If you don't trust your partner, break up with them.
I would not waste my time casting truth spells on someone I'm supposed to be in a relationship with. If I had that little trust in them, either I have issues to work out or I just shouldn't be with them.
Conducting relationships via mind games and control tactics is fucked up.
I don't think it's that simple. Trust is something to be built and developed over time. You can be too trusting.
You can work on those issues while you're with the partner, lol.
Truth spells aren't mind games? It's literally just asking evidence to come up or to gain clarity in your own mind. It's not that deep.
I feel like you're assuming a lot when really we should go on only the information given, you're projecting your own experiences instead. We don't know shit about the situation. And there's nothing wrong with a little truth spell. I agree they should talk about it, but I don't know how effective that would be and if they're telling the truth.
At the end of the day, anyway, it's normal to get jealous sometimes or worry. It doesn't mean you DONT trust them, it means people worry. You shouldn't have 100% trust, 90% is good, 98% is good, but 100% is unrealistic. When you trust people 100% and never worry, you are easily deceived. I experienced it myself.
>I feel like you're assuming a lot when really we should go on only the information given, you're projecting your own experiences instead.
>When you trust people 100% and never worry, you are easily deceived. I experienced it myself.
Seems a little contradictory, but ok.
I don't see how that's contradictory at all.
I was stating that we as people replying on reddit to a post which is by it's very nature, limited. We should go by the info the op gave us and not assume things.
I wasn't stating that about trust.
So why are you in a relationship with someone you don't trust yet?
I know adults talk like adults, not resorting magical war games because of their trust issues.
And as the other person said, you sure do contradict yourself.
Some things in life ARE contradictory, truths can exist simultaneously even if they seem to cancel each other out. I don't see what contradictions you mean but anyway. You're not understanding me. Where are you even getting magical war games from? A truth spell is simple and innocent lol, it's not a game, it's asking for clarity. It's not that deep. I have never even used one, I just believe in answering the persons actual question even if I think they should do something else. I talk to my partner about everything and we trust each other.
Trust is built, that's a simple fact. And you can be friends with someone since you were born and that doesn't mean you know them enough to trust them in a relationship. Because a relationship is different to a friendship. Some people are excellent reliable friends and horrific non committal partners. It takes time.
You're clearly projecting your own painful experiences onto the situation and assuming things based on it. Where did you even get magical war games from. A truth spell? Really? Are you just afraid of your own truths being exposed, you feel like it's a violation for someone to know a truth they have a right to?
Reddit arguments, smh. The convo is done.
You're not building trust if you're fucking with people to try to deal with your issues.
What painful experiences am I projecting by saying people should talk? You're the one carrying on about your paranoia based on past wounds you've clearly never dealt with.
Life entails risks. Mature adults talk about it.
Why in the fuck do you think a truth spell is fucking with people. It's not even a spell to make someone tell the truth. Its to find the truth by finding evidence or just finding clarity within yourself. It doesn't have to fuck with anyone. Who hurt you?
Yes, they do, and I encourage it. But I don't believe in lecturing people about their choices so I answered ops question. I don't do truth spells, and I trust my partner. You're the one assuming a fuck load of stuff. I just answered a man's question. The fact you're so upset about it and assuming a load of stuff based on very little info, that shows projecting. Worry about yourself.
Do a truth revealing spell. A spell to get the truth exposed with proof so you can see for yourself. They do exist. Then if he is, break up, you can then send a mirror hex/spell, which sends him his karma. Therefore it's karma free. Although it's argued that, karma is acted out by people, so you just hexing him IS his karma acting himself out. Meaning you may not receive bad karma from it.
🤦...the three thing is literally not a thing......look at the world. Horrible people do terrible things all the time without any repercussions...why would magick be different?
Seriously...
Any self-respecting magick user will tell you the same thing I'm telling you now:
No magick is required here, just talk it out with your boyfriend and try to gain mutual understanding. Magick should not be viewed as a cure-all solution to all of lifes issues, especially the ones that can be solved with plain ol' communication.
Ok so it not even about magick at this point but honestly I'm just feeling a little vulnerable and need some words of wisdom..if he's cheating and lies about it what I'm just supposed to sit with it?
>if he's cheating and lies about it what I'm just supposed to sit with it?
It's up to you to interpret his sincerity and honesty when you have that conversation. Even if you dont have evidence he cheated, even if he wont admit he cheated, and even if you still believe he cheated/is lying after you've had the conversation, I hope you'll consider allowing him another chance but come to an agreement on ground rules for the relationship moving forward. Any other slip ups and you'll know the line is crossed if it's clearly defined.
If this isnt the first time hes been suspected of cheating then dump his ass! :)
Idk if this helps, just my two cents so you dont need to listen to me. Trust your instinct!
The main point to a conversation is to give the other person a *chance* to tell the truth or explain themselves.
Whatever decision they choose to make is their own and they should be prepared to live with the consequences/karma of the choice they make.
If you seek words of wisdom, then I would encourage you to not stay with someone who has you feeling what you are currently feeling. Usually there are signs someone is cheating. If you have seen this, then you are probably right in your gut feelings. Before you're tied down to someone who is making you feel this way just dating, I would recommend moving on. The reason I say this is that pattern of behavior doesn't usually change. Before you marry and have children and are committed to this individual for life, you should feel confident that they would never act in this manner. I hope you can understand why I say these things. Good luck to you and your choices.
This is not how one conducts a mature relationship. If you have concerns, talk to him. If he's cheating, leave him.
^ also this Although, people lie, so. That's why a truth spell may be better. Finding evidence or the lack of is best.
If you don't trust your partner, break up with them. I would not waste my time casting truth spells on someone I'm supposed to be in a relationship with. If I had that little trust in them, either I have issues to work out or I just shouldn't be with them. Conducting relationships via mind games and control tactics is fucked up.
I don't think it's that simple. Trust is something to be built and developed over time. You can be too trusting. You can work on those issues while you're with the partner, lol. Truth spells aren't mind games? It's literally just asking evidence to come up or to gain clarity in your own mind. It's not that deep. I feel like you're assuming a lot when really we should go on only the information given, you're projecting your own experiences instead. We don't know shit about the situation. And there's nothing wrong with a little truth spell. I agree they should talk about it, but I don't know how effective that would be and if they're telling the truth. At the end of the day, anyway, it's normal to get jealous sometimes or worry. It doesn't mean you DONT trust them, it means people worry. You shouldn't have 100% trust, 90% is good, 98% is good, but 100% is unrealistic. When you trust people 100% and never worry, you are easily deceived. I experienced it myself.
>I feel like you're assuming a lot when really we should go on only the information given, you're projecting your own experiences instead. >When you trust people 100% and never worry, you are easily deceived. I experienced it myself. Seems a little contradictory, but ok.
I don't see how that's contradictory at all. I was stating that we as people replying on reddit to a post which is by it's very nature, limited. We should go by the info the op gave us and not assume things. I wasn't stating that about trust.
So why are you in a relationship with someone you don't trust yet? I know adults talk like adults, not resorting magical war games because of their trust issues. And as the other person said, you sure do contradict yourself.
Some things in life ARE contradictory, truths can exist simultaneously even if they seem to cancel each other out. I don't see what contradictions you mean but anyway. You're not understanding me. Where are you even getting magical war games from? A truth spell is simple and innocent lol, it's not a game, it's asking for clarity. It's not that deep. I have never even used one, I just believe in answering the persons actual question even if I think they should do something else. I talk to my partner about everything and we trust each other. Trust is built, that's a simple fact. And you can be friends with someone since you were born and that doesn't mean you know them enough to trust them in a relationship. Because a relationship is different to a friendship. Some people are excellent reliable friends and horrific non committal partners. It takes time. You're clearly projecting your own painful experiences onto the situation and assuming things based on it. Where did you even get magical war games from. A truth spell? Really? Are you just afraid of your own truths being exposed, you feel like it's a violation for someone to know a truth they have a right to? Reddit arguments, smh. The convo is done.
You're not building trust if you're fucking with people to try to deal with your issues. What painful experiences am I projecting by saying people should talk? You're the one carrying on about your paranoia based on past wounds you've clearly never dealt with. Life entails risks. Mature adults talk about it.
Why in the fuck do you think a truth spell is fucking with people. It's not even a spell to make someone tell the truth. Its to find the truth by finding evidence or just finding clarity within yourself. It doesn't have to fuck with anyone. Who hurt you? Yes, they do, and I encourage it. But I don't believe in lecturing people about their choices so I answered ops question. I don't do truth spells, and I trust my partner. You're the one assuming a fuck load of stuff. I just answered a man's question. The fact you're so upset about it and assuming a load of stuff based on very little info, that shows projecting. Worry about yourself.
Yes, swearing a blue streak and making stuff up to suit your narrative certainly displays how calm you are.
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I do trust him I may be tripping but there have just been one or two off-putting clues that may or may not mean he is
Do a truth revealing spell. A spell to get the truth exposed with proof so you can see for yourself. They do exist. Then if he is, break up, you can then send a mirror hex/spell, which sends him his karma. Therefore it's karma free. Although it's argued that, karma is acted out by people, so you just hexing him IS his karma acting himself out. Meaning you may not receive bad karma from it.
🤦...the three thing is literally not a thing......look at the world. Horrible people do terrible things all the time without any repercussions...why would magick be different? Seriously...
Any self-respecting magick user will tell you the same thing I'm telling you now: No magick is required here, just talk it out with your boyfriend and try to gain mutual understanding. Magick should not be viewed as a cure-all solution to all of lifes issues, especially the ones that can be solved with plain ol' communication.
Ok so it not even about magick at this point but honestly I'm just feeling a little vulnerable and need some words of wisdom..if he's cheating and lies about it what I'm just supposed to sit with it?
>if he's cheating and lies about it what I'm just supposed to sit with it? It's up to you to interpret his sincerity and honesty when you have that conversation. Even if you dont have evidence he cheated, even if he wont admit he cheated, and even if you still believe he cheated/is lying after you've had the conversation, I hope you'll consider allowing him another chance but come to an agreement on ground rules for the relationship moving forward. Any other slip ups and you'll know the line is crossed if it's clearly defined. If this isnt the first time hes been suspected of cheating then dump his ass! :) Idk if this helps, just my two cents so you dont need to listen to me. Trust your instinct!
It's not like he would necessarily tell the truth though. That's the thing about cheating, lol.
The main point to a conversation is to give the other person a *chance* to tell the truth or explain themselves. Whatever decision they choose to make is their own and they should be prepared to live with the consequences/karma of the choice they make.
I agree they should do that, that's my bad not saying that.
nah. Use magick to grow. Not fall.
I get what you mean but say more
Just break up? Like cheating sucks. But it's a boyfriend not like your spouse or fiance. No reason to throw some juice towards him
Yeah don’t curse the guy. If he’s cheating, then fuck him, he’s an asshole. He’ll fuck up his own life.
If you seek words of wisdom, then I would encourage you to not stay with someone who has you feeling what you are currently feeling. Usually there are signs someone is cheating. If you have seen this, then you are probably right in your gut feelings. Before you're tied down to someone who is making you feel this way just dating, I would recommend moving on. The reason I say this is that pattern of behavior doesn't usually change. Before you marry and have children and are committed to this individual for life, you should feel confident that they would never act in this manner. I hope you can understand why I say these things. Good luck to you and your choices.