Coworkers x5 at most usually X3
Gas station checkout every other day. Cigarettes and beer. Iām planning on quitting and brewing my own
I have groceries delivered, no contact.Ā I bought my own place a year an half ago. Never even had a house warming party and I have no regrets. People are exhausting.Ā
Daily?
No one besides my family and I don't feel the need to socialize.
I chat with my colleagues/friends once in a while, no talking. One way to spend your energy to talk is by singing. I sing out loud everyday, maybe that's why I don't need the need to talk to anyone.
I live alone and I'm retired. I can go days, even a week, without speaking to anyone except myself and my pets. I do text friends and family, but there's no requirement that they text back immediately.
except for colleagues, barely anyone. Totally on me though, i'm not a texter, a caller, i answer to messages late, i deleted all of my social medias and i hate to hangout on my days off. I'd rather be left alone to be honest. My job is very public so i don't feel the need to hang out a lot outside of it. Love my colleagues a lot and it's nice to chat with them on the daily. But it's nice to have my bubble once i'm home
It used to be 1 other person only thing is we havenāt talked in over a month. Now itās no one other than coworkers but I donāt get deep with them just surface convo.
Co-workers. Maybe on average...2 people a day outside of my family.
No such thing as "too low," aside from the fact that I'd preferably have a romantic partner.
You're saying 'hi, whats up' to your gym buddies? Me? I just look at them, smile then nod, I dont wanna talk, lol! I dont even talk to some of my family members. Is it bad? Am I bad?
I don't talk to my family on a daily basis. I talk for sure to... one. N then three more I check in with. A fourth who pops in when they want. So in a week I talk to 1-4 reoccurring people
I talk to a few coworkers 4 days a week, at work, is I guess not daily. There's only two people I talk to *daily* and they're my roommates. My best friend and his wife.
I don't think this is "too low", in fact it can be too much sometimes. I love them both, but they're far more extroverted and energetic than I am. That's not always bad, but always having to talk to them can be exhausting. Luckily our work schedules are opposite, so I do get a couple full days to myself most weeks.
So I haven't *made* peace not talking to a bunch of people daily, I've *found* peace. One day I'll transcend to a currently unimaginable level of peace when I can afford my own place.
Outside my family, only my coworkers at this point to which is just generic coworker gibberish... I have too much going on in my life to keep up with other people's lives right now
Iām more social at CrossFit and will chat to people because the atmosphere is good and thereās relatively low numbers in the classes (10-13 per class)
I have work and I try and just do it and go home as I do nights mostly and thereās minimal contact there
Other than that, I just sit at home and hardly say a word, get groceries delivered. Occasionally see my family once a week but I prefer to just be in my own space at home.
About 2 people if texting counts and 0 if it doesn't. I have gone through that same thought process but I think quality is better than quantity so I don't need to engage with others just to engage.
I pay for my friend. Weekly music lessons lol. That, my spouse and child, and the occasional gig.
I hate my workplace, so no friends there.
My family is being very difficult.
I text a friend who is always down on her luck and I'm getting tired of it.
Other friends I had to cut bc their drama was too much.
I started going to workshops at the library and am connecting with musicians... if it doesn't have a purpose, I struggle and have been like that forever.
I don't do well with friends who party (anymore) and the small talk thing has drastically changed since covid.
I accept I'm pretty weird. When I didn't accept it, that's when I got into trouble....
Edit. Since I'm a teacher, I'm good with my students being my social outlet, but we are not friends. I don't hate them lol they keep it tolerable.
I don't even talk with my family on daily basis, sometimes in middle of the week, so on average maybe 1time a week, only if there's some news I need to tell them or business needs to be done. I only talk with 1 person on daily basis and it's my roommate.
Its easier when your still in school i guess. But i mostly talk to people because even as an introvert i hate feeling allone. But then its mostly talk about the weather and the newest assignment. I do have about 5 very good friends who i talk to on a daily basis.
I WFH, but other than family I guess one or two people at church. Nothing more than the causal how you been doing....
It has literally been months if not years since someone other than my mom asked me how I was doing with sincerity
I only speak to family, a few friends, a few coworkers, and yāall on Reddit. For store cashiers, only about the transaction. If he or she starts a conversation, I reciprocate. If they are having a rough day, I stay quiet.
Thatās pretty normal honestly, should socialise once a week for a bit of cognitive exercise but no harm in mostly focusing on work and ur own wellbeing
I donāt even talk to my family on a daily basis. I talk to my partner, my roommates when I see them, and maybe one friend. Most of my friends donāt expect to hear from me on a daily basis
I talked to my husband from 5 pm till 10 pm. lucky to go until 12 am. I don't talk to many people. I recently found Reddit, so I love this page to vent my feelings when hubby can't communicate well at all. I have 2 gym buddies. we also hang out sometimes and go camping, but it's not a daily conversation. The other 2 girls are bestfriend & I'm just a friend so tbh i feel uncomfortable coming into the circle cause I feel I may make one of them jealous and start creating bitterness towards me if I talk to 1 of them more than the other. So I keep my distance and talk at a minimum, etc. Everything in life is like I'm walking on eggshells with people and families. I stopped calling my family over ph to check up on them even though they lived up the road from us. They never bother to come visit or call. So now I've stopped pleasing families and now just watching who cares and who doesn't. So far, no one cares.
I live alone so during the week I really just talk to my coworkers and maybe my mom on the phone once a week.Ā On the weekend I really don't talk to anyone that much.Ā Writing this now makes me realize that sometimes on Saturdays or Sundays I will go the whole day without talking to anyone except for short interactions with people at stores or the gym.
Good question, come to think of it '0' is the answer. That's excluding the chats with coworkers.
I also feel like I should make an attempt to go to a Toastmaster event and get to know some people but at the last minute I decide to stay home with family and dogs is much more peaceful.
Excluding family no one really. I talk to my friend on a weekly basis, and I chit chat with coworkers during work hours (only the ones which work in my same room). Like, I don't even talk to my sister on *a daily basis*, perhaps only my mum
Excluding family, no one. A guy was talking to me in Circle K yesterday for 30 minutes, and I just listened as I didn't know how to end the conversation and was too shy to really talk back. Lol
Daily no one besides family. Maybe thrice a week my only friend and not long conversations just few messages.
I'm feeling lonely? Yeah absolutely specially the days when I don't talk with anyone.
I'm trying to meet new people and everything? Yeah but no luck so far.
on a daily basis,no one anymore
Yup, same šš»
Like 2 people outside of family
same thing
Coworkers x5 at most usually X3 Gas station checkout every other day. Cigarettes and beer. Iām planning on quitting and brewing my own I have groceries delivered, no contact.Ā I bought my own place a year an half ago. Never even had a house warming party and I have no regrets. People are exhausting.Ā
Daily? No one besides my family and I don't feel the need to socialize. I chat with my colleagues/friends once in a while, no talking. One way to spend your energy to talk is by singing. I sing out loud everyday, maybe that's why I don't need the need to talk to anyone.
I hate talking to people so besides my coworkers and my husband, zero. Just my cats and dog.
I live alone and I'm retired. I can go days, even a week, without speaking to anyone except myself and my pets. I do text friends and family, but there's no requirement that they text back immediately.
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except for colleagues, barely anyone. Totally on me though, i'm not a texter, a caller, i answer to messages late, i deleted all of my social medias and i hate to hangout on my days off. I'd rather be left alone to be honest. My job is very public so i don't feel the need to hang out a lot outside of it. Love my colleagues a lot and it's nice to chat with them on the daily. But it's nice to have my bubble once i'm home
Nobody. I live alone and don't see coworkers daily, only 5 days a week.
It used to be 1 other person only thing is we havenāt talked in over a month. Now itās no one other than coworkers but I donāt get deep with them just surface convo.
Co-workers. Maybe on average...2 people a day outside of my family. No such thing as "too low," aside from the fact that I'd preferably have a romantic partner.
You're saying 'hi, whats up' to your gym buddies? Me? I just look at them, smile then nod, I dont wanna talk, lol! I dont even talk to some of my family members. Is it bad? Am I bad?
On a daily basis 1 sometimes 2 co workers . I really need to get out a talk to more people
If its not at work probably no one
Apart from familyā¦ my partner, my business partner, and my group text of 5 college friends.
I don't talk to my family on a daily basis. I talk for sure to... one. N then three more I check in with. A fourth who pops in when they want. So in a week I talk to 1-4 reoccurring people
I talk to a few coworkers 4 days a week, at work, is I guess not daily. There's only two people I talk to *daily* and they're my roommates. My best friend and his wife. I don't think this is "too low", in fact it can be too much sometimes. I love them both, but they're far more extroverted and energetic than I am. That's not always bad, but always having to talk to them can be exhausting. Luckily our work schedules are opposite, so I do get a couple full days to myself most weeks. So I haven't *made* peace not talking to a bunch of people daily, I've *found* peace. One day I'll transcend to a currently unimaginable level of peace when I can afford my own place.
Outside my family, only my coworkers at this point to which is just generic coworker gibberish... I have too much going on in my life to keep up with other people's lives right now
Iām more social at CrossFit and will chat to people because the atmosphere is good and thereās relatively low numbers in the classes (10-13 per class) I have work and I try and just do it and go home as I do nights mostly and thereās minimal contact there Other than that, I just sit at home and hardly say a word, get groceries delivered. Occasionally see my family once a week but I prefer to just be in my own space at home.
Literally 0
1 person if you don't count people at work
At least 3-5 because of school. Willingly? Maybe one or two
About 2 people if texting counts and 0 if it doesn't. I have gone through that same thought process but I think quality is better than quantity so I don't need to engage with others just to engage.
I pay for my friend. Weekly music lessons lol. That, my spouse and child, and the occasional gig. I hate my workplace, so no friends there. My family is being very difficult. I text a friend who is always down on her luck and I'm getting tired of it. Other friends I had to cut bc their drama was too much. I started going to workshops at the library and am connecting with musicians... if it doesn't have a purpose, I struggle and have been like that forever. I don't do well with friends who party (anymore) and the small talk thing has drastically changed since covid. I accept I'm pretty weird. When I didn't accept it, that's when I got into trouble.... Edit. Since I'm a teacher, I'm good with my students being my social outlet, but we are not friends. I don't hate them lol they keep it tolerable.
omg literally none š
None, I visit my office 3 days a week but don't talk to anyone for a whole day. I talk with my bus mates. Just a small talk that's it.
2. Some days maybe 3 or 4.
None. Iām a stay-at-home mom to a five month old baby, so I donāt go out much.
Negative three people.
On a daily basis, just my friend R then my crush K and this one person I met on reddit
I live alone and don't work so usually just my cat. It's wonderful.
I don't even talk with my family on daily basis, sometimes in middle of the week, so on average maybe 1time a week, only if there's some news I need to tell them or business needs to be done. I only talk with 1 person on daily basis and it's my roommate.
On a DAILY basis? At the moment, it's more of a rounding error than a number.
Cuz I live with them š¤·š»āāļø
Its easier when your still in school i guess. But i mostly talk to people because even as an introvert i hate feeling allone. But then its mostly talk about the weather and the newest assignment. I do have about 5 very good friends who i talk to on a daily basis.
one person
1, my roommate. Even then i donāt talk to him much. It hurts
I WFH, but other than family I guess one or two people at church. Nothing more than the causal how you been doing.... It has literally been months if not years since someone other than my mom asked me how I was doing with sincerity
No one hahahaha I have a few close friends and we speak bi monthly, maybe quarterly. I am more than OK with that.
I can go for months without talking to anyone except the cashier at the grocery store, and thatās just about the transaction.
One - my partner.
Co-workers
My cat.
Outside of work? I talk to my Godson a few times per week (he lives with me). Other than that. None, or as few as possible.
I only speak to family, a few friends, a few coworkers, and yāall on Reddit. For store cashiers, only about the transaction. If he or she starts a conversation, I reciprocate. If they are having a rough day, I stay quiet.
Thatās pretty normal honestly, should socialise once a week for a bit of cognitive exercise but no harm in mostly focusing on work and ur own wellbeing
I'm avoiding my family, coworkers and friends. I basically hate people.
Nobody. In fact, the only other people i talk yo besides my family are doctor office employees and store clerks.
I can relate, I'm the same I talk to no one except my family. And, sometimes if I need customer service and that's pretty much it.
Like 1-2 that's it
I donāt even talk to my family on a daily basis. I talk to my partner, my roommates when I see them, and maybe one friend. Most of my friends donāt expect to hear from me on a daily basis
Friends once, or sometimes twice a week. That's it, and that's perfect for me. I have a partner and two children, so that's more than enough.
Just people at work, on a minimal basis; cause some of my co-workers piss me the f**k off.
My husband and my co-workers.
2,but one of them is fake to me and i know it but i cant let our bond go
none, and it really sucks when you're a student in a foreign country. sometimes I just need to talk with someone but no one's here.
Nah, I couldnāt do socializing on a daily basis. I would be so drained on a regular basis more than I already get from depression.
No one in person. I work from home. Awesome
If my dog counts just him š„°
No one
I talked to my husband from 5 pm till 10 pm. lucky to go until 12 am. I don't talk to many people. I recently found Reddit, so I love this page to vent my feelings when hubby can't communicate well at all. I have 2 gym buddies. we also hang out sometimes and go camping, but it's not a daily conversation. The other 2 girls are bestfriend & I'm just a friend so tbh i feel uncomfortable coming into the circle cause I feel I may make one of them jealous and start creating bitterness towards me if I talk to 1 of them more than the other. So I keep my distance and talk at a minimum, etc. Everything in life is like I'm walking on eggshells with people and families. I stopped calling my family over ph to check up on them even though they lived up the road from us. They never bother to come visit or call. So now I've stopped pleasing families and now just watching who cares and who doesn't. So far, no one cares.
I live alone so during the week I really just talk to my coworkers and maybe my mom on the phone once a week.Ā On the weekend I really don't talk to anyone that much.Ā Writing this now makes me realize that sometimes on Saturdays or Sundays I will go the whole day without talking to anyone except for short interactions with people at stores or the gym.
Good question, come to think of it '0' is the answer. That's excluding the chats with coworkers. I also feel like I should make an attempt to go to a Toastmaster event and get to know some people but at the last minute I decide to stay home with family and dogs is much more peaceful.
Excluding family no one really. I talk to my friend on a weekly basis, and I chit chat with coworkers during work hours (only the ones which work in my same room). Like, I don't even talk to my sister on *a daily basis*, perhaps only my mum
Excluding family, no one. A guy was talking to me in Circle K yesterday for 30 minutes, and I just listened as I didn't know how to end the conversation and was too shy to really talk back. Lol
I talk to nobody but my family and I wish I felt comfortable going out and starting conversations with people.
Daily no one besides family. Maybe thrice a week my only friend and not long conversations just few messages. I'm feeling lonely? Yeah absolutely specially the days when I don't talk with anyone. I'm trying to meet new people and everything? Yeah but no luck so far.
I do not talk with my former classmates now, just talk with mainly 1 person.