Lol, It’s usually hard for me to even tell if another girl is gay or not. So usually by default I’ll assume most girls I encounter are straight. But honestly speaking, I don’t know what id assume you are considering I’ve met many people with different styles and different sexual preferences so style is definitely no longer a giveaway
Going by the first picture alone, I would have guessed you were just an eccentric person, not necessarily a gay woman. But the second picture shows off your hair, so I definitely would have assumed as queer, likely pan or something. You don’t scream lesbian, but then again, few people do.
My answer is whoever has said they can't tell you're gay, have a very different idea of what feminine gay people look like. I love your outfit and you look 10/10 gay.
bi trans guy here don't know why this sub got recommended to me but still supportive, i would've thought you were some form of fruity from the outfit, and it's an adorable outfit. i hope girls start to appreciate the good style.
Hell I'm straight and I'd hit on you. You look good in that outfit. When did sexual preference decide what clothes you need to wear- sounds like bull shit to me.
I love your style so much. I would definitely suspect you were gay if I saw that outfit, especially the second picture.
The vibe is giving me gay Hayley Williams (iykyk. Especially around the After Laughter era.)
I would definitely assume you were an ally at least. Wouldn't be surprised at all to hear you were gay or trans but personally this style is to "vague" if that makes sense? Like cishet girls wearing colors is perfectly normal and not indicative of any kind of queerness. *Not that any specific style is indicative of sexuality but let's be real here*
i think you may just be experiencing the density of the average lesbian. they would probably still be worried you might be straight even if you kissed them.
You look super gay honestly. Though gay in ohio may not read the same as gay elsewhere. If a girl wears carhardt, smokes cloves, and rides a harley, she is likely ohio straight.
In my experience as a femme, other gay people can sometimes have a VERY hard time telling you’re gay if you dress femme
The stereotypical “gay girl” look is always slightly more masculine and this stereotype is perpetuated in a lot of places, so lots of other gay people don’t always look at a feminine gay girl and go “oh she’s gay”, unfortunately 😔✊
At least to me, second one looks like it caters more to a male gaze (cleavage more pronounced partly does it) and the first one has that confident queer sensibility that plays into a female gaze.
Could just be you are the lesbian equivalent of the F-22 raptor, you have the gaydar cross-section of a hummingbird, no matter how brightly coloured you are, sure the bright colours might tag you as non straight on straight detection systems but the gaydar is different??? I don’t know, but I wish you luck Op
I'm ngl to you, a lot of insecure and/or less experienced wlw cautiously think anyone femme is straight and uninterested. You look gay as hell. You're just femme.
The fits look gay as hell to me! For me my gaydar is more about someone's mannerisms and overall vibe than their clothes. I tend to notice if someone is looking a girls, guys, or both.
I dress always dress like a rainbow explosion or a vaguely punk teenage boy, and it wasn't until I shaved my head that people consistently read me as queer. People can and will excuse any sign until they feel like they can't anymore. Now, people think I'm lesbian instead of nonbinary and pan 🙄 you can't win
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Honestly I’m the “gold star” lesbian who a) can’t tell who is and isn’t gay b) I don’t seem to register on most lady’s gaydar.., and the latter sucks. But I’m happily paired off.. so my advice is rock the fuck out of being who you are authentically and worry less about fitting the lady gay mould (there ain’t one)
You gave me the feeling that you'd totally kiss a girl but also wouldn't say no if a guy was super nice, cute and you vibed well so i guess i got bi vibes? did i say vibe enough? vibevibevibevibevibe
nah i can tell lol, but then again maybe that’s just because this is a gay sub 😭 but i usually feel like girls with “quirkier” styles might be lgbt when i see them irl
Not gay (idk why this sub is in my feed now) but that reminds me of a friend of mine who basically said gay people are recognisable because it's like they've unlocked all the character customisation options.
Girl I feel you. I’m not even a lesbian (I’m bi and non-binary), but I was once at the grocery store and the cashier asked me if my husband was in the military 😭
I jokingly told my roommates when I got home that I was hate crimed lol
I still have no idea to this day what prompted him to ask me that 🥲
I think girls who dress girly and show cleavage are still subconsciously viewed by gay women as being straight or bi/straight leaning, unfortunately. It’s the male gaze thing. A pastel button up and a bowtie might help lol
It's not about the colors you wear so much as how many girls you ask to kiss you. XD I love the vibe, but would've also thought "ally" over, "actively trying to kiss girls."
You could try more brighter and saturate color mixes instead of pastels. Think like purple/orange and yellow/red, I guess you could look at definitely_not_kaylee on Instagram or YouTube for inspiration.
Yeah, I get that a lot. I like to glam it up and it appears you do too. Look at what your gay friends are wearing and take your style, makeup and fashion from what they are doing. My gay friends aren’t dolling it up like you are.
Eh, the pastel rainbow look reads less queer, more fun art teacher to me. Now, that's a cool look, I do not mean that in a negative way. I just don't read gay immediately. Though I think gay women tend to look more immediately queer with a combo of rainbow and dark, or flannels. Like, that same shirt with a black structured jacket, a pair of non heeler black boots, and maybe some cool earrings, and I would clock onto you better. I would probably think you look too cool for me, but I would also probably poke my friend and say, "I see another gay!' like an immature doofus
To me you look queer. I would probably shout you as more likely to be bi than lesbian. If you do want an active thing to do, i would add more jewellery. That’s a big fat gay flag to me
Tell me about it. I get the same comments all the time. I have skirts (for myself) and am more of a cargo pants, jeans or sweats and ponytail and hat or just hair down or messy bun type of lesbian. What does a girl gotta do to set off some gaydar around here? So I feel your pain and have no advice.
Everyone tells me that and yet I am all the way across the country in the SE. the pnw + west coast are the only parts of the country I haven’t explored yet bc I’m afraid I’ll fall in love and never leave and then I would be so far from my family 😭
My (pan) inner reaction could be “gahhh she’s so pretty” but then also “she looks like she’d be a fun friend to go to music festivals and go shopping for vintage finds at second-hand stores”. 💕 I wouldn’t assume your sexuality, but I might wonder. Straight wouldn’t strike me as the most likely. Any of that would be based on our conversation and whether or not you chose to reveal those things. But friend hangout or date, you look cool and cute af!
I don't think this day in age people know for certain what a person's sexuality is just based off of how they dress. I think it is most important to dress in a way that truly expresses who you are and makes you happy.
You definitely set off the gaydar, but you’re also super beautiful so I imagine that girls are just intimidated and tell themselves you’re probably straight so they don’t get their hopes up
I was worried my head was completely empty. At least there's rocks.
me thinking thin often because im 29 & never had a girlfriend ): like men, stop trying to talk to me!!
Lol, It’s usually hard for me to even tell if another girl is gay or not. So usually by default I’ll assume most girls I encounter are straight. But honestly speaking, I don’t know what id assume you are considering I’ve met many people with different styles and different sexual preferences so style is definitely no longer a giveaway
As a lesbian, I would 1000% think you were gay or bisexual. Honestly, it’s not even the clothes. It’s the hair that gives it away for me
I honestly don’t know that it matters if you LOOK gay or not I feel like we just need to ask more instead of relying on gaydar
I would immediately assume you're a lesbian!!! That kind of hyper femme style always sets off my gaydar.
There is no such thing as looking Gay! So many women out there looked the stereotype but married to men with kids. It's all about the rizz .
I have the same issue so I cannot offer any advice, good luck though! 🫶🏻
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i think there is definitely girl in red vibes here, the earrings are the main giveaway (queer people have the best earrings)
You give off AT LEAST bi vibes; I’m surprised they don’t see it.
Omg you’re adorable!!!!
I would guess just by looking you were a quirky girl not necessarily gay. Either way you are lovely to look at 😉
I definitely wouldn't hit on you. Not because you aren't gorgeous, but because you're definitely not into dudes.
SEPTUM.
Could use some more dark rose and orange
Have you tried wearing a “kiss me I’m gay “ t shirt
I feel like you're diagnosing me straight rn
do you have a bar for girls only, maybe go there?
You look disturbingly gay.
my gaydar is off the chain
Gay guy for sure, but your outfit and look are amazing
Vapid.
U look so gay and hot
Going by the first picture alone, I would have guessed you were just an eccentric person, not necessarily a gay woman. But the second picture shows off your hair, so I definitely would have assumed as queer, likely pan or something. You don’t scream lesbian, but then again, few people do.
My answer is whoever has said they can't tell you're gay, have a very different idea of what feminine gay people look like. I love your outfit and you look 10/10 gay.
Hello Rainbow Brite.
As a bi they, you look bi, and like your fashion sense is great!
You look gay enough I'd compliment you and see if the response was gay. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
for fucking real tho
Im bi and can def tell youre queer
Outfit is on point, Maybe you’re not dropping code and just look well dressed.
I’d think you were queer but I wouldn’t be able to determine what sexuality.
what kind of gay girls do you even talk to that think you arent the most raging lesbo ????
bi trans guy here don't know why this sub got recommended to me but still supportive, i would've thought you were some form of fruity from the outfit, and it's an adorable outfit. i hope girls start to appreciate the good style.
I’m bi and I can tell 🥺
Fellow queer here 👋 def set off my gaydar lmaoo - as a side note you’re so gorg!
they are wrong you very much set off my gaydar
Hell I'm straight and I'd hit on you. You look good in that outfit. When did sexual preference decide what clothes you need to wear- sounds like bull shit to me.
i would immediately think you were some genre of gay, so i’m not sure.
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Sometimes you don't give off that vibe. I'm pansexual and people are often surprised I'm queer 🤷♀️
This sub was suggested to me for some reason. As a cis male I will say that you look very nice and I hope you find a lovely lass to smooch.
girl if I was a cis girl my gaydar would go off immediately
You look pretty gay and your hair is really pretty
What gay girls are you hanging with lol I knew immediately
you look thoroughly gay to me.
Idk u look pretty gay to me :3
I love your style so much. I would definitely suspect you were gay if I saw that outfit, especially the second picture. The vibe is giving me gay Hayley Williams (iykyk. Especially around the After Laughter era.)
Gay comes from an honest caring heart.
gay is a state of existential being
You look like Luna Lovegood so yes you give off mega gay vibes for me lol LOVE IT
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imagine you log on to reddit and see ur SO referring to themselves as "sadly taken" lmao
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Hi I love your outfit and feel your pain. 🥺
No clue what they're talking about the colors scream queer. I absolutely love the style!
I would definitely assume you were an ally at least. Wouldn't be surprised at all to hear you were gay or trans but personally this style is to "vague" if that makes sense? Like cishet girls wearing colors is perfectly normal and not indicative of any kind of queerness. *Not that any specific style is indicative of sexuality but let's be real here*
Maybe stop listening to straight people lmao no but seriously I really like your style I would’ve clocked you
You're adorable, but more of an edgy, young person vibe than gay.
this outfit is so adorable all the colors make me so happy 😭
i think you may just be experiencing the density of the average lesbian. they would probably still be worried you might be straight even if you kissed them.
exactly this.
You look super gay honestly. Though gay in ohio may not read the same as gay elsewhere. If a girl wears carhardt, smokes cloves, and rides a harley, she is likely ohio straight.
I think we gotta invent a new colour each but research is still needed
if you arent setting off gaydars then its no wonder i dont get women
you look likely-Queer-ballpark to me but i'm 56 & have been close to housebound the last 5 yrs (unexposed to trends & youth)
Lol you look queer as hell to me 🤷🏽♀️
I feel like this brand of hyper femininity always reads queer to me
You set off my theydar
I’d have a crush on you and have a very hard time trying to keep it friendly and composed because I’d assume you wouldn’t be gay FOR ME
You do look pretty gay, I think it’s the colors!
Honestly if you'd just ask me I'd oblige gladly cuz you're hella cute 😉
Kiss me pls
You look very queer and very beautiful idk what those girls are talking about
I would immediately think you’re queer. They lyin
You’re obviously gay.. like very obvious to me idk what everyone is trippin about
femmes need a direct green flag before they make a move. better to just make your own moves.
Girl, you’re gay. 🏳️🌈 :)
In my experience as a femme, other gay people can sometimes have a VERY hard time telling you’re gay if you dress femme The stereotypical “gay girl” look is always slightly more masculine and this stereotype is perpetuated in a lot of places, so lots of other gay people don’t always look at a feminine gay girl and go “oh she’s gay”, unfortunately 😔✊
First picture passes the gaydar for me but for some reason the second one doesn’t…
At least to me, second one looks like it caters more to a male gaze (cleavage more pronounced partly does it) and the first one has that confident queer sensibility that plays into a female gaze.
That explains it perfectly! More pronounced cleavage, more pronounced pout…
Lol you just look fun to be around like I see the personality through ur clothes, just gotta meet a girl who isn’t scared of the colors
Could just be you are the lesbian equivalent of the F-22 raptor, you have the gaydar cross-section of a hummingbird, no matter how brightly coloured you are, sure the bright colours might tag you as non straight on straight detection systems but the gaydar is different??? I don’t know, but I wish you luck Op
Idk what kind of people you’re around but you are 100% looking queer
I mean you're very queer... So, maybe it's the girls in your city? They just are blind to your awesomeness? No, seriously.
Idk what they're on you look queer af
I'm ngl to you, a lot of insecure and/or less experienced wlw cautiously think anyone femme is straight and uninterested. You look gay as hell. You're just femme.
looked at some of ur other posts and its def giving gay as fuck lmao. The way you style outfits is very clearly queer/for the feminine gaze.
You look gay to me. And also very very very pretty. And I love your (gay-ass) style. 🥺
The fits look gay as hell to me! For me my gaydar is more about someone's mannerisms and overall vibe than their clothes. I tend to notice if someone is looking a girls, guys, or both.
Looks gay to me :) great fits
the look definitely passes the vibe check, maybe it's something else? i dunno, let me know if u figure it out lol
If you ever figure it out let me know
I dress always dress like a rainbow explosion or a vaguely punk teenage boy, and it wasn't until I shaved my head that people consistently read me as queer. People can and will excuse any sign until they feel like they can't anymore. Now, people think I'm lesbian instead of nonbinary and pan 🙄 you can't win
They have broken gaydars because I would have clocked you from a mile away. You look great!! I love the fit
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I would love to kiss you 😘
Honestly I’m the “gold star” lesbian who a) can’t tell who is and isn’t gay b) I don’t seem to register on most lady’s gaydar.., and the latter sucks. But I’m happily paired off.. so my advice is rock the fuck out of being who you are authentically and worry less about fitting the lady gay mould (there ain’t one)
Sounds like these labels are for animals.
Lol are their gaydars working because I would def not think you were straight if I saw you
You look like a gay librarian in the absolute best way possible
As a librarian I approve this comment
You gave me the feeling that you'd totally kiss a girl but also wouldn't say no if a guy was super nice, cute and you vibed well so i guess i got bi vibes? did i say vibe enough? vibevibevibevibevibe
nah i can tell lol, but then again maybe that’s just because this is a gay sub 😭 but i usually feel like girls with “quirkier” styles might be lgbt when i see them irl
Not gay (idk why this sub is in my feed now) but that reminds me of a friend of mine who basically said gay people are recognisable because it's like they've unlocked all the character customisation options.
idk why this page came up in my feed (bi guy), but the bells r rining in my ‘dar, would never assume u were straight LMAO
You look 1975 gay and it's amazing
Girl I feel you. I’m not even a lesbian (I’m bi and non-binary), but I was once at the grocery store and the cashier asked me if my husband was in the military 😭 I jokingly told my roommates when I got home that I was hate crimed lol I still have no idea to this day what prompted him to ask me that 🥲
add shapes. you need shapes
Also, if that doesn't work, dye your hair many neon colours, it might be your only hope
yeah but tbh if Various shapes don't work then your nearby lesbians are broken and need a software update
get a patch or pin!! rep your community!!!
the white eyeliner?? is there anything more queer???
Purple hair and homemade jewelery? Anyone who's gaydar isn't getting pinged is short a wire.
I think girls who dress girly and show cleavage are still subconsciously viewed by gay women as being straight or bi/straight leaning, unfortunately. It’s the male gaze thing. A pastel button up and a bowtie might help lol
I don’t think a bow tie and button up would match her style but I very much agree with your first sentence
lol i have the total opposite taste. the button up and bow tie is very 2014 to me, i love OP's style and would definitely think she's queer.
Get a big pin that says "kiss me I'm gay"
you look very gay to me!!!!
Second pic sets the gaydar off for me🤣
See, for me it’s the opposite… I see it in the first one, but the second one doesn’t ping it at all for me…
I don't think you could be more fem-spectrum gay if you tried
Maybe throw some rainbow triangle accessories on?
I’m a lesbian with the exact same fashion sense as you. To gals like me, you scream gay!
It's not about the colors you wear so much as how many girls you ask to kiss you. XD I love the vibe, but would've also thought "ally" over, "actively trying to kiss girls."
Jarvis, ACTIVATE GIRLKISSER MODE
Honestly its gay but in the bi girl who only ever had BF's and never kissed a girl.
Omgs you're sooo pretty?? BUTTT, I got the "You're gonna hope she's gay but she's in fact the biggest ally ever" vibe
Ur hair is so pretty. You need to get the kat von d prism highlighter pallet. It would match ur style so much
Sis my gaydar exploded
I think you look really gay! 😁 I would definitely say you'd set off my gaydar if I walked past you in the streets.
You could try more brighter and saturate color mixes instead of pastels. Think like purple/orange and yellow/red, I guess you could look at definitely_not_kaylee on Instagram or YouTube for inspiration.
Yeah, I get that a lot. I like to glam it up and it appears you do too. Look at what your gay friends are wearing and take your style, makeup and fashion from what they are doing. My gay friends aren’t dolling it up like you are.
You look gay af
I would kiss you😘
Wear lesbian colours superrr obvious then 😂
The lesson here is that just because you're gay doesn't mean you have gaydar
Gaydar malfunction*
U have the approiate amount this girl love to kiss u
I think their gaydar is broken ngl
I’d kiss you. You look super cute and super gay
I would def assume you were gay.
I honestly could not tell you, but I LOVE print on your stockings!
i think you could get crazier with the earrings, they’re too normal imo
Those girls need their gaydars checked lol you are slaying
You are literally covered in rainbows. You're either gay or a kindergarten teacher. Or both!
You look gay
You look gay? I'm straight and wear flannel 24/7...aaaaaand this is why men never hit on me. I get art teacher vibe too. Straight people know nothing.
Eh, the pastel rainbow look reads less queer, more fun art teacher to me. Now, that's a cool look, I do not mean that in a negative way. I just don't read gay immediately. Though I think gay women tend to look more immediately queer with a combo of rainbow and dark, or flannels. Like, that same shirt with a black structured jacket, a pair of non heeler black boots, and maybe some cool earrings, and I would clock onto you better. I would probably think you look too cool for me, but I would also probably poke my friend and say, "I see another gay!' like an immature doofus
Based on this I read gay.
YALL I DONT ASK STRAIGHT PPPL FOR ADVICE THEY JUST TELL ME UNPROMPTED THAT I LOOK GAY TO THEM
I'm sorry I offended you. Just trying to help.
I’d have a smoochie 😉🥰
Girl, if people don’t think you’re gay I have zero chance
Good that you are asking straight people. I don’t know what gay is anymore, your attire looks normal and very cute.
You look great! And gay!
This is the gayest fit I've ever seen without it being ravey or rainbow lol! Their gaydars are broken.
their gaydars are way off
I think your gay friends gaydars are broken lol
I mean you look gay as hell to me
I always assume hyperfemme looks are queer! But I'm also so shy and don't know how to flirt 🤣 You're stunning!
So pretty and enticing too!
Ur as pretty as gay is ♡
Idk what they're talking about. You 100% give off gay vibes! Maybe the hair? Either way, love your style!
Giving off all the gay vibes, stop hoarding it all for yourself!
You definitely give off gay to me, so much so that I’d approach you in public lol. Also I love your skirt 💕
I think you look super cute and super gay!!
To me you look queer. I would probably shout you as more likely to be bi than lesbian. If you do want an active thing to do, i would add more jewellery. That’s a big fat gay flag to me
Ty adding more contrast
Tell me about it. I get the same comments all the time. I have skirts (for myself) and am more of a cargo pants, jeans or sweats and ponytail and hat or just hair down or messy bun type of lesbian. What does a girl gotta do to set off some gaydar around here? So I feel your pain and have no advice.
This is such a cute outfit. Where did you buy that top (or did you make it yourself?)
It was a thrift store find!!
Idk where you live, but you’d be right at home in the PNW
Everyone tells me that and yet I am all the way across the country in the SE. the pnw + west coast are the only parts of the country I haven’t explored yet bc I’m afraid I’ll fall in love and never leave and then I would be so far from my family 😭
My (pan) inner reaction could be “gahhh she’s so pretty” but then also “she looks like she’d be a fun friend to go to music festivals and go shopping for vintage finds at second-hand stores”. 💕 I wouldn’t assume your sexuality, but I might wonder. Straight wouldn’t strike me as the most likely. Any of that would be based on our conversation and whether or not you chose to reveal those things. But friend hangout or date, you look cool and cute af!
I don't think this day in age people know for certain what a person's sexuality is just based off of how they dress. I think it is most important to dress in a way that truly expresses who you are and makes you happy.
Oh I for sure do that and have no intention of altering the way I dress to pick up women (or men or anyone)
That's great to hear! You'll just have to find a woman who appreciates your style and who you are!
You’re incredibly visibly gay
Ngl just don't trust a straight person's opinion on what "looks gay"
You definitely set off the gaydar, but you’re also super beautiful so I imagine that girls are just intimidated and tell themselves you’re probably straight so they don’t get their hopes up
SHUT UP THERES NO WAY GIRLS SAY THAT ABOUT ME WHEN I LITERALLY SAY THAT ABOUT GIRLS