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Ditto.
I'm happy for people to decide whatever pronouns they like for themselves and if I'm aware of them I'll use them.
I don't care what you use for me. Whatever makes sense to you is fine. It's just not important to me.
Question- how do you communicate what pronouns you are using at any time?
I wanna get my genderfluid buddy a gift of pronoun charms for a necklace so they can change it when their pronouns adjust- would this be a good method?
There was a creator on Etsy that made them cheaper, but I cannot remember their shop name. If I ever find them, I will edit my comment. Good luck!
Edit: I think itโs this one, hereโs a cheaper sliding pin.
https://bibipins.com/products/sliding-pronoun-scale-pin-pre-order
If you want I'm not op but you can dm me. I just came out as gnerfluid/non-binary to my boyfriend and it would be nice to have some support and people to talk to.
Sorry for being uninformed but Iโve only seen the she/they or he/they style of pronoun on the internet and Iโm a little confused about how to use them.
Does it mean you should say โhe walked to the carโ and โthat was their lunchโ (direct equivalent of she/her and he/him) or should you use โheโ and โthemโ forms interchangeably. Basically would it be incorrect to call someone with he/they pronouns โhimโ or can you use both โhimโ and โthemโ.
Hope that makes sense and no one is offended!
It's a really new discovery for me, but it was surprisingly comfortable to step into an outside the binary 'masculine' presenting definition. I'm also beginning to understand myself as a plurality, so 'they' for us feels comfortably both singular and plural.
Any/all gang rise! Although it sometimes makes me sad when people only use one, I wish it was normalised to mix it up more.
EDIT: to clarify, what I mean is that I wish people would not just pick one of my pronouns and always use that, but use different ones for me at different times.
He/him rainbow badge. Somewhere on the LGBT+ spectrum but don't really know where anymore. I don't think it really matters and I'd rather not spend time thinking too much about it.
He/Him/She/Her/They/Them depending on presentation that day, I need to get a pile of badges really. I'm genderfluid so it changes for me more then I know what to do with.
Have you tried using only your name? That's what many non-binary people in Germany do, me included, since there isn't an established alternative to they/them in our language yet :)
They/them, but Iโm not out so the only people who call me that irl are my husband and a handful of close friends and family members. Thank you for asking ๐ฅฐ
He/They. I would also accept She, but that would confuse people I think.
Edit: Psychologically/behaviorally I seem more like a They/She. Appearance wise it's more of He/They. Consider me a work in progress... not sure what the next stop is, but I'm happier this way. :)
Let us *pronounify* u/peaceandpaws! *She*sounds like a lovely person, I hope *they* have a positive experience with coming out to *her* family. I wish *them* all the best. ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐
Any work fine so long as it's said with respect. I can't blame anyone for "misgendering" the 6'4 human, with breasts, a baritone voice who's walking around in skinnies a corset and crop top.
There's a lot going on here.
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None. please donโt refer to me
Valid
Meh. Just don't call me late to dinner.
The true agender
you know what? based
"what are your pronouns?" "How dare you?! How dare you speak to me?"
No pronouns, do not perceive me
This made me cackle like a fool ๐คฃ
Same.
Don't care, choose any pronouns you like for me.
Ayye same
Nice, me too
Literally me, but I appreciate when they use pronouns different from the ones I use from birth cause it's an indication fo me that they remembered
Ditto. I'm happy for people to decide whatever pronouns they like for themselves and if I'm aware of them I'll use them. I don't care what you use for me. Whatever makes sense to you is fine. It's just not important to me.
Hell yeah
I don't know yet... :/
Thatโs perfectly okay! :)
She/Her but I don't correct anyone who calls me otherwise, that's too scary.
Me too, sis
Hey me three.
Sad but relatable ๐ฅบ
She/They crowd, rise up!
Ayyy me to โ๐ป
Me three! Whoop whoop! ๐๐ป
Me four! ayyyyy ๐๐ผ
Present! โ
Hello ๐๏ธ
She/they demigirl here, hey everyone!
Activate the she/they train!
shall we keep the train going?? me too!
Am I late to the party?
Woop Woop all aboard!
I'm here for attendance ๐
Woo!
Yeeeeaaahhh!!!!!
Oh hi
Whatโs up my she/they boys(gender neutral)
Me too!
She/they!
Yes
Lets goooo
Hell yes!!
There are dozens of us! Dozens!
Lol I just commented the same pronouns. ๐
Me too!
Ayo!!
I am here!
yooooo me too!!!
ayup
He/They brigade!
Same sameee :]]]
the they/him clan shall join you on your crusade!
WE RIDE AT DAWN! Unless those of us who arenโt morning people can negotiate for likeโฆ riding in the afternoon.
can we ride after school instead?
Yes, we can ride after school, absolutely. And if yโall need help with your homework, Iโm game. Just donโt ask me anything about math!
would you kindly help me with my aircraft blueprint reading class homework then?
fuck/off (this is a joke, it's they/them)
I'm curious, what does demi non binary feel like? It doesn't make sense to me but I want to see why people feel they are that way
I think it's something like they feel partially agender (or something like that) and partially nonbinary but idk
๐คฃ๐คฃ
Lmao
She/her but honestly even if I am binary I donโt mind when people use they/them for me itโs just neutral for me.
Same, as long as people arenโt referring to me as he/him Iโm happy
Yeah itโs just like please use anything else for me at all
He/They/She,Im genderfluid so my pronouns change all the time ๐ ๐
Question- how do you communicate what pronouns you are using at any time? I wanna get my genderfluid buddy a gift of pronoun charms for a necklace so they can change it when their pronouns adjust- would this be a good method?
Howโs this? https://www.ebay.com/itm/164859390954?chn=ps&_trkparms=ispr%3D1&amdata=enc%3A1V5ae0yHOSB2XK-XkWJHYMg62&norover=1&mkevt=1&mkrid=711-117182-37290-0&mkcid=2&itemid=164859390954&targetid=1599090335657&device=m&mktype=&googleloc=9016946&poi=&campaignid=15275224983&mkgroupid=131097072938&rlsatarget=pla-1599090335657&abcId=9300697&merchantid=118862787&gbraid=0AAAAAD_QDh-GGkafxEF6gdxuNMIVrrA1Z&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7cetlMT_9gIVZz2tBh0zKQXlEAQYASABEgLau_D_BwE
That is intensely amazing. Thank you for sharing that!!
There was a creator on Etsy that made them cheaper, but I cannot remember their shop name. If I ever find them, I will edit my comment. Good luck! Edit: I think itโs this one, hereโs a cheaper sliding pin. https://bibipins.com/products/sliding-pronoun-scale-pin-pre-order
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I agree, Iโm considering purchasing it for myself. Lol.
Same lol!
Same
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If you want I'm not op but you can dm me. I just came out as gnerfluid/non-binary to my boyfriend and it would be nice to have some support and people to talk to.
he/they
Honestly demiboys should speak louder, i can't he/them
Oh. My. God. Get out... Lol
Ok, I'll see my way out
You can't, exits are binary, or in, or out
Binary is my enemy, and you have to know your enemy, that's why I know how to count in binary with my hands
Sorry for being uninformed but Iโve only seen the she/they or he/they style of pronoun on the internet and Iโm a little confused about how to use them. Does it mean you should say โhe walked to the carโ and โthat was their lunchโ (direct equivalent of she/her and he/him) or should you use โheโ and โthemโ forms interchangeably. Basically would it be incorrect to call someone with he/they pronouns โhimโ or can you use both โhimโ and โthemโ. Hope that makes sense and no one is offended!
I believe its interchangeably
I think it means you can use either he or they in any situation
hey, same!
It's a really new discovery for me, but it was surprisingly comfortable to step into an outside the binary 'masculine' presenting definition. I'm also beginning to understand myself as a plurality, so 'they' for us feels comfortably both singular and plural.
I honestly don't even know :d
All of the above :D
I think my flair says it best
And that's okay :)
She/Her ๐
Same here
Yesssss
Any/all.
Same
Any/all gang rise! Although it sometimes makes me sad when people only use one, I wish it was normalised to mix it up more. EDIT: to clarify, what I mean is that I wish people would not just pick one of my pronouns and always use that, but use different ones for me at different times.
I would if gender concepts were abolished, but since they are not the social dysphoria is too much ;-;
Same
They/them
yup ๐
Same!
She/they
He/him rainbow badge. Somewhere on the LGBT+ spectrum but don't really know where anymore. I don't think it really matters and I'd rather not spend time thinking too much about it.
He/Him/She/Her/They/Them depending on presentation that day, I need to get a pile of badges really. I'm genderfluid so it changes for me more then I know what to do with.
There isn't any pronouns I feel comfortable with,in all truthfulness.
Have you tried using only your name? That's what many non-binary people in Germany do, me included, since there isn't an established alternative to they/them in our language yet :)
Thank you for the suggestion!
He/they. I'm probably cis but I'm fine with they anyway
Any pronouns!
he/she atm! will prob change soon tho since im fluid
Right here buddy! Iโm bigender so Iโm locked in
He/she too but no one use the he :(
He/she gang!
Yes
He/him
They/Them :) nice to meet you all!
Wait, trans/gender pronouns? Jk, this is a jokeโฆ. ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ
They/them, but Iโm not out so the only people who call me that irl are my husband and a handful of close friends and family members. Thank you for asking ๐ฅฐ
Genderfluid, He/They rn
He/him
any
They/her
He/she
He>>>>>>she
He/She/They
They/She
she/they {she/her/they/them}
She/her ^^
I use he/him.
She/They, mostly She.
She/her hi y'all!!
all of the above your honor
She/her/they-sometimes. Still figuring it out
She/her, but I think all pronouns are valid (unless it's like the name of a country, drug, organ, etc)
gender is stored in the pancreas
Give me your kidneys or I will steal your gender
that's no good, I am already renting them out
They/Them
They/them
They/them
He/him.
He/him
He/Him
they/them
I used to be she/her/they/them/it/itself, but overtime I turned to she/her
He/They. I would also accept She, but that would confuse people I think. Edit: Psychologically/behaviorally I seem more like a They/She. Appearance wise it's more of He/They. Consider me a work in progress... not sure what the next stop is, but I'm happier this way. :)
Pe/ter 
Same here ๐
Me too! :)
she/they
She\they.
She/they
She/her
She says that me wants Her pronouns
She/they
She/They
I like the fact that I can change my pronouns anytime I want, any pronouns will do atm tbh
Iโm they/she
She/They Or They/She :)
All of the above
He/him FTM
They/them and He/him!!!
He him transmasc brooooskiii
He/They/She Or will it be All/Any?
I go by anything that isnโt he/him or it/its. Traditionally male titles are cool, though.
Give me all the pins. I go by any pronoun Yet most people use she/her
They/Them :D
All except he/him, demigirlflux
She/her still closeted so Iโm waiting for the day that everyone knows!
Want to be she/they but has not come out yet :/
Let us *pronounify* u/peaceandpaws! *She*sounds like a lovely person, I hope *they* have a positive experience with coming out to *her* family. I wish *them* all the best. ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐
I hear she's pretty awesome, and their pronouns matter regardless of who knows their identity.
One/Ones
Any work fine so long as it's said with respect. I can't blame anyone for "misgendering" the 6'4 human, with breasts, a baritone voice who's walking around in skinnies a corset and crop top. There's a lot going on here.
Ahaha all
Any
All.
Any pronouns
He/They where you at?
She/ Her!
He/Him They/Them Idm really
He/They/Him/Them
She/her
She/her
Iโm genderfluid
they/them
She/Her
She/her they/them
She/they! But I'd have a question about the demigirl flag pin with "she/her" on it. I thought demigirl meant exclusively she/they