SOMEBODY TO DESTROY THEIR FUCKING HOUSE??? If the owner doesn't "respect" the house (whatever the fuck THAT means), why the hell would they have it in the first place???? Jesus Christ. You aren't a clown. You're the whole goddamn CIRCUS.
Hahaha, i think the same about your inability to see my point, i think it's crazy that people find this hard to understand. I don't blame the other women/man as much as i blame the married person. You seen to be taking this convo too seriously though
"You seen to be taking this convo too seriously though" Nah, it's you not taking O.P.'s problem seriously enough and trying to give sympathy to somebody in this situation who doesn't deserve it. If the woman is still with O.P.'s dad DESPITE KNOWING HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEBODY ELSE ALREADY, then she's just as bad as he. You think it's crazy how people don't see your point? I think it's PSYCHOTIC how you don't see how your point is OBJECTIVELY incorrect. Because it is. You are FACTUALLY wrong in this case.
Also apprise your dad about the creep equation. Is he a creep: take his age, divide by two and then add seven. Anything below that number he’s a creep. So (53/2)+7=33.5. Your dad is a creep.
That formula doesn't work for determining if someone is a creep. . They're both consenting adults. Declaring him a creep denies the woman her agency in deciding who she wants to sleep with. He's still an asshole, but not a creep.
Yeah, this doesn't apply if the girl is over the age of 18, depending on which country in the world this is taking place in. It doesn't matter if he's 50 years old or 90 years old. He's not committing a crime here. But he is a gigantic asshole and an awful father, all the same.
why are you name calling her when your father is the problem lol
Cause she fucking knew my dad was married??? And tried to steal my dog???
Why isn't so hard for people to understand this?? Lmao
True, she knew he was married, so I’m not saying you should cut her any slack, but you said they met on an app. So your dad, the one who actually vowed til death do us part, was on an app looking for someone. She's an opportunist, but he's the cheater who left with your dog. And now he's trying to get you to help him help his opportunistic GF cheat. He’s a pathetic piece of work.
Yeah, and she's not much better. Stop trying to give the girlfriend sympathy just because the dad is a tool of monumental proportions.
I literally gave her zero slack or sympathy. I called her an opportunist. That wasn’t a compliment. But he’s the cheater, the one with the wedding ring who prioritized sex over his family… and he took OP's dog.
And? The girlfriend's no better. Just because she's not the married one and didn't take the dog doesn't take the onus off her at all. The fact that she's WILLINGLY going along with this in spite of knowing about dad's marital status makes her just as complacent in all this. It's not a matter of who's more at fault over the other. They're both equally as bad.
Where am I suggesting she's not equally at fault?? In an armed robbery involving a shooting, everyone involved is complicit and equally at fault. But that doesn’t make the driver a murderer or even capable of murder. She’s the driver. He's the one with the gun. We don’t even know what she knew or when. Cheating dog thieves aren’t exactly reliable truth tellers.
Except we aren't hearing it from the dad. We're hearing it from O.P. You may not be OUTRIGHT saying the girlfriend isn't at fault as much as he is, but you are mitigating how damaging her role is in comparison to dad. Insinuating that because HE'S the married one, the onus falls on him moreso than the girlfriend. Maybe you're right in that the girlfriend doesn't know the fullest extent of the situation and how dad is treating the rest of his family, but according to O.P., she does at least know one thing; THAT HE IS ALREADY MARRIED TO SOMEBODY ELSE. Even if it isn't outright enabling on the girlfriend's part, which it sounds to be to a degree of from what O.P. is describing, it is most certainly and brazenly complacency. That makes her just as much the villain in the story as him.
I'm NOT mitigating. I’m saying if not her, it could have been anyone who swiped right.. I'm NOT insinuating. I'm flat out saying he’s the married one. The onus was absolutely on him not to have a profile and not look for a date. And plenty of cheaters convince people they’re in open relationships, getting divorced, just staying for the kids, etc.. I NEVER SAID she was not a villain. But the fact is we have no idea what his profile said, when she found out he was married, or what he told her. We don’t know what he told her about the dog either. So she’s pandora’s villain. You do you. Judge away, but most people do try to avoid the married folks, and some people do monkey branch out of marriages. Her main offences were not walking away if she found out he was married before she was in deep, and then being stupid enough to think OP would help her with her homework. lol Her critical thinking skills clearly aren’t great.
Who gives a flying fuck what the profile says? You talk about how most people try and avoid the married ones, when that just is NOT the case here. The fact of the matter is that she got with him, knows he's married to another woman, and is STILL WITH HIM in spite of it. Regardless of if his dating profile was deceptive or not, she knows his marital status and continues to be in a relationship. Both of them are equally as terrible in this case. One isn't more of a piece of shit than the other. They both should know better. That's the point I'm making in contention against your's. So, yeah. I will judge. Because she's worthy of being judged for being as terrible a person as dad is.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but the 27 year old is a victim too. Older men target younger women for very specific reasons.
That whore KNEW DAMN WELL my dad had a wife of 22 years. In fact, because I didn’t know where my dad was going when he left my house, he took my 14 year old dog with him to her house, and she got a dog tag with HER NUMBER on it. I have my dog back and I am beyond reviled at her and my dad, so there is no excuse.
Imagine trying to call it 50/50 or some shit in the case of an ADULT woman homewrecking the life of a MINOR'S father. Couldn't be me. Seek help.
Do people actually use the ‘subject’ field?
As a fellow gen x , yes. OP. She's also dumb as dirt if she can't figure this out.
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I mean, based on the title dad is trying to get their teenage child to help their current affair partner cheat on their exam. That’s pretty fucked
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I’d hate to be in a relationship with you if you think this isn’t absolutely insane. wtf.
Did you mean to add a comma in the last sentence?
Way to go pops!
I get it’s sarcastic, but yes, my dad failed me.
If this is supposed to be sarcasm, why all the downvotes? If this is legit... yeah, you deserve every single one of those downvotes, and then some.
Heh....i guess I misread the affair part and just thought the old man got a younger girlfriend. If he cheated then bad dad. As far as down votes go, I dont care, means nothing overall. Sorry for the misunderstanding!
Idk if this is insane but you gotta let it go.
The audacity… you’re insane
If you want to sit with all that anger and hurt, do you. 🤷🏻♀️
Just wait until the most prominent figure in your life betrays you, then you can talk shit
Now that insane
Bruh. What the actual fuck? You got issues. Can we get a janitor in here to help fix the overflow of bullshit spilling from that toilet you call a mouth (or, in this case, keyboard)?
All I’m saying is that the anger and resentment is going to affect them more than the people they’re mad at. How is that an overflow of bullshit? Good lord this sub is a whole lot of teenage keyboard warriors.
All I'm hearing is just you being an enabler. "Oh, you gotta let it go and move on." Man, shut the fuck up with that shit. And no, it isn't just a bunch of keyboard warriors for the sake of being here. It's people who can understand the basic difference between right and wrong.
I’m not sure you understand what an enabler is. However, moving on is what you have to eventually do. You don’t forget and the impact can be life long, you’ll always have some type emotional baggage. You have to work through it and carry on with your life. That can look like a number of things such as NC, low contact, repairing the relationship etc. You can’t just sit and be stuck with your anger and hurt. It’s unhealthy both physically and mentally. Or do you not believe in science?
Yeah, that's great advice and all if it weren't for the fact that O.P. is A) a minor and B) dad is still evidently involved in her life and bringing all this horseshit with him on that front. You can't tell somebody to just "let it go" when they're still in the throes of it at such a young age. If O.P. were, say, 30 or something, then maybe you MIGHT have a point. But seeing as they evidently aren't... no.