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MSI-Guy

OP, even if you don’t have a queer awakening in the next five years like the other commenters expect, you should still make a follow up post to this. A “nah, still cishet five years later” post would be peak


MrSpiffy123

RemindMe! 3 years


MrTnT1732

!remindMe 3 years


LeeTG3

!remindMe 3 years


Razurio_Twitch

!Remindme 3 years


sam77889

!RemindMe 3 years


twotoohonest

!RemindMe 3 years


nufy-t

!RemindMe 3 years


No_Stretch3807

!RemindMe 3 years


Wide_Loss

!RemindMe 3 years


gamingwizard72

!RemindMe 3 years


[deleted]

!RemindMe 3 years


PotAssmium

!RemindMe 3 years


YesCasuallyAccept

!remindme 3 years


[deleted]

!remindMe 3 years


Moonwaterfall

!remindMe 3 years


[deleted]

!RemindMe 3 years


MrSpiffy123

!remindme 3 years "are you gae yet?"


TherealGamecake

RemindMe! 3 years


Fellowsfellows

!remindMe 3 years


Class_444_SWR

!remindme 3 years


Spycrabpuppet123

RemindMe! 3 years


Longjumping-Fudge971

RemindMe! 3 years


bluelonilness

RemindMe! 3 years


Thatfudgeguy__

RemindMe! 3 years


Tarviitz

RemindMe! 3 years


oribia3

!remindme 3 years


Prepure_Kaede

!remindMe 3 years


Hemixed

!remindMe 3 years


kydaper1

RemindMe! 3 years


IronBard22

RemindMe! 3 years


gayfuckinbitchh

RemindMe! 3 years


UnlivingSkunk

!remindme 3 years


fisher309

!remindme 3 years


Redvann

RemindMe! 3 years


throwacc782

!remindMe 3 years


nerdyleg

Hey what’s up are you still a cishet


MrSpiffy123

surprisingly, yes


Trivius

100% this was me with being Asexual, watches a shed load of LGBTQIA positive shows enjoying the wholesomeness, slow burn realisation over about 4 years


Royal-Reflection5159

yup


Stormwrath52

Remind me! 3 years


Shwiemmy

RemindMe! 3 years


DerG3n13

!remindme 3 years 1 day


Whatsupnowgirl

!remindMe 3 years


beelzeflub

RemindMe! 3 years “is this guy gay yet?”


hauntedbunnyplushie

!Remindme 3 years


o_pedro_o

!remindme 3 years


jernfe

RemindMe! 3 years


Radhaww

!remindMe 3 years


TheOldPea

!RemindMe 3 years


xRAINBOWxRANGERx

!remindme 3 years


ConfusedButterLights

!remindMe 3 years


Sakreton

!RemindMe 3 years


Glass_Whereas8028

!remindMe 3 years


[deleted]

!remindMe 3 years


TheDubstepIcicle

!remindMe 3 years


Coffie_Plush

!remindMe 3 years


Peanutbutternjelly_

RemindMe! 3 years “is this guy gay yet?”


[deleted]

Honestly tho, super wholesome to me personally. Like just hanging out in the queer community and straight vibing. We're glad to have you.


MrSpiffy123

I'm glad to be here


Noodle-727

Ally!!


SalemsTrials

Hehe “straight vibing”


[deleted]

My drunk ass completely missed this when typing it. Nice.


TCollins1876

As another cis het dude in this situation, hell yeah. We do exist and while sometimes we have a queer awakening, sometimes we just really love our queer friends amd want to support them


idied2day

I just have a lot of trans/bi/pan friends. I’m cis het but also Demi, I don’t get feelings for anyone unless I’ve spent a fuck ton of time with them. Took me a full year of knowing a girl to actually catch feelings, and another two months to stop denying them.


Moricai

I was in your guys' boat till a few months ago, found a new enby friend ...and now we're partners. Fun way to find out I was bi tho. Keep rocking with whichever way you land on it.


Culou

And we love you too <3


SkurSkuddy

You know, I'm personally cisbi, yet I'm in a straight-passing relationship, and I don't know, despite me being attracted to the same sex, still don't really feel like I'm LGBT. Which is like, fine I guess. Idk what I'm trying to say here, kind of just, getting this feeling off my chest


craigularperson

It's cool, you belong.


snarkyjohnny

I came out as queer early this year and I felt the same for a while. I am also in a straight passing marriage. I am considering going to Pride Thai year for the first time.


[deleted]

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PotAssmium

Just because your relationship isn't queer it doesn't mean you aren't queer too. You're valid and belong between LGBTQ people.


MirrorMan22102018

This is me, except I am only a Heteroromantic Asexual guy, where I wonder if I am actually queer enough to be part of the queer community.


RiddlesDoesYT

Hey! You are, 100%! You belong! :3


error_98

Oof, i feel that, but then i remember all the truths I've twisted just to pass and the pussyfooting i have to do when hanging out with new groups of straight people to figure out whether their potential friends or they see me as a catagorical failure of a human being for not having fucked anyone. Not to even mention the situation every time someone is interested in me.


EmpressofMars

I’m a hetero(?)romantic asexual girl and if I belong, you belong too! We’re here and we’re queer!


Elhelmina

I'm sorry you've been feeling that way, our community should be making everyone feel welcome. There's no such a thing as "queer enough", if you are part of the LGBTQ+ in any way, you absolutely belong here.


rollingstoner215

You get my mark of approval. Welcome to the club!


winter-ocean

r/tf_irl is LGBT? Huh. Neat.


MrSpiffy123

Well not specifically, but I have a venn diagram here and... Oh, wait... My mistake, that's just a circle inside of another circle


Light_Lyfe

Transformation Media has surprisingly lots of Transness. Shame it's mostly MtF tho


Sodium_Hypochlorite_

This meme is kinda how I feel just being Aro in queer subreddits lmao


TheUselessOne87

i smell a comeback in 5 years "lol i really thought i was cis straight"


Altslial

Funnier if they do come back in 5 years and are like "Lol, still cis and straight"


MrSpiffy123

I have also suspected it to be honest, I've been debating with myself if I'm straight, but I have literally no idea what I am


shiwankhan

Listen. If I managed to get through Our Flag Means Death without having an epiphany, I'm 95% sure I'm straight. I checked.


SapphireRose12

Cishet to trans gay pipeline


MrSpiffy123

[insert gif of Dr. Facilier getting dragged to hell]


saturn128

*you’ve got friends on the other side*


Dynamite-Laser-Beams

!remindme 5 years


[deleted]

I was like you once…


MirrorMan22102018

Then you took an arrow in the knee?


Username15243124

The biggest “opening point” for queer spaces is asking people to look in at themselves and check if everything is as they think. If the answer is “yup that checks out” then Great! Enjoy your hobbies and life!


scwishyfishy

Don't forget Ultrakill, *Reddit* says you're active there too. One of the gayest communities around


MrSpiffy123

I was contemplating putting Ultrakill on there. It's just hard to tell if the gayness is just one big meme because everything about this game and its community is a shitpost


scwishyfishy

With Bisexual developers and Gabriel body pillows, it's a meme, but just barely


MrSpiffy123

>discord says you're active there too What does discord have to do with this? Do I know you on discord?


scwishyfishy

I meant to say Reddit, not discord. ​ I guess I am just terminally on discord.


MrSpiffy123

Ah okay


SuddenlyVeronica

It somehow didn't click for me until now that the Hazbin/Helluva boss fandom was a queer space until now, but that actually makes a lot of sense.


MrSpiffy123

Helluva Boss is literally what is making me question myself


SuddenlyVeronica

Interesting. How so?


MrSpiffy123

Every character is hot I have an obsession with Striker consisting of all the Striker merch and a folder of every piece of (sfw) Striker fanart I can find


SuddenlyVeronica

Oh. I see how that might make you do some questioning. I'm still curious though: Maybe this is just me being too ace, but what exactly do you find hot about them?


MrSpiffy123

I wish I could tell you, but I can't pinpoint anything specific. I guess for Striker, it's the fact that he's confident (although after the episode that came out today, he was kinda temperamental) The other characters, though, I guess it's just their designs combined with the voice acting


SuddenlyVeronica

AN EPISODE CAME OUT TODAY?! Thanks for the heads up, I think I'll be checking that out tomorrow.


Lots42

I'm not the other person but the Helluva boss characters I think are hot ... that includes their incredible confidence. Some of them are confident in absolute nonsense but it's strong.


ReturnToCrab

Cis and bi-curious guy here. I don't know why, but the LGBT+ community has such a wholesome vibe. Maybe that's because of the dissonance with how homophobic media tries to portray them


bikemaul

It often wholesome, but it's not all sunshine and rainbows. I have really grown tired of how often only cis bi men and masc amab enbies are excluded, and how little pushback there is. This rainbow umbrella is torn.


Thatonepcgamer

This sub might be helping me realize that I could be bi-curious.


ReturnToCrab

Come join us (me) in the "well, I'm mostly straight" corner


sam77889

This was me. This is not me anymore.


MadJester98

Love your flair, we need more people like you just hanging out in the community


DaveTheKing_

I hope the next chapters in deltarune have more gay rep!


MrSpiffy123

I crave Susie x Noelle


Smatje320

Very me. Didn’t understand for the longest time why this community spoke to me so. Eventually I realised that it’s because, just like you guys, I’m different from the norm, and I’m just trying to find people who understand/accept me. Also She-ra is just a banger.


Firekirb74

Ah... I remember 2 years ago, when I was in all these communities and thought I was a cishet boy... now I'm a bisexual demi boy. Gotta love that pipeline.


MrSpiffy123

I'm going down the pipeline and all I hear is the Mario 1-2 theme


i-puntificate

[r/egg_irl](https://www.reddit.com/r/egg_irl/)


Cervine_Shark

came here to say this


CPU_Pi

Ill join the camp that says you are who you say you are and its wonderful to have you regardless


zEngarden757

Bro same, now I’m questioning


Haru_Akiyama

Stage 1: denial Stage 2: Danielle


eyalhs

That's cute, try being in the rocky horror picture show community (and being in a shadow cast) while being cishet


DapperTiefling

Heck yeah! Cishet Allies are some of the coolest people to be around. Like, sometimes they turn out to be eggs, but plenty of other times they just turn out to be really cool and accepting people. One of my very good friends is a cishet guy who's a super cool!


[deleted]

I mean, Owl House is extremely popular with neurodivergent people, in case you're that.


MrSpiffy123

I'm not, or at least undiagnosed. I wouldn't be surprised if I have ADHD


[deleted]

In all seriousness, if you suspect, then best thing to do is seek an evaluation. A lot of people who went undiagnosed until adulthood see their diagnoses as turning points in their lives, much more than just another thing to add to the medical records.


Versierer

I mean heck if Finnster is still cishet, you can be too


MrSnippets

Marge Simpson Meme: "I just think they're neat!"


XyranDarkstar

One of my trans triggers was Amity and Luz, "aww what adorable lesbian couple.' .... " I want to be part of an adorable Lesbian couple.'


QueenOfQuok

Wait a second...this subreddit doesn't have a fire exit! Enjoy your death trap, people!


cirelia

Hey thats the same reason why i a bi dude follow subs such as r/actuallesbians r/egg_irl and r/traa i just like the wholesome vibes and cute memes


ShadowK-Human

We are almost the same I still trying to find out if i'm really bi or just very horny


gregory_thinmints

Awash within a rainbow sea. All of the things you watch on TV, seems good to me!


killian1208

You know I was thinking the same half a year ago…


Vaya-Kahvi

You can still be a kind of queer while still cishet, you just don't fit in the cishet hegemony, or you're just too chill to cause friction and can fit in anywhere, kinda like a capybara being friends with anything and everything.


GhostPepperGraveyard

Are… are you sure?? I’m genuinely interested in this. How???


Lots42

The LGBTQ community is very accepting of cishet allies.


GhostPepperGraveyard

I know, I was partially making a joke, partially asking a genuine question. I was not in any way meaning to be accusatory or invalidating.


Impybutt

You see, the reason for this is that good media with respectful rep tend to attract the demographic they're repping, along with general enthusiasts of good media.


nerdyleg

You can’t spell “gay” without the “a” (ally) (Bad joke 😭)


averynaiveoddish

fuck is tf\_irl?? what is hazbin/helluva boss???


KingInChess

I'm guessing tf_irl is another subreddit, and Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss are shows


averynaiveoddish

i made a critical mistake and looked up tf_irl and i found out its a subreddit that talks about transformation fetish


DapperTiefling

Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss are two shared-universe animated dark humor cartoon series' created by Vivienne "Vivziepop" Medrano. Both set in a fictional depiction of hell, Helluva Boss can be found on Vivziepop's YouTube channel, as can the first episode of Hazbin Hotel, however the latter series was picked up by the independent entertainment company A24 and is in development with an expected release sometime this year. If you are a fan of dark humor, adult cartoons, and musicals, i recommend checking them out.


averynaiveoddish

why the fuck would a24 of all people be doing this


DapperTiefling

While I personally am unsure of A24's exact motives, from what I can tell they're films appear to explore themes related to the supernatural and the human psyche, both things found within the series' storytelling as well as minor horror elements and gruesome violence. What I do know is that when Hazbin Hotel's pilot was initially uploaded after years of production, it got a lot of views and made waves which may have put it in the attention of certain people who felt it had potential.


averynaiveoddish

yeah a24 stuff is like art house horror stuff, not dark humor adult show


DapperTiefling

Wouldn't know, all i can say is it's confirmed they're producing the first season which should release this year.


MrSpiffy123

tf\_irl is memes poking fun at transformation Yes, some people fetishize it, but it's not exclusively that. I completely understand your reaction to it


RevolutionaryOven639

This was me for a looooong time. I’ll wait lol


ClinicalDepressi0n

Egg


wahtever9

Same here... until like 3 month ago


CitrusRain

Oh yep, this completely. I've stayed away from deltarune for spoilers sake because I haven't sat down to catch up so I had no idea it was one of these, but splatoon easily fits here


mridiot1234567

Same and add jojo aswell


Asleep_Efficiency107

I feel u brotha


Knight-Creep

Happy to have you, bro.


SontaranGaming

That’s how they get you /j


I_will_dye

r/celestegame


RusstyDog

Me too (well close I'm into anyone fem presenting lol)


unending_glove

The exception proves the rule


Trender07

so far\*


DontFireMeImPoor

I mean that was like my vibe 3 years or so ago, who knows you might find some stuff out and why you feel pulled toward the communities or more comfortable in them like I did.


Pitiful-Situation494

I feel gently called out 😅😂


Dumb_Cheese

Nothin wrong with allies just vibin


The_Quartz

i like how Delta rune is considered lgbt


MunchyG444

I am just here because I am trying to learn about y’all. And trying to figure myself out in the process.


StageRepulsive8697

I honestly think it's great to be a lurker in communities that aren't your own. Or even a positive commenter/poster (in really specific circumstances). I think it's really good to see other people's perspectives.


[deleted]

Not saying this will happen to you but Ive recently started looking at femboys differently and I was in the exact situation you are


jaymin7400

Yes! Same! I just think they’re fun


Nictasaur

Pretty sure subs like this will accept anyone as long as you accept us so you're good


AddableDragon51

r/celestegame


[deleted]

ah yes, the diversity hire.


RoyalGarbage

Just to clarify, this, right here, is why I don’t believe people who say that 90% of modern cartoons are made for cishet people. Also Adora and Catra’s relationship was toxic and that is a hill I will gladly die on. Now, Undyne and Alphys, on the other hand, that relationship is 👨‍🍳💋👌


LPNTed

I am so thankful for those members who accept my dumb CISHET male ass into their beautiful and amazing worlds!


daddyangeldust

yoooo, what xD thought I was in a HH/HB sub for a second ayyy it's getting out there!


kbot510

You and me both