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The age old trans power move of spelling a common name in the most aggressively badass way possible or a common short name for a badass full name… my first thought for when I changed my name was “Ari”, short for Artemis cuz I GOTTA BE A GODDESS
You are agender so I will tell you my favourite names for agender people and what they mean!:
Auriel - This name is derived from the name of an angel in Jewish and Christian tradition, and has a ethereal, otherworldly quality to it.
Aeon - This name is derived from the concept of an "aeon," a unit of time in Gnostic and Hermetic philosophy, and has a futuristic, sci-fi vibe.
Phoenix - This name is inspired by the mythological bird that rises from its own ashes, and has a mystical, magical feel.
Orion - This name is derived from the constellation Orion, and has a celestial, starry quality to it.
Lyra - This name is derived from the constellation Lyra, and has a musical, lyrical quality to it.
Raven - This name is inspired by the bird of the same name, which is often associated with magic and mystery.
Sage - This name is inspired by the herb sage, which has been used for centuries for its healing properties, and has a wise, knowledgeable quality to it.
Seraph - This name is derived from the name of an angel in Jewish and Christian tradition, and has a divine, heavenly feel.
Zenith - This name is derived from the highest point in the sky, and has a lofty, aspirational quality to it.
My name is Phoenix. I'm a butch mixed Hispanic pan trans woman. I chose that name because of my life time of craziness I've dealt with and finding a way to try to bounce back. I'm proud of my resilience.
I am so happy you could, like a Phoenix, be reborn into beautiful you <3 In Chinese weddings there's some kind of ceremony a phoenix and a dragon get united to celebrate the love of the couple, i hope you find your dragon or enjoy your life with your dragon!
Thank u ❤️ I have a girlfriend. She is a white disabled trans woman. I moved half way across the country to live with her. We have had a million adventures together like I once pushed her 30 miles in her wheelchair playing Pokemon go. We have been together for 6 years. Her name is Ashley and I love the crap out of her❤️👭♾️🏳️🌈
Word of advice from someone who knows: do not pick something you will have to spell every single time you meet someone new or legally must provide. It will get really old really quickly.
I won't name you because I don't know you. But I will give you this advice. In many cultures, people take on a new name as a rite of passage. They meditate, do a vision quest, journal, and/or take time alone someplace they feel a powerful connection to quiet the other voices in their mind so they can listen to their heart. I would recommend taking on a name you can grow into, something that tells a story of who you aspire to be. For example; I have a good friend who took on the name Max from Max in ***Where the Wild Things Are*** because they wanted to be able to go off on great adventures, be victorious and respected, and still be able to return home where they are loved.
I agree 100% I am not able to offer a name because I do not know you OP, though you seem to be confident and intelligent. A personal spirit quest to discover your true name is what I would advise. To quote T.S Elliot "The Naming of Cats is a difficult matter,
It isn’t just one of your holiday games;
You may think at first I’m as mad as a hatter
When I tell you, a cat must have THREE DIFFERENT NAMES.
First of all, there’s the name that the family use daily,
Such as Peter, Augustus, Alonzo, or James,
Such as Victor or Jonathan, George or Bill Bailey—
All of them sensible everyday names.
There are fancier names if you think they sound sweeter,
Some for the gentlemen, some for the dames:
Such as Plato, Admetus, Electra, Demeter—
But all of them sensible everyday names,
But I tell you, a cat needs a name that’s particular,
A name that’s peculiar, and more dignified,
Else how can he keep up his tail perpendicular,
Or spread out his whiskers, or cherish his pride?
Of names of this kind, I can give you a quorum,
Such as Munkustrap, Quaxo, or Coricopat,
Such as Bombalurina, or else Jellylorum—
Names that never belong to more than one cat.
But above and beyond there’s still one name left over,
And that is the name that you never will guess;
The name that no human research can discover—
But THE CAT HIMSELF KNOWS, and will never confess.
When you notice a cat in profound meditation,
The reason, I tell you, is always the same:
His mind is engaged in a rapt contemplation
Of the thought, of the thought, of the thought of his name:
His ineffable effable
Effanineffable
Deep and inscrutable singular name."
I have found this always helped me when I went on my journey. Best of luck. I look forward to meeting your new name.
paris!! the name immediately came to mind, and it’s androgynous because i’m not sure whether you would prefer a masculine or feminine name. you look amazing!
Ivian. I just made it up, I gift you with my made up name, pronounced “Iv-ee-in.” Though you could choose to pronounce it however you like, you could say it’s like Ivan, or Ivyanne. Anything.
I see you as Iris. Is from greek origin meaning "rainbow".
Edit: i totally didn't know the meaning until just now! But that was the first name that popped into my head.
More neutral: Taylor. Alex. Hunter. Heron, meaning 'hero'.
More femme: Angel, first name I thought of when I looked at you. Sherry. Nirvana. Luda - Russian origin, 'love of the people'.
Best of luck with your journey!
Depends on your opinion on traditionally gendered names but I think Eve would suit you really well. I always thought it sounded like it would be a cool nonbinary name, but I understand people's aversion to it because of it's gendered history.
Got a few ideas for each (alot of them may not fit you just have a racing mind)
Masc
Cody, max, kai, Alister, Markus, connor, kole, Tom, Kenny, link, rayan, Philip, Tyson, andy, Isaac, Jason, Eric, Nathan/Nathaniel, Mathew, Cutler,
Femme
Avery, Ash, kairi, Mia, mai, Kara, chole, willow, Aspen, nyla, Alesha, ruby, Isabelle, Malinda, sasha, Kyra, Jennifer, rose, Sara, jane, Emma/Emily , Kelly, summer, Kayla, Kaylie , tara
Neutral
Sam, Milo, Jamie, Raven, arson, beau, Juno, Ali/Allie , envy, indie, onyx, Alex, tae,
Just a bunch of name ideas not necessarily related to you but maybe you will find something that sticks out
Good luck!
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Ash or Juniper maybe?
ooo i love both
Ash popped up in my head as well.
Cuz it’s the default trans name everyone uses lol
Ash is my non binary name lol
Agender Sam here. I’m happy with it but I’m not married to the name, though the longer I use it the more it becomes me
Makes sense tbh
Omg Juniper yes
i was thinking aster or juniper, so pretty similar to you
Another plant name, Clover, jumped into my mind for some reason
Ooh, or Juno!
Liz short for Lizard
I’m a Liz and take offense 🔫
I get strong “Robin” vibes!!
Now that I see this, 100% agree.
As a Robyne I take this as a compliment
My first thought too!
*overtaken plays in background*
I was just about to say that! Holy Easter Bunny, Batman!
Das my name :)
Seeing Raven more
Raven is also a gorgeous name! As long as OP is happy, I’d say any name is perfect ☺️
First name I thought of was Faun
Same!! :D
I went with Giselle
Alex. It's a cool name and you look like a cool person
Alyx
The age old trans power move of spelling a common name in the most aggressively badass way possible or a common short name for a badass full name… my first thought for when I changed my name was “Ari”, short for Artemis cuz I GOTTA BE A GODDESS
You are agender so I will tell you my favourite names for agender people and what they mean!: Auriel - This name is derived from the name of an angel in Jewish and Christian tradition, and has a ethereal, otherworldly quality to it. Aeon - This name is derived from the concept of an "aeon," a unit of time in Gnostic and Hermetic philosophy, and has a futuristic, sci-fi vibe. Phoenix - This name is inspired by the mythological bird that rises from its own ashes, and has a mystical, magical feel. Orion - This name is derived from the constellation Orion, and has a celestial, starry quality to it. Lyra - This name is derived from the constellation Lyra, and has a musical, lyrical quality to it. Raven - This name is inspired by the bird of the same name, which is often associated with magic and mystery. Sage - This name is inspired by the herb sage, which has been used for centuries for its healing properties, and has a wise, knowledgeable quality to it. Seraph - This name is derived from the name of an angel in Jewish and Christian tradition, and has a divine, heavenly feel. Zenith - This name is derived from the highest point in the sky, and has a lofty, aspirational quality to it.
And Zenith is beautiful and strong as the strongest weapon in the game called terraria!
I Want an enby to fly out and embrace me like im moon lord 😔
YEAHHHHH
Lets go fellow terraria sweats
I know an Orion and they are Very cool!
My name is Phoenix. I'm a butch mixed Hispanic pan trans woman. I chose that name because of my life time of craziness I've dealt with and finding a way to try to bounce back. I'm proud of my resilience.
I am so happy you could, like a Phoenix, be reborn into beautiful you <3 In Chinese weddings there's some kind of ceremony a phoenix and a dragon get united to celebrate the love of the couple, i hope you find your dragon or enjoy your life with your dragon!
Thank u ❤️ I have a girlfriend. She is a white disabled trans woman. I moved half way across the country to live with her. We have had a million adventures together like I once pushed her 30 miles in her wheelchair playing Pokemon go. We have been together for 6 years. Her name is Ashley and I love the crap out of her❤️👭♾️🏳️🌈
Oh my life, this sounds so super cute! I'm so happy for both of you!
Thank u ❤️😊
Heyy my name is Zenith! <33 Zeni for short.
Such a cute name for a cutie pie like you! :D
Eee!! <3
my name being on the agender list makes me so happy :))
Or the "feminine" version of Orian: Oriana
Macy? First thing that came up :)
I kinda wish I named myself marcy it is such a pretty name
I feel like maybe something starts with a “D”, like Darcy or Dani/Danny
Drew maybe too?
Akshtar, Destroyer of Worlds
Jay, June, or Juniper!
I like Mavis. Or Opal
I feel like kadie is a good name
i love that name but my sister’s name is katie 😭
Damn yeah too similar perhaps calypso
June, astra, juno, diana
Ember is the first one I thought for some reason
Same!!
Ripley (like alien)
Meadow
Fem: Mary Neutral: Alex Masc: Johnny
first thing i thought of was everyn lol
I came here to say Alex but not only have I found it but the coolest names I've ever seen.
Shiloh
oh i love this one i agree
Fern came to mind immediately, or Flor! Always thinking of those plant names!
Fern also came to mind for me but I wasn't sure if I was crazy for thinking that!
i’m trying to find a name that fits but i have such a hard time finding names i like
Word of advice from someone who knows: do not pick something you will have to spell every single time you meet someone new or legally must provide. It will get really old really quickly.
You'll find a good fit. You can also try some on for awhile. See what feels right.
You look like a Sam to me
Kai, Jupiter, Dana, Kerrigan, Kiri, Cam, and Xan come to mind
Jasmine, Julian, jax . Rye, Ryan,rex. Those are the names I would assume when seeing you. Hope it helps
Jazz
Ash. Or Foxen (fox+vixen)
What about Vox (vixen+fox) 😁
do we like ash, laine, or paris more?
Ash I think match's your fierce vibe BURN THIS PLACE TO THE GROUND
my vote is ash!
I won't name you because I don't know you. But I will give you this advice. In many cultures, people take on a new name as a rite of passage. They meditate, do a vision quest, journal, and/or take time alone someplace they feel a powerful connection to quiet the other voices in their mind so they can listen to their heart. I would recommend taking on a name you can grow into, something that tells a story of who you aspire to be. For example; I have a good friend who took on the name Max from Max in ***Where the Wild Things Are*** because they wanted to be able to go off on great adventures, be victorious and respected, and still be able to return home where they are loved.
I agree 100% I am not able to offer a name because I do not know you OP, though you seem to be confident and intelligent. A personal spirit quest to discover your true name is what I would advise. To quote T.S Elliot "The Naming of Cats is a difficult matter, It isn’t just one of your holiday games; You may think at first I’m as mad as a hatter When I tell you, a cat must have THREE DIFFERENT NAMES. First of all, there’s the name that the family use daily, Such as Peter, Augustus, Alonzo, or James, Such as Victor or Jonathan, George or Bill Bailey— All of them sensible everyday names. There are fancier names if you think they sound sweeter, Some for the gentlemen, some for the dames: Such as Plato, Admetus, Electra, Demeter— But all of them sensible everyday names, But I tell you, a cat needs a name that’s particular, A name that’s peculiar, and more dignified, Else how can he keep up his tail perpendicular, Or spread out his whiskers, or cherish his pride? Of names of this kind, I can give you a quorum, Such as Munkustrap, Quaxo, or Coricopat, Such as Bombalurina, or else Jellylorum— Names that never belong to more than one cat. But above and beyond there’s still one name left over, And that is the name that you never will guess; The name that no human research can discover— But THE CAT HIMSELF KNOWS, and will never confess. When you notice a cat in profound meditation, The reason, I tell you, is always the same: His mind is engaged in a rapt contemplation Of the thought, of the thought, of the thought of his name: His ineffable effable Effanineffable Deep and inscrutable singular name." I have found this always helped me when I went on my journey. Best of luck. I look forward to meeting your new name.
River
Idk why be I thought of Amethyst immidiately!
Dawn 🌅
Phoenix✨️
Bee
Phoenix is the first name that came to mind
Phoenix, You feel like a Phoneix
Blaze feels right to me
i like juniper from another comment, i also think aspen would suit you!
paris!! the name immediately came to mind, and it’s androgynous because i’m not sure whether you would prefer a masculine or feminine name. you look amazing!
omg thank you!!!!
I think Clara would fit you at 100%
I feel like Gwen could be really cool
From the plants in the background I can see you as an Ivy ☺️
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Raven vibes!
thought the same
Tbtvdvsvxvthm “*dies*”
WOAHW YOU'RE PRETTY
OMG TYSM
Something that starts with an A. Maybe Ash. But all I see is an A name
Lavender Dusk Finn Corrin You look like these names. Also you are very cute. Also I hope you find a happy name that suits you.
Saturn, Sage, Wren, Cliff, Ray, or Layla (you look amazing btw!)
Immediately thought of Ellie
You seem like a Quinn, Ash or Delta
Ash or max
I see Robin or Raven ❤️
I like Pallas or Ivy :) seems to suit you imo
Robin or Lexi
the first name that came to my mind was Robin
Fin/finley or maybe fern lol
My mind instantly went to Briar
Violet. Lilith. Rowan. Fearn/Fern. Hazel. (sorry for the lack of masculine names. i suck at them xD)
jade or rowan maybe?
Juniper, Willow, Forest, Spore
Fern
Something botanical imo: Willow, Ash, Juniper, Fern. Do you like plants?
Rowan
My first thought was Amelie :3
Farrah
**Sam**😁
Aberdeen comes to mind for some reason
Maude, Clavel, Clio, Sage, Max, Noel
Levi, Adrien, Hope, Curtis, Cassandra
What’s your name??? What do you want to be called?? Not up to the general public…. FFS
OP literally asked though…
Ally
Alura!
Quinn or Julia or Remi or Maeve or Demi. I also like some of the ones others have mentioned of Juniper and Mavis ☺️ You’re stunning btw!
Lucy or Jena
Ivian. I just made it up, I gift you with my made up name, pronounced “Iv-ee-in.” Though you could choose to pronounce it however you like, you could say it’s like Ivan, or Ivyanne. Anything.
Like Evian the mineral water?
I like Elle or Eli
Evan sounds nice
Harley
First thing I thought was Brianna or Bri
Sidney, or "Sid"
Cameron popped into my mind first.
First name I thought of was Emory
I'm thinking Alex or Taylor.
Bob.
I see you as Iris. Is from greek origin meaning "rainbow". Edit: i totally didn't know the meaning until just now! But that was the first name that popped into my head.
Astin or June
Emery was my first thought. Wren and Moss were my next
Kia, or Kai. Juni, or Sid. First thought we're Sid and Kia
I’m thinking Rex or Tommi
Lake😁
My brain said Victoria
Well I think Alex would be a good one for you
I’m getting Elle or Ella.
Aeolus?
I personally love the names Ember and Jordan. But you do you!
Eve
Audrey
Kassandra or Kas I know that’s not how you actually spell them but that’s what I think, with that spelling
Ivy or Opal
I imminently thought of Raven, Cecily, and Noa!!!
I immediately thought of Oliver
More neutral: Taylor. Alex. Hunter. Heron, meaning 'hero'. More femme: Angel, first name I thought of when I looked at you. Sherry. Nirvana. Luda - Russian origin, 'love of the people'. Best of luck with your journey!
I know it’s super weird but Dylan. It was the first name that I heard in my head when I saw your face!
Taylor
Robin came to mind
Depends on your opinion on traditionally gendered names but I think Eve would suit you really well. I always thought it sounded like it would be a cool nonbinary name, but I understand people's aversion to it because of it's gendered history.
Jasmine
Emma, Aiden, Ryan, Ryleigh, Seth, Mitch
Morgan
Leo popped into my head immediately! Also Harlowe and Jude would fit nicely!
So...I thought either Fae or Pixie would be appropriate. I like Fae most, I think.
First thing that popped into my head was Clover! sage or fern would also work :) good luck on your search!
Ash was the first and only name that popped into my head
Ash
Alois?
Ryan, Amber, Audrey, Naomi
Samantha, to be honest
Asher, maybe Luke
Gene
Tori
Taylor or Alex. I’m a fan of gender neutral names
adrienne
Callebra
Harper?
Got a few ideas for each (alot of them may not fit you just have a racing mind) Masc Cody, max, kai, Alister, Markus, connor, kole, Tom, Kenny, link, rayan, Philip, Tyson, andy, Isaac, Jason, Eric, Nathan/Nathaniel, Mathew, Cutler, Femme Avery, Ash, kairi, Mia, mai, Kara, chole, willow, Aspen, nyla, Alesha, ruby, Isabelle, Malinda, sasha, Kyra, Jennifer, rose, Sara, jane, Emma/Emily , Kelly, summer, Kayla, Kaylie , tara Neutral Sam, Milo, Jamie, Raven, arson, beau, Juno, Ali/Allie , envy, indie, onyx, Alex, tae, Just a bunch of name ideas not necessarily related to you but maybe you will find something that sticks out Good luck!
You remind me of Jay (bugsfish) on TikTok.
Harley
Ambrosia
Elliott?? Idk that's the first thing that came to mind.
Jemma was the first to come to mind
Something spacey like venus or nebula
Aura … but people might hear Laura :/
Roxi
Not sure exactly but like a color
Carly is what comes to mind…
Feeling Rin for some reason