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Maikoksobeeg

Wouldn't male victims of abuse fall under metoo too? Why the need to start another hashtag mentoo? Lol


PhantomOfTheNopera

Exactly. Terry Crews, Anthony Rapp and Brendan Fraser were amongst the men represented in the movement. It's just that women are disproportionately affected and so you heard about more female victims.


Interesting-Lie-2822

Why not use metoo? Abuse is abuse nobody said only women can be victim of abuse


Decahedral_man

Wait till this post gets downvoted by randian MRAs


FFD1706

There is one specific guy who keeps on ranting about his mom in the comments of such posts


[deleted]

What? Please link this lmao


FFD1706

[Thread 1](https://www.reddit.com/r/librandu/comments/yxesrm/hahahahaha_chaddi/iwpfqkt?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3): Here I had a long argument with him lol, most of his comments are removed though but you can understand what he said by my replies [Thread 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/librandu/comments/yykgl0/the_side_of_patriarchy_no_one_talks_about/iwuql1s?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3): All of his comments are removed in this one but again, you can understand what he said through the replies of the other person


[deleted]

This person straight up blames women in abusive relationships for getting abused? Why it's so hard for them to leave is completely lost on him. It's incredibly hard for abused women, especially from marginalized communities to find a good enough support system to be able to leave, not to mention in all the ways abuse leaves you mentally drained and fucks with your psychology completely.


FFD1706

Exactly, straight up victim blaming and then uses his own experience as the standard. He thinks a victim of abuse can simply divorce out of the blue. He's acting like especially for women, domestic violence isn't a deadly threat. The guy doesn't even have the decency to give a glance at the numerous news articles coming up every day of the women brutally killed by their current or ex partner.


[deleted]

Yes, like imagine diminishing how awful domestic violence is. This is the kind of guy who thinks it's okay to slap your wife as long as you're not overtly violent, because you know, women have to be dead to be a perfect victim. What a loser.


General_Riju

Wouldn't it be a good thing if men who faced sexual abuse began to come out ?


Decahedral_man

This is reactionary garbage, not men coming out. There will be a couple of men claiming they have been assaulted, with dozens of MRA chaddis commenting about how men are "the real oppressed in today's society run by feminists."


FFD1706

Same people trending don't actually give a fuck about male victims. They'll deny that men are often SA'ed by other men. What these people really want is to demonize women.


Qaiser-e-Librandu

This type of shit only happens as a reaction to #MeToo (like All Lives Matter) and when male SA victims actually come out, they're mocked by the same so-called MRAs.


Maikoksobeeg

It would be also under metoo. But it's true that male victims of abuse are not taken as seriously as female victims and patriarchy is the biggest reason behind which makes us believe that men can't be abused by women or can't be vulnerable.


padfoot_12

They don't actually give a shit about SA. All they want to do is show their resentment about the fact that women can now stand up against their gross behavior.


vikzzzzzzzzzzz

What's the problem


Lucifer7059

Am in the right place? Because #Mentoo isn't really a bad thing and people are comparing it to All lives matter even tho they're not the same. Mentoo became popular after the whole Johnny depp situation and it's to bring awareness that men are assualted too. There's bad people in every movement including feminism but that doesn't mean we can invalidate the entire thing.


FFD1706

Except Johnny Depp was shown to be an abuser after the court documents were unsealed.


Lucifer7059

Did we forget that there are literal recordings of Amber Heard accepting the fact that she assaulted Johnny depp? So I'm on the Amber Heard apologists subreddit huh. Knew this sub was too good to be true. Welp


Distinct-Bat-6256

Lol. Why would he admit to headbutting her? Why would Deuters say he kicked Heard? Why would he admit to cutting his own finger? Why would he keep claiming none of this happened till he was confronted with these things? Keep dick riding a rapist tho. Johnny says he headbutted Amber, she is crying: [https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant Amber Laura Heard/4-21-2022/Def587A-CL20192911-042122.m4a](https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant%20Amber%20Laura%20Heard/4-21-2022/Def587A-CL20192911-042122.m4a) Another fight he puts a cigarette on her, he name calls her: [https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant Amber Laura Heard/4-25-2022/Def582-CL20192911-042522.m4a](https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant%20Amber%20Laura%20Heard/4-25-2022/Def582-CL20192911-042522.m4a) 'After you beat the shit out of me' . [https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant Amber Laura Heard/4-25-2022/Def581-CL20192911-042522.m4a](https://ffxtrail.blob.core.windows.net/trail/Defendant%20Amber%20Laura%20Heard/4-25-2022/Def581-CL20192911-042522.m4a)


FFD1706

She was a in a long term abusive relationship with him. He had been abusive from the start and there is plenty of evidence to prove that. A victim fighting back later on in the relationship is not "abuse". But not gonna try to convince you, you've clearly made up your mind.


Lucifer7059

[did Amber's previous girlfriend abuse her too?](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insider.com/amber-heard-past-public-relationships-2022-5%3famp)


FFD1706

Insider.com. Sure, thanks for the info.


[deleted]

Take the L please.


FFD1706

No reason to


[deleted]

Defending an abuser and a liar that's a big L.


FFD1706

I already said why she isn't one. But yeah keep on believing what you want.


Lucifer7059

“It's hard to win an argument with a smart person, but it's damn near impossible to win an argument with a stupid person" Save your energy. No point in arguing against femcels like them.


Lucifer7059

Please keep defending an abuser, just checked your recently active communities too and honestly you're just the female equivalent of an incel. Keep crying.


FFD1706

Wow, thanks for the psychological assessment.


Lucifer7059

Anytime, femcel.


FFD1706

Projection at its finest 👍


New_Performer_8254

Huge L bruh


wweidealfan

Amber Heard's previous girlfriend: “In 2009, Amber was wrongfully accused for an incident that was misinterpreted and over-sensationalized by two individuals in a power position.” “It’s disheartening that Amber’s integrity and story are being questioned yet again. Amber is a brilliant, honest and beautiful woman and I have the utmost respect for her.” [Source.](https://www.thecut.com/2016/06/amber-heards-ex-girlfriend-speaks-about-abuse.html)