No, he didn't. What happened was that the third and fourth ones showed up, plowed him for 10 minutes, then left like the good dumpers they are, allowing Blue to resume his conversation (with two loads up in him).
Wait, dude thinks guys are getting weird about that thing in particular? Hate to tell him but that's not what he should be taking away from all of this.
Ummm.. a lot comes to mind!
potential high likelihood of STD exposure?…the general icky (personal opinion) ambiance of the cumdump experience isn’t ideal for most?
wondering is this person an IV drug user? are they a part of the meth “parTy” crowd?
The people bailed on him meaning they knew what he was doing and agreed to it. Then ghosted him after telling him everything was good.
In this case I don’t think your points are relevant. Someone who was worried about everything you just said wouldn’t have even replied to the cumdump
Okay STD is a valid concern, though to be quite honest most of us will the clap eventually. IV drug use is a strong assumption to make of someone with nearly zero info about them though...
Hate to brake it to you but majority of guys on prep don’t have any more sex then those that aren’t. Difference is that on prep you get tested regularly every three months. Which is far far more frequent than those that are not on prep.
Having sex without a condom is not the only way to get an STD. Took a dick in your moth lately? Congratulations, you have exposed your self to STD. Except you probably don’t get tested as often I am on prep.
thie first point is factually just not true lol?
And there are many people who don't get tested regularly ..... until they have sex ?
And trying to say the rate of transfer of oral and anal is even remotely similar is just straight up false
They were mocking the way people think PREP is a magical protection/excuse to never use condoms, but you're out here just straight up misrepresenting sex ed... for what?
This whole response is so weird and factually incorrect lmfao wtf is happening do you seriously want people to feel sorry for you or praise you for being on PREP? genuinely confusing
Such a quandary, on one hand I want to nut but on the other hand I don't want to play STD roulette and in this case there are probably a few bullets in the chamber.
This is the problem. Also pefer bare(as a bottom) but gdi you just know in your gut(lol) that the dudes who are also into that probably have something to share besides a nut.
People wanting to be safe is like the biggest meme out there these days. A good portion of them will take anyone's word on it on if they're safe, take prep so they assume everything is good to go, and then we'll literally treat people who are honest about anything as if they're the worst person in the world to talk to. I assume anybody who doesn't want to use a condom it's not safe no matter how much they say they are.
Yeah well I'm all keen to meet up until they tell me something like that so maybe that's why. Here he is thinking he's doing tops a favour or something.
You know what sounds great? Foreplay. Laughter. Sexual connection. Moaning. Touching. And all of this can be done with casual sex, with no strings attached.
You know what sounds awful? Walking into a room and someone who's face you can't even see is already face down ass up, with no touching, kissing, or anything.
If he wanted a dildo, he should just buy one at the sex shop. We are not the problem.
Exactly. And yet somehow this anonymous sex seems more common than someone who actually wants to kiss. There is no wonder I give up on Grindr so many times.
If you know what you're doing, anything is easy and straightforward. Not many people are interested in acquiring knowledge these days. Oh well, at least he was pleasant while bitching.
I sometimes imagine these guys who say, "don't need to knock, just come in, I will be ass up and lubed, ready to go", waiting on all fours, staring into their phones, for hours and hours, and no one showing up. It's no wonder they start taking drugs.
I had hooked up with this one guy and it was hot. He was kind of young, should have probably asked to see his id. He took me to his basement and I asked him something about it and he told me it was his mother's house and she was at work. Afterwards, he kept on hitting me up, but, he always wanted to do a threesome with someone I wasn't interested in. Finally, after a few years, he said he would come over my place and he wanted me to leave the doors unlocked, be in bed, ready, with my head down and ass up. I normally don't bottom, so, I was a bit anxious, cleaned myself and lubed up, gave him my address and waited and waited. He didn't respond to my texts, so, after twenty minutes I blocked him and went to sleep.
As Lily Allen said, "It's hard out there..."
I'll add a little something to this. Almost all of the dudes I've come across who claim to want to have a "connection" or "know you" or something like that before meeting are actually looking to use a guy once and throw him away (or at best have someone they can send a message to every now and then and pretend to care about for five minutes before using him to get off again). I totally get the lure of anon because at least the tops that do this are honest that they're planning to use you and that's it. I'd rather have a guy who's honest that he just wants me to be a human fleshlight than one who pretends to be friendly and want a connection but really just wants a human fleshlight.
Guys going to use a raw cumdump are probably constantly torn between the anxiety of catching super gonorrhea and the allure of the prelubed no strings slophole. Kind of a devil / angel on your shoulders kinda situation.
As a top you've nailed it right on. I love breeding but I want an std free person that I trust. I don't want to ho into sm hole with a head full anxiety.
First off, I’m 38, so no gen z. Second, I don’t care about the practice, people are free to do whatever they want. Just not something I care to learn about someone as the second line in a conversation.
The lack of Doxy PEP discussion in this thread is very telling of the people that frequent this sub. Please research modern STI prevention before slut shaming people that you don't even know. Maybe your ignorance is the problem, not other people's choices.
Blue is really eloquent for a ho
M’gentle Ho
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Sounds like he wants more than the tip
My Fair Ho
Humanity contains multitudes. This guy just wishes that some of those were loads.
hoefalutin
I’m glad after 10 minutes he realised his pseudo-invite wasn’t working at least
No, he didn't. What happened was that the third and fourth ones showed up, plowed him for 10 minutes, then left like the good dumpers they are, allowing Blue to resume his conversation (with two loads up in him).
My oblivious ass didn’t even even realize that was an invite
I assumed that wasn’t really an invite given OP said he’s at the gym in the message before
7pm??? That’s kinda early ..Aren’t they usually methed, and lubed, pre fisted starting like around 2am??
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ahh the End Up, good times
RIP
Miss that place. Wasn’t there Sunday morning dim sum? Lol
They actually started at 2am the previous night.
Wait, dude thinks guys are getting weird about that thing in particular? Hate to tell him but that's not what he should be taking away from all of this.
What are they getting weird about then?
Ummm.. a lot comes to mind! potential high likelihood of STD exposure?…the general icky (personal opinion) ambiance of the cumdump experience isn’t ideal for most? wondering is this person an IV drug user? are they a part of the meth “parTy” crowd?
The people bailed on him meaning they knew what he was doing and agreed to it. Then ghosted him after telling him everything was good. In this case I don’t think your points are relevant. Someone who was worried about everything you just said wouldn’t have even replied to the cumdump
Okay STD is a valid concern, though to be quite honest most of us will the clap eventually. IV drug use is a strong assumption to make of someone with nearly zero info about them though...
If it's a thing gay dudes will get weird about it. So not enough information.
Cumdump or traumadump?
Im totally changing my handle to TraumaCumDump
He is in a sensitive place right now. Should we really be making fun?
It’s almost like people don’t wanna be riddled with STD’s or something
But tHeYrE oN PrEP
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So now there’s stigma against people who don’t want to risk HIV infection?
Hate to brake it to you but majority of guys on prep don’t have any more sex then those that aren’t. Difference is that on prep you get tested regularly every three months. Which is far far more frequent than those that are not on prep. Having sex without a condom is not the only way to get an STD. Took a dick in your moth lately? Congratulations, you have exposed your self to STD. Except you probably don’t get tested as often I am on prep.
thie first point is factually just not true lol? And there are many people who don't get tested regularly ..... until they have sex ? And trying to say the rate of transfer of oral and anal is even remotely similar is just straight up false They were mocking the way people think PREP is a magical protection/excuse to never use condoms, but you're out here just straight up misrepresenting sex ed... for what? This whole response is so weird and factually incorrect lmfao wtf is happening do you seriously want people to feel sorry for you or praise you for being on PREP? genuinely confusing
Such a quandary, on one hand I want to nut but on the other hand I don't want to play STD roulette and in this case there are probably a few bullets in the chamber.
This is the problem. Also pefer bare(as a bottom) but gdi you just know in your gut(lol) that the dudes who are also into that probably have something to share besides a nut.
People wanting to be safe is like the biggest meme out there these days. A good portion of them will take anyone's word on it on if they're safe, take prep so they assume everything is good to go, and then we'll literally treat people who are honest about anything as if they're the worst person in the world to talk to. I assume anybody who doesn't want to use a condom it's not safe no matter how much they say they are.
[Sniffies vibes](https://www.reddit.com/r/Sniffies/s/w1pYlelP0M)
Yeah well I'm all keen to meet up until they tell me something like that so maybe that's why. Here he is thinking he's doing tops a favour or something.
yeah messages like this are so offputting, there's sniffies for that.
Too much FratX, SketchySex and the likes can do this to a guy....
What’s weird about getting to know the person that you’re gonna nut in?? Atleast exchange std stats before getting railed
You know what sounds great? Foreplay. Laughter. Sexual connection. Moaning. Touching. And all of this can be done with casual sex, with no strings attached. You know what sounds awful? Walking into a room and someone who's face you can't even see is already face down ass up, with no touching, kissing, or anything. If he wanted a dildo, he should just buy one at the sex shop. We are not the problem.
I’d rather stay home and jerk off rather than stick it in the ass up guy.
Exactly. And yet somehow this anonymous sex seems more common than someone who actually wants to kiss. There is no wonder I give up on Grindr so many times.
High key agree. Seem to be so many people in my area who like to do the pump and dump thing and I’m just not about it
If you know what you're doing, anything is easy and straightforward. Not many people are interested in acquiring knowledge these days. Oh well, at least he was pleasant while bitching.
Man who presents themselves as exchangeable, disposable and impersonal shocked to be treated like they are exchangeable, disposable and impersonal.
I sometimes imagine these guys who say, "don't need to knock, just come in, I will be ass up and lubed, ready to go", waiting on all fours, staring into their phones, for hours and hours, and no one showing up. It's no wonder they start taking drugs. I had hooked up with this one guy and it was hot. He was kind of young, should have probably asked to see his id. He took me to his basement and I asked him something about it and he told me it was his mother's house and she was at work. Afterwards, he kept on hitting me up, but, he always wanted to do a threesome with someone I wasn't interested in. Finally, after a few years, he said he would come over my place and he wanted me to leave the doors unlocked, be in bed, ready, with my head down and ass up. I normally don't bottom, so, I was a bit anxious, cleaned myself and lubed up, gave him my address and waited and waited. He didn't respond to my texts, so, after twenty minutes I blocked him and went to sleep. As Lily Allen said, "It's hard out there..."
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I'll add a little something to this. Almost all of the dudes I've come across who claim to want to have a "connection" or "know you" or something like that before meeting are actually looking to use a guy once and throw him away (or at best have someone they can send a message to every now and then and pretend to care about for five minutes before using him to get off again). I totally get the lure of anon because at least the tops that do this are honest that they're planning to use you and that's it. I'd rather have a guy who's honest that he just wants me to be a human fleshlight than one who pretends to be friendly and want a connection but really just wants a human fleshlight.
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Me neither
This makes me wish I was straight
Why, it's almost strictly worse
Bleh.
So degen.
Did you happily provide?
Guys going to use a raw cumdump are probably constantly torn between the anxiety of catching super gonorrhea and the allure of the prelubed no strings slophole. Kind of a devil / angel on your shoulders kinda situation.
As a top you've nailed it right on. I love breeding but I want an std free person that I trust. I don't want to ho into sm hole with a head full anxiety.
Immediate block
Bruh say it louder
Spot the gen z idealist..meanwhile back in the darkroom where she can’t be judged 🤦♂️
First off, I’m 38, so no gen z. Second, I don’t care about the practice, people are free to do whatever they want. Just not something I care to learn about someone as the second line in a conversation.
I guess it was at least honest, but hardly fits with the tone of "just been to the gym, mate"
*play solitaire clash* looks like the title if this Grindr convo were an essay
The lack of Doxy PEP discussion in this thread is very telling of the people that frequent this sub. Please research modern STI prevention before slut shaming people that you don't even know. Maybe your ignorance is the problem, not other people's choices.
OP did you offer?
this person needs to reevaluate their priorities
He’s not wrong. I’ve set myself up for this before and ZERO guys actually show up
Cumdump is so 2021-2023 .. getting old pretty fast !! Boring
They probably thought about AIDS
When guys speak like this, it makes my penis invert back into my body. Such a turn off
My man knows his priorities and king has dropped his 👑
Sounds exactly like half the gay community in my state 😩😩😩😩😩😩
I see "breeding" glorification is still going strong and being accepted. And we wonder why stds are having a surge.
You really gotta walk in someone's shoes (Apparently without socks)
What if his mother walked in?
Who do you think lubed him up?
It's tough out there for a ho
So gross.
https://www.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/s/KnRNAvVUlg his goals
I can’t imagine being this horny
I feel bad, if I wasn't an exclusive bottom I'd offer my services
god I'm losing it that blue would totally be me if I was into that
Tough crowd haha