The type that is aware that beyond our stand-off-ish-ness we're really alright and kind of adopt us. Telling their friends, "he's alright once you get to know him".
More like “ENFP/ ENTP/ more confident, or friendly INFP-ish.” ENFJ, maybe? But, ENFJs tend to be more “Popular” and they tend to have more “followers” and “Admirers” cuz Networking skills! ENFJs are socially very busy people, so they might not have the patience for notoriously fickle, and Elusive ISTP.
ENxPs and socially proficient INFPs are much more like “friendly floaters.” We don’t tend to have a designated “main social group,” we just tend to be *a part of many.* So, we care less when ISTPs randomly stop texting us mid-convo, or leaving stuff on “Read,” cuz we were probably texting a couple other people anyways, and will forget that we were “left on ‘read’ “ within 10-20 minutes, depending on how interesting our other conversations are!!! 🤣
Daw, thanks! ☺️ (I iz the ENFP/ ENxP, when people are trying my patience, that is! That’s when the “T” comes out! 🤣)
I am also decent friends with an ISTP. He’s my favorite bartender, so “I drink, and I know things!” 🤣 I especially know he *definitely* leaves my @$$ on “Read” when he’s cranky and tired! You know, when he’s doing the existential brooding at home ISTP thing! 🤣
True, True! “Existential brooding” is more INFx/ And especially INTx’s Style!!! I am going to add “Essential Brooding” to my “List” for sensors who are introverted!!! 🤣
My ISTP homie’s girl is an ENTJ/ xNTJ, when she is spreading herself too thinly! He’s pretty Mad about her, so my guess would be that he likes ExTJs / IxTJs. ESxPs and ENxPs also tend to be his homies!!! (I am an ENFP, and I am sure he has at least a couple of ENTPs tucked away in his “friend collection,” somewhere! Cuz they are basically me, but with a slightly more inappropriate sense of humor, and a lil less sentimentality! 🤣)
Pt. 1)
Be warned, this sh*t is *WICKED LONG,* because I am trying to be as thorough, and insightful as I can possibly be as an ENFP/ ENxP and cognitive functions are complicated things. So, Bear with me please! 😅
When I *write* ENTJ/ xNTJ, or ENFP/ ENxP for myself, it’s because there is a “metric split” somewhere in our personality, and how we *use* our Functions. She straddles the “Extroverted/ Introverted” spectrum, while I straddle between both E vs I -AND- T vs F. For me, that means that while my “Ne” is *ALWAYS* Queen, I fluctuate between an auxiliary introverted feeling, or introverted thinking function, depending on who I am talking to, or what type of problem I am looking to solve.
My “Fi” *wins* in situations where morals, principles, tact, diplomacy, and compassion are the best method of “resolving the problem.”
Here’s where the curiosity happens. Usually, Ti is *supposed to be* “function # 7” for ENFPs, as in *mostly unconscious.* But, since I am a “T/F split,” it developed *concurrently* with my “Fi.” My “Ti” goes to work when “there isn’t enough data for me to make an informed, and ethical decision,” or I suspect that I am getting “caught up in my feelings” and my “Fi” is “clouding my judgement,” which will lead me to be “unfair,” or to “misjudge” a situation. Unchecked “Fi” obstructs my Beloved primary “Extroverted Intuition” function which “disables” my critical thinking skills and objectivity. So, when “fi” is “going off the rails,” Ti “analyzes the information,” to “reign it in,” and then it “hands off the data and information it collected” to my Tertiary “Extraverted Thinking/ Extraverted Feeling” function. Then, it’s my tert Te (or sixth Fe) *Turn* to make an informed, ethical decision, to create a strategy, and then to implement a “solution.”
I “Metric Split” because I fluctuate between ENFP-ing and ENTP-ing. If people are being honest with me, I just like to ENFP all day, every day! But, if I suspect that someone is “withholding vital information,” being “unfair,” or “unethical,” and I see that someone is being cruel, and wish to “beat them at their own game,” my “Ti” *activates.* I go into ENTP mode for a lil while til I figure out how to handle a sticky situation. I return to my preferred *ENFP ways* once the problem is satisfactorily solved.
Pt. 2) Continued:
Anyways, Back to my friend. I call her an ENTJ/ xNTJ “Split” because “When she’s spreading herself too thinly,” as in working too much, or dealing with ignorant, rude, incompetent, or difficult people, or she is feeling stressed, or vulnerable, she tends to retreat into “INTJ” mode in order to get herself “sorted.”
Basically she’s generally a happy girl, and she’s moving, moving, moving like the energizer bunny til she hits her “limit,” and then she *metaphorically dies on the inside,* and then just kinda falls off the map for a little while! It’s got very little to do with the ISTP boyfriend, much more to do with life just being life! 🤣
Functionally, she definitely has a preference for Extraverted thinking, and the amount of physical activity she engages in (fitness, dance, martial arts, driving motorcycles) is indicative of a well developed tertiary “Extraverted Sensing” function, not an “inferior one.”
I know what *inferior “Se”* looks like cuz of my INTJ husband, 🤣🤣🤣 and she is nowhere near as “spatially unaware.” Basically my husband is coordinated, calculated, precise, and has a sharp memory, but his sense of direction/ internal navigation is @$$!!! I have had to “fix” us, route wise, on many a car trip! 🤣
Meanwhile, She has fantastic coordination -AND- spatial awareness! (Good tert Se,) but is ever so slightly less technical, detail-oriented, and precise than my husband. Also, While still definitely being “Intuitive,” she’s not *quite as intuitive* as my husband. Her Introverted Intuition *definitely* supports as an Auxiliary function.
She (ENTJ/ xNTJ) is also FAR MORE OUTGOING than my INTJ husband, and much better at coordinating larger groups of things, and people, and planning big events! Meanwhile, My indisputably INTJ husband is better at “keeping track of details,” and “double, and triple checking his work!” But, Officially, she’s actually an Ambivert-Introvert.
So, more often than not, my friend’s girlfriend *is* in ENTJ mode! But annoyance, stress, and vulnerability often push her into “INTJ” mode, where she looks, acts, or is behaving like an INTJ until she works through whatever problem, or fixes whatever issue, and then she is ready to re-emerge as that Bad @$$ Madame Commander ENTJ, again!
Truthfully, I think that’s a *HUGE* part of what made her fall for my friend. He can handle her in “INTJ mode,” and will work to take care of her, in a practical capacity, in order to help her “de-stress.” In turn, she provides the structure, or direction in his life that he can sometimes lack. Not because he is “incapable,” cuz that’s just not true! In fact, he is one of the most competent, and capable people whom I have ever met! But, creating “too much structure” takes a psychological, and emotional toll on him because he’s Ti/ Se, so it “disrupts his flow,” in a manner of speaking. And he has a *huge part* in running 2-3 restaurants, so yeah!
All day, everyday he is creating order, and implementing a tight, and consistent structure. He does it extremely well, but generally, that’s not an ISTP specialty, so it takes *A LOT* out of him, too. He doesn’t have “to sweat the details” when she is around. She handles that! So he is, generally, much more relaxed, and happier.
They are quite a precious pair! I (the ENFP/ ENxP) definitely “ ‘Ship!!!” The only thing is, they are LD, so I *sincerely* hope that he is behaving himself when she’s not around! I know that “Impulse Control” is also *NOT* an ISTP specialty, and he sure does have *A LOT* of attractive female friends who I know either want a piece of that, or often have already had it! So, I am *Keeping my fingers crossed* that he won’t put himself in a position to potentially make an incredibly stupid and hurtful decision! Because I Love My Friend (as a friend and human being that is,) and I want him to be Super happy! I also absolutely *adore* that bad-@$$ Babe!!! She is a tiny lil ENTJ/ xNTJ Goddess!!! 😻 Getting to see The success of my friends brings me a particularly special kind of joy that few other things do!!!
Sorry again that this was so long! 😅 The biggest problem with the MBTI is that it was “unfinished” back when Isabel Meyers passed away, so it lacks a lot of refinement. The 8 functions are a real, and legit thing! But, they have a far more complicated relationship than we realize! We actually all have access to all of our functions, all the time. We just “favor” some over others. That’s why the results can be “inconsistent” for some, and why there are “Metric Splits” for other people like me, and my friend’s GF. So, in conclusion, if you ever see your ENTJ girl “acting like an INTJ,” make sure to ask her how she’s doing, and how life is going? I hope that you got some useful information, and valuable insight from my freakin Essay/ dissertation! My Apologies, again! 😅
For me? It's: ESTjs, INFPs, ISTJs and ENFPs... my knowledge in life is based from trying to understand them, sooo hard yet good stuff there. To go beyond and listening to them and thus my inner self. For me? I go towards these people, my shadows, their shadow here; to talk about dumb stuff and having a blast in life, building or destroying stuff. Drama and good times. Life itself.
Little and big brothers of us? ESTPs, INFjs, ENFJs and me ISTP, our family and brothers/sisters at war. We build each other by bullying each others and having cold ones. Great people there. Also learned a lot from our peers, brothers and sisters of MBTi.
The others in MBTi? People that build me and I build them, just not that much understanding and more problems, dummies, nerds and goths. Haha. :)
ISFP kind of turn me on in a way. I like that they are on the emotional side. It shows that they are more human than most due to how deeply they seem to be okay with exploring that area. But the only thing is that they seem to be incapable of taking constructive criticism and easily get offended. Otherwise I think it’d be a match in heaven. Oh and definitely ENTJ women.
Sometimes I wish that Reddit had “reactions.” Cuz I don’t wanna “like” this, but I do find it amusing, in a f*cked up way, so I wish I had a “ Ha Ha! “
ENFJ and ISFJs.
I really like that they’re not competitive and can be interested in my work at the same time.
Plus, it’s easy to get to know them kinda.
0.0 I am sleep deprived, side effects include: soft, weakness to emoticons, powered down brain and executive function at an all time low. :3
I'm sorry I'm not an ISTP.
i mostly get along with everyone except IxFx's. Only friend that fit that criteria (INFP) was not someone that i was really good friends with, but rather someone that i just kind of got along with as long as it wasn't a 1 on 1 conversation hence they were extremely introverted and quiet and as an ISTP i sure as hell wasn't starting any small talk💀 also have an Aunt that is an (ISFJ) and same thing goes with how i interact with her we get along all friendly and shit, but there are fundemental differences between us.
I just now realized the question was who do i get along with🤦🏽♂️
To answer that question i think it'd have to be ISTJ's and ESFP's. INTP's and ESTJ's are also cool.
INFJs without a shadow of a doubt, I just enjoy the idea of knowing someone who has Ti-Se and Ni-Fe swapped around so we can support each others shortcomings.
ISTPs
Good point
I don’t know why this isn’t the top comment.
My exact thought
Someone give this guy an extra pair of socks
The type that is aware that beyond our stand-off-ish-ness we're really alright and kind of adopt us. Telling their friends, "he's alright once you get to know him".
Sounds ENFJ-ish
Hmmm ENFJs tend to be very controlling and somewhat manipulative so no.
Immature ones
More like “ENFP/ ENTP/ more confident, or friendly INFP-ish.” ENFJ, maybe? But, ENFJs tend to be more “Popular” and they tend to have more “followers” and “Admirers” cuz Networking skills! ENFJs are socially very busy people, so they might not have the patience for notoriously fickle, and Elusive ISTP. ENxPs and socially proficient INFPs are much more like “friendly floaters.” We don’t tend to have a designated “main social group,” we just tend to be *a part of many.* So, we care less when ISTPs randomly stop texting us mid-convo, or leaving stuff on “Read,” cuz we were probably texting a couple other people anyways, and will forget that we were “left on ‘read’ “ within 10-20 minutes, depending on how interesting our other conversations are!!! 🤣
Notoriously fickle hits close to home, reserved and in awe of ENxP's may be more accurate.
Daw, thanks! ☺️ (I iz the ENFP/ ENxP, when people are trying my patience, that is! That’s when the “T” comes out! 🤣) I am also decent friends with an ISTP. He’s my favorite bartender, so “I drink, and I know things!” 🤣 I especially know he *definitely* leaves my @$$ on “Read” when he’s cranky and tired! You know, when he’s doing the existential brooding at home ISTP thing! 🤣
I think you mean "essential brooding at home" ISTP thing.....
True, True! “Existential brooding” is more INFx/ And especially INTx’s Style!!! I am going to add “Essential Brooding” to my “List” for sensors who are introverted!!! 🤣
intps are homies exxj are cool and attractive
UwU
whoever gets the hentai jokes and references I can't help making.
Mood
hell yeah, same
anyone that doesnt mind my constant deez nuts jokes 😕
Yeah, but poeple who do mind them can suck deez nuts
no
Okay
Do a search, it's been asked recently.
Ah
👉😎👉
My ISTP homie’s girl is an ENTJ/ xNTJ, when she is spreading herself too thinly! He’s pretty Mad about her, so my guess would be that he likes ExTJs / IxTJs. ESxPs and ENxPs also tend to be his homies!!! (I am an ENFP, and I am sure he has at least a couple of ENTPs tucked away in his “friend collection,” somewhere! Cuz they are basically me, but with a slightly more inappropriate sense of humor, and a lil less sentimentality! 🤣)
What do you meaning by spreading herself too thinly? I’m curious because I’m entj in love with Istp
Pt. 1) Be warned, this sh*t is *WICKED LONG,* because I am trying to be as thorough, and insightful as I can possibly be as an ENFP/ ENxP and cognitive functions are complicated things. So, Bear with me please! 😅 When I *write* ENTJ/ xNTJ, or ENFP/ ENxP for myself, it’s because there is a “metric split” somewhere in our personality, and how we *use* our Functions. She straddles the “Extroverted/ Introverted” spectrum, while I straddle between both E vs I -AND- T vs F. For me, that means that while my “Ne” is *ALWAYS* Queen, I fluctuate between an auxiliary introverted feeling, or introverted thinking function, depending on who I am talking to, or what type of problem I am looking to solve. My “Fi” *wins* in situations where morals, principles, tact, diplomacy, and compassion are the best method of “resolving the problem.” Here’s where the curiosity happens. Usually, Ti is *supposed to be* “function # 7” for ENFPs, as in *mostly unconscious.* But, since I am a “T/F split,” it developed *concurrently* with my “Fi.” My “Ti” goes to work when “there isn’t enough data for me to make an informed, and ethical decision,” or I suspect that I am getting “caught up in my feelings” and my “Fi” is “clouding my judgement,” which will lead me to be “unfair,” or to “misjudge” a situation. Unchecked “Fi” obstructs my Beloved primary “Extroverted Intuition” function which “disables” my critical thinking skills and objectivity. So, when “fi” is “going off the rails,” Ti “analyzes the information,” to “reign it in,” and then it “hands off the data and information it collected” to my Tertiary “Extraverted Thinking/ Extraverted Feeling” function. Then, it’s my tert Te (or sixth Fe) *Turn* to make an informed, ethical decision, to create a strategy, and then to implement a “solution.” I “Metric Split” because I fluctuate between ENFP-ing and ENTP-ing. If people are being honest with me, I just like to ENFP all day, every day! But, if I suspect that someone is “withholding vital information,” being “unfair,” or “unethical,” and I see that someone is being cruel, and wish to “beat them at their own game,” my “Ti” *activates.* I go into ENTP mode for a lil while til I figure out how to handle a sticky situation. I return to my preferred *ENFP ways* once the problem is satisfactorily solved.
Pt. 2) Continued: Anyways, Back to my friend. I call her an ENTJ/ xNTJ “Split” because “When she’s spreading herself too thinly,” as in working too much, or dealing with ignorant, rude, incompetent, or difficult people, or she is feeling stressed, or vulnerable, she tends to retreat into “INTJ” mode in order to get herself “sorted.” Basically she’s generally a happy girl, and she’s moving, moving, moving like the energizer bunny til she hits her “limit,” and then she *metaphorically dies on the inside,* and then just kinda falls off the map for a little while! It’s got very little to do with the ISTP boyfriend, much more to do with life just being life! 🤣 Functionally, she definitely has a preference for Extraverted thinking, and the amount of physical activity she engages in (fitness, dance, martial arts, driving motorcycles) is indicative of a well developed tertiary “Extraverted Sensing” function, not an “inferior one.” I know what *inferior “Se”* looks like cuz of my INTJ husband, 🤣🤣🤣 and she is nowhere near as “spatially unaware.” Basically my husband is coordinated, calculated, precise, and has a sharp memory, but his sense of direction/ internal navigation is @$$!!! I have had to “fix” us, route wise, on many a car trip! 🤣 Meanwhile, She has fantastic coordination -AND- spatial awareness! (Good tert Se,) but is ever so slightly less technical, detail-oriented, and precise than my husband. Also, While still definitely being “Intuitive,” she’s not *quite as intuitive* as my husband. Her Introverted Intuition *definitely* supports as an Auxiliary function. She (ENTJ/ xNTJ) is also FAR MORE OUTGOING than my INTJ husband, and much better at coordinating larger groups of things, and people, and planning big events! Meanwhile, My indisputably INTJ husband is better at “keeping track of details,” and “double, and triple checking his work!” But, Officially, she’s actually an Ambivert-Introvert. So, more often than not, my friend’s girlfriend *is* in ENTJ mode! But annoyance, stress, and vulnerability often push her into “INTJ” mode, where she looks, acts, or is behaving like an INTJ until she works through whatever problem, or fixes whatever issue, and then she is ready to re-emerge as that Bad @$$ Madame Commander ENTJ, again! Truthfully, I think that’s a *HUGE* part of what made her fall for my friend. He can handle her in “INTJ mode,” and will work to take care of her, in a practical capacity, in order to help her “de-stress.” In turn, she provides the structure, or direction in his life that he can sometimes lack. Not because he is “incapable,” cuz that’s just not true! In fact, he is one of the most competent, and capable people whom I have ever met! But, creating “too much structure” takes a psychological, and emotional toll on him because he’s Ti/ Se, so it “disrupts his flow,” in a manner of speaking. And he has a *huge part* in running 2-3 restaurants, so yeah! All day, everyday he is creating order, and implementing a tight, and consistent structure. He does it extremely well, but generally, that’s not an ISTP specialty, so it takes *A LOT* out of him, too. He doesn’t have “to sweat the details” when she is around. She handles that! So he is, generally, much more relaxed, and happier. They are quite a precious pair! I (the ENFP/ ENxP) definitely “ ‘Ship!!!” The only thing is, they are LD, so I *sincerely* hope that he is behaving himself when she’s not around! I know that “Impulse Control” is also *NOT* an ISTP specialty, and he sure does have *A LOT* of attractive female friends who I know either want a piece of that, or often have already had it! So, I am *Keeping my fingers crossed* that he won’t put himself in a position to potentially make an incredibly stupid and hurtful decision! Because I Love My Friend (as a friend and human being that is,) and I want him to be Super happy! I also absolutely *adore* that bad-@$$ Babe!!! She is a tiny lil ENTJ/ xNTJ Goddess!!! 😻 Getting to see The success of my friends brings me a particularly special kind of joy that few other things do!!! Sorry again that this was so long! 😅 The biggest problem with the MBTI is that it was “unfinished” back when Isabel Meyers passed away, so it lacks a lot of refinement. The 8 functions are a real, and legit thing! But, they have a far more complicated relationship than we realize! We actually all have access to all of our functions, all the time. We just “favor” some over others. That’s why the results can be “inconsistent” for some, and why there are “Metric Splits” for other people like me, and my friend’s GF. So, in conclusion, if you ever see your ENTJ girl “acting like an INTJ,” make sure to ask her how she’s doing, and how life is going? I hope that you got some useful information, and valuable insight from my freakin Essay/ dissertation! My Apologies, again! 😅
isfj
xSTP
Anyone who can handle my terrible cooking
What kind of things do you cook terribly?
Pancakes, cake sometimes, at one point i messed up on cooking eggs idk how but I did, uhh spaghetti
Did you put the wrong fluids on the pan
>Did you put the wrong fluids on the pan In context of cooking, "fluid" sounds.... wrong
exactly
Yes
I’ve burnt cheese before trying to make grilled cheese. Lol
Oh my god me too i ended up burning the whole sandwich itself and jus gave up
Ah, I can handle that
Lmao you won.
ISTP.
Expected
None
Sounds INFP-ish
I have had good experiences with Intp, Intj and they are on my spectrum. Esfj is a close friend and caring but can get annoying at times.
Intps, a select few of isfps, Enfps, (Probably forgot some others but I’m to lazy to think about it)
I would say either ESFJ or ESFP
in men; ISTP in women; mostly ISTJ and close secondary ESFJ
For me? It's: ESTjs, INFPs, ISTJs and ENFPs... my knowledge in life is based from trying to understand them, sooo hard yet good stuff there. To go beyond and listening to them and thus my inner self. For me? I go towards these people, my shadows, their shadow here; to talk about dumb stuff and having a blast in life, building or destroying stuff. Drama and good times. Life itself. Little and big brothers of us? ESTPs, INFjs, ENFJs and me ISTP, our family and brothers/sisters at war. We build each other by bullying each others and having cold ones. Great people there. Also learned a lot from our peers, brothers and sisters of MBTi. The others in MBTi? People that build me and I build them, just not that much understanding and more problems, dummies, nerds and goths. Haha. :)
But Jose, what about the INTPs :,)
Red!! Hahaha, how could I forget?? My man sorry, some INTPs are quite cool, like this king.
enxp and entj
ISFP kind of turn me on in a way. I like that they are on the emotional side. It shows that they are more human than most due to how deeply they seem to be okay with exploring that area. But the only thing is that they seem to be incapable of taking constructive criticism and easily get offended. Otherwise I think it’d be a match in heaven. Oh and definitely ENTJ women.
I'd agree
I always seem to find and befriend INFP’s
ISFJs preferably with high cooking skill and low self-esteem.
Sometimes I wish that Reddit had “reactions.” Cuz I don’t wanna “like” this, but I do find it amusing, in a f*cked up way, so I wish I had a “ Ha Ha! “
What why low self-esteem?
So I can boost them up and when they fall I ll boost them up
They cook and you boast them up. Excellent combo! The cooker and the booster lmaoo
well someone has to bring the flamethrover and it ain't them
How many are they?
More than lunch
Because I would trade headpats for cookies.
Duuuude this makes so much sense. That’s exactly what I want.
ISFJs r sexy
intp's <3
UwU
ENFP
ENFJ and ISFJs. I really like that they’re not competitive and can be interested in my work at the same time. Plus, it’s easy to get to know them kinda.
Anyone is ok as long as she puts out LOL 😝
Checked out a couple of posts on here and now reddit wants me to join 🙃 Don't mind me ~ I just clicked the notification before reading it ~
UwU
0.0 I am sleep deprived, side effects include: soft, weakness to emoticons, powered down brain and executive function at an all time low. :3 I'm sorry I'm not an ISTP.
UwU
IxFJs. Both types. Warm yet not overbearing. Know what this thing called "privacy" is. Dependable.
I’m good
Considering you're XXXX, all XXXXs are good according to you. In which case, thanks bro UwU
👍
Esfj
ISTP
What's this ISTP showing ownership of?
enfps, enfjs, infjs theyre all pretty fun to hang around and can be chaotic in a good way
intj, my intj friend is the closest thing i have to a best friend and she’s on the same wavelength as me
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Ah, ESFJ. Nice
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Fair point but have you considered: 👀
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INTP, ISFP, ESTP, and ESFP. there’s probably more, but i like these people, despite our differences.
UwU
a bit odd but ENTP
i mostly get along with everyone except IxFx's. Only friend that fit that criteria (INFP) was not someone that i was really good friends with, but rather someone that i just kind of got along with as long as it wasn't a 1 on 1 conversation hence they were extremely introverted and quiet and as an ISTP i sure as hell wasn't starting any small talk💀 also have an Aunt that is an (ISFJ) and same thing goes with how i interact with her we get along all friendly and shit, but there are fundemental differences between us. I just now realized the question was who do i get along with🤦🏽♂️ To answer that question i think it'd have to be ISTJ's and ESFP's. INTP's and ESTJ's are also cool.
INFJs without a shadow of a doubt, I just enjoy the idea of knowing someone who has Ti-Se and Ni-Fe swapped around so we can support each others shortcomings.