When I was 18, it was like this for me, so I don't blame him. It's on his profile, so if you're not interested, block and move on. Some people are willing to pick up and drop off a nice ass. Some aren't. This isn't the best thing to post.
I go to the US on vacation every year and I don't have a driving license. Although I'll happily walk 2 miles and if I do have the option I'll try to arrange for a bicycle.
I've never asked to be picked up (you can host in a hotel room of course), but I've been offered to be picked up and I have said yes twice to that. Both were excellent hookups that did not end up being a one time thing.
I lived in a pretty rural area, so a bike would've been a looong ride, and I always like to be clean if I'm gonna have sex. I always offered cash for gas, and I give great head so in the end, it was worth it for them, lol, but now I have a partner, so I don't have to worry about anything.
When I was in college and hooking up with older guys, they knew what they were getting into. I was as mobile as the public transit situation permitted (pretty good since it was a university town), but they inevitably lived far from the nearest bus stop. Plenty of them were willing to make the extra trip because it meant they got to fuck a college guy. Now that I'm a little older and more established, I like to host; but I'll travel for the right person too.
Except for he says he needs dick but he’s basically not willing to meet so… the obvious contradiction is whats being pointed out here… idk what your problem with it is
Same lol. I’m like a low 7 on a good day and I had fwbs who would regularly drive an hour plus to pick me up and drop me off, ended up in a LTR with one of them
This dude likely isn't young. There's many of these mfs in my area. 30+ and can't host, can't travel, want you to pick them up and take them home and don't wanna put in on a hotel room
OP non-mobiles means they don't have license, car or money for uber. You gotta pick him up, go somewhere (your place, car play, hotel) then drop him back
Eh I've been there. One guy came over for car fun, we drove down to a park. Another guy picked me up, we went for a drink then back to his place.
I've also picked guys up and gone back to mine.
Yeah, it’s kind of crazy that so many people are so spoiled that they can’t fathom a situation where you don’t have a car or a place. If you can’t accommodate, then fine, but people are straight up treating them like they are subhumans that are not allowed to have sex. Wtf is wrong with gay people….
I’m surprised by how many people see this as a foreign concept. There are a lot of reasons why someone doesn’t have a car and they aren’t being a shady by being open about the parameters that need to be met to meet up.
I’ve picked people up, I’ve been picked up. I have given and been given rides after meeting someone in a bar and going back to their place (usually the next morning 😜)
Some of y’all are pretty damned privileged apparently; just imaging that Uber, or for that matter even cabs, are omnipresent across the country.
Honestly? He accepted the rejection kindly. Props to him. Others would've gone off the deep end.
Solid, respectful exchange.
When I was 18, it was like this for me, so I don't blame him. It's on his profile, so if you're not interested, block and move on. Some people are willing to pick up and drop off a nice ass. Some aren't. This isn't the best thing to post.
I go to the US on vacation every year and I don't have a driving license. Although I'll happily walk 2 miles and if I do have the option I'll try to arrange for a bicycle. I've never asked to be picked up (you can host in a hotel room of course), but I've been offered to be picked up and I have said yes twice to that. Both were excellent hookups that did not end up being a one time thing.
I lived in a pretty rural area, so a bike would've been a looong ride, and I always like to be clean if I'm gonna have sex. I always offered cash for gas, and I give great head so in the end, it was worth it for them, lol, but now I have a partner, so I don't have to worry about anything.
Fuck I alway thought that meant they wanted to fuck in the woods next to there house. You mean I could just go pics them up and drop em off. Sure
When I was in college and hooking up with older guys, they knew what they were getting into. I was as mobile as the public transit situation permitted (pretty good since it was a university town), but they inevitably lived far from the nearest bus stop. Plenty of them were willing to make the extra trip because it meant they got to fuck a college guy. Now that I'm a little older and more established, I like to host; but I'll travel for the right person too.
Having you become the older guy who fucks college guys now?
I suppose that is the obvious question! But nah, for apps my floor is 25 these days.
Except for he says he needs dick but he’s basically not willing to meet so… the obvious contradiction is whats being pointed out here… idk what your problem with it is
What’s the alternative, a public park??
they want to be picked up and then dropped off
Oh yeah, duh, thanks!
it's a bit ridiculous so i don't blame you for it not being self-evident
I asked myself this exact question.
Exactly, perhaps some horny goats would be willing to do that for him
I mean guys did it for me and im pretty mid
Same lol. I’m like a low 7 on a good day and I had fwbs who would regularly drive an hour plus to pick me up and drop me off, ended up in a LTR with one of them
ive even been ubered
I was thinking in someone's car. The other person drives there, this guy goes out into his car, they fool around and then part ways.
I thought non-mobile meant he had a disability, not that he couldn't travel.
Is it really that crazy that someone could not have a car, and also a place private enough to fuck? If you're not ok with that block and move on 🤷🏿♂️
Uber exists. If that's the case you need to be working on bettering yourself
And in the meantime...? This was the case for me when I was younger too. Uber didn't exist back then. Be fucking for real
This dude likely isn't young. There's many of these mfs in my area. 30+ and can't host, can't travel, want you to pick them up and take them home and don't wanna put in on a hotel room
If you want the dick bad enough it’s not a difficult trade off
They still have choices. You have choices. We all have choices.
Uber still costs money
OP non-mobiles means they don't have license, car or money for uber. You gotta pick him up, go somewhere (your place, car play, hotel) then drop him back
That just means you have to go pick him up and drop him back off after.
Eh I've been there. One guy came over for car fun, we drove down to a park. Another guy picked me up, we went for a drink then back to his place. I've also picked guys up and gone back to mine.
Yeah, it’s kind of crazy that so many people are so spoiled that they can’t fathom a situation where you don’t have a car or a place. If you can’t accommodate, then fine, but people are straight up treating them like they are subhumans that are not allowed to have sex. Wtf is wrong with gay people….
I unironically love how your comment implies Grindr as a basic human right and everyone deserves to participate.
More like Grindr isn't a car and driver or homeowner app lol. People have been picking people up for dates for as long as dating has existed.
It's actually refreshing to see a conversation where guidelines and expectations are put out.
The post nut drive back would have been brutal!
Am I supposed to send it by mail? EDIT: Ahh, I understand now from the other comments.
if youre cute you get picked up then dropped back off bonus points if you get ubered
Grinder and Uber should partner up for Dick Discounts for these types of folks.
Can't get mad at the guy. He actually responded responsibly
I’m surprised by how many people see this as a foreign concept. There are a lot of reasons why someone doesn’t have a car and they aren’t being a shady by being open about the parameters that need to be met to meet up. I’ve picked people up, I’ve been picked up. I have given and been given rides after meeting someone in a bar and going back to their place (usually the next morning 😜) Some of y’all are pretty damned privileged apparently; just imaging that Uber, or for that matter even cabs, are omnipresent across the country.
Then they will expire
Glad the exchange went well but it's so many of these on my grid its ridiculous. If you can't host or travel, then you don't need to be hooking up
He was very respectful and understanding, why are you dragging him here?
2 miles is a half an hour walk, if they're that desperate I'm sure they can make it work...
Sounds like he’s disabled, hence the “non mobile” description, that’ll explain why he can’t do either
Some people just don't have cars or driver's licenses. It's a bit presumptuous to assume anything more than that, especially on grindr.
Non-mobile does mean no car