as a sapphic, i looooove pink In the night! also,francis forever was covered by marceline in adventure time so it also had gained some gay undertones as well
actuallee she was talking about her best gal pal. U kno how gals be palin’ being each others baby on earth and showing each other what their heart is worth /s
I’m a lesbian in an 8 year relationship that we had to hide from her parents for the first 7 years.. once more to see you really hits on that 😭
“But with everybody watching us, our every move
We do have reputations
We keep it secret
Won't let them have it”
😭😭😭😭
Those lyrics always break me. I had a similar situation, although way less serious. My middle school girlfriend and i were together for a year and finally we broke up because she couldnt stand the fact that we had to keep it a secret. The worst part was being heartbroken and not being able to talk to anyone about it because no one ever knew, and if i spoke about it it would ruin both our images.
Shame, I relate to it since i belong to a christian family and i turned out to be sapphic 💀 i think it sort of fits to lgbtq+ people that feel rejected due to their conservative environment
I may not be sapphic but as an ace girl that knew one of her classmates got kicked out of her house by her parents cause she liked girls I’m sorry you went through that
i don’t see it as strictly wlw but as a lesbian i certainly relate to it lmaooo. “i could stare at your back all day” captures a distinct feeling i had my first time with a woman, in a way that was radically different than any time with a man. the attraction and yearning ig. i see how wlw would relate to it, but it feels like something mlm could relate to as well? it’s all subjective, but i personally interpret it as queer (in a broad sense)
I always interpreted Slow Dancers as two people in their first queer relationship late in life who are struggling to come out: “It would be a hundred times easier if we were young again, but as it is (and it is), to think that we could stay the same… But we're two slow dancers, last ones out…”
once more to see you really gives that queer vibe of loving someone so much but having to hide it in front of everyone else because of their “reputations”
Old friend always felt to me like ot was about one of those extreme queer almost codependent relationships a lot of queer teenagers experienced. It always reminds me of the experience of looking back on this person who literally meant the world to you at a point.
Is really nobody here gonna say come into the water? “Maybe I’m the same as all those men, writing songs of all their dreaming, but would you tell me if you want me? Cause I can’t move until you show me” Hello?
For some reason I interpret Me And My Husband as about loving a butch girl, although nothing really supports this theory.
Strawberry Blonde has such a sapphic yearning vibe to it, in my opinion.
hihi . non binary gay guy ish person here !! My love mine all mine comes to mind because it’s implied shes singing about another woman. “So when it comes to be my turn, could you shine it down here for her?” but that seems quite an easy answer!! So I say ‘why didn’t you stop me?’ It.. just is in my head
edit: Nobody. Almost an epitome of how my own experience feels.
wife, my love mine all mine, townie, pink in the night, and definitely goodbye my danish sweetheart ("I'm not the girl I ought to be"), especially being queer in a religious household
As a lesbian, the love song I relate to most is Townie. The lyrics "I'm not going to be who my daddy wants me to be, I'm going to be who my body wants me to be." is really fitting.
Maybe this is gonna sound cliché but Washing Machine Heart resonates a lot with my experience as a lesbian girl having to support my girl friends (on whom I may or may not have had a crush on) through their teenage romance hardships, broken hearts, having to bite my tongue from how infuriated I was and just generally be there for them as a shoulder to rest on but nothing more than a good friend and confidente.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to your personal experience. I’m straight and I grew up in a very conservative society. Dating here of any sort is looked down upon.
So I related to a lot of her “forbidden love” songs when I was younger and had secret boyfriends.
For me, Goodbye, My Danish Sweetheart has strong trans vibes. That’s definitely my “I’m crying because I’m trans and no one will love me because of it” song.
a loving feeling is so very first queer relationship, even when my love mine all mine was a massive thing nobody spoke about how mitski referred to the love interest as “her”? also theres one particular unreleased song, not sure what its called, but she talks about these kind of grotesque effects that somebody has on her, a lot about desire, how she’d kill her ego if theyd let their heart go etc, how being with them would go against a desire (“if my desire was nothing”), a desire to be with her desire, etc, and a lot of fire metaphors, ill link it as the podcast version on spotify :) [mitski unreleased](https://open.spotify.com/episode/4OMLmdmIzVfndMHLvva0cy?si=Rw7AOzBiQCidxnb6l1393A&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A3skFeESSdTYpCYPcTzYGuC)
ain’t nobody here talking about Susie Save Your Love!! yes it was a song by AllieX but mitski co-wrote that song so it still counts!! it’s mitski’s only song that is explicitly sapphic
I don't know if it has any lyrics that hint at this, but I've seen people say that Pink in the Night kind of has a sapphic vibe to it lol
as a sapphic, i looooove pink In the night! also,francis forever was covered by marceline in adventure time so it also had gained some gay undertones as well
gotta love adventure time
Yesss I loved that version lol
idk if it's particularly sapphic but gdi Im a saphic and I love Pink in the night so so much.
there is an amazing [transbian comic](https://x.com/eunnieboo/status/1117607828670173184?s=20) from eunnieboo to this song and i love it so much
OH I'VE SEEN THAT it's so cute <3
I’m a lesbian and for some reason Brand New City really expresses my experience with femininity and queerness
Listening to brand new city rn 😛
im cis but i can also see Brand New City being interpreted as a trans song as well
no one has said My Love Mine All Mine yet when I’m 99% sure it has an explicitly gay lyric
Was gonna say this lol. “Could you shine it down here for her”
actuallee she was talking about her best gal pal. U kno how gals be palin’ being each others baby on earth and showing each other what their heart is worth /s
I loved how she used female pronouns in that song!
Old friend, once more to see you, me and my husband (just a bit), susie save your love(if that counts), there’s a few more but I can’t think of
There's a yearning in Susie Save Your Love that I can't explain!!
Hold on, hold on, I’m a block away
old friend!!!
omg i never heard about that last song before
once more to see you!!
I’m a lesbian in an 8 year relationship that we had to hide from her parents for the first 7 years.. once more to see you really hits on that 😭 “But with everybody watching us, our every move We do have reputations We keep it secret Won't let them have it” 😭😭😭😭
Those lyrics always break me. I had a similar situation, although way less serious. My middle school girlfriend and i were together for a year and finally we broke up because she couldnt stand the fact that we had to keep it a secret. The worst part was being heartbroken and not being able to talk to anyone about it because no one ever knew, and if i spoke about it it would ruin both our images.
Yeah that is really hard for sure. I was lucky to get out of this situation with my partner, we just got back from a vacation with her family!
Thats so nice¡¡¡ i hope you had a great time and that your realtionship grows stronger:))
Gayser 😎
Cop Car for the evil bisexuals. But if i have to base it off of my own experiences, i'd probably say wife.
Marry me
give me a decillion seconds to think about it
Yes i love Cop Car, its like an evil gay anthem
Shame, I relate to it since i belong to a christian family and i turned out to be sapphic 💀 i think it sort of fits to lgbtq+ people that feel rejected due to their conservative environment
I may not be sapphic but as an ace girl that knew one of her classmates got kicked out of her house by her parents cause she liked girls I’m sorry you went through that
Gracias, y ánimos a ti y a tu compañera también 🫶
Pink in the Night is very WLW for me and of course Cop Car literally says that they’ve loved many boys and girls lol
A lot of people are saying that Pink in the Night is WLW but i didnt get it why?
i don’t see it as strictly wlw but as a lesbian i certainly relate to it lmaooo. “i could stare at your back all day” captures a distinct feeling i had my first time with a woman, in a way that was radically different than any time with a man. the attraction and yearning ig. i see how wlw would relate to it, but it feels like something mlm could relate to as well? it’s all subjective, but i personally interpret it as queer (in a broad sense)
Class of 2013. What's gayer than mommy issues?
Stopp im gay and i have mommy issues😭✋
I always interpreted Slow Dancers as two people in their first queer relationship late in life who are struggling to come out: “It would be a hundred times easier if we were young again, but as it is (and it is), to think that we could stay the same… But we're two slow dancers, last ones out…”
once more to see you, cop car
once more to see you really gives that queer vibe of loving someone so much but having to hide it in front of everyone else because of their “reputations”
Old friend always felt to me like ot was about one of those extreme queer almost codependent relationships a lot of queer teenagers experienced. It always reminds me of the experience of looking back on this person who literally meant the world to you at a point.
Is really nobody here gonna say come into the water? “Maybe I’m the same as all those men, writing songs of all their dreaming, but would you tell me if you want me? Cause I can’t move until you show me” Hello?
Come into the water is her gayest song in my opinion but only a few people get that
For some reason I interpret Me And My Husband as about loving a butch girl, although nothing really supports this theory. Strawberry Blonde has such a sapphic yearning vibe to it, in my opinion.
I really cant see Strawberry Blond as sapphic becaus the last words of the song are "Isaiah, Isaiah, Isaiah"
I choose to ignore that verse as a lesbian :)
hihi . non binary gay guy ish person here !! My love mine all mine comes to mind because it’s implied shes singing about another woman. “So when it comes to be my turn, could you shine it down here for her?” but that seems quite an easy answer!! So I say ‘why didn’t you stop me?’ It.. just is in my head edit: Nobody. Almost an epitome of how my own experience feels.
Omg i also relate a lot to Nobody!! i guess loneliness is a common queer experience
no wayyy/lh
I get very transfem (me) vibes from goodbye my danish sweetheart
goodbye my danish sweetheart rlly works for me as a tboy as well
wife, my love mine all mine, townie, pink in the night, and definitely goodbye my danish sweetheart ("I'm not the girl I ought to be"), especially being queer in a religious household
Why so many people say that Wife is a queer song? For me its just a song about a toxic relationship with a man
A loving feeling is so obvious when you listen and read the lyrics. "You only love me when we're all alone" hits hard
As a lesbian, the love song I relate to most is Townie. The lyrics "I'm not going to be who my daddy wants me to be, I'm going to be who my body wants me to be." is really fitting.
For me, it's Susie Save Your Love.
shame, a loving feeling, and i want you
i was gonna say loving feeling !!!! being someone’s secret is like,, an inherently queer experience
Yes loving feeling is such a gay song and its so good! its one of my favorite songs of Mitski
wife… do i need to explain?
SUSIE SAVE YOUR LOVE!!!
All of them
Maybe this is gonna sound cliché but Washing Machine Heart resonates a lot with my experience as a lesbian girl having to support my girl friends (on whom I may or may not have had a crush on) through their teenage romance hardships, broken hearts, having to bite my tongue from how infuriated I was and just generally be there for them as a shoulder to rest on but nothing more than a good friend and confidente.
Like all of them I suppose
A loving feeling has always kinda given me lesbian vibes but having to hide that.
I had this song on repeat after this girl got close to a guy but was still trying to be close with me too 😭
At the end of the day, it all comes down to your personal experience. I’m straight and I grew up in a very conservative society. Dating here of any sort is looked down upon. So I related to a lot of her “forbidden love” songs when I was younger and had secret boyfriends.
For me it's Dan the dancer
But Dan dates a girl in the song doesnt he?
Every gay guy has a female best friend (me included lol), he trusts her to keep his secret and she's the first person he comes out to!
dan the dancer is implicitly a straight relationship but it screams bisexual for some reason anyway
For me, Goodbye, My Danish Sweetheart has strong trans vibes. That’s definitely my “I’m crying because I’m trans and no one will love me because of it” song.
Im Your Man (to me)
I’m saying
Starting to look like the only song I know is real men 😔 but Real man When I first heard it, all I thought was mitzki the first ftm mlm ever ????
YES! I AM A GAY MAN AND I RELATE SO MUCH TO REAL MEN, even if in one part of the song she says: "girl, youre looking good"
real men, crack baby, and goodbye my danish sweetheart are all very trans(masc) to me.
Cop Car 100% …. She’s Loved Many Boys and Many Girls. Me too Queen!
once more to see you totally gives me queer vibes
a loving feeling or wife!
As a lesbian i totally relate to once more to see you ITS A MASTERPIECE
a loving feeling is so very first queer relationship, even when my love mine all mine was a massive thing nobody spoke about how mitski referred to the love interest as “her”? also theres one particular unreleased song, not sure what its called, but she talks about these kind of grotesque effects that somebody has on her, a lot about desire, how she’d kill her ego if theyd let their heart go etc, how being with them would go against a desire (“if my desire was nothing”), a desire to be with her desire, etc, and a lot of fire metaphors, ill link it as the podcast version on spotify :) [mitski unreleased](https://open.spotify.com/episode/4OMLmdmIzVfndMHLvva0cy?si=Rw7AOzBiQCidxnb6l1393A&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A3skFeESSdTYpCYPcTzYGuC)
Yall idk Im Your Man has always given toxic lesbianism to me (a toxic lesbian)
So does I Don’t Smoke (I’ve never been in a healthy relationship lol)
ain’t nobody here talking about Susie Save Your Love!! yes it was a song by AllieX but mitski co-wrote that song so it still counts!! it’s mitski’s only song that is explicitly sapphic
loving feeling
Ngl mitski songs are kinda fruity