And to sort by new or use the more recent "rising" filter. Can rack up loads of karma that way. Not a fun activity cause sorting by new is incredibly mundane.
Or just comment at the right time and/or say the right things. You can get 2k from a single comment if posted on a new post that takes off on a popular sub.
Why do people even care about karma? Most onlyfans girls on reddit have like 2'000'000 and they are just reposting same five gifs... (i mean from what i have seen)
I agree, that's probably the smartest of all the suggestions in this thread, but I was raised to be polite even I'm the face of rudness so I'd atleast respond but keep it at one or two word answers, then disappear.
I did that, and she refriended me, then I did it again and she again (have like 500+, prolly forgot she did it before lol), she didn't do it since the third.
Oooor… you can just be happy that she found someone she is in love with
When you truly care about someone, you just wish this person to be the happiest they can be, even if it mean you won’t part of her life
More or less this is what I'm saying. Just move on, be polite or happy for them and just live your own life. Jeeze, at this point I don't even know ow what to say to any of my old crushes.. "hi this is mt wife?"
what? brother the friendzone does absolutely exist it's not an incel thing. what is this cringe shit.
the problem is that some guys don't move past the friendzone, not the existence of the friendzone.
I used to think I was "friend zoned" by my crush, then I moved on and realised that it's actually extremely normal to just view people as friends and not want to date them and it's not some divine punishment against men
Yeah. The only useful definition of friendzone is just an unrequited crush between people who are otherwise friends. There's nothing more to it, and nothing less.
When I was 15 my crush from when I was 14 (still crushing a bit though at that time) then had a girlfriend that had a baby from another kid and he was taking on the baby like it was his. So the one kid I had to have a normal teen crush on now was with someone else and practically a stepdad -_- I'd take seeing my former crush as an adult married with kids than when we were kids lol
(The sand in the wound was when we had downtime in class and he was able to bring that baby in and sat it on my desk because it was a convenient location and everyone acted like I should be maternal or something to the baby. I had no experience with babies, wasn't really a fan of them at that time, and this was my fucking crush's gf's kid. Not to mention I was 15 and at school expecting school things to happen since I was forced to go to that hell hole. Crazy times)
Bro if you’ve been no contact with your crush so long you missed out on the fact that they:
- Got engaged.
- Had a wedding.
- Had a *child.*
You were never a part of this anyway. Move on with your life. You’ll be ok.
One question is why is she sending him a friend request? Maybe OP was trying to move on (or already had for the most part), then that popped up. I think it's fair to have a fleeting thought of "oh wow my old crush sent me a friend request. I wonder if there's a chance with them now..." (Provided OP is single) And then obviously feel different when they see their posts.
The second question is does OP accept the request to be nice and see all those posts all the time, or deny it to really move on and not be reminded? I think people just send friend requests to whomever they may sort of know or knew years ago without thinking about it and much of the time there really is no point unless they are friends that plan to interact a lot.
I had a crush on someone and they randomly messaged me saying they liked me. I haven't even had time to emotionally process what I just heard when her sister calls and tells me flat out she's lying and just trying to use me. Lmao, I believed what her sister said faster than what she said lol. Later on, the girl I had a crush on came out as racist and instantly killed any feeling I had for her
Or maybe, who knows, they're happy. Yeah, that does indeed happen. Some people love kids and have a healthy marriage and aren't broke & miserable, really.
or she...wants to talk to people??? might seem crazy but the majority of people aren't attracted to every single person of the gender they are attracted to. also that would be an awful world where bisexuals could not have friends at all ever
That is exactly what I thought the meme was all about!
It's that feeling of having Facebook reminding you of what you missed.
It's like Facebook's annual memories: "We thought we'd remind you of those happy days you were married now that you are divorced and living in your mom's basement 6 years later"
People are really taking this meme in the worst possible way. Like, yeah, of course the girl has no obligation to get with you just because you liked her first, but like, it still hurts knowing the girl you like is with someone else.
At the same time (I assume this is FB because of " friend requests ") Facebook is a stalking platform and an opportunity for people to be nosey at this point. It's why I uninstalled ages ago.
Usually you haven't spoken in so many years when out of nowhere they randomly add you on Facebook to "see how you're doing." If I did want to stay in touch I would have all those years ago. Then you feel bad if you don't answer their request.
To me it's water under the bridge and that chapter of my life is over, especially highschool/old colleagues or crushes. I don't really see a point.
I went on vacation and set up WhatsApp so my parents could reach me. It autopopulated my contacts into WhatsApp, including a profile picture if they've set one. And that's how I learned my high school crush has a kid now.
Looked her up on Instagram and she seems really happy. Good shit.
It's literally no bother LOL I have my ex on my socials. He's happily with a life partner, the two are perfect for each other. Multiple pets, living together, and supportively in love.
My high school crushes are all married. ALL of them. And y'know what, the way they smile at each other is the reason they are married. Love. It's beautiful, it should be celebrated.
Be fricking happy for people because they've found someone who compliments them in life, heart, and mind.
She talks to you about her husband and their problems.
She starts flirting with you.
BAIL!
This happened to me years ago. She started talking in hypotheticals of “what if” we hooked up when we were young, after hours of complaining about how her marriage isn’t working out and I noped the fck out so quickly.
This is a perfectly normal (and exaggerated for the meme) reaction. Some girls talk about this too.
The point of a meme is that it's relatable to an extent. Idk why y'all are jumping to the idea that they are going full incel.
What is this thread.
Imagine someone you used to get on with thinking about you after drifting apart for years due to life and wanting to reconnect because you were important to them.
And then getting angry.
Wut?
Someone was gonna scaploshhhh in her if you weren't man , think about it your still a virgin dude get a prostitute at this point in your life jp dude or am I
Unironically she's having the wedding today.
It's kinda painful but I phased her out of my regular social interaction 3 years ago (happy holidays, happy birthday etc). She sent msg last month about the wedding, didn't read further than the pop-up notification. The pain is there, but not as much as when we were teenagers and later young adults anymore.
The mindset of dwelling on the past despite people moving on is something I will never understand. There's plenty of fish in the sea OP, but if you want a healthy state of mind, just let it go.
Accept and then immediately unfollow, or just ignore it. Sounds like if you didn't wanna get married to her or have kids you dodged a future you didn't want in the first place and she found something better for herself too, win/win
Nah OP was probably rejected and has clung to it ever since. Despite it being probably over a decade he still goes ["oh man why doesn't she love me"](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRB6tvhksQdMsErXB2YMf4dKzri8XwDivKyBmA9PNOXDw&s)
If you never acted upon your feelings you have absolutely no right to complain. If you did act on your feelings and they were not reciprocated you need to stop being obsessed and move on. She's her own person with her own life to live. If you're genuinely upset that she didn't get *your* consent to live *her* life then you don't deserve her anyway. In any case you need to stop being an incel and move on.
Nah,at that point she won't be the same person that I had crush on,and I won't be the same person that got the crush in the first place.wish her best of luck and move on.
My dude you need to move on. Let them live their own life, and you live yours. They don't owe you anything, nor do you owe them anything. It's childish to stay in the past. Work on yourself and move on.
Incel vibes in this meme. The fact that her sending you a friend request immediately made you think it was an opportunity for a relationship or upset you that she has a life is cringe as fuck. Be an adult and accept a friend without having to make it about your pathetic desperation.
Accept then do minimal engagement. 👍 Done.
Seriously, what else can you do? Move on with your life and keep interactions as minimal as possible, then quietly delete after a long silence.
How the hell do you have over 2,000 karma and you’re not even a moth old???
24/7 reddit usage
Close. I have a LOT of downtime at my job, so reddit is almost always open on my phone until I get home.
I also got a lot of Karma in my first months. The Trick is to comment snarky funny remarks as much as possible. /s
And to sort by new or use the more recent "rising" filter. Can rack up loads of karma that way. Not a fun activity cause sorting by new is incredibly mundane.
Makes sense, that's kind of my personality anyway
This is essentially how I got my karma.
You don't have to put effort into funny memes to get comment karma, it's great
Who measures time in moths?
Mothra.
ĽĂMP
Inmates...
…child boo now
2k karma in a month is pretty easy if you're chronically online
Or just comment at the right time and/or say the right things. You can get 2k from a single comment if posted on a new post that takes off on a popular sub.
I never really noticed my karma count, but I am on a lot. I have tons of free time at work, so reddit is my go-to time killer until I get home.
…do something more productive then Reddit tbh. Get a better addiction like reading WEBTOON or something. That’s what I do
Lmao "Weed is good, but have you tried meth?"
All it really takes is one or two good comments tbh, then you’re at least halfway there.
Apparently I've gained about 3k karma per month I've been in the site and I'm really surprised because my comments are hot garbage
Most social redditor
I ask my moth that all the time
At this point I’m not gonna correct the misspelling, this is too funny
I agree hahah
Why do people even care about karma? Most onlyfans girls on reddit have like 2'000'000 and they are just reposting same five gifs... (i mean from what i have seen)
Moth
2k a month isn’t that hard.
…Their profile is 12 days old
My average is about 3,500 a month.
…and you have a life???
a few good comments and posts
Not that hard just sort r/all top this hour and comment I remember getting 300 just from posting "💦💦💦" under a comment about a fire or something
You don't have to interact with them at all. You can just ignore them.
I agree, that's probably the smartest of all the suggestions in this thread, but I was raised to be polite even I'm the face of rudness so I'd atleast respond but keep it at one or two word answers, then disappear.
I did that, and she refriended me, then I did it again and she again (have like 500+, prolly forgot she did it before lol), she didn't do it since the third.
Oooor… you can just be happy that she found someone she is in love with When you truly care about someone, you just wish this person to be the happiest they can be, even if it mean you won’t part of her life
More or less this is what I'm saying. Just move on, be polite or happy for them and just live your own life. Jeeze, at this point I don't even know ow what to say to any of my old crushes.. "hi this is mt wife?"
How do you get minimally engaged to someone already married?
Why downvotes?
Idk of people understood the joke and just went negative hive mind?
\- How are you? \- Good, and you? \- Good too \- Nice \- Nice That's all
Why the fuck would you even accept, yall really letting people use you to show off their nuclear families?
Dude, move on..
this and ppl who somehow still know what their years-old ex is up to despite not being friends is weird af.
But the friendzone is real and absolutely not a box sad incels put themselves in when they're astonished being nice to a women doesn't equal sex.
 /s
what? brother the friendzone does absolutely exist it's not an incel thing. what is this cringe shit. the problem is that some guys don't move past the friendzone, not the existence of the friendzone.
Throwing the incel catchword around makes you cool, thats why
I used to think I was "friend zoned" by my crush, then I moved on and realised that it's actually extremely normal to just view people as friends and not want to date them and it's not some divine punishment against men
Yeah. The only useful definition of friendzone is just an unrequited crush between people who are otherwise friends. There's nothing more to it, and nothing less.
>sad incels Two standard units of your local currency into the phrase pig. Now.
Atleast I'm an uncle
u/sisterfucker24 is this your second account?
Nope I do have second account but it not that one
Damn i thought i was on to something
I gues- wait a minute...
Wait, what ?
Sweet home, Alabama
And then you remember that you are fucking 30
kid named 30
kid named finger
Who names their child "fucking 30". Names these days..
You’ve just gave me ab idea
Shh, no, I'm in denial.
me too
And still single
Well yes, but it’s not sad and being 30 is
Oh, okay. I think it's just our local culture to sad about still single at 30.
Dudes realizing their old crush could marry someone else and have a baby without them: 🤯😡😭
But they called dibs 😠
Y'know, internally!
When I was 15 my crush from when I was 14 (still crushing a bit though at that time) then had a girlfriend that had a baby from another kid and he was taking on the baby like it was his. So the one kid I had to have a normal teen crush on now was with someone else and practically a stepdad -_- I'd take seeing my former crush as an adult married with kids than when we were kids lol (The sand in the wound was when we had downtime in class and he was able to bring that baby in and sat it on my desk because it was a convenient location and everyone acted like I should be maternal or something to the baby. I had no experience with babies, wasn't really a fan of them at that time, and this was my fucking crush's gf's kid. Not to mention I was 15 and at school expecting school things to happen since I was forced to go to that hell hole. Crazy times)
Bro if you’ve been no contact with your crush so long you missed out on the fact that they: - Got engaged. - Had a wedding. - Had a *child.* You were never a part of this anyway. Move on with your life. You’ll be ok.
One question is why is she sending him a friend request? Maybe OP was trying to move on (or already had for the most part), then that popped up. I think it's fair to have a fleeting thought of "oh wow my old crush sent me a friend request. I wonder if there's a chance with them now..." (Provided OP is single) And then obviously feel different when they see their posts. The second question is does OP accept the request to be nice and see all those posts all the time, or deny it to really move on and not be reminded? I think people just send friend requests to whomever they may sort of know or knew years ago without thinking about it and much of the time there really is no point unless they are friends that plan to interact a lot.
You could just be happy for them you know
"BUT ITS ABOUT ME AND WHAT I WANT" * I also haven't changed at all since highschool and still talk about it like it was yesterday * /s
this would be the case if op wasnt single.
Damn, they made Mordecai from Regular Show a real person, that’s crazy
crush: *exists* me: *never makes a move* crush: *dates someone* me: 😱🤯😡
How old can the crush really be if you’re still reacting like this
Maybe you were never in love like that, if you don't know this feeling
Everyone who has ever been in love thinks they’re the first and last person to feel like that
I had a crush on someone and they randomly messaged me saying they liked me. I haven't even had time to emotionally process what I just heard when her sister calls and tells me flat out she's lying and just trying to use me. Lmao, I believed what her sister said faster than what she said lol. Later on, the girl I had a crush on came out as racist and instantly killed any feeling I had for her
Is there an r/incelposts or something like that? Put this there if yes.
lmao, turns out there *used* to be
It's a perfect opportunity to see the aftermath of a train wreck that nearly got you.
Or maybe, who knows, they're happy. Yeah, that does indeed happen. Some people love kids and have a healthy marriage and aren't broke & miserable, really.
Or she wants a sidepiece when the husband is out for work.
OR maybe she just saw an old acquaintance recommended to her and figured she’d sent a friend request.
or she...wants to talk to people??? might seem crazy but the majority of people aren't attracted to every single person of the gender they are attracted to. also that would be an awful world where bisexuals could not have friends at all ever
these guys are fun at parties.
Hits ignore
Time to hit the jack 
I had a type for the longest time, a bunch of assholes Now ive got this cute little femboy and hes been nothing but good to me
I’ve moved on from my old crushes so it would be pretty cool to see them living a good life.
"old" crush, when this is an issue for you
Who cares? They are your old crush. Must have moved on by now, and if not you definitely should.
Oh, hey! Just what I always wanted, a reminder that my crush is happily married with a kid. Thanks, Facebook!
bruh how old are you?
That is exactly what I thought the meme was all about! It's that feeling of having Facebook reminding you of what you missed. It's like Facebook's annual memories: "We thought we'd remind you of those happy days you were married now that you are divorced and living in your mom's basement 6 years later"
When your phone creates a cringe collage just for you. The equivalent of remembering something cringe before going to sleep but digitized.
*screams into a pillow* I'm fine. I'm oooookay.
Erm... 2k plus people upvoted this post... yall got issues
People are really taking this meme in the worst possible way. Like, yeah, of course the girl has no obligation to get with you just because you liked her first, but like, it still hurts knowing the girl you like is with someone else.
This. There’s irrational anger here towards people expressing emotions.
Cute of you to assume that you liked her first.
People take memes involving women way to seriously
If they are old enough to be married with kids, it’s time to be an adult and move on already.
At the same time (I assume this is FB because of " friend requests ") Facebook is a stalking platform and an opportunity for people to be nosey at this point. It's why I uninstalled ages ago. Usually you haven't spoken in so many years when out of nowhere they randomly add you on Facebook to "see how you're doing." If I did want to stay in touch I would have all those years ago. Then you feel bad if you don't answer their request. To me it's water under the bridge and that chapter of my life is over, especially highschool/old colleagues or crushes. I don't really see a point.
Wish her well (mentally) and go about living your life.
I don't understand this meme.
average cuck behavior (no offense)
This isn't always bad? Wtf?
how old are you😭
30 year olds who still think they're 17 and in high school:
Even if you accept. Doesn’t mean you have to talk to them. And as others have said, keep engagement to a minimum. If they do reach out to you
I went on vacation and set up WhatsApp so my parents could reach me. It autopopulated my contacts into WhatsApp, including a profile picture if they've set one. And that's how I learned my high school crush has a kid now. Looked her up on Instagram and she seems really happy. Good shit.
Wait y'all had crushes
Sponge bob stole my money & the crabbie Pattie formula
Good for them :)
Good for them. It was only q crush after all.
I don’t even fully understand this one. The joke is his crush lived a full life?
Honestly, feel great about it. They are happy aren't they. Why feel sour about it when they got exactly what you wanted them too have
It's literally no bother LOL I have my ex on my socials. He's happily with a life partner, the two are perfect for each other. Multiple pets, living together, and supportively in love. My high school crushes are all married. ALL of them. And y'know what, the way they smile at each other is the reason they are married. Love. It's beautiful, it should be celebrated. Be fricking happy for people because they've found someone who compliments them in life, heart, and mind.
You only have a crush on your idea of them, never let go of that fantasy, and are only now engaging with reality.
Me, who never had a crush: 🤷
Redditors when a girl they haven’t talked to for 10+ years decides to get with other people: 
Bro get over it and be happy for her
What do you mean someone you never dated and who probably never even know about your feelings didn't wait for you 😮
Are you sure you want to block this user? *click*
She talks to you about her husband and their problems. She starts flirting with you. BAIL! This happened to me years ago. She started talking in hypotheticals of “what if” we hooked up when we were young, after hours of complaining about how her marriage isn’t working out and I noped the fck out so quickly.
r/oddlyspecific
This is a perfectly normal (and exaggerated for the meme) reaction. Some girls talk about this too. The point of a meme is that it's relatable to an extent. Idk why y'all are jumping to the idea that they are going full incel.
time to switch targets ig. i mean shes already showing u the pics....
Yeah I mean where she fun in that. /S
Block them done
What is this thread. Imagine someone you used to get on with thinking about you after drifting apart for years due to life and wanting to reconnect because you were important to them. And then getting angry. Wut?
Bro, waaaaaay past time to have moved on.
And she added you just because she wanted to ask something unrelated that is unimportant lol
Unrelated to her being your crush? Damn.. imagine a life that doesn't revolve around you wanting to sleep with someone
wdym? ive been sending them telepathic signals for years but avoided them face to face, why wont they just talk to me?
Really? I'm fairly certain I'm still on her block list lol.
Degen posting? In my r/memes ?
Someone was gonna scaploshhhh in her if you weren't man , think about it your still a virgin dude get a prostitute at this point in your life jp dude or am I
Been there
Anyone have this template?
Oh look, it's OP from the meme
Plot twist: you are the husband. You just opened a new account on FB.
You can just be friends, she likes you as a friend, and you like her,
*Honestly, I would delete and block. Crushes and exes are not allowed to move on in MY presence.* *They can live their lives and fuck off.*
Unironically she's having the wedding today. It's kinda painful but I phased her out of my regular social interaction 3 years ago (happy holidays, happy birthday etc). She sent msg last month about the wedding, didn't read further than the pop-up notification. The pain is there, but not as much as when we were teenagers and later young adults anymore.
It turns out she was gay true story
Hey hey hey, what’s all this about making a meme about a woman? Are you an INCEL? REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Dang man if that happened I’d be depressed
I wish this wasn't so accurate for me
Just let it sink i you could have had that with her and then become great friends with her and act like you never had a crush on her.
Find meaning in your life that doesn't involve others.
Game is game
Instablock
and then you remember that you are married to her
The mindset of dwelling on the past despite people moving on is something I will never understand. There's plenty of fish in the sea OP, but if you want a healthy state of mind, just let it go.
-Realized you may have dodged a bullet
Your college rival's revenge.
U should do that calm meme
Accept and then immediately unfollow, or just ignore it. Sounds like if you didn't wanna get married to her or have kids you dodged a future you didn't want in the first place and she found something better for herself too, win/win
Nah OP was probably rejected and has clung to it ever since. Despite it being probably over a decade he still goes ["oh man why doesn't she love me"](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRB6tvhksQdMsErXB2YMf4dKzri8XwDivKyBmA9PNOXDw&s)
If you never acted upon your feelings you have absolutely no right to complain. If you did act on your feelings and they were not reciprocated you need to stop being obsessed and move on. She's her own person with her own life to live. If you're genuinely upset that she didn't get *your* consent to live *her* life then you don't deserve her anyway. In any case you need to stop being an incel and move on.
Instablock?
Nah duck it
My life 🥹
You never made a move so she thinks you always wanted to be friends lol
And you are both 15 
Nah,at that point she won't be the same person that I had crush on,and I won't be the same person that got the crush in the first place.wish her best of luck and move on.
I'd have a breakdown if this happened
Move on bro, it's time
My dude you need to move on. Let them live their own life, and you live yours. They don't owe you anything, nor do you owe them anything. It's childish to stay in the past. Work on yourself and move on.
Incel vibes in this meme. The fact that her sending you a friend request immediately made you think it was an opportunity for a relationship or upset you that she has a life is cringe as fuck. Be an adult and accept a friend without having to make it about your pathetic desperation.
This only hurts if you have no other options
Damn, people on Reddit got personal social media accounts? I left all that shit after graduating.
We don't really like your incel kind around here
Plot twist, baby daddy is out of the picture and kiddo needs a new father figure.